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- ʻO ka huaʻōlelo narcissist mai kahi moʻolelo Helene kahiko
- ʻAʻole lākou e kū i ke kamaʻilio ʻana no lākou iho
- Malulu lākou
- Manaʻo lākou he kuleana i nā mea āpau a puni lākou
- ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kūpaʻa i nā hōʻole
- ʻOi aku ka haʻahaʻa o nā poʻe āpau a puni lākou
- Maikaʻi ka narcissism maʻamau
He mau hoa pili aloha kā mākou āpau i kaena mau e pili ana iā lākou iho a me nā hana he nui a lākou i hana ai i loko o ko lākou ola, akā he aha ka mea e hele a kahi liʻiliʻi loa me nā kaena?
Aia he ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻano maʻamau o narcissism a me ka loaʻa ʻana i kahi maʻi pilikino narcissistic.
Hōʻike ka Mayo Clinic i ka maʻi pilikino narcissistic (NDP) ma ke ʻano he ʻano noʻonoʻo kahi i ulu ai ka manaʻo o kānaka i ko lākou mea nui, kahi pono nui no ka nānā nui ʻana a me ka mahalo, nā pilina pilikia, a me ka minamina ʻole i kekahi. "
Kuhi ʻia ka Manual Diagnostic and Statistics of Mental Disorder aia ma waena o 0.5 a me 1 pākēneka o ka heluna lehulehu o ka honua e ʻeha nei i ka maʻi pilikino narcissistic, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kānaka ʻehaʻeha he kāne.
ʻO ka huaʻōlelo narcissist mai kahi moʻolelo Helene kahiko
I loko o ia mea, ua hoʻopaʻi ʻia kahi wahine ʻāpana holoholona Laceton e lawe ana i ka inoa ʻo Narcissus e ke akua wahine ʻo Nemesis no kāna hana hoʻowahāwahā.
Iā Narcissus i loko o ka ululāʻau, ʻike ʻia kahi nani o ke kuahiwi e kapa ʻia ʻo Echo i kona nani a hoʻokokoke iā ia, akā ua kipaku koke ʻo ia iā ia mai ona aku. Kaumaha, puʻuwai ka namph, a koe wale kahi echo i koe.
I ka wā i ʻike ai ke akua wahine ʻo Nemesis i kēia, ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia e lure iā Narcissus i kahi loko iʻa i ka wā e ʻimi holoholona ana i kekahi lā. Ua aloha ʻo ia i kona ʻano ponoʻī i ka loko iʻa a lilo i pua keʻokeʻo.
He hana paʻakikī ka hana ʻana me nā narcissists, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻike i kahi ma mua o ka hihia nui ʻana i kahi pilina me lākou.
I nā mahele mua o kou pili, e ʻoluʻolu a aloha paha kā lākou ʻano, akā ʻaʻole hele mai ia me ka hopu ʻole.
ʻOiai he mau ala e kū ai me lākou a me nā hoʻolālā e kōkua iā lākou me ʻoe, e kamaʻilio wale ana mākou e pili ana i nā pilikia e kū nei āu e kū nei ke hana ʻoe me kahi kanaka e loaʻa nei i ka narcissism.
ʻAʻole lākou e kū i ke kamaʻilio ʻana no lākou iho
ʻO ke kumuhana wale nō i ka papa e pili ana i ka narcissists ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī.
Inā ʻoe e launa me kahi mea narcissist, e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻōki i kā lākou kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana iā lākou iho, e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o lākou, ka maikaʻi o kā lākou lole, ka mea a lākou e ʻai ai no ka ʻaina awakea etc.
Hoʻomaʻo pinepine lākou e hoʻomake i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ʻōlelo e pili ana iā lākou iho i kahi ʻano nui a hoʻonui ʻia hoʻi e hoʻokahuli i ka mea ʻē aʻe.
Malulu lākou
Hōʻike ka hapa nui o nā narcissists ma ke ʻano he hoihoi a hoʻowalewale i nā hoa, keu hoʻi ke hoʻopili ʻoe me lākou a hoʻāʻo e lanakila iā ʻoe.
Ma muli o ko lākou maʻi, hoʻohana lākou i ka aloha a me nā aloha e kiʻi i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. He mau mea hana wale nō kēia na lākou e hoʻonui i ka nānā a hoʻohana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no kā lākou pono ponoʻī.
Manaʻo lākou he kuleana i nā mea āpau a puni lākou
Inā pili ʻoe i kahi narcissist, ʻike ʻoe i ka puni honua a puni lākou.
Manaʻo mau nā Narcissists i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e mālama iā lākou i kahi kekelē ma mua o kā lākou. E hoʻāʻo e hoʻolohe i ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana o kāu hoa aloha i ka poʻe kali ma ka hale ʻaina ʻo ʻoe a ʻo ka bartender paha. Inā ʻoe e ʻike iā lākou e hana nei e like me nā mōʻī o ka honua me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻomākaukau e ʻike i kēlā manaʻo iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kūpaʻa i nā hōʻole
ʻAʻole hiki i nā poʻe e ʻehaʻeha nei i ke ʻano pilikino narcissistic kū ʻole ke hōʻole ʻia a hana maikaʻi ʻole ke kū kēia iā lākou.
Inā he narcissist kāu hoa, ua ʻike paha ʻoe i ka wā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi iā lākou i kā lākou makemake e hāʻawi lākou iā ʻoe i ka hana hāmau, helu i ko lākou mamao naʻau mai iā ʻoe, a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa iā ʻoe.
ʻOi aku ka haʻahaʻa o nā poʻe āpau a puni lākou
ʻO kahi ʻano maʻamau o nā narcissists pathological ko lākou pono mau e hoʻokau i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻonui i ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma luna o lākou.
I ka wā e launa pū ai me nā mea narcissists, makemake paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka mea ʻē aʻe i ke koikoi aloha a lākou e hoʻowalewale aku ai iā ʻoe i ka manawa mua āu e hui ai, hana paha lākou i nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka pono ʻole e pili ana i kou ʻohana, kou nohona, kou lole a pēlā aku. .
Maikaʻi ka narcissism maʻamau
ʻAʻohe mea hewa i ka kaʻana like ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kā mākou hana a me nā hoʻokō i ke ʻano olakino a pilikino. Pono ka ʻuhane kanaka i ka mahalo a me ka mālama no ka mea kōkua ia iā mākou e hana i kēlā me kēia lā a e hoʻoikaika no nā kiʻekiʻe a me nā hoʻokō hou. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ke ʻeha nei kāu hoa i ka narcissism pathological, e hoʻāʻo e kamaʻilio me lākou a e kōkua iā lākou i ka ʻoihana.