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- 1. Ke noi nei i nā nīnau
- 2. Hoʻouna i kahi leka
- 3. ʻO ka hope aʻe ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana
- 4. E kāohi i ka ʻike pili
E alo ia, ma hope o ʻeono mau mahina, ʻeono mau makahiki a i ʻole 25 mau makahiki e neʻe ka hapanui o nā kāne mai kahi pilina pili hoihoi i kahi o ka luhi. Kūpono ʻole. Hoka.
Eia nā kī kiʻekiʻe ʻehā e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻohui i kēlā mea ʻala a me ka pīhoihoi i loko o kou ola moekolohe i nalowale paha i mau mahina ma ka liʻiliʻi, a he mau makahiki i ka ʻoi loa.
1. Ke noi nei i nā nīnau
I ka manawa hea kāu i nīnau ai i kāu hoapili he aha kā lākou e makemake ai e pili ana i kāu ʻike pili? I ka manawa hea kou manawa i hoʻouna aku ai iā lākou i kahi leka a i ʻole kahi leka uila ʻoi aku, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ke kino, a nīnau iā lākou i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana ʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka pili aloha? E pili ana i ka moekolohe?
Mahalo iaʻu ke hana pū wau me nā kāne paupau loa i ko lākou ola wahine, ehia o lākou i hoʻōki i ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau nui loa aʻu i helu ai ma luna.
A no ke aha mai? ʻO ka helu ʻekahi, aia ka huhū. Hele nā huhū i ke ala o ka pilina i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kāne, ke noi wau iā lākou e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo pili loa, pani koke. ʻAʻole hilahila. ʻAʻole hewa ia. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e kamaʻilio i mua o kā lākou hoa pili e pili ana i ka pili aloha, a me nā mea a lākou e makemake ai no ka mea huhū loa lākou i nā mea a lākou i mālama ʻole ai.
No laila inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kēlā mau kānaka, inā ʻoe e hāʻule i ka mahele āu e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma muli o ka nui o nā huhū, pono ʻoe e hana pū me ke kākāʻōlelo, kuhina a i ʻole kaʻi ola e hoʻopau iā ʻoe. ʻo nā huhū ma mua. ʻAnuʻu ʻekahi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana i kēia? ʻAʻohe mea, a manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe mea e loli.
2. Hoʻouna i kahi leka
Ke kuhi nei ua hana mua ʻoe i ka hana a heʻuʻuku kāu inā loaʻa nā huhū, e hoʻi kāua i ka mea aʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma luna. E hoʻouna i kahi leka uila, a i ʻole leka uila i kāu hoa i kēia lā, ʻaʻole i ka lā ʻāpōpō, ʻaʻole i ka Lāpule, akā i kēia lā a nīnau iā lākou i nā mea e nalowale nei no lākou i ko lākou moekolohe ʻana me ʻoe.E nānā inā e makaʻu lākou i ka hāmama a palupalu a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi kī i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai e hoʻohauʻoli i kou ola pili.
Ma kāu iho, makemake wau e hoʻouna i kahi leka uila a i ʻole leka uila i kāu hoa e haʻi ana iā lākou i kāu mea e aloha ai e pili ana i kou ola pili. ʻO ke ala lākou e honi ai? Pehea lā lākou e hoʻopaʻa ai i kou lima? A i ʻole pehea lākou e pūliki ai iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i ka hana?
He mea nui ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana e like me kēia. Wehe kēia ʻano leka uila a leka uila paha i ka puka no ka ʻaoʻao aʻe o kēia hoʻohālikelike.
A laila ma hope o kāu haʻi ʻana iā lākou i kāu mea e leʻaleʻa ai e pili ana i kāu ʻike pili, e hoʻomaka lohi i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana me ke ʻano o kā lākou hana maikaʻi.
A kikoʻī. Mai haʻalele iā lākou e kānalua. Mai ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me "Makemake wau e pili loa me ʻoe", ʻaʻohe mea.
E loaʻa ʻoe i ka makaʻu e loaʻa kahi mea nui i ke ola. No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo iā lākou. "Makemake au e pili loa me ʻoe, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻi ʻana i ka manawa a mākou i hui mua ai a aloha ʻekolu manawa i kēlā me kēia pule." I kēia manawa ua hoʻouna ʻoe i kahi mea hiki iā lākou ke wahī i ko lākou mau poʻo a ke noho ʻoe i lalo e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka mea ʻala i kou ola pili.
3. ʻO ka hope aʻe ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana
Ma hope o kou kūʻai ʻana i nā leka uila a me ka leka, kahi ala palekana ia e hoʻomaka ai e hoʻohui i ka mea ʻala i kou ola pili, i kēia manawa pono mākou e noho i lalo a alo maoli i kekahi i kekahi e kūkākūkā i ke ala e pono ai ka pilina e komo i loko.
Hana mau ʻia kēia ma waho o ka lumi moe. ʻAʻole i ka wā o ka moekolohe, ʻaʻole ma hope wale o ka moekolohe no ka mea ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o mākou i kēlā manawa.
E haʻi iā lākou makemake ʻoe e hele wāwae e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou ola pili. A i ʻole e noho i ka lumi kuke me kahi kīʻaha kope a kamaʻilio maʻamau wale i kahi āu e makemake ai. Ma mua o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana, e noi iā lākou e wehe i ka noʻonoʻo, e ʻoluʻolu ʻaʻole e pani iā ʻoe, inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻaelike me kahi mea āu e ʻōlelo ai hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo maʻalahi ʻaʻole maikaʻi, ma kahi o ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa iā ʻoe a i ʻole pani paʻa loa i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i loaʻa iā ʻoe.
ʻIke wau me nā kāne he nui i kēia ʻāpana o ke kamaʻilio hiki ke hoʻonui ʻia e ka hana ʻana me kahi ʻoihana. I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi manawa e kōkua ai i kahi kāne ma Kaleponi ma luna o Skype e loaʻa ana nā pilikia pili loa. Ua luuluu lāua. Akā ua hoʻopiha lāua ʻelua i ka inaina. I ka manawa a mākou i hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai i nā huhū ma waho o ke ala, a loaʻa iā mākou ʻelua ma Skype no kā lākou kau, ua hāmama loa lākou i ka pane ʻana i nā nīnau aʻu i hāʻawi ai iā lākou. Ua lawe kekahi i kekahi o ka hilahila mai kekahi o lākou e lilo i alakaʻi i ke kamaʻilio.
4. E kāohi i ka ʻike pili
Ua haʻi mua ʻoe i kāu hoa e hele ana ʻoe e kaohi i ka ʻike pili āu e makemake ai e kaʻana like me lākou i kēia ahiahi? Ua hoʻouna paha ʻoe iā lākou i kahi leka e ʻōlelo ana "ke hoʻi ʻoe i ka hale i kēia pō, makemake wau iā ʻoe e pani i kou mau maka a hele maʻalahi i loko o ka lumi moe? E paʻa wau i kou lima no laila ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele i loko o nā paia, akā hauʻoli loa wau i ka mea aʻu i hoʻolālā ai nāu.
I loko o ka lumi moe ua hoʻonohonoho mua ʻoe i nā ihoiho, malia paha a me nā pale satin, a me nā mele palupalu e pāʻani ana ma hope.
I kēia manawa aia kekahi mau kāne e nānā i nā ʻanuʻu ʻehā i luna a ʻōlelo lākou no ke kula haʻahaʻa e pili ana i ka hoʻohui ʻana i ka mea ʻala i kā lākou pili. Akā ʻaʻohe hoʻokolokolo ma aneʻi. Inā mālie ka mea i luna, e hele hihiu i kāu ala ponoʻī.
Akā inā pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka i kahi, inā luhi ʻoe a ʻike pono ʻoe i kōkua e hana hou i kahi ola pili loa hoihoi, nā ʻehā ʻehā i luna e kiʻi iā ʻoe e hele.
Manaʻo wau ʻo ke kī e ʻike pono ʻoe i ke kōkua a noi no ia. Aia he mau kaukani aʻoaʻo a me nā mea lapaʻau e like me aʻu a puni ka honua i ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻopiʻi hou i ka pīhoihoi i loaʻa iā ʻoe i kou wā i hoʻomaka ai i ka pili aloha a i ʻole ka ʻike male. Mai kali. ʻO kēia ka lā e lālau i kāu hoa me ka lima a me ka puʻuwai ...