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- 1. ʻAʻohe mea pilikino
- 2. E ʻoluʻolu a ʻae iā ia
- 3. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi e like me ʻoe
- 4. Mai ʻaihue
- 5. Mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia i nā kāne ʻē aʻe
- 6. Nānā i ke kūlana holoʻokoʻa
- 7. ʻAʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō
- 8. Hoʻolālā i kahi manawa kaumaha, akā ʻaʻole nui loa
- 9. Hoʻokomo iā ʻoe iho i kahi mea hana
'Aʻole'. 'ʻAʻole wau aloha iā ʻoe'. 'ʻAʻole au i aloha aku iā ʻoe.'
He mau ʻōlelo ʻehaʻī kēia paʻakikī e lohe ai ke haʻi ʻia kahi mea āu i aloha nui ai. ʻO ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻana i ke aloha hiki ke ʻeha like me ka ʻeha ʻana o ke kino.
I kekahi mau hihia, inā ʻaʻole kūleʻa ka poʻe i ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻia, e hele i ke kaumaha a i ʻole loaʻa i ka suicidal.
ʻAʻole loa nā hoʻopiʻi i kou ola.
Pono e noʻonoʻo kekahi i kēia wale nō ka hopena o kahi mokuna i ko lākou ola a pono e hoʻomaka i ka nānā ʻana i ka mokuna aʻe. ʻO ka papa inoa ma lalo iho nei kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo wikiwiki a maikaʻi hoʻi i ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻia mai kahi kaikamahine a pehea e ala aʻe ai, kiʻekiʻe a ikaika hoʻi.
1. ʻAʻohe mea pilikino
Ke hiki mai i ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻia mai kekahi, hoʻokahi mea a kēlā me kēia, me ka nānā ʻole i ka wahine, e hoʻomaopopo ai ʻaʻole e lawe ʻia nā hōʻole.
ʻAʻohe o lākou papa huna pilikino e kūʻē iā ʻoe a hōʻole ʻole iā ʻoe ma lalo o kekahi kipi.
ʻO kaʻae a hōʻole paha i kahi koho a kekahi kanaka e hana ai.
No laila, mai lawe i kekahi mea pilikino a mai hōʻihi e hoʻopaʻi no ka mea ua hōʻole ʻia ʻoe.
2. E ʻoluʻolu a ʻae iā ia
Aia kekahi mau manawa ke lawe nā kāne i nā hōʻole i kā lākou ego a hoʻoholo e hōʻino i ka inoa o ke kaikamahine. ʻAʻole ia ke ʻano kūpono. Ua hōʻole ke kaikamahine iā ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole ona manaʻo e like me kāu e hana ai nona. Inā aloha maoli ʻoe iā ia, a laila e mahalo ʻoe i kāna hoʻoholo, ʻae iā ia me ka puʻuwai ikaika a neʻe i waho o ke kūlana. ʻAʻole loa ka koho hoʻopaʻi.
3. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi e like me ʻoe
ʻAʻohe ou ʻona aloha i hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia e hāʻule ai kekahi i ke aloha me ʻoe. He kūʻokoʻa ko kēlā me kēia ke ʻae a hōʻole paha i kekahi a i ʻole kekahi mea.
No laila, inā ua hōʻole ke kaikamahine iā ʻoe, e ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka huakaʻi ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻia, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nalo ka manaʻolana a kaumaha. Mai hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo he hewa kekahi iā ʻoe. ʻAe wale i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kekahi me ke aloha iā ʻoe.
4. Mai ʻaihue
He paʻakikī maoli ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole ʻia i ke aloha. ʻOiai ua pili pū ʻoe me ia a ua lilo kekahi manawa nui me ia, he mea paʻakikī paha iā ʻoe ke kanu i nā mea i hala a hana maʻamau.
Eia naʻe, mai ʻae e hoʻohuli iā ʻoe i stalker. He ola kona a hoʻokuʻu iā ia e ola i kona ola. Ke holo nei ma hope ona, e ukali ana iā ia i kēlā me kēia neʻe a ke nānā nui nei iā ia e waiho wale iā ʻoe i kāna mau puke maikaʻi ʻole. ʻAe, a neʻe i mua.
5. Mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia i nā kāne ʻē aʻe
Ke hōʻole aku kahi kaikamahine iā ʻoe, ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe e lawelawe ikaika i ka hōʻole.
Ma ka pānaʻi ʻana i ka hōʻole me ka huhū e hōʻike ana ʻoe i kou nāwaliwali. ʻOiai e hana ana me ka hōʻole ʻia, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia iā ia a e hōʻike i ka mahalo loa i kāna hoʻoholo. Me kou huhū a huhū paha e hoʻoweliweli ʻoe iā ia a ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e ikaika a hilinaʻi hoʻi me nā kāne ʻē aʻe i ka wā e hiki mai ana, no laila makaʻu ʻo ia ʻaʻole lākou e mālama pono i ka hōʻole.
No laila, ma kahi o ka hoʻoweliweli iā ia i ke koena o kona ola, e hōʻoluʻolu a hilinaʻi hoʻi iā ia e pili ana i ka hoʻoholo.
6. Nānā i ke kūlana holoʻokoʻa
Ke hiki mai i ka hana ʻana me ka hōʻole i ka pili aloha ʻana, pono ʻoe e nānā i ke kūlana holoʻokoʻa i mea e ʻike ai ʻoe i kahi āu i hāpai ai i ka hōʻailona hewa.
I ka hapanui o nā hihia, kuhi hewa nā kāne i nā hōʻailona a me nā hōʻailona a hoʻomaka i ka manaʻoʻiʻo ua makemake ke kaikamahine iā lākou. ʻO kēia, i ka hopena, alakaʻi i kahi huikau nui aʻe no laila ka hōʻole ʻana. No laila, e noho a kālailai i ke ʻano no laila mai kuhi hewa hou ʻoe.
7. ʻAʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō
ʻO nā kuhi he ʻāpana o ke ola a hele ka poʻe āpau i kēia ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa. He naʻaupō ka noho a moe moe e pili ana i ka hōʻole ʻia a lawe iā ia iho.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hoʻokaʻawale kekahi iā lākou iho a paʻa i ka hōʻole ʻana i kahi nui a lākou e hele ai i ke kaumaha. ʻAʻole kēia ka mea kūpono e hana ai. No laila, huki pū ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a hoʻomaka hou. E aʻo mai nā ʻike i hala a neʻe i mua.
8. Hoʻolālā i kahi manawa kaumaha, akā ʻaʻole nui loa
ʻO ke kanikau kekahi ala ʻē aʻe e hana ai me ka hōʻole ʻia. Noho ʻokoʻa, kālailai, uē, hoʻokau i kēlā mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo mai kou manaʻo, akā mai paʻa iā ia no ka lōʻihi. Kōkua ke kūmākena iā ʻoe e lanakila ma ke ʻano maʻalahi a me ka wikiwiki. E ʻōlelo i kāu hoaaloha inā haʻahaʻa loa ʻoe. Maliʻa paha, kōkua ke kamaʻilio ʻana iā ʻoe e lanakila i ka hōʻole.
9. Hoʻokomo iā ʻoe iho i kahi mea hana
ʻOiai ʻoe e hana nui ma hope o kahi mea e manaʻoʻiʻo nei iā ʻoe ia, ua hala paha ʻoe i nā mea he nui. No laila, ma kahi o ke komo i loko o nā manaʻo hōʻole, e hoʻomaka i ka nānā ʻana i kahi mea hana.
E launa me nā hoaaloha, e komo i kekahi hana leʻaleʻa, e aʻo i kahi mea hou a i ʻole lilo i kahi manawa me ʻoe iho. E hua kēia mau hana ke pili i ka pale ʻana.