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- He aha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pilina
- Nā kūkākūkā Couples vs. kākāʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
- Pehea ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male
- 1. ʻAʻole hoihoi kekahi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
- 2. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi e hana ka male
- 3. He kumu ulia kā kekahi
- 4. He kākāʻōlelo kūkākūkā male
Aia kekahi mau manawa ke hakakā hakakā mau ma waena o nā hoa i hopena i nā hihia ma waena o nā hoa, a laila alakaʻi i ka hemo. Akā manaʻo kekahi mau kāne ʻaʻole he koho a haʻalele i nā ala ʻē aʻe e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia pili.
ʻLelo aʻoaʻo pilina, ʻo kahi laʻana, ʻo ia kekahi o nā nā ala maikaʻi loa e kōkua ai i nā kāne loaʻa kokoke-loa nā pane i ka lawelawe ʻana i kā lākou pilikia. A, inā ʻoe e nīnau i kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana no nā pane, ʻo kekahi o nā mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ke ʻimi i nā lawelawe aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male.
Me ka ʻike ʻole a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe, i kekahi mau hihia, paulele ka poʻe i ka ʻike loea o ka nā mea hoʻoponopono.
Akā, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka holoʻokoʻa kumu o ke aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo ʻelua wale nō alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau kūpono a me ka unuhi ʻana i ka hopena kūpono i kūpono i kou pilikia. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia pilina, Pēlā nō ko lākou mau pilikia a me kā lākou mau hoʻoponopono.
He aha ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pilina
ʻLelo aʻoaʻo pilina he ʻano o kūkā kamaʻilio. Ma ʻaneʻi e loaʻa ai nā manawa i nā hoa ʻelua makaikai ka ʻokoʻa ikaika o kā lākou pilina a hoʻomaopopo ka ʻano o nā pilina pākahi.
Ma o kekahi mau ʻōlelo kūkākūkā pilikino a paʻa hoʻi, na nā kākāʻōlelo pili e alakaʻi i nā hoa ma o kā lākou pilikia.
Ke kamaʻilio nei kāu nā pilikia kōkua i ka a ʻike maikaʻi aʻe o ka nā pilikia a ʻike kuapo ala e kamaʻilio ai lākou.
I ka wā o nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa, nā mea hakakā hakakā e hoʻohana nui huaʻōlelo kūpono ʻole, akā puka lākou i ka wā wela. ʻO ke koho ʻana o nā huaʻōlelo i hoʻohana ʻia i kahi kamaʻilio a i ʻole i nā wā paio hiki ke hoʻonā a i ʻole hoʻonāukiuki ka kūlana maikaʻi ʻole.
Ke noʻonoʻo nei i ke kūlana like ma hope e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe i kou ʻano maoli ʻole. Eia kekahi, pehea kāu lawelawe ʻole ʻana i ke kūlana.
I nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili, e hana ka mea hoʻoponopono kōkua iā ʻoe i ʻike i nā pilikiamai a kuanaʻike ʻokoʻa a alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ka lawelawe ʻana i nā hihia i kahi ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
Nā kūkākūkā Couples vs. kākāʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
Ma mua o ka hohonu hohonu ʻana i nā pono a ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo aʻo pilina, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka hoʻōla kāne a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male. Hoʻohui pinepine ka poʻe i kēia mau huaʻōlelo ʻelua. Akā, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau iā ʻoe aia kekahi laina lahilahi o ka ʻokoʻa i waena o lākou.
No laila e hoʻomaka me ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male paha -
ʻLelo aʻoaʻo male ke nānā nui nei i ke kaulahao o nā hanana o kēia manawa a ʻaʻole i kū i ka moʻolelo o nā kāne. Nā Lapaʻau a hāʻawi ʻia paha nā hāʻina no nā hoʻāʻo mau. Ua like ia me ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā ʻaoʻao-hopena o ka maʻi i kapa ʻia ʻo Cancer akā ke nānā ʻole nei i ka maʻi mua.
Hoʻoikaika male, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, e hana pololei me ka kumu kumu o ka hakakā pili. Manaʻo nā kākā'ōlelo kūkākūkā i kēlā me kēia pilikia i hana ʻia i kēia manawa he moʻolelo i hāʻawi i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ʻole i ka pilina.
Ke hoʻomau nei nā kaʻina hana ʻelua, kaukaʻi ʻia i nā kāne i pilikia. A, māhele like ʻelua i kahi pahuhopu like, ʻo ia hoʻi, e kōkua i nā kāne e hakakā a lanakila i ka naʻau a hindrances psychological i kā lāua male.
Ke neʻe nei, e hana pū me ka nīnau nui e hiki mai ana i ka laina no ke kūkākūkā - E holo pono paha ka ʻōlelo aʻo male? A i ʻole e holo pono paha ka hoʻōla kāne?
Pehea ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male
ʻO ka pahuhopu nui o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili ka mea e kōkua ai i kāu male. ʻO ka helu kūleʻa o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ka mea hoʻohiki.
O kahi laʻana -
Wahi a ka American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, 93% o nā mea maʻi i nīnau ʻia, ua ʻae i loaʻa iā lākou ke kōkua kūpono e pono ai. Eia kekahi, ua māʻona ʻo 98% o ka poʻe i nīnau ʻia me ka ʻike aʻoaʻo holoʻokoʻa.
Akā hōʻoia i ka pono o ka 'ōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā pilina paʻakikī. Eia kekahi, pili ia i nā pane i hāʻawi ʻia e nā kāne e lawe nei i kēlā mau kau. A, e like me ka pilina a me ka loea o ka male, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Kauka Gottman, ʻo ka manawa ka mea āpau e hoʻoholo ai inā ʻaʻole paha hana aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo male.
Kekahi mau kāne male koho i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pilina ke loaʻa wale lākou i nā pilikia pilikia nui. Akā, no ka hapa nui, alualu ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke noʻonoʻo paha nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua paha i ka hoʻokaʻawale a i ka hemo paha.
Eia hou nō kekahi pale nā kāne i nā hakakā e pale loa i ka ʻawaʻawa mai ke kolo ʻana i loko o kā lākou pilina. Akā, ʻo Michele Weiner Davis, ka mea kākau o The Divorce Remedy, kuhikuhi i ka hana o e hōʻalo nei i nā hakakā hope i nā pilina pilina. ʻO kēlā poʻe, inā kauō ʻia i nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili, ʻaʻole paha lākou e pane pololei i nā nīnau a ka Therapist.
No laila hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo, hiki ke kōkua i ke aʻo ʻana i loko ke hoʻoponopono nei i ka pilina. Akā aia kekahi mau manawa kahi e hana ai nā hana a hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha i ka sabotage i ke kaʻina aʻoaʻo a hōʻeha loa i ka male.
E holo anei ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male?
E like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, ka kūleʻa o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male hilinaʻi nui ʻia i ke ʻano o nā pane a nā kāne e hāʻawi ai i kēlā me kēia kau.
E hoʻomaopopo kākou i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ka hopena i hiki i kekahi ke ʻike i ka wā kūkā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne.
1. ʻAʻole hoihoi kekahi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ke aʻo ʻana i ka pilina ke ʻae nā kāne a me nā wahine alualu aʻoaʻo e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia i ka male. Inā ʻaʻole hoihoi kekahi i ke kaʻina, a laila lilo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i mea paʻakikī ma mua o ka pono.
I ke aʻo ʻana, koi ʻia nā kāne e kaʻana like i kā lākou pilikia, hoʻolohe i kekahi i kekahi a hana i nā haʻawina home e pono ai hoʻoponopono i ka male. Inā ʻaʻole hoʻopukapuka kekahi kanaka i ke kaʻina hana, ʻaʻole e ʻike ʻia nā hopena e pono ai.
2. ʻAʻole makemake kekahi e hana ka male
I kekahi manawa ua hoʻoholo kekahi a i ʻole nā mea ʻelua i ka male i ko lākou manaʻo ua pau ka male ʻana. Inā e hōʻoluʻolu i ka wahine ʻē aʻe, nā lālā ʻohana a i ʻole no nā kumu haipule, alualu ʻia nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
Ma kahi e manaʻo ai kekahi ua pau ka male, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻike i ka pili o ke aʻo ʻana a e hele wale ana nō i nā neʻe.
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻonāukiuki maʻalahi i ka hoa ʻē aʻe, ke kākāʻōlelo a ʻo nā kaʻina aʻoaʻo.
3. He kumu ulia kā kekahi
ʻO ka kumu no ka ʻōlelo aʻo pilina no nā mea ʻelua e ʻimi i ke kōkua o kahi ʻaoʻao ʻekolu a hana pū e hoʻoponopono i ka pilina.
ʻO ke aʻo ʻana he hana hui pū me kahi pahuhopu like pū.
Eia nō naʻe, kahi i loaʻa ai i kekahi ke kumu kūwaho, e like me ka hōʻoia ʻana he pololei ʻo ia, ke manaʻo nei e haʻi i ka wahine i kā lākou makemake, a laila e emi ana ka maikaʻi o ke aʻo ʻana. I kekahi mau manawa, hiki i ka wahine ke hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma ke ʻano he haʻi i kekahi iā ia Makemake ʻo ia i kahi hemo a i ʻole ʻo ia he hihia kāna, ka manaolana e kaohi ʻia ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe e kā lākou pane ʻoiai i ka hui o kahi ʻaoʻao ʻekolu.
ʻO nā kumu āpau a ke kumu, hiki i kēia ke hana i kahi ʻino hou aʻe. A, aia kekahi mau kumu kūwaho e like me ke kākā'ōlelo pili pili paʻa.
4. He kākāʻōlelo kūkākūkā male
ʻO ka kākāʻōlelo male maikaʻi ʻo ia ka mea kaulike ʻole a hana i kahi kūlike ʻole e kōkua i ka wahine e hoʻoponopono i kā lāua mau pilikia.
Eia naʻe, kahi a makana aʻoaʻo male, inā paha he ʻike a he ʻano ʻē aʻe paha, nā hana a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo e ʻae ai i kekahi o nā kāne i ka ʻaoʻao e kōkua ana ke kākāʻōlelo, aia ma ke ʻano pilikia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
Hiki i kēia ke hana i nā hanana kahi e mālama ʻia ai ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kekahi kanaka i ʻike i ka wahine a i ʻole ke kākāʻōlelo male i koho ʻia e kekahi wahine me ka ʻole o ke komo a ka wahine ʻē aʻe.