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- Nā kumu he 10 he mea nui e kaʻana like i nā hoihoi i ka pilina
- 1. aʻo lākou iā ʻoe e pili ana i kāu hoapili
- 2. Hoʻonanea nā hoihoi āpau i kou pilina
- 3. Kōkua ia i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hana hui
- 4. Hoʻokumu ʻoe i nā hana pilina
- 5. Hoʻokumu i kahi ʻōnaehana kākoʻo
- 6. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hakakā no nā manaʻo nui
- 7. Mālama iā ʻoe i ke ola o kēlā me kēia
- 8. Hana nā hoihoi i ka pilina paʻa
- 9. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike inā ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pāʻani maikaʻi
- 10. Hāʻawi nā ʻāpana like i kāu pilina i nā mea ʻala
- Hiki i kahi pilina ke hana inā loaʻa kāu ʻokoʻa?
- Aʻo ʻoe e mahalo i kou ʻokoʻa
- Kaʻana like i nā mea āpau ke manaʻo smothering
- E hoihoi i kā lākou leʻaleʻa
- E aʻo pehea e hoʻopili ai
- E hāmama ka noʻonoʻo
- Panina hopena
ʻO ka hapanui o ka poʻe e moeʻuhane nei i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa a ʻo kā lākou hoa aloha pū kekahi. Makemake lākou e kaʻana like i nā leʻaleʻa, nā hoihoi, nā manaʻo, nā pahuhopu, a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo - akā ʻo kēia ke ala ʻoi loa e hoʻomaka ai kahi pilina?
Ua lohe paha ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o ka poʻe e ʻumeʻume ka poʻe kūlike i ke ala like āu i lohe ai i nā mea hoihoi i ka pilina ka iwi o ke aloha ikaika.
No laila, ʻo ka mea kūpono?
Hoʻopiʻi nā mea kūʻē i kekahi kumu? A pehea wale ka nui o nā hoihoi maʻamau i loko o ka pilina? E hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana e ʻike ai.
Nā kumu he 10 he mea nui e kaʻana like i nā hoihoi i ka pilina
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea like me kāu pakanā kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi loa e kūkulu i kahi pilina paʻa. ʻO kēia nā kumu nui no ke aha e loaʻa ai nā ʻoluʻolu e hana ai ma ke ʻano he kāne i mea e pōmaikaʻi ai kāu male.
1. aʻo lākou iā ʻoe e pili ana i kāu hoapili
Hiki i nā hoihoi hoihoi ke haʻi aku iā ʻoe i nā mea he nui e pili ana i kāu hoa.
Inā makemake ʻoe i ka lani, ka holoholo, a me ka hele ʻana i waho o ka wai a kaʻana like kāu wahine i kāu mau makemake, a laila ʻike maopopo ʻoe he hoʻolaha lākou e like me ʻoe.
Inā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e pāʻani i ke mele a kākau i nā mele, ua aʻo ʻoe he kanaka hana kā kāu hoa aloha e makemake nei e noʻonoʻo.
ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o kou hui pū ʻana, ʻike nui ʻoe e pili ana i kāu hoa ma ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i nā makemake maʻamau.
2. Hoʻonanea nā hoihoi āpau i kou pilina
Ke ʻōlelo ʻoe "he nui nā mea like a mākou," ke ʻōlelo nui nei ʻoe e pili ana i kāu pili ma mua o kou ʻike.
He paepae paehele nā kaʻana like ʻia i kahi pilina leʻaleʻa a pīhoihoi hoʻi ma waena o nā hoa aloha.
ʻO ka Pai no ka Haʻawina hauʻoli hōʻike e hauʻoli ana nā kāne a he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Hōʻike ka haʻawina i nā hōʻike paʻa e pili ana ka ʻoluʻolu o ka male ma mua no nā kāne i kāhea kekahi i kekahi i kā lākou hoa aloha.
3. Kōkua ia i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hana hui
Ke hui ʻoe me nā poʻe me nā hoihoi like, hoʻomaka ʻoe e hoʻokumu i kahi ʻano o ka hana hui.
- Inā he mea kākau ʻelua ʻolua, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili i kou lolo a noʻonoʻo i kahi moʻolelo maikaʻi.
- Inā he mea hoʻokani pila ʻolua, hiki iā ʻoe ke kākau i nā mele a hana i ka ʻaoʻao.
- Inā makemake ʻoe i ka piʻi a piʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i nā pahuhopu a me nā moemoeā o nā ala hele a me nā kuahiwi āu e makemake ai e kaupaona i hoʻokahi lā.
- Inā makemake ʻolua e aʻo i kahi ʻōlelo, hiki iā ʻoe ke kākoʻo i ka holomua o kekahi a me ka hauʻoli pū ʻana i kāu mau lanakila.
ʻO ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻana i ka manawa nui i ka hana ʻana i nā mea āu e aloha ai e kōkua ai i ka hui pū ʻana a paipai i nā kāne e hana i nā pahuhopu like.
4. Hoʻokumu ʻoe i nā hana pilina
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea like he mea nui ka manawa e hana ai i nā mea āu e aloha ai ma ke ʻano he kāne ʻelua. I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, hoʻomaka ʻoe e hoʻomohala pū i nā hana pilina.
Lilo i kēia mau loina i mau kuʻuna e hoʻonui ai i ka pilina o ka naʻau, kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi, a hoʻokūpaʻa i kāu pilina ma ke ʻano he kāne.
E aloha ʻoe i ka hiki ke ʻōlelo, "nui nā mea like a mākou!"
5. Hoʻokumu i kahi ʻōnaehana kākoʻo
Ke hāʻawi like ʻolua i nā hoihoi ma ke ʻano he kāne, hāʻawi ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi ʻano o ke ola.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea like he mea paipai i nā hoa e kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi a me ka mākau kamaʻilio. Ke kū nei ʻoe i waho no ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo no kāu leʻaleʻa, aʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hilinaʻi i kāu hoa ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe o kou ola.
6. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hakakā no nā manaʻo nui
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoihoi i ka pilina ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe e hakakā me kāu pakanā e pili ana i nā kumuhana wela e like me ka hoʻomana a me ka politika.
Maikaʻi loa kēia no ka mea hōʻike nā hōʻike i nā kāne e kaʻana like i nā hoʻomana a ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli a ʻike ʻia i ka pilina ma ke ʻano he kūikawā. Ke hoʻomau nei ka noiʻi e mālama maikaʻi nā kāne i kā lākou mau hoa ke hele like lākou i nā lawelawe haipule.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoe haipule, ke kaʻana like ʻoe i nā hoihoi āpau ma nā kumuhana nui, ulu aʻe ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kāne.
7. Mālama iā ʻoe i ke ola o kēlā me kēia
ʻO ka hiki ke ʻōlelo "nui kā mākou mea like" ʻo ia ka loaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa he papa inoa pau ʻole o nā mea e hana ai i ka pō lā.
He mea nui kēia no ka mea ua hōʻoia ʻia ka pō o ka lā e hoʻonui i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka pīhoihoi o ka pilina, a hoʻihoʻi i ka paʻa.
Mālama like nā hoihoi iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa e hoʻolilo ana i ka manawa maikaʻi me he hoa aloha a me nā hoa aloha.
8. Hana nā hoihoi i ka pilina paʻa
ʻO ka hiki ke ʻōlelo "nui kā mākou mea like" ʻo ia ka hana mua i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina hohonu a koʻikoʻi me kāu hoa.
Ua paʻi ʻia ka noiʻi ma ka Pai no ka male ʻana a me ka ʻohana ʻo nā kāne i noho manawa like ma nā hana o ka pō / nā hana leʻaleʻa ʻike liʻiliʻi i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hauʻoli nui i ko lākou ola.
Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea like me kāu hoa a haki paha, hana ʻoe i nā mea paʻa hohonu a mau loa hoʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole papahele kou pilina.
Māhele ʻoe i nā mea hou aʻe ma mua o ka kemika moekolohe a me ka pili aloha naʻau. Makemake ʻia ʻoe e lilo i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa.
9. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike inā ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pāʻani maikaʻi
Ke hui ʻoe me nā poʻe me nā hoihoi like me kāu, ua maopopo mua ua ʻike ʻoe i kahi pāʻani maikaʻi.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi e hiki ʻole ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho e pili ana i kekahi me ka ʻokoʻa ka manaʻo politika a me ka maikaʻi ma mua ou.
Ke kaʻana like ʻoe i nā hoihoi i ka pilina, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho e hāʻule aloha ana me kāu ipo no ka mea he nui nā wana e hoʻohui iā ʻoe.
10. Hāʻawi nā ʻāpana like i kāu pilina i nā mea ʻala
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea like me kāu wahine e kōkua i ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi male.
Ua alakaʻi ʻo Sage Journals i kahi noiʻi ma kahi o 1.5 mau hola i kēlā me kēia pule no nā hebedoma he ʻumi, ua hāʻawi ʻia i nā kāne male i kahi hana i wehewehe ʻia he ʻoluʻolu a pīhoihoi paha.
Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hopena o ke aʻo ʻana i nā kāne e pili ana i nā hoihoi hoihoi hoihoi i hōʻike ʻia nā pae kiʻekiʻe o ka hōʻoluʻolu male ma mua o nā kāne i hāʻawi ʻia i nā hana ʻoluʻolu.
Hōʻike nā hopena noiʻi e hauʻoli ka hauʻoli o nā kāne ke kaʻana like lākou i nā leʻaleʻa hauʻoli.
Hiki i kahi pilina ke hana inā loaʻa kāu ʻokoʻa?
Mahalo paha kekahi poʻe, "Inā ʻaʻole hana kaʻu hoa i nā mea hoihoi iaʻu, pehea e holo pono ai kā mākou pilina?" Akā ʻaʻole nā mea āpau nā mea āpau i kahi pilina.
Eia ka papa inoa o nā kumu no ke aloha ʻole ka makemake pinepine i ka pilina.
E noʻonoʻo i nā ʻano kupaianaha ʻē aʻe a kāu hoa. ʻAno maikaʻi lākou?
- ʻOiaʻiʻo?
- Adventurous?
- Palekana?
- Pāʻani?
- Hilinaʻi?
- Hoʻakaʻaka lākou iā ʻoe?
ʻAʻole pono nā kāne e kaʻana like i nā hoihoi āpau e kūleʻa ai kā lāua pilina. Ma kahi o, e hōʻike i ka mahalo no nā mea āpau āu e aloha ai e pili ana i kāu wahine.
ʻO ka hiki ke ʻōlelo "he nui nā mea like" ʻaʻole nā mea āpau. I kekahi manawa nui ka hoihoi i ka pilina.
ʻAʻole ʻoe a me kāu wahine e hana i kahi mea ʻokoʻa no ka mea hāʻawi like ʻoe i nā leʻaleʻa like.
Ke loaʻa ʻoe i kāu mau pono ponoʻī ma waho o nā hoihoi like, ʻae ia iā ʻoe e lālā a hana i kāu mea ponoʻī. Hana kēia i kahi ʻike pilialo kaulike.
ʻO ka launa ʻana me kekahi me nā hoihoi ʻokoʻa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ʻoe a me kāu wahine.
E nānā i kāu 'ʻaʻohe mea i ka pilina maʻamau' ma ke ʻano he manawa leʻaleʻa e hoʻonui ai i kāu mau huakaʻi
E hoihoi maoli i nā mea a kāu ipo i aloha ai.
E hoʻāʻo pū i nā mea hou a huli i ka huli ʻana i nā leʻaleʻa o kekahi. Ke hana ʻoe, ʻike paha ʻoe he nui kāu mau mea like ma mua o kou manaʻo.
Maikaʻi ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea like like no ka mea maʻamau ia ma ka ʻaoʻao like e pili ana i ka mea e hana ai me kāu pō Pōʻalima, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o nā manaʻo ʻokoʻa a me nā leʻaleʻa hiki ke hoʻoikaika i kou pilina.
Ke kuʻikahi ʻoe i nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka mea e hōʻike ai e nānā, ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā mea nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Kōkua kēia i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hana hui a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu pili.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hoihoi like, akā hoʻohauʻoli nā mea ʻē aʻe i kumu kūpono.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻole o nā leʻaleʻa like ʻole ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻohe ou mea like me kāu wahine.
ʻO ka ʻono kūʻē i nā mele, nā leʻaleʻa, ka hoʻomana, a me nā politika e kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i ke ola a paipai i nā hoa ʻelua e hāmama i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hoʻokolokolo ʻole i ka pilina.
E like me kāu e ʻike ai, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manawa me kāu wahine ma mua o ka hiki ke ʻōlelo, "nui nā mea like a mākou."
Panina hopena
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoihoi ka mea hoʻomaka i kahi pilina olakino. Hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu pakanā ke ʻōlelo aʻe, "nui kā mākou mea like," a kūkulu i kou aloha mai laila mai.
Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea like me kāu wahine, he pilina leʻaleʻa kou. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā leʻaleʻa e hana ai ma ke ʻano he mea hana kekahi i kahi ʻōnaehana kākoʻo a me ke ʻano o ka hana hui ʻana i kou aloha.
Inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe inā he hoihoi kāu, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi papa makemake a makemake ʻole i ka pilina a hoʻohālikelike i nā memo me kāu hoa.
ʻO nā hoihoi maʻamau i loko o kahi pilina ʻaʻole ia wale nō ka mea e hoʻoikaika ai i kou aloha.
Ma ka loaʻa ʻana o nā manaʻo like ʻole a me nā leʻaleʻa, aʻo ʻoe e mahalo i ka ʻokoʻa o kekahi, a aʻo pehea e ʻike ai i nā mea like me kāu wahine, hoʻoikaika i kou hiki ke hoʻopilikia, a lilo i poʻe noʻonoʻo ākea.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻole o nā leʻaleʻa e hana ma ke ʻano he kāne ʻaʻole ia ka hopena o kāu pili. ʻAʻole na ka lōʻihi.