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- 1. ʻAno maikaʻi a aloha hoʻi i kāu hoa
- 2. E ʻike i nā mea hou e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi
- 3. E aʻo e hoʻoponopono i nā mea me ka maluhia
- 4. ʻAkaʻaka
- 5. Hana i kāu wahine e like me kāu hoa aloha
- 6. Hiamoe
- 7. E ʻae i nā hemahema o kekahi
- 8. He pilikia maoli nā keiki
- 9. E mālama i ka hūnōna wahine i ka hiki
- 10. Haʻalele. ʻO ka. 'Ia Noho. Iho!
Ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu male moeuhane. Lani ka meli. A i kēia manawa aia ʻoe i ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai ʻo ka ʻāpana paʻakikī loa: ka male ʻana.
Ke haʻi aku nei kou ʻanakē iā ʻoe i kā lākou mau moʻolelo hoʻomākeʻaka a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ke ala e ola ai i ka hakakā a kahi kāne a ʻakaʻaka ʻoe me ka makaʻu a me ka pule malū i nā mea āpau a lākou e ʻōlelo nei he ʻōlelo hoʻomakeʻaka wale nō. ʻĀ, e ʻike ʻoe i kēia manawa no ʻoe iho. ʻO ka male ka ʻāpana ʻoi loa o kou ola, he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēlā. Akā hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole. Aia ia i ka loli ʻana o kāu moku i kāu moku i loko o kahi ola hauʻoli. Loaʻa iā mākou i kahi mau ʻōlelo o ke akamai e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa a aʻo i kahi mea a i ʻole ʻelua mai.
1. ʻAno maikaʻi a aloha hoʻi i kāu hoa
Ma ke ʻano he kāne hou, manaʻo ʻoe he maʻalahi kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa he A +++ i loko o kēia mea male āpau inā he hōʻike kēia. Ke hele a pinepine ka hakakā, e hana i ka mea maikaʻi e noho aloha i kāu hoa. E waiho iā ia i kahi memo pōkole a me ka momona ma ka ʻaoʻao o kou wahi moe i kēlā me kēia manawa. Hana iā ia i kāna pāʻina punahele iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka manawa. E haʻi i kāu wahine āu e aloha nei iā ia / i kēlā me kēia lā.
2. E ʻike i nā mea hou e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi
Loaʻa iā ia kahi hānau hānau āu i ʻike ʻole ai ma mua? Loaʻa iā ia kēia mau ʻano ʻano ʻē āu i ʻike ʻole ai a hiki i ka lā ma hope o ka male? E haʻi aku iā ʻoe. Piha nā pihoihoi i ka male. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻole i ke kanaka ke ʻole ʻoe i noho i ka hale like me lākou. E leʻaleʻa me kou lumi holoʻokoʻa lumi!
3. E aʻo e hoʻoponopono i nā mea me ka maluhia
No laila ʻo wai ka pono? ʻO HER mau nō ia (ʻAʻaka wale). E hoʻomanaʻo mau i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lilo o ka hakakā ma mua o ka lilo o ke kanaka. E kamaʻilio mau a aʻo e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau ʻokoʻa a me ka hoʻopili.
4. ʻAkaʻaka
He mea maʻalahi ia. Makemake ʻoe i kahi male hauʻoli? E hoʻomākeʻaka kāu hoa. Haki kekahi i kekahi. Ua aloha paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma muli o kāu hoʻomākeʻaka corny. ʻO kou hoʻomākeʻaka paha kekahi o nā ʻano āna i makemake ai e pili ana iā ʻoe. I ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, ua paʻa ʻoe i ka hana luhi like ʻole a lilo ʻoe i mea hoihoi i ka pilina. Noho ma ka moena i kēlā me kēia pō a me ka nānā ʻana i kāu rom-com punahele i hiki ke hana nui i ka hana.
5. Hana i kāu wahine e like me kāu hoa aloha
ʻO ka wahine a kāne paha ke ʻano o ka hoa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i kāu hoa i kou mau manaʻo āpau. Hiki i kāu wahine ke hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe i kou mau lā ʻino loa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke naʻaupō me kekahi. Hiki iā 'oe ke hele i nā hanana makemake' olua. Pākuʻi i ka wahine kupaianaha.
6. Hiamoe
Inā ʻaʻole e hoʻonā ʻia nā mea ma ka hola 2 o ke kakahiaka, ʻaʻole paha e hoʻonā ʻia ma ka 3 AM no laila e hiamoe maikaʻi ʻolua a hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻolua iho. E hoʻomākaukau wale iā ʻoe iho e alo i ka pilikia a hana i nā mea ke puka aʻe ka lā.
7. E ʻae i nā hemahema o kekahi
FYI, ʻaʻole ʻoe i male i kahi haipule. Inā ʻike mau ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole i kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻole e pau nā hakakā. Ua male ʻoe i ka wahine maikaʻi a kāne paha i ka honua, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo he hemolele ʻo ia.
8. He pilikia maoli nā keiki
Pōmaikaʻi nā keiki. Akā hiki iā lākou ke lawe i kou manawa āpau mai ka lawe ʻana iā lākou e hiamoe, hoʻomākaukau iā lākou no ke kula, a i ʻole ke hoʻokele nei iā lākou i kā lākou pāʻani pīpeku. ʻAʻohe ou manawa e mālama ai i kāu wahine ma muli o ka hoʻolālā a kou makuakāne a makua paha. ʻO kahi ala e hana ai ʻo ia ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi lā lā. ʻIke wau i nā kāne he nui a paʻakikī e kaulike i kā lākou mau pilina akā hiki iā lākou ke hana i ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā hana a nā kāne ma mua o ka manawa. E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō ʻo kou ʻohana kāu mea nui - ka wahine a me nā keiki.
9. E mālama i ka hūnōna wahine i ka hiki
ʻAʻole pili kou mau mākua i kāu male. Inā maikaʻi ʻole nā mea me kāu hoa, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e haʻi aku i ka makuahine a i ʻole makuakāne. Mai nānā i kou mau mākua e hoʻoweliweli i kāu hoa, e komo a hoʻoponopono i nā mea nāu. Ua makua ʻoe i kēia manawa, me kou hale ponoʻī a me kāu wahine. Hana e like me ia.
10. Haʻalele. ʻO ka. 'Ia Noho. Iho!
No ka manawa haneli, e ka haku. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea liʻiliʻi e hōʻalo i nā hakakā piha. E aʻo e hoʻolohe a hāhai i nā lula a me nā hoʻopiʻi a kekahi.
No laila ʻo ia! ʻO ke ola male kekahi ahi o ka holo kaʻa holo kaʻa. Ua koho ʻoe i ka hoa āu e aloha ai no laila ʻaʻohe mea makaʻu no ka mea aia ʻolua i kēia holo pū. Hoʻomaikaʻi a me ka laki maikaʻi!