Anter
- ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi ka mea a lākou e koi ai i nā manawa āpau
- ʻO ka nui o ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho
- ʻO kahi ʻano o ke kiʻekiʻe
- Hoʻonui lākou i kā lākou mau mea i loaʻa
- Kau i ka nani a me ka mana
- Maʻalea ma ke kūlohelohe
- Nā hana lili
- ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻae i nā loiloi
ʻO Narcissism kahi huaʻōlelo Helene e pili ana i ka mahalo pilikino iā ia iho a me ke ʻano o ke kino. He kūlana ia o ke aloha ponoʻī.
Eia hou, he kanaka kūʻokoʻa kekahi kanaka narcissist; ʻaʻole pono lākou e nani e manaʻoʻiʻo lākou. Akā, ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo lākou iā lākou iho he nani a ʻoi aku lākou ma mua o haʻi. E paʻakikī ka hana ʻana me ka narcissist inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kēia mau mea iā lākou. ʻOiai hiki ke maʻalahi ʻia ma mua o ka hana ʻana, akā naʻe, he mea ia e pono e hana.
Nā ʻano pilikino o ka narcissist
Ke hiki i ke aloha iā ʻoe iho i kahi pae kiʻekiʻe loa, a laila hoʻololi ke narcissism i kahi maʻi pilikino. Hana ʻē kahi kanaka e ʻeha nei i kēia maʻi, a ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia ke ʻano a me ke ʻano o kēlā kanaka he maʻamau. ʻO kekahi mau ʻano o ia poʻe e ala i ka lawena, inā ʻike ʻia, hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe i ka hana pū ʻana me ka narcissist.
Eia kekahi mau ʻano hana e hōʻike ʻia e kahi kanaka narcissistic e kūkākūkā ʻia ma lalo nei. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e lawelawe ai i kahi narcissist, heluhelu ma:
ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi ka mea a lākou e koi ai i nā manawa āpau
Pau ʻole ko lākou pōloli i ka hoʻoleʻa. A ʻo ka mea nui, no lākou wale kēia hoʻomaikaʻi, a makemake lākou ʻaʻole e manaʻo kekahi iā lākou like.
Me he mea lā, inā ʻaʻole lākou e lohe i ka mahalo o ka puʻuwai hoʻokahi a laila huhū a huhū lākou.
I ka manawa like, ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi e hiki i ka mahalo nui ʻana ke alakaʻi i ka narcissism i nā keiki.
ʻO ka nui o ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho
ʻAʻole maopopo iā lākou ka naʻau o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a loaʻa iā lākou kekahi waiwai. ʻAʻole manaʻo nā Narcissist no haʻi; makemake lākou e mālama ʻia lākou ma mua o kekahi.
ʻO kahi ʻano o ke kiʻekiʻe
Nānā ʻole inā ua hoʻokō lākou i kekahi mea a i ʻole ʻaʻole loaʻa iā lākou kahi ʻano ʻoi loa e hoʻopuni mau iā lākou.
Makemake lākou e ʻike ʻia lākou ma ke ʻano he kūlana koʻikoʻi ma mua o ke koena a puni.
Hoʻonui lākou i kā lākou mau mea i loaʻa
Eia kekahi, inā he kālena kā lākou no kekahi mea i ʻae iā lākou e hoʻokō i kā lākou mea i makemake ai; no laila hoʻonui pinepine ʻia kēia mau mea i hoʻokō ʻia e nā narcissists.
Kau i ka nani a me ka mana
ʻO ka pīhoihoi me nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka nani, ka mana, ka ʻōlinolino, ka hoa ola maikaʻi kekahi ʻano nui o ia poʻe. He paʻakikī paha ke nānā aku i kekahi manawa no ka mea he nui ka poʻe i puni i kēia mau mea akā ʻike ka poʻe i ʻike i ka hana ʻana me ka narcissist aia kā lākou preoccupation ma kahi pae ʻokoʻa loa.
Maʻalea ma ke kūlohelohe
Hoʻopili lākou i nā mea a noʻonoʻo i nā ʻano maʻalea e loaʻa ai ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. Eia kekahi, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana i ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, mahalo a ʻano ʻoluʻolu e ʻae ʻia kā lākou makemake. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua mālama ʻia kahi noiʻi e ke Kulanui o Alabama i hiki i kēlā poʻe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻolālā i ka lili i kā lākou mau hoa.
Nā hana lili
Lili mau lākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a noʻonoʻo pū kekahi e lili kekahi iā lākou no ka mea he mea maikaʻi ʻole lākou i ka nani me ka lolo. He mea paʻakikī kēia hana ʻana me kahi mea narcissist mai ko lākou manaʻo he hele wale ka poʻe e kiʻi iā lākou ke kuhikuhi lākou i nā ʻano narcissistic.
ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻae i nā loiloi
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ua pane lākou i kekahi ʻano hoʻopiʻi e kūʻē iā lākou me ka haʻaheo loa (e nānā i kēia noi hoihoi e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka pili o ka hoʻohewa me ka narcissism).
Ua ʻike anei ʻoe aia kekahi maʻi ʻē aʻe e hoʻohālike i ka narcissism a me ka maʻi pilikino borderline. E nānā i kēia wikiō e ʻike ai i nā like a me nā ʻokoʻa:
Pehea e hana ai me kahi narcissist
He paʻakikī loa e hana pū me kahi narcissist ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae i ka mea a lākou e hele nei, kahi ʻano pilikino. Eia kekahi, ke noi ʻia lākou e kipa i kahi kauka, hana paha lākou iā ia me ka huhū no ka mea hōʻeha ka prospect i ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī. ʻO ka hopena paha, i kekahi manawa, i ka hoʻomāinoino narcissistic i hiki ke lawe i ka uku ma luna o kahi hoa a i ʻole kahi mea kokoke.
A laila he aha e hana ai? Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai iā lākou ke hōʻike nei lākou i nā ʻano ʻano narcissistic?
ʻAʻole paʻakikī. Eia aʻe kekahi mau mea huna e kōkua iā mākou e hana me kahi narcissist.
E mahalo
Makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e hana ai me kahi kāne narcissist, makua kāne, makuahine, wahine, hoa aloha a i ʻole hoahānau? E hoʻomaka me ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me lākou me ka hoʻohanohano ma kahi o ka hana huhū ʻana i kā lākou hana. E hoʻolohe i kā lākou manaʻo a manaʻo a laila ʻike lohi i kahi hopena iā ia.
Mai hakakā a koi aku iā lākou e hana i kekahi mea kūʻē i ko lākou noʻonoʻo.
Nīnau iā lākou
Hoʻomaopopo mau ka poʻe Narcissist i ko lākou mau hiʻohiʻona, ko lākou ʻano, a me ko lākou ʻano holoʻokoʻa, akā ʻano maka ʻole paha lākou i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. No laila he mea nui iā mākou e nīnau iā lākou i nā nīnau e like me, 'Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana iā ʻoe?', makemake ʻoe e nānā kīnā ʻole i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe? '
ʻO nā nīnau e noʻonoʻo lākou i kā lākou ʻano. Ma muli o ko lākou makemake mau e nānā maikaʻi, e hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻololi iā lākou, akā me ka mālie.
ʻO kēia kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa e kamaʻilio pū ai me ka narcissist.
Koho i kahi 'NO' i ka nui o kā lākou nīnau
I kēlā me kēia manawa e ʻae ʻia ka poʻe no ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai, lilo lākou i mea hao hou aʻe e lilo ai ka noho ʻana me kahi narcissist i hana nui i kekahi manawa. Manaʻo lākou he pololei wale nō lākou a kūʻē kekahi iā lākou. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā ʻōlelo mai kāu hoaaloha, ka mea narcissist, 'ʻAʻole anei ʻoe e noʻonoʻo he ʻoi aku koʻu akamai ma mua o kēlā hoa o kā mākou?'
ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e pane aku ai i kahi narcissist ʻo ia ka maikaʻi ʻole o kāu pane. Akā i ka hoʻohui ʻana i ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole, pono ʻoe e wehewehe i ke kumu a ke hana pū nei me kahi ʻano narcissistic. E hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i kāu hoaaloha e helu i nā ʻano maikaʻi o ka poʻe a puni iā lākou.
E hoʻomohala i ke aloha no haʻi
ʻOiai e hana pū ana me kahi narcissist, pono e aʻo ʻia iā lākou he maikaʻi ke lilo i kanaka maʻamau. Pono ka empathy no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina me lākou.
Ke maikaʻi nā pilina me kāu mau hoapili, hoaaloha a i ʻole hoahānau, ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i kā lākou hui. ʻAe kēia iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo.
Ma waho o kēia, he mea nui ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe; pono i kahi narcissist e aʻo e hele wāwae i nā kāmaʻa o haʻi.
ʻAʻohe mea hilahila i ke kipa ʻana i kahi psychologist
ʻO ka pane i ka mea a mākou e ʻike ai mai nā maka o haʻi. Hiki iā mākou ke lilo i ka manaʻo nui a me ka pilikino ponoʻī a hōʻole mākou i ke alo o ka poʻe e hoʻopuni ana iā mākou. No laila, inā ʻoe e kuhi i kāu mau ʻano narcissistic, a laila e kipa aku i kahi psychologist i loaʻa ka ʻike kūpono i ka hana ʻana me nā ʻano pilikino narcissistic.E kūkākūkā i kāu mau pilikia a hoʻolei iā lākou.
Eia kekahi, inā e hōʻike ana kahi mea āu e ʻike nei i kēia mau hōʻailona a laila ma nā ʻano āpau, e ʻōlelo iā lākou e kiʻi i ke kōkua akā no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pane kūpono, e hoʻomanaʻo mau i ke ʻano hanohano a me ka pale ʻole i ke kūʻē ʻana i kahi narcissist.