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- He aha ka pilina o ka naʻau i ka pilina?
- He aha ke ʻano o ka pili aloha naʻau?
- 1. Aloha
- 2. Hilinaʻi
- 3. mahalo
- 4. Passion
- Hiki i kahi pilina a male paha ke ola me ka pili ʻole o ka naʻau?
- Panina hopena
Makemake mākou āpau i ka pilina.
ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo inā ʻoe he mea hoʻokomo a i ʻole kahi extrovert, ʻōpio a ʻelemakule paha, male male a male ʻole ʻoe. makemake mākou āpau i ka manaʻo kokoke i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.
He nui ka poʻe quarantine intimacy i loko o ko lākou mau noʻonoʻo e like me ka maemae o ke kino. Inā ʻoe e lohe i kekahi e ʻōlelo ana ua pili lāua me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, lawe paha kou manaʻo iā ʻoe i loko o kā lākou lumi moe. He hopena kūlohelohe ia, akā ʻaʻole pololei ia.
Hiki ke kino a me ka naʻau i ka pilina. He mea nui ʻaʻole mākou e ʻae wale i ka ʻokoʻa akā e hoʻomaopopo i ka pili aloha i ke kumu kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūkulu i ke aloha pilikino.
He aha ka pilina o ka naʻau i ka pilina?
I mea e kōkua ai i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka pilina o ka naʻau, ʻoi aku paha ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ko mākou ʻike maʻamau i ka pili kino ma ke ʻano he pad launching. Ke pili pili kino ʻelua mau mea, honi lākou, paʻa, a hoʻopā i kahi kokoke. Pili lākou, inā e aloha ana a cuddling paha ma luna o ka moe.
ʻO ka pili aloha aloha ka mea like akā me ka ʻole o ke kino kino. ʻO ka pili loa ia e pili ana i ke aloha a me ka ʻike. Aia kahi pilina ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua ma muli o ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana kekahi i kekahi.
A, makemake nui mākou a pau i ka pili o ka naʻau, no ka pilina a me nā pilina e hele pū.
I loko o kahi ʻatikala mai ka Focus on the Family website, Shana Schutte e pili ana i ka pili aloha ma ke pāʻani ʻana ma ke ʻano he huaʻōlelo "in-to-me-see." Ke hiki i kekahi ke ʻike iā ʻoe a aloha iā ʻoe no kēlā kanaka e noho hohonu ana i loko, a ʻo kēia ka wehewehe pilikino pili aloha.
He aha ke ʻano o ka pili aloha naʻau?
Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei pehea e pili ai i ka naʻau, nui nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lawe i kou naʻau i kāu hoa. Akā, ʻaʻole like ka manaʻo o ka pili aloha naʻau no nā mea āpau.
Hiki ke hoʻohālikelike i ka wehewehe o ka pilina pilikino i kēlā me kēia kanaka mai ka mea hiki i ke kanaka ke loaʻa i ka laulā o nā manaʻo. E nānā i nā naʻau e pili pinepine ʻia me nā pilina a me ka male a nānā iā lākou ma o nā aniani o ka pili aloha.
1. Aloha
Ke hōʻike ʻia ke aloha ma ke ʻano o ka pilina o ka naʻau, ʻo nā kānaka ʻelua e pili ana he poʻo poʻo kekahi i kekahi. Ke hiki ʻoe i ko lākou alo, hiki iā ʻoe ke haha i ko lākou pili a me ko lākou aloha nui i kekahi i kekahi.
2. Hilinaʻi
Ke hōʻike ʻia ka hilinaʻi i ka pilina pili i ka naʻau, ʻike ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi o kekahi i kekahi me ko lākou ola. ʻAʻohe kānalua i kā lākou hilinaʻi. Kūkulu ʻia ia ma kahi o ka manawa a hiki i ke kiko o nā kūlana kūpono ʻole.
ʻIke lākou hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohuli i ka maka i ka hana a kā lākou hoa, a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻopunipuni.
3. mahalo
ʻO ka hoʻohanohano ke ʻano o ka pilina pili i ka naʻau i makemake nui ʻia e nā kāne.
Ke hōʻike ʻia ka mahalo i kahi pilina pili i ka naʻau, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i ka paʻa ʻana o kekahi i kekahi me ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe.
He mea hanohano no kēlā me kēia pāʻina ke aloha ʻia e kekahi, a hōʻike lākou i kēlā hanohano i nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai.
E hana lākou i kekahi mea a me nā mea āpau no kā lākou wahine no ka mea mahalo nui lākou iā lākou.
4. Passion
ʻO Passion ka wahie no nā kāne a me nā kāne pili aloha. E noʻonoʻo i kēia naʻau ma ke ʻano he alahaka ma waena o ka pilina a me ka pili kino. ʻO nā kāne i makemake nui i ke aloha e ʻike kekahi i kekahi i kā lākou ʻano maka a aloha nui iā lākou.
Hiki i kahi pilina a male paha ke ola me ka pili ʻole o ka naʻau?
I ka pōkole, ʻaʻole. Ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole i loko o ia ke ʻano aloha nui. Hiki i nā kānaka ke ʻelemakule a noho c noho me ka pili ʻole o ka naʻau, akā ʻaʻole ia he male me ka pilina hohonu a me ke kuko.
Ua lohe paha ʻoe i kāu pakanā, a i ʻole he hoaaloha paha, e wehewehe i ka hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o kā lākou pili? ʻO kēlā disconnect kahi hemahema o ka pilina pili i ka naʻau. ʻO ka manaʻo ua hele lōʻihi ka wahine me ka hana ʻole ʻana e noho kokoke a hana ʻole ʻole e hana i kēlā hana ma mua.
E hoʻi i ka ʻōlelo a Schutte e pili ana i ka pilina ma o ka maka aniani o “i-i-aʻu-ʻike, " pono ia e hoʻomaopopo he ʻelua mau ʻaoʻao e lilo i ʻano pili i ka naʻau. Hiki i kahi kāne ke ninini i ke aloha, ka mahalo, a me ke kuko i kāna wahine, akā inā ʻaʻole wehe ʻo ia iā ia, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokokoke loa e like me kona makemake.
E ʻae ʻo ia i kāna hoa e nānā iā ia, a e wehe ʻo ia i kāna kāne a ʻae iā ia e ʻike i nā mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana iā ia. Me ka wehe ʻole o kēlā puka e ʻae i kāna hoa e nānā i loko, lilo ia i alanui hoʻokahi ala ʻo ia wale nō ke hele nei i lalo.
He mea nānā wale ʻo ia i kāna hana ma waena o ka pilina.
Hiki i kahi wahine ke hōʻike i kēlā me kēia lā me ke aloha, mahalo, mahalo, a hilinaʻi hoʻi i kāna kāne, akā ʻo ia kekahi, pono e hāmama i ka loaʻa ʻana. Noho paʻa nā kāne. ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae i ka nui o ka poʻe i loko, no laila ʻo lākou ka pāʻina pinepine i komo i ke ala o ka pilina maoli.
Inā wehe ke kāne iā ia iho, a laila hiki i kāna wahine ke ʻike maoli i kona ʻano. ʻO ka nani, nā kīnā ʻole, nā ʻāpana ʻaʻole piha. Nā mea āpau!
Akā lawe ia iā ia i nāwaliwali a hāmama i kēlā pilina pili.
E nānā i kēia wikiō:
Panina hopena
Makemake nui mākou a pau i ka pilina, akā makaʻu kekahi o mākou i ka hana i koi ʻia. Lawe ka palupalu i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu i ke kanaka āu e lilo nei i pili.
ʻAʻole pili ka pilina o ka naʻau no ka makemake ikaika a paʻakikī paha. Hiki wale i ka poʻe makemake e palupalu i ko lākou kūwaho paʻakikī, ʻae i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e nānā i loko, a aloha iā lākou no lākou. Me ka ʻole o kēia hana mua o ka wiwo ʻole, ʻaʻole e piʻi ka pae o ka pilina pilikino i kona hiki maoli.
No laila, inā ʻoluʻolu ʻoe a me kāu wahine e pili ana a makemake e pili i ka naʻau, e lawe i kahi kekona a e nānā i loko.
Hāmama ʻoe? Ke hana nei ʻoe i ka palupalu? Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe, a laila hoʻomaka ma laila. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokokoke i kāu hoa me ka mālama ʻana iā lākou i kahi mamao palekana.