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- 1. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hana hou i nā mea liʻiliʻi
- 2. Ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kona helehelena
- 3. Hoʻonui i ka noi no ka pilikino
- 4. Hoʻolilo iki ʻoe i ka manawa
- 5. Lilo koke ʻo ia i ka manawa ma ka hana
- 6. He mau hoaaloha hou kāna
- 7. Paʻahana mau ʻo ia
- 8. ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i ka moekolohe
ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e lili, akā aia kekahi mea e hele nei ma hope o kou kua me kāu wahine a i ʻole ipo wahine?
Inā ʻōlelo kekahi mea i loko o kou ʻōpū e haʻalele ka pili o kāu pilina, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka maka o nā maka o ka wahine a me nā hōʻailona wahine hoʻopunipuni ʻē aʻe i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i kāu hana aʻe.
Ke holo pono ʻole nei kekahi mea i kāu pilina, i kekahi manawa ʻike wale ʻoe inā ʻaʻohe ou hōʻoiaʻiʻo paʻa. No laila, pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lawe aʻe i kāu ipo wahine me ka ʻole o ka lili wale? A i ʻole, pehea e ʻike ai inā e hoʻopunipuni ana kāu ipo iā ʻoe?
ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o nā hōʻailona hōʻino wahine ma mua o kou manaʻo. Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona kino maopopo e hoʻopunipuni ʻia ana e kāu ipo wahine. Akā, inā male ʻoe, a laila maʻalahi ka ʻike ʻana i kēlā mau hōʻailona kino maʻalea a kāu wahine e hoʻopunipuni nei.
ʻO nā mea āu e pono ai ke makaʻaka a me kou mau pepeiao e hopu i kēlā mau hōʻailona hoʻomaloka wahine e pane i kāu nīnau, "e hoʻopunipuni anei ʻo ia iaʻu?"
Eia nā hōʻailona infidelity wahine 8 a me nā hōʻailona ʻē aʻe o ka hoʻopunipuni i ka pilina.
1. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hana hou i nā mea liʻiliʻi
ʻO nā mea liʻiliʻi paha ka ʻoi loa olakino o ka pilina. Mālama i nā mea liʻiliʻi, e like me ka hana ʻana o kekahi i kekahi i ke kope i ke kakahiaka, honi ʻana i mua o ka hana, ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mahalo, a me ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mahalo i kī i kahi pilina lōʻihi, hauʻoli.
ʻO ka paʻa ʻana i nā lima a haʻi aku i kāu pakanā i ka nui o kou waiwai iā lākou ma ke ʻano mau i ka manaʻo o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i ke aloha, pono ʻia, a me ka lawe ʻole ʻia.
ʻO ia nō kekahi o kēlā mau wahine hōʻailona infidelity o ka pilikia ke pau kāu wahine a wahine paha i ka hana ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi āna e hana ai. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻopunipuni, he hae ʻulaʻula ia i hauʻoli ʻole i ka pilina.
2. Ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kona helehelena
Ke hoʻomaka nei i kahi mea hou me kahi puʻupuʻu, makemake kahi wahine e nānā iā ia ʻoi. ʻO ke ʻano o kēia ka ʻaʻahu ʻana; lauoho, mea hoʻonani, nā hana. Makemake ʻo ia i kāna ipo e noʻonoʻo he nani ʻo ia.
Akā, e like me kāu i lawe aku ai iā ia i waho i kēlā me kēia lā i ka manawa o ke aloha aloha ʻīlio o kou pili, ma ke ʻano o ka pili lōʻihi, ua mae paha kona makemake e hoʻopūʻiwa me kona helehelena.
Ma kahi o ia e komo ai i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae a me nā paʻa paʻa, i kēia manawa ua ʻoi aku kona ʻoluʻolu ke wili ʻana me ʻoe ma ka moe ma kāna PJs. He hoʻololi kūlohelohe kēia me nā pilina lōʻihi.
Ke hoʻomaka nei kāu wahine e nānā pono i kāna helehelena, e kiʻi paha i kou nānā a ʻo ia paha kekahi o kēlā mau hōʻailona e hoʻopunipuni nei kāu wahine iā ʻoe.
Inā he ipo kāu ipo wahine a wahine paha, hoʻomaka paha ʻo ia i ka ʻaukā pinepine ʻana, e hele ana i ka hale hoʻoikaika kino, a me ka uku ʻana ma mua o ka nānā mau ʻana i kona ʻano ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻokūpī i kekahi.
3. Hoʻonui i ka noi no ka pilikino
Pehea e haʻi ai inā hoʻopunipuni kāu wahine? ʻĀ! ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona hōʻino wahine ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pono pilikino.
Ke hūnā hū ʻo ia me kāna ʻenehana? Lawe ka poʻe i kā lākou kelepona i nā wahi āpau me lākou. He mea maikaʻi no ka pili mau ʻana me nā hoaaloha, hoa pili, a me ka hana. Eia nō naʻe, hiki ke lilo i kōkua maikaʻi e loaʻa iā ia no ka hoʻopunipuni. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻohui maʻalahi i kahi pilina hou ma lalo o kahi inoa wahaheʻe, a hūnā paha i nā polokalamu aloha mai ka ʻike ʻia.
ʻO nā hōʻailona hoʻomaloka wahine e pili ana i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka lumi i ke kelepona ʻana, ka loaʻa nui ʻana o kāna kelepona, a me ka holoi pinepine ʻana i ka mōʻaukala ma kāna kelepona / kamepiula lawe / papa.
Inā ʻaʻole wehe kāu hoa me kāna mau mea hana e like me maʻa mau, no ka mea ke hūnā nei ia i kahi mea iā ʻoe aʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona ikaika a kāu wahine e hoʻopunipuni nei.
4. Hoʻolilo iki ʻoe i ka manawa
ʻO ka hoʻolimalima manawa ʻana ma ke ʻano he kāne ka mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i kahi paʻa. Inā ʻoe e moe pū ana ma ka home, ke hele i waho no ka pō lā, a i ʻole ke hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me kahi hui o nā hoa aloha, ʻo ka hoʻolilo manawa pū kekahi kahi mea e lana ai ka manaʻo leʻaleʻa.
Ke ʻōlelo ʻia nei, ʻo kekahi o nā ʻōuli nāna e hoʻopunipuni inā ʻoe e hōʻemi nui ana i ka manawa ma mua o ka hana o ka polū. ʻO ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo kēia kekahi o nā hōʻailona koʻikoʻi o ka moekolohe ʻole i ka wahine, e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe a alualu paha ma hope o kekahi.
Inā ʻaʻole i hana ʻo ia i kahi hana hou a i ʻole ke hele nei i loko o ke kaumaha i ka naʻau, nā hōʻailona e pono iā ia ka manawa "hoʻokahi" ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona maikaʻi no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kāu pilina.
No laila, inā noʻonoʻo ʻoe pehea e ʻike ai i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o kāu kaikamahine, e nānā wale i kekahi o kēia mau hōʻailona hoʻokamakama wahine.
5. Lilo koke ʻo ia i ka manawa ma ka hana
ʻO ka noho lohi ʻana ma ke keʻena he hōʻailona paha ia e kūpaʻa loa ana i kāna ʻoihana a i ʻole ʻo kona kūpaʻa nui i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Inā ma waho o ka maʻa mau kāna noho lohi ʻana i ka hana, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kēia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o ka wahine hoʻopunipuni, aia kekahi pilikia nui aʻe i kāu pili.
ʻOi aku inā e lawe ana kāna hana iā ia no nā hopena pule a i ʻole "overnight" no nā hana hana inā ʻaʻole ia ma mua.
ʻO kēia kahi o nā hōʻailona infidelity wahine maʻamau a ʻike ʻia i hiki i kekahi ke ʻike. A e haʻohaʻo ana ʻoe, "pehea wau e ʻike ai inā e hoʻopunipuni kaʻu wahine iaʻu ʻaʻole paha?"
6. He mau hoaaloha hou kāna
Ke kūkulu nei i nā pilina hou a me nā pōʻai kaiapili ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e hoʻopunipuni kāu wahine iā ʻoe. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona infidelity wahine maopopo e pane i kāu nīnau, "pehea e ʻike ai inā e hoʻopunipuni ana kāu ipo iā ʻoe?"
Ke hoʻolilo nei kāu wahine a ipo paha i kahi manawa liʻuliʻu me ka poʻe hou?
E like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, ʻo ka hana ʻana i nā hoaaloha hou ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona no ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o kāu ipo wahine, akā ʻo kāna ʻano e pili ana iā lākou e hāpai i nā hōʻailona haʻi wahaheʻe o kāu ipo wahine.
ʻO kahi laʻana, ke noho manawa nei ʻo ia me nā hoaaloha hou, akā ʻaʻole makemake e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe iā lākou?
Lawe aku kēia mau "hoaaloha hou" iā ia a hiki i nā hola a pau o ka pō i ke ala i waho o ke ʻano?
Ua haʻalele pinepine ʻo ia i ke kau pū ʻana me ʻoe i mea e lilo ai ka manawa me nā hoaaloha hou?
Inā ua hui pū ʻoe no kekahi manawa i kēia manawa ʻike paha ʻoe i nā hoa pili loa o kāu hoa. Inā ua hoʻōki kāu kaikamahine i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me kona ʻohana, kou ʻohana, a i ʻole kou mau hoa aloha a ʻānō hoʻi e lilo i ʻāpana o kahi hui hou a hoihoi paha ʻo ia i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe.
A ʻo ia nō kekahi o nā hōʻailona hōʻailona o ka ipo wahine hoʻopunipuni.
7. Paʻahana mau ʻo ia
ʻAʻole ia he hōʻailona maikaʻi ke hāʻawi ʻole kāu wahine a ipo paha iā ʻoe i ka manawa o ka lā. ʻAʻole like me nā kāne hoʻopunipuni, ʻaʻole makemake nā wahine e hoʻopunipuni i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hoa ʻelua.
Akā, e lilo ka hoihoi o lākou i kekahi a kālele i ko lākou manawa āpau a me ka nānā i kekahi. Inā hoʻopunipuni kāu ipo wahine, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi loli koke o kāna manawa.
Inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe hou iā ia me ka ʻole o ka hoʻolaha mua ʻana ʻo kēia paha kekahi o nā hōʻailona a ka wahine e hoʻopunipuni nei.
8. ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i ka moekolohe
ʻO kekahi o nā ala nui e hoʻopili ai nā kāne i ka naʻau ma o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma o ka moekolohe. Ke hoʻokuʻu ka wahine i ka wā o ka moekolohe i kāna lolo e hoʻokuʻu i kahi oxytocin, kahi e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ai i nā pale o ka hilinaʻi a hana i kahi pilina paʻa ma waena o ʻolua.
Pono kēia hoʻopili no nā pilina ikaika. Hoʻoiho hoʻi ia i ke koʻikoʻi, kahi hiki ke hoʻokuʻi hou aku i nā hoa me kekahi.
Ke hiki mai i nā hōʻailona infidelity wahine, makemake ʻole i ka moekolohe kahi mea nui. No laila, ke hoʻomaka nei kāu ipo aloha e hōʻike i ka hoihoi ʻole a i ʻole ka pīhoihoi i kou moekolohe ke loaʻa kahi manawa e hana nei ʻo ia i kahi paʻa i kahi ʻē aʻe.
Mai nānā i kēia ʻano ona ʻoiai hiki i kēia ke lilo i hoʻokahi o nā hōʻailona hoʻopunipuni a ka ipo wahine.
Aia kekahi mea e ʻōlelo ʻia no ke kala ʻana i nā pilina, keu hoʻi inā ua kūkulu ʻoe i kahi ola a me kahi ʻohana pū. Akā, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui i ka infidelity.
Mai hoʻonele wale i kou manawa me kahi mea mahalo ʻole iā ʻoe, a i ʻole kekahi mea e lawe wale i kou aloha.
Ke haʻohaʻo nei ʻoe pehea e haʻi ai inā he wahine hoʻopunipuni? E hāʻawi paha kēia mau hōʻailona hoʻomaloka wahine iā ʻoe i nā pane āu e ʻimi nei.