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- Nā hōʻailona o ka male codependent
- 1. Ua māʻona ʻoe i kou hele ʻana i kahi mea nui loa i kāu hoa
- 2. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo ʻAʻole i kāu hoapili
- 3. hopohopo mau ʻoe i nā manaʻo o haʻi iā ʻoe, ʻo kāu hoa
- Pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka male codependent
- Pehea e pau ai ka male codependent
Ua lohe paha ʻoe i ka manawa o ka male codependent a i ʻole ka pilina? He ʻano pilina maikaʻi ʻole i ʻike ʻia e nā loea Psychology kahi e pili loa ai kekahi hoa i kahi kanaka paʻewa.
Wahi a nā wehewehe kuʻuna i ka male codependent a i ʻole ka pilina ke hōʻike ʻia nā ʻano makemake ʻole ʻia e nā hoa ʻelua. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he pilina pili i ka pilina, pono ʻole kahi hoa, a he martyr kekahi e hana ana i kekahi mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kā lākou hoa me ka hoʻopulapula ʻana a me ke kākoʻo ʻana i kā lākou ʻano maʻamau.
Wahi a kekahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe he ʻano ia o ka "pili maʻa pili" ke ʻike ʻia he ʻumi mau makahiki i hala. ʻO ka male Codependent a i ʻole ka pilina e hōʻike i nā hōʻailona hōʻino āpau o kahi hoʻohui kuʻuna.
Ua alakaʻi ʻia ka noiʻi ma ke ʻano he ʻāpana o ke aʻo ʻana i ka ikaika o nā ʻohana me ka makua ʻona. Paʻa i kēlā manaʻo. ʻO ka mea i loko o ka pilina codependent ʻaʻole ia ka mea ʻona, akā ʻo ke kanaka e koi ana e noho me kēlā kanaka me ka nānā ʻole i nā hopena o ka hana a kā lākou hoa.
Nā hōʻailona o ka male codependent
ʻO ka male Codependent e pili ana i kahi pāʻina e hōʻike ana i nā hana pilikino a hōʻino hoʻi. Aia kekahi wahine wahine lawelawe e hana ana i ka mea e hiki ai ke uhi no kā lākou hoa. Eia kahi papa inoa o nā alakaʻi e hoʻoholo ai inā ʻo ʻoe ka martyr i kahi pilina codependent.
1. Ua māʻona ʻoe i kou hele ʻana i kahi mea nui loa i kāu hoa
ʻO nā pilikia pili i ka pono a me ke kānāwai, e hana ʻoe i kekahi mea no kāu pakanā e hauʻoli ai lākou, palekana a pale ʻia ai. Uhi ʻoe i nā pilikia o kāu hoa me nā lāʻau, ka wai ʻona, a i ʻole ke kānāwai.
2. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo ʻAʻole i kāu hoapili
Hoʻohuli kou holoʻokoʻa i ka noho ʻana ma laila no kāu pakanā. Noho mālie ʻoe e pale i nā paio, inā pili i kēlā, ʻae haʻahaʻa me ka ʻoluʻolu i nā mea āpau a lākou i ʻōlelo ai.
3. hopohopo mau ʻoe i nā manaʻo o haʻi iā ʻoe, ʻo kāu hoa
He mea nui iā ʻoe e hōʻike i nā mea āpau āpau i ka lehulehu. Hoʻopili kēia i ka honua maoli a me ka pāpili kaiaulu.
ʻO ke kanaka e hōʻike i kekahi o kēia ʻano i loko o ka male codependent. Nui a hewahewa nā pilikia male codependent i hiki ke ala aʻe mai hoʻokahi a ʻoi paha o nā ʻano i haʻi ʻia aʻe nei. ʻO kahi pilikia, maʻalahi ia i nā ʻano hana ʻino āpau. Hiki iā ia ke manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pale i kāu mau keiki ponoʻī ke poʻo ka hana ʻino i ko lākou ala. He mea nui e ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona male codependent maikaʻi ʻole ma mua o ka lohi.
Pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka male codependent
Aia kekahi mau kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe i koi i ke kumu kumu o ka male codependent ka hiki ʻole o kekahi kanaka ke loaʻa ka waiwai ponoʻī me ka ʻole o ka hōʻoia o kā lākou hoa. Kūpono ia me nā ʻōuli a me nā lauana e pili ana i nā hōʻailona o ka pilina codependent.
Inā hoihoi ʻoe i ka ʻike pehea e hiki ai ke mālama i kahi male codependent, maʻalahi ka pane. ʻO ka pilikia, makemake anei ka wahine e hoʻopakele iā ia?
ʻAʻole ia he pilina symbiotic hāʻawi a lawe, akā ʻo ke ʻano kahi e paʻa ai nā kāleka āpau i kekahi hoa. Ma kekahi ʻano, he mau mare narcissist āpau.
Hana ka hapanui o nā male kūleʻa ke ʻike kekahi i kekahi me he hoa like lā. ʻO ka male codependent ka hopena hope loa o ka pae. ʻAneʻane ia he pilina kauā kauā. ʻO ka ʻāpana paʻakikī paʻakikī lākou māʻona i ka hoʻonohonoho. ʻO ia ke kumu i manaʻo ʻia ai ka male codependent he mea hōʻāpau.
ʻO ka poʻe addicts, no ka hapanui, ʻike i ka hewa o kā lākou hana. ʻAʻole ʻae paha nā hoa lawelawe ma ka male codependent. Iā lākou, ke hana wale nei lākou i kā lākou mile keu e mālama pū i kā lāua male.
He paʻakikī e hoʻopaʻapaʻa me kēlā noʻonoʻo. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, nā ke kāne a ke kāne e hana i nā mea āpau e mālama ai i ka hauʻoli o kā lāua hoa a hoʻomaikaʻi i ka pilina. ʻAʻole ka hewa ka mea like ʻole a kumu ʻia e ka narcissist o ke kanaka e hana wale nei i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai e hana. Keʻa i ka laina i kekahi manawa, akā naʻe, ʻike lākou iā lākou iho he kāne kuleana.
I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, manaʻo ka hoa mea lawelawe ke hana nei lākou i kahi mea hanohano ma ke kākoʻo ʻana i kā lākou wahine. ʻAʻole like me nā addict i ʻike he panakalupa pono lākou, akā ʻaʻole lawa ka ikaika o ko lākou makemake e lanakila i ka hilinaʻi. ʻO ka male codependent kahi kūlike loa. Manaʻo lākou he hanohano lākou a aloha iā ia.
ʻAʻole e hāʻawi ka ʻaoʻao narcissistic i kā lākou likiki lottery lanakila. He hihia ia o ka mana e hōʻino loa inā paha aia ma ka ʻohana wale nō.
ʻO ke ala wale nō e hoʻoponopono ai i ka male codependent e hoʻopau iā ia. Hoʻoholo paha ka wahine i kā lāua pilikia, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lāua ke hana pū. Ma ka liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole i kēia manawa.
Pehea e pau ai ka male codependent
Hana ʻia nā mea aʻoaʻo he nui me ka mālama pū ʻana i nā male. Akā aia nā pilina maikaʻi ʻole e hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia e kahi kaʻawale wā wale nō. ʻO ka male codependent kekahi o kēlā mau pilina olakino. He pilikia ko kēlā me kēia hoa, a e mānoanoa wale nō ia a lōʻihi pū pū. Hoʻonohonoho ʻia kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole no nā keiki. Hoʻomohala ʻia ka Codependance ke ʻike lākou i ka hana like ʻana a ko lākou mau mākua.
Hāʻawi nā kākāʻōlelo male i kā lākou lawelawe i nā kāne i makemake e hoʻololi a hele wāwae i kā lākou keʻena me ka manawaleʻa. ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne male Codependent ke hana i kēlā. ʻO ia ke kumu he hihia paʻakikī ka codependency. ʻAʻole makemake nā kumuhana e hoʻololi e like ʻole me nā kāne ʻē aʻe i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male. ʻO ia ke kumu e pono ai e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi lāʻau. ʻO ka lōʻihi o ke kaʻawale ʻana, e hoʻi paha ka noʻonoʻo i kahi ʻano maʻamau.
E loaʻa i ka hoa kau inoa ka manawa e nānā ai i nā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ko lākou ola, a e mahalo ka hoa narcissistic i ka mea lawelawe ma ko lākou nalo ʻana.
Hiki ke mālama maikaʻi i kēlā manawa. Hiki ke kamaʻilio ʻokoʻa ʻia ka maʻi narcissistic a me ka pilina pili.
ʻAʻole makemake ka nui o nā kāne codependent e hoʻololi. ʻO ia ke kumu i hōʻike ʻole ʻia ai ka hapa nui o nā hihia. Lawe ʻia i ka ʻaoʻao ʻekolu e hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻomāinoino a hōʻike i nā luna. Ma laila wale nō e hoʻomaka ai ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa no ka wahine. Pono paha i kahi ʻaha hoʻokolokolo e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou mai kekahi i kekahi a no ka palekana o nā keiki.
ʻO ia kekahi o nā ʻano pilikino maikaʻi ʻole o ka pilina. Hana maikaʻi ʻole ka male Codependent e like me nā ʻano pili ʻino ʻole, akā ʻaʻole like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, he ʻaoʻao makemake ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia. Hoʻonui ia i ka weliweli ma mua o ke koena.