Anter
- 1. Loaʻa kahi ola ma waho o kahi pilina
- 2. Kupanaha
- 3. Ka hilinaʻi
- 4. Mālama ponoʻī
- 5. Noho ʻole i ka wā kahiko
- 6. ʻAno nānā
- 7. Kūpono ʻole
- 8. Kaʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻAʻole anei ʻoluʻolu e lilo i wahine e hiki ke ʻumeʻume e pili ana i kekahi kāne āna e makemake ai? Inā noho male ʻoe a laila maopopo paha iā ʻoe hiki i nā kāne ke koho i ka wā e pili ana i ka pili aloha. E like me nā wahine, maʻamau, he manaʻo ko nā kāne no ka wahine maikaʻi loa i ko lākou poʻo a lākou i makemake ai.
ʻO ka hapanui o ka manawa, kūpono paha ʻoe i kā lākou mau mea i manaʻo ai ʻaʻole paha. Akā i kēlā me kēia manawa, e like me nā wahine, hāʻule nā kāne no nā wahine i waho o ko lākou wahi hōʻoluʻolu. Makemake ʻoe i kahi pilina kūpono a waiho pinepine ʻia ʻoe e haʻohaʻo ana, pehea e ʻumeʻume ai i kahi kāne no ka male a i ʻole ka pilina olakino?
Mai hopohopo nui. Aia kekahi mau kapuwai maopopo e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e huki i ke ʻano o ke kāne āu e makemake ai e noho pū. Kamaʻilio kēia ʻatikala e pili ana i 8 mau ʻano e mahalo ai nā kāne i ka wahine. Ma muli o kēlā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono i kāu hulina pehea e ʻumeʻume ai i nā kāne.
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1. Loaʻa kahi ola ma waho o kahi pilina
ʻIke nui nā kāne i nā wahine i loaʻa ka ola ma waho o kā lākou pili. No laila ke ʻike hou ʻoe e kāhea mai ana ke kāne āu e makemake ai, mai koho wale a kāhea iā ia.
ʻO ka pane nui i ka nīnau pehea e ʻumeʻume ai i kahi kāne a mālama iā ia i ka ʻoluʻolu i kou ʻili ponoʻī, hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho, a noho mau ʻole ʻia i kāu kāne i nā manawa āpau.
Makemake nā kāne i ka nānā ʻole ʻia, akā ʻaʻole lākou makemake i kahi kaikamahine ʻoi aku ka clingy. No laila e kiʻi i kahi ola, kau pū me kāu mau kaikamahine, a palaki iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. Nui nā kāne aloha i ka alualu, a e alualu hou lākou iā ʻoe.
Aloha lākou i nā wahine kūleʻa e loaʻa nā mea ʻē aʻe i loko o ko lākou ola, hoʻonāukiuki iā lākou iā ʻoe.
2. Kupanaha
Ke hele ʻoe i ka lā mua, ʻike paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e kaʻana like ana i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kou ola me ia? Inā pēlā, makemake paha ʻoe e kaohi iā ʻoe iho. Hiki i kēia ʻano hana ke holo iā ia. Makemake nā kāne i nā wahine e mālama i ka paia.
ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea i loko o ko lākou noʻonoʻo, a pono lākou e hana maoli e iho i lalo i kekahi o kēlā pā.
Makemake nā kāne e ʻike i nā mea huna āu e loaʻa ai a ʻaʻole lākou e kū a hiki i ka wā e kūleʻa ai lākou i ka ʻike. Ma kahi o ka hoʻonui ʻana, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka ʻike i nā ʻāpana a me nā ʻāpana.
3. Ka hilinaʻi
Aloha nā kāne i ka wahine kūpaʻa i ko lākou ʻili iho. No laila, pehea ʻoe e ʻumeʻume ai i nā kāne kūpono a pale i nā mea hewa?
Hōʻike i ka hilinaʻi, a lilo i kanaka ponoʻī. ʻO ka nānā pinepine ʻana o nā kāne narcissistic i nā wahine e hoʻoulu i kā lākou kālā a hāʻawi iā lākou me ka hilinaʻi iā lākou iho. Hiki i kēlā mau wahine ke hilinaʻi ʻole i kekahi manawa a manaʻo paha ʻaʻole ia he mea maikaʻi no lākou e haʻaheo kūwaho i ko lākou ʻano.
Ma ka hilinaʻi, hoʻokūhoihoi ʻoe i kahi kanaka maikaʻi. ʻO kahi kanaka olakino ʻaʻole i holo ʻia me nā papahana i hūnā ʻia.
ʻIke nā wahine hilinaʻi i kā lākou mau pahuhopu i ke ola a makemake ʻole e kali a puni nā kāne a hoʻolohi i kā lākou mau moemoeā. ʻIke lākou i ko lākou nāwaliwali a makemake e hana iā lākou. Haʻaheo hoʻi lākou i ko lākou ikaika.
ʻAe kēia i ka wiwo ʻole o nā wahine ʻaʻole wale me ko lākou ola akā i kā lākou pili pū kekahi. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e hoʻonele i ka manawa e pāʻani ai i nā pāʻani, kahi maikaʻi e ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole hiki ʻole i nā kāne.
4. Mālama ponoʻī
Pehea e huki ai i nā kāne inā ʻaʻole ʻoe kekahi e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka mālama ponoʻī? ʻAʻole hiki i ka pane ke hiki!
ʻO kēia kahi mea nui loa i nā kāne. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i ka hoʻolilo ʻana i mau hola i mua o ke aniani e uhi ana i ko mākou mau maka me kahi paona mea hoʻonani.
ʻAʻole hoʻi no ke kaikamahine ʻili loa i ka lumi.
No laila, pehea e huki ai i kahi kāne me ka pīhoihoi ʻole i ka helehelena a i ʻole kūlike i nā manaʻo o ka nani i hana ʻia e ka pāpāho?
E pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i ko mākou ʻili, ka lauoho, a me ka mālama pono ʻana i ko mākou noʻonoʻo a me ke kino. ʻO ke aloha iā mākou iho e lawa pono e mālama iā mākou iho, inā he kāne i ko mākou ola a i ʻole ʻole, koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻole wikiwiki nā kāne e hoʻokolokolo i nā wahine, i kekahi manawa ʻo mākou (ma ke ʻano he mau wahine) ʻo ia ka mea hōʻino loa iā mākou.
5. Noho ʻole i ka wā kahiko
He hala ko kēlā me kēia kanaka a he ʻāpana ia o ka mea e hoʻolilo ai iā mākou. Akā aia kekahi kumu e haʻalele ai ʻoe i ka wā i hala. Aia kahi palena noʻonoʻo e hiki ai i kahi kāne ke hoʻomanawanui i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka wahine e pili ana i kā lākou ipo i hala, nā ʻohana hoʻomāinoino ʻino, a makua makua ʻole paha.
No laila, ʻo ka pane maʻalahi i ka nīnau, pehea e ʻumeʻume ai i nā kāne, ke moe nei i ka hanohano a me ka noʻonoʻo pono e ʻae i kou hala, me ka huki ʻole ʻana i kāu kamaʻilio āpau me ke kāne āu e aloha nei.
ʻO ka mea e huki ai i kahi kāne maikaʻi kaukaʻi nui i ka pehea āu e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i kāu pili i hala. Inā hoʻomau ʻoe i ke kani e pili ana i kāu ex a i ʻole e hoʻomau i ka hoʻi a kuhikuhi i kāu mau lā, nā anecdotes o kāu pili i hala, e hoʻopiha ʻia ka pilina me ka hopena.
Makemake ʻia kahi kāne i kahi wahine e hōʻoia i kona wā i hala akā ʻaʻole ia e pili i kā lākou mau hewa, nā mea hōʻeha, a me nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole me kā lākou exe.
ʻO nā wahine e noho ana i ka wā i hala e nānā i nā mea like i kā lākou pili o kēia manawa a hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kā lākou mau pili i hala. No laila e hoʻōki i ka noho ʻana i ka wā i hala a kia nui i ka manawa. Makemake nā kāne i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia i nā ex e like me kā mākou makemake ʻole e hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kā lākou ex.
6. ʻAno nānā
ʻO ka makaʻala kahi pane paʻa i ka pehea e ʻumeʻume ai i nā kāne a mālama iā lākou iā ʻoe.
ʻOiai he mea nui ia e loaʻa nā hoihoi i kū hoʻokahi iā ʻoe, ʻo ka makaʻu ʻana i ka makemake o kāu kāne e hiki ke kōkua iā ia e hōʻike i kou hoihoi a me kou mālama.
ʻAʻole ia he kumu e pono ai ʻoe e lilo i pā o kāna kime kinipōpō punahele inā ʻoe e inaina i ka kinipōpō hīnaʻi. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo he pono ʻoe e lilo i hoihoi i kēlā me kēia makemake ona.
Akā, i ka hiki iā ia ke launa pū me ia e pili ana i nā mea āna i makemake ai mai kēlā manawa a kēia manawa e kōkua iā ia e ʻike iā ʻoe e mālama nui e aʻo e pili ana i nā mea āna i komo ai.
Pehea e mālama ai i kahi kāne i ke aloha me ʻoe a hōʻoia i ka pili ʻole o kāu pilina?
He hoʻoponopono maʻalahi ia. E hoʻomaka i ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau a me ka nānā ʻana i kāna mau makemake. Ke hana ʻoe i kēia, e manaʻo ana kāu kāne i kēlā pilina me ʻoe a hoʻomaka i ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i ka ʻoluʻolu. ʻO kahi laʻana, hoʻomaka paha ʻo ia e ʻike i kēlā lauoho lauoho hou a e nīnau paha e pili ana i ka hele ʻana o kāu mau kaikamahine i ka pō.
7. Kūpono ʻole
I kāu ʻimi no ka mea e ʻumeʻume ai i nā kāne, pono ʻoe e hoʻopoina i nā aliʻi wahine aloha.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kuhi, ʻaʻohe mea like. Ua like ia me kāu kāne e hoʻohālikelike nei iā ʻoe i ke kamāliʻiwahine i loaʻa nā wili i kona lauoho a kau i ka pale maka ʻōmaʻomaʻo i kona alo i ka moena i kēlā me kēia pō. Eia nō naʻe ka nui o nā wahine e hoʻāʻo i kā lākou kāne i kā lākou manaʻo o ke "kāne hemolele". ʻO ka mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai kēia mau wahine ʻo ia wale nō ka poʻe e loli ke makemake lākou.
Pono lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ko mākou ʻokoʻa nā mea e hoʻolilo iā mākou. Ke aloha ʻoe i kāu kāne, aloha ʻoe me kona ikaika a me kona nāwaliwali. Ua ʻae ʻoe i kāu ʻokoʻa i ka hoʻomaka no ke aha ʻoe e ʻae ʻole ai iā lākou i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kāne ke kū i ka wahine makemake e hoʻololi ʻo wai ʻo ia. No laila mahalo
8. Kaʻoiaʻiʻo
Pehea e huki ai i kahi kāne maikaʻi no ka male a i ʻole ka pilina paʻa, lōʻihi? ʻO kahi kamaʻilio kūpono, hāmama kahi mea i ʻole kūkākūkā ʻia o kahi pilina olakino.
ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka heluhelu ʻana i nā noʻonoʻo a pāʻani paha i nā pāʻani. No laila ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa a ka wahine e hana ai ʻo ka hoʻopono me kāna kāne. ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai nā wahine i kahi mea a manaʻo i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. E makemake lākou iā mākou e ʻae i ka mea a mākou e huhū nei ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana i ka pāʻani koho weli.
Eia kekahi na mākou e kuhikuhi i kā mākou makemake a me nā mea a mākou e makemake ʻole ai. Weliweli nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka kuhi ʻana mai ka manaʻo o kekahi a ʻo kēia ka nui o ka kamaʻilio hewa ʻana e ala aʻe. ʻAʻohe mea e hōʻeha a haki paha i kahi pilina ma mua o ka miscommunication mau.
No laila e haʻalele i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kāu kāne e hakakā e pāʻani i ka psychic a e hoʻopono wale me ia a ua wehe ʻoe i ka pane i ka nīnau, "pehea e huki ai i ke kāne kūpono no ka male?".