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- Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka wahine haole
- ʻIke koʻikoʻi
- Nā koina pili kānāwai
- Nā ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu
- ʻIke leʻaleʻa
- Panina hopena
ʻO ka male ka mea a ka hapanui o nā wahine a me nā kāne e nānā nei i mua. Pōmaikaʻi kekahi e noho male i ke ola hoʻokahi i kahi hoa pili a ʻo kekahi mau kāne a kaʻawale e haʻalele a hemo paha no nā kumu like ʻole. ʻ stateslelo ʻia ka ʻōlelo hoʻohina kahiko: "Hana ʻia nā male ma ka lani." ʻAʻohe manaʻo ma kēia axiom.
Eia nō naʻe, nā kānaka, nā kānāwai, nā lula, nā rula, nā hoʻomana, a me nā moʻomeheu. Akā he mea nui kēia mau mea i ke kūleʻa i ka kūleʻa a i ʻole kūleʻa o ka male. ʻOi aku, inā he wahine a male kāne paha ʻoe e male ana i kahi haole. Hiki ke pīhoihoi ka male aloha me kahi hoa mai kahi moʻomeheu malihini akā hiki ke lilo i ʻike weliweli. I mea e pale ai i nā moeʻuhane male, he mea nui ia e ʻike i ke ʻano o ka male ʻana o ka moʻomeheu.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka wahine haole
ʻO ka ʻōnaehana o ka 'mail-order brides' i ulu mai nā makahiki 1970 a 1990 e ulu ikaika ana. Ua pāpā ʻia nā ʻāina he nui i nā 'wahine male leka uila', ʻoiai ua like ia me ke kālepa ʻiʻo. Pili ia i nā wahine ʻōpio mai nā ʻāina kua hoʻokele waiwai i lawe ʻia ma ke ʻano he "wahine mare" i nā lāhui waiwai a i kekahi manawa no ka male ʻana i nā kāne i lawa ko lākou kūpuna.
Ke kū nei ka ʻōnaehana i kēia manawa me nā 'matchmaking agents' kū kānāwai e ulu pono ana ma ka Pūnaewele. No kahi uku lālā lālā liʻiliʻi, hiki i kahi kāne a wahine paha ke koho mai kekahi mau hoa hele mua mai kēlā me kēia wahi o ka honua.ʻAʻole like me nā leka uila, pono e huakaʻi ka wahine i mua a wahine paha i ka ʻāina kahi e noho ai ka wahine a me ka male ma o ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā kaʻina kānāwai.
Aia kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe o nā hoa male e pili ana i ka wehewehe o ka wahine ʻē.
- He ʻōiwi o kekahi ʻāina i loaʻa ka kupa o kahi ʻāina haole
- Keiki o nā malihini e paʻa nei i ka passport o ka ʻāina kahi i noho ai nā mākua
- ʻO ke keikikāne a ke kaikamahine paha a nā kāne male mai nā lāhui like ʻole
ʻAʻohe wehewehe maikaʻi o ka wahine haole akā maʻamau, hiki iā lākou ke noʻonoʻo ʻia he poʻe i hele mai nā moʻomeheu a me nā lāhui like ʻole.
ʻIke koʻikoʻi
ʻO ka male ʻana i kēlā mau kānaka ka mea maʻamau i kēia mau lā ma ke ʻae ʻana o kekahi mau ʻāina i ka poʻe malihini mākaukau a hāʻawi i ke kamaʻāina ma hope o ka hālāwai ʻana i kekahi pae hoʻohālikelike. Eia nō naʻe, aia ʻelua mau hopohopo nui e pono ai ʻoe e kamaʻilio no ke kūleʻa a me ka hauʻoli o ka male ʻana me kahi haole. Eia nā:
- Nā Koi i ke Kānāwai
- Nā ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu
Maʻaneʻi, kūkā mākou i kēia ʻike nui i kahi kikoʻī.
Nā koina pili kānāwai
Eia mākou e helu ai i kekahi mau kānāwai, nā lula, a me nā lula e hana mau ʻia e nā ʻāina a puni ka honua. Eia nō naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā me kāu keʻena kūkaʻikaʻi kūloko a me nā loio e hoʻoponopono i nā hopohopo kikoʻī.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i ka ʻāina hānau o kāu wahine me ka ʻole o ka maopopo mai kāna aupuni. ʻO ka manaʻo, ʻo ka male ʻana i ke kamaʻāina o hoʻokahi ʻāina, ʻaʻole ia e ʻae iā ʻoe e noho i laila. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻimi ʻia kahi moʻo o nā clearance e nā keʻena like ʻole o ke aupuni ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi noho mau a i ʻole kahi visa komo i ka ʻāina o ka wahine. Mālama ke kānāwai i ka neʻe ʻole i ke kānāwai a i ʻole nā 'aelike mare' kahi e lawe ʻia ai kahi wahine ʻē no ka mea e loaʻa ai ke kamaʻāina.
Ke hāʻawi nei i ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo inā ʻaʻole ʻoe male a male ʻole a kuleana kūpono paha e komo i loko o ka male he koi. Me ka ʻole o kēia palapala i hāʻawi ʻia e kahi mana kūpono i kou ʻāina, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke male i kahi haole.
Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke male ma kahi hana haipule ma kekahi wahi hoʻomana, ʻaʻole paha e noi i ka hōʻoia o ka male a male ʻole a kuleana paha e male. Eia nō naʻe, pono kēia palapala i ka wā e hoʻopaʻa inoa ana i kāu male ma kahi ʻaha kīwila a me kahi mikiona diplomatikia.
ʻO ke kākau inoa ʻana i ka male ma kou ʻāina a ʻo ka wahine a ka wahine he mea nui. Ma muli o nā ʻokoʻa i nā kānāwai mare o nā ʻāina like ʻole, ka hoa haole a pono ʻoe e kūlike me nā kānāwai o nā ʻāina ʻelua. He mea nui kēia e hōʻoia i kāu wahine a i ʻole progenies hiki ke lilo i mau hoʻoilina kānāwai. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kau inoa ʻana ke alakaʻi i kāu male ʻana e manaʻo ʻia he kānāwai ʻole a kapa ʻia nā keiki he "ʻokiʻoki".
Eia hou, inā ʻoe e noho ana i kahi ʻāina ʻekolu, pono ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa inoa i ka male ma laila pū kekahi. Aia kēia mau kānāwai i mea e hōʻoia ai i ka loaʻa o ka palekana a me nā kuleana i ka wā e noho ana i kēlā ʻāina. Eia naʻe, pono wale nō ke hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana i ka male inā ʻoe e male ma kēlā ʻāina. ʻO kēlā ala, hiki i ka ʻāina ke hāʻawi i kāu wahine i ka visa a i ʻole ka palapala noho i koi ʻia ma lalo o ke kūlana male hou.
Inā ʻaʻole paʻa ka lāhui ʻelua i nā kāne ʻelua. Hāʻawi ʻē kekahi mau ʻāina i kona kamaʻāina i ke keiki i hānau ʻia ma kāna lepo a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e koʻikoʻi a ʻaʻole ʻae i nā wahine i hāpai hāpai mua e komo i kā lākou palena. Pono ʻoe e kaupaona i nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o kāu mau keiki e lawe ana i ka lāhui āpau o ka makuakāne a me ka ʻāina makuahine paha.
Nā ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu
Inā pili nā loiloi loio i ka wā e male ana i kahi haole, pono like ka pili ʻana i ka ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i noho i ka ʻāina hānau o ka wahine a i ʻole ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, nui nā mea āu e pono ai e aʻo ma mua a ma hope o ka male.
ʻO nā ʻano meaʻai ka mea maʻa mau a ka hapanui o nā kāne ʻē. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā kuke haole. ʻAʻole ʻike paha kāu wahine i nā ʻano culinary a me nā lepe o kāu moʻomeheu ʻōiwi. ʻOiai hoʻomaʻa paha kekahi i nā ʻono haole koke, ʻaʻole e hāʻawi kekahi. Hiki i nā Quarrels ma luna o ka meaʻai ke alakaʻi i nā haunaele kūloko.
E ʻike i ke kūlana waiwai o ka ʻohana o kāu wahine. ʻO nā hakakā kālā ma waena o nā kāne he kumu nui o ka haʻalele male ma ka US a me nā wahi ʻē aʻe o ka honua. Inā nāwaliwali ka ʻohana o kāu wahine, manaʻo lākou i ke kōkua kālā. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo, hiki i kāu kāne a wahine paha ke hoʻopau i ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi ʻāpana nui o nā loaʻa kālā no kā lākou kākoʻo. Hoʻomaopopo, koi lākou i ke kālā no nā mea nui mai ka meaʻai a ke olakino a me ka aʻo. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻike e pili ana i nā mōhai kālā e pili ana i ka male ʻana i kahi haole.
Pono ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi loa i ka kūleʻa o kēlā me kēia male. No laila, pono ia i kāu wahine haole a loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mākaukau pae pae i kahi ʻōlelo maʻamau. ʻ speaklelo ka poʻe mai nā ʻāina ʻē i ka ʻōlelo Pelekania i nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻO kahi ʻōlelo hōʻino ʻole a kahi haole hiki ke lawe ʻia ma ke ʻano he lawehala i kahi moʻomeheu ʻē aʻe a hiki ke hōʻeha loa i ka pilina.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻokoʻa i nā hana haipule a me nā makemake kekahi kī i ka holomua o ka male ʻana me kahi haole. ʻOiai hiki iā ʻoe ke hāhai i ka hilinaʻi like, hoʻohuli pinepine nā kuʻuna ʻōiwi i ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana. ʻO kahi laʻana, hoʻolauleʻa kekahi mau lāhui i ka make a hoʻokipa i nā mea kanikau me nā mea momona, nā pā, nā wai ʻona a me nā mea inu momona. ʻO kekahi poʻe paʻa i nā somber vigils. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke huhū inā hoʻohanohano kāu kāne i ka make ʻana o kekahi mea aloha ma ke kumu ua hele ka ʻuhane i hala i ka lani.
ʻIke paha kekahi i nā hana melancholic ma ke ʻano he ʻano nui i kēia ala kūlohelohe o ke ola kanaka.
Hiki i nā ʻohana ʻohana o kahi moʻomeheu haole ke ʻokoʻa loa. ʻO ka pinepine, hōʻike nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Hollywood i kēia mau nuances. I kekahi mau moʻomeheu, manaʻo ʻia ʻoe e lawe i nā lālā āpau o nā ʻohana o kāu wahine i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole ʻaina ahiahi. ʻO ka leʻaleʻa pilikino ʻana me kāu wahine hiki ke ʻike ʻia he ʻano hōʻino a me ke aloha ʻole. Eia kekahi, ʻoiai e hāʻawi ana i kahi mea i ka wahine, kūʻai paha ʻoe i nā makana na ka ʻohana e kūlike i nā kuʻuna haole. Me kekahi mau lāhui, he mea maʻamau ka lawe ʻana i nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana i kono ʻole ʻia i kahi pāʻina. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pālua o ka helu o nā malihini i kono ʻia inā haʻalele kāu wahine mai kekahi lāhui like ʻole.
ʻOkoʻa nā hana maʻamau e like me kēlā me kēia lāhui. Paipai kekahi mau moʻomeheu i ka hōʻiliʻili a me ka frugality ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o ke akahai a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e komo i nā splurges makemake ʻole e hōʻike i ka waiwai. He mea nui kēia iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā ʻano hoʻolilo o ka moʻomeheu āu e makemake ai e male. ʻOe, e pau paha ʻoe i ka noho ʻana i kahi ola i haʻalele ʻole ʻia i nā mea āu i lawe ai i kahi manawa. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, malia paha e holo ʻoe i loko o nā doldrums kālā inā he mea hōʻemi keu kāu kāne, ma muli o nā koi moʻomeheu.
ʻIke leʻaleʻa
Hiki i ka male ʻana i kahi haole ke lilo i ʻike leʻaleʻa loa, ke hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe ke pale i nā hakakā kū kānāwai i kau ʻia e nā kānāwai o nā ʻāina like ʻole a hele i kēlā mile hou e aʻo ai i nā ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu. Miliona o ka poʻe a puni ka honua i mare i nā haole mai nā moʻomeheu like ʻole a ke alakaʻi nei i nā ola hauʻoli loa. No laila, ke kamaʻāina nei iā ʻoe iho me nā wahine o ka male ʻana i kahi moʻomeheu ʻē aʻe a me nā kū kānāwai i pili e hiki ai ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo.
Panina hopena
Hoʻopilikia kekahi poʻe ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa i ka xenophobia. Mālama lākou i nā haole i ka ʻohana a me nā kaiāulu. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana iki e kāhea i kēlā mau poʻe i hele i kekahi manawa a hiki i ka hoʻokau ʻana i kahi slur lāhui. ʻAʻohe kumu o ka hoʻopaʻi no ka mea e hoʻonui wale ia i ka inaina prevalent prevalent.
Inā ʻoe e male i kahi haole, e aʻo e lawe i nā ʻōlelo i ke kūlia. E hōʻalo paha kekahi poʻe i kāu ʻoihana a ʻaʻole e kono i kāu wahine a i ʻole iā ʻoe no kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole kēia he kumu e hoʻonāukiuki ai. ʻO ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kēia poʻe xenophobic ka pane ʻoi loa.
Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻoe e kamaʻāina i kāu wahine ʻē e pili ana i ka hiki ke loaʻa nā hanana like.