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- Pāʻani ka mea i hoʻomāinoino
- Ka hoʻoponopono ʻana
- Ke ʻano palekana ʻole
- No ke aha e hoʻohui ai ka poʻe iā lākou iho me nā narcissist huna?
ʻO mākou āpau i kahi kekelē i wahī ʻia i loko o kā mākou iho. Hoʻopaʻa nui ʻia kākou a pau i kekahi manawa i loko o ko mākou ʻeha ponoʻī a nānā pinepine ʻole iā haʻi. A ʻo ke kanaka wale nō ia ou.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻo nā mea narcissist hūnā ka poʻe i manaʻo e like me ka mea i hōʻino ʻia i kēlā me kēia kūlana. E hōʻoluʻolu lākou iā lākou. ʻO kēia kahi ʻano paʻakikī o ka narcissist e ʻike ai no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea e like me ke kiʻi maʻamau o kahi narcissist āu e noʻonoʻo nei. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā lākou e hopohopo iā lākou iho. Eia kekahi, e aloha aku ʻoe me lākou. E ʻike paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho no lākou ke kuleana. A ʻo kā lākou hoʻolālā pāʻani holoʻokoʻa ia.
Pēlā e hopu ai kēia poʻe i kā lākou mau mea i hōʻeha ʻia.
Pāʻani ka mea i hoʻomāinoino
E ʻike ʻoe i hoʻokahi mea maʻamau i nā narcissist hūnā a ʻo ia ka mea i loaʻa ʻole iā lākou nā mea maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO nā pilina a pau, ʻo kēlā me kēia hoaaloha ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole no lākou a ʻo ka hewa a ka mea ʻē aʻe.
E hōʻike ana kēia poʻe i kahi mana o ka moʻolelo i hoʻoponopono pono ʻia e pili ana i ko lākou hala i hana hewa ʻia i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Maikaʻi wale ka nīnau ʻana, pehea e hiki ai i kēlā me kēia kanaka i hana ʻino iā ʻoe me ka ʻole o ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i kēlā pane a i ʻole ke kuleana o ia mea. Aia wale ʻoe e kamaʻilio me nā poʻe i pili a i ʻole i nā pilina me kahi narcissist huna e ʻike ʻoe i ke anuanu a me ka hōʻino a kēia poʻe.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī lākou i nā mea i hōʻino ʻia, akā maikaʻi loa lākou e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou ʻo lākou nō!
Ka hoʻoponopono ʻana
ʻO lākou ka mea ʻoi loa i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana. E hoʻohana lākou i kou empathy ma ke ʻano he mea hana kūʻē iā ʻoe. Hoʻomaopopo pinepine ʻia ka poʻe e pili ana me nā narcissist hūnā pinepine ka poʻe e aloha nui.
Hāʻule lākou i nā moʻolelo o nā exe hoʻomāinoino, nā mākua kolohe a me nā mea āpau āpau e hānai iā lākou i kahi narcissist huna.
Hoʻokumu nā mea narcissists Covert i mea pale ma waena o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me nā wahaheʻe e hānai ai lākou i nā kānaka.
ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e ʻike ma mua o kēlā no ka mea ʻo lākou iho e noho nei i kahi huʻa o kā lākou mana maoli. E huhū lākou inā kāu nīnau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kā lākou mau moʻolelo a i ʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā lākou i ko lākou hewa i kēia kūlana.
Ma ka hoʻihoʻi, hoʻonāukiuki lākou iā ʻoe no ke kāhea ʻana iā lākou a i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻole ʻana iā lākou.
Ke ʻano palekana ʻole
ʻAʻole palekana ʻo Covert Narcissists.
Ke hoʻokūkū mau nei lākou me nā mea āpau no ka nānā, no ke kālā kūleʻa a me nā mea ʻē aʻe E hopu pinepine ʻoe iā lākou e ʻoluʻolu i ka holo pono ʻole o kekahi a i ʻole makemake e hōʻoluʻolu ʻia e ka waiho ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E ʻike paha ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻohālikelike nei i ko lākou hōʻeha i nā ʻeha a haʻi a i ʻole kou ʻeha a ʻaʻohe mea kokoke i ke gehena a lākou i hele ai.
Eia kekahi, loaʻa iā lākou kekahi e hōʻino no ko lākou kūleʻa. ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae i kā lākou mau hewa a i ʻole nā koho maikaʻi ʻole. E hoʻopiʻi mau lākou ia mea i ka poʻe i ko lākou ola a i ʻole ka nele o ka waiwai.
Hana kēia i ko lākou alo a me nā hui pū me lākou e ʻawaʻawa nui. ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e hauʻoli i kāu hana a hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hōʻino no ka hauʻoli i ka wā kaumaha loa.
No ke aha e hoʻohui ai ka poʻe iā lākou iho me nā narcissist huna?
ʻO ka pane i kēia nīnau he paʻakikī loa ia. ʻAʻole ʻeleʻele a keʻokeʻo kēia mea akā hina maoli.Makemake ka poʻe e hūnā i nā narcissists e like me ka mea i ʻike mua ʻia he poʻe maikaʻi e hele nei i kahi wā maikaʻi ʻole. Akā, e hana piha iā ʻoe me kā lākou mau moʻolelo kūmākena a hoʻopōpō i kāu hoʻokolokolo.
Manaʻo paha ʻoe he kuleana lākou na lākou no ka mea ʻo nā narcissist huna e alakaʻi iā ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea maikaʻi i ko lākou ola.
Hiki ke lōʻihi ka manawa e ʻike ai i ke ʻano o ka ninini ʻana i ka pilina me kahi narcissist huna. Ua like kēia poʻe me ka dementors, hānai lākou i ka hauʻoli mai ou aku. ʻO ka maʻamau, pili ka poʻe ma muli o ke kumu o ka pili o ka naʻau iā lākou.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻike koke lākou iā lākou e hōʻehaʻeha i ka naʻau a i ʻole pili paha lākou no ka mea manaʻo lākou hiki iā lākou ke kōkua i kahi narcissist huna. ʻOiai ʻo kēlā me kēia manawa āu e hoʻāʻo ai e kuhikuhi i kahi kuhi hewa ke hana nei lākou iā ʻoe iho ua hoʻopiʻi ʻia ʻoe no ka maopopo ʻole i ko lākou ʻehaʻeha.
Hiki i kahi pilina a i ʻole aloha me kahi huna narcissist hiki ke lilo i mea hoʻoluhi manaʻo a me ke kino.
No laila, he mea nui e makaʻala i ka hana a kēia poʻe. A inā ʻoe e nānā i kēia mau hōʻailona hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopakele ʻia mai nā makahiki o ka ʻehaʻeha naʻau.