Anter
- 1. E hoʻonui ʻo ia i ka hana
- 2. E lohe pinepine ʻoe iā ia
- 3. Hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i nā lā kahiko maikaʻi
- 4. E kamaʻilio ʻo ia e pili ana iā ʻoe ma nā wahi āpau
- 5. Nāna nō e ʻōlelo
Hiki i nā pilina ke paʻakikī loa.
I nā manawa he nui, paʻakikī e ʻike i ka noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ka manaʻo o kāu hoa. ʻOi aku inā he pili hou a pilina paha. ʻO ke kumu, ke ʻike nei ʻoe iā lākou a ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i nā manaʻo ʻaʻole kōkua.
ʻAe, he mea hoʻomakeʻaka wale kēlā mea hope loa. E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻāʻo e komo i loko o ka manaʻo o kāu hoa.
Eia nō naʻe, hoʻi i ke kumuhana. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻonāukiuki loa inā ʻaʻohe ou manaʻo i ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana iā ʻoe. Pākuʻi paha lākou i kou mau manaʻo? A i ʻole ke hoʻokau nei i kahi hōʻike? Hilahila paha lākou? Aia paha he miliona ʻano like ʻole! Nā nīnau e like me, 'haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu? neʻe a puni kou poʻo inā ʻoe e hana ma ka hana, hoʻomaha ma ka home a i ʻole ke kau ʻana me kāu mau hoaaloha.
ʻĀ, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole haʻalele ka poʻe i nā kuhi kuhi i hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe. ʻO nā kāne ʻē aʻe. He mea maikaʻi ʻole ia, akā aia kahi stigma pili kaiaulu e pili ana i nā kāne a me ka hōʻike o ka naʻau.No laila, waiho pinepine ʻia kā lākou mau hoa e noʻonoʻo i kā lākou iho.
No kēlā kumu, hōʻuluʻulu ka ʻatikala o kēia lā i kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole paha. E hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā, ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo no ka heluna kāne holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole ia i manaʻo e pena i nā kāne āpau me ka palaki like.
He hōʻiliʻili wale ia o nā hōʻailona e ʻike pinepine ʻia e pane i kāu nīnau mua, 'ua haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu?'
1. E hoʻonui ʻo ia i ka hana
Inā haʻalele kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻoikaika ʻo ia e hele mai e ʻike iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole pono ia he hōʻailona nui e like me nā mea āu e ʻike ai i nā puke a me nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.
ʻAʻole, hiki nō ia no nā manawa pōkole loa, akā e koi lākou i ka hui ʻana.
E poina pū lākou me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe e hele mai e ʻike iā ʻoe a kau pū paha me ʻoe. ʻAʻole pilikia ka wahi. ʻO ka nānā nui e noho wale ana me ʻoe.
I mea e pane ai i kāu nīnau, 'ua haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu?'
2. E lohe pinepine ʻoe iā ia
Keiki kāne kāne. E mākaukau no ka mea e loaʻa ana iā ʻoe ka nui o nā leka uila a me nā kelepona. E hoʻolohe ana ʻoe iā ia no nā kumu nui ʻole a pili ʻole hoʻi.
ʻLelo Aʻo - Hoʻokomo paha kēia i kahi hoʻāʻo loa o ke ahonui.
"Ua kāhea wale wau e ʻōlelo hi" kahi hiʻohiʻona o ka mea āu e lohe ai a me nā ʻōlelo ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole wale ia, akā e ʻike pinepine ʻoe iā lākou ma kāu pāpili kaiaulu.
Makemake, ʻōlelo, kaʻana like, e like ia me ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu peʻahi ponoʻī.
Pili kēia kuhi no nā ipo aloha. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi ana no ka haʻo ʻana o kaʻu ex iaʻu 'mau hōʻailona, a laila hiki i kēia ke kuhikuhi i kahi mea e hōʻike ai i kāu ex i loko ou.
3. Hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i nā lā kahiko maikaʻi
ʻO nā huakaʻi i ke ala hoʻomanaʻo e lilo i mea pinepine.
ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole hele lōʻihi ke ala hoʻomanaʻo. "Hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i hoʻokahi manawa", "Makemake wau hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēlā / hele hou i laila". Lohe pinepine paha ʻoe i kēia. E hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻomanaʻo a paʻa i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo koʻikoʻi. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā kiʻi kahiko a i ʻole nā leka a i ʻole nā hōʻike kino ʻē aʻe o kou manawa pū.
'Ua halaʻo ia iaʻu?' Inā paʻa mau kāu hoa i kēlā mau hoʻomanaʻo kahiko, a laila ua nalowale ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
4. E kamaʻilio ʻo ia e pili ana iā ʻoe ma nā wahi āpau
ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kēia lima mua, akā e kamaʻilio maoli ʻo ia e pili ana iā ʻoe i kāna mau hoaaloha a me ʻohana hoʻi. He mea hoʻonāukiuki paha ia no kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā manaʻo nui kēia makemake ʻo ia e noho pū ʻoe me ia ma laila. E noʻonoʻo ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia kūlana.
'Ua haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu?' ʻĀ! ʻIke ka pane - hana ʻo ia. A koho paha! Kāhea paha ʻo ia i hope a hāʻawi i ka ʻike iā ʻoe āpau.
5. Nāna nō e ʻōlelo
'Ua halaʻo ia iaʻu?', 'E haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu? E pilikia mau kēia mau nīnau iā ʻoe ma loko o kāu pili. Akā e noho paʻa inā ʻo kāu kāne i loko ou, ʻo ʻoe ka mua, ka lua a me ka mea hope i kona manaʻo ma o ka lā. ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia e ʻōlelo pinepine, akā e hoʻolohe nō ʻoe iā ia.
ʻAʻole ka mana hapalua, akā hoʻokahi me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Aia kekahi manawa e ʻike ai ʻoe ma o kāna mau hoaaloha no ka mea aia paha lākou e ʻike ma mua o kāu. Else, hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani mau, 'haʻo ʻo ia iaʻu i ka quiz me kāu hoa a ʻike ʻo ia' ua haʻo maoli ʻo ia iaʻu?
ʻO ka hopena?
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka nalo maoli ʻana i kekahi mea ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui ʻia me ka nānā ʻole i kāu kāne.
No laila, inā e nalo ʻo ia iā ʻoe, ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻike ʻoe ma hope a ma hope paha. ʻO kekahi mea nui ke kamaʻilio. Inā paha ʻoe e kamaʻilio kūpono, e haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma kahi o ka pale ʻana i kona mau manaʻo.
Ma hea e kōkua ai kēia mau hōʻailona āpau iā ʻoe e ʻike, 'ua haʻo anei ʻo ia iaʻu a ʻaʻole paha, ʻo ke ala maikaʻi e kamaʻilio ai.
ʻO ke kumu o ia ke kamaʻilio ʻoe e ʻike maʻalahi ʻoe i ka pane i kēia nīnau. Inā ʻo nā mea āpau āna e makemake ai e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻoe, a laila, aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe!