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- Akā makemake wau e kūpono, no ka mea, he mea nui ka male ʻana
- He mea huna no ka kūleʻa
- Mai hoʻonā no ka 'maʻamau
E male ana? ʻAʻole ia he mea liʻiliʻi.
ʻOiai he pōkole e like me ke ola, aia ka nui o nā mea āpau e hana ʻia i loko o ia manawa, a ʻo ka hoʻoholo ʻana e male ʻo ia hoʻi ke hoʻoholo nei ʻoe e hele i nā wili a me nā huli o ka huakaʻi o ke ola. paʻakikī ia, a paʻakikī ia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake nui kekahi i kekahi, a aia kekahi manawa, ʻoiai ʻoe e haki a me ka hoʻokahi a me ka manaʻolana ʻole e pili ana i kāu pilina (a weliweli e like me kēlā kani, ʻaʻole ʻike pinepine ʻia kēlā mau manawa) ... ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi i kou aloha.
ʻO ka male ʻana ʻo ia hoʻi ua pani ʻoe i ka puka o ka haʻalele. No ka ʻoi aku a maikaʻi ʻole paha, ʻo ʻolua pū kekahi i loko o kēia. ʻAʻole wau e manaʻo i kēia he ʻano kaumaha a makaʻu paha o ka male. I ka hana ʻana i kēia kūpaʻa i kekahi i kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia ʻaʻole loa ʻoe e hele wale i nā pilikia o ke ola. Loaʻa iā ʻoe he hoa hele a pau, hoa kime, hoaaloha maikaʻi, hoa like, a me kahi ipo. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi me ia e kaʻana like ai i nā manawa maikaʻi, nani, a me ke ola hoʻi. A he mea kēlā e hoʻolauleʻa maoli ai. I kekahi i kekahi, ua ʻike ʻoe i ka mea aʻu e manaʻoʻiʻo nei a kēlā me kēia kanaka e ʻimi nei. Mahalo nui!
Akā makemake wau e kūpono, no ka mea, he mea nui ka male ʻana
ʻOiai mākou e makemake e like me nā kāne o nā hanauna i hala - e noho i kā mākou mau male no ke ola holoʻokoʻa, e ʻelemakule me ke aloha o ko mākou ola-ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke noho nei mākou i kahi moʻomeheu kahi, i ka manawa a ka hapa nui o nā kāne e hōʻea ai ko lākou mau kanalima mau makahiki, kokoke ka hapalua o lākou e haʻalele a hoʻokaʻawale ʻia (Kennedy & Ruggles, 2014). Hāʻawi ʻia kēia helu helu, ʻo ka manaʻo o ka hana ʻana i loko o kāu mau ola āpau he mea weliweli paha. Akā mai makaʻu, HIKI iā ʻoe ke hana.
Paipai ʻia - Papa Mālama Mua
He mea huna no ka kūleʻa
Makemake wau e kaʻana i kahi huna iki aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i ka male, a ke manaʻo nei wau e hoʻokūpaʻa i ka pilina laʻa ma waena o ʻolua a me kāu wahine e lilo koke ana i wahine. E nānā, no ka mea ʻaʻole wau e manaʻo he nui ka poʻe i ʻike i kēia.
ʻO ka male kahi mīkini ulu kanaka: I kāu pilina, e hālāwai maoli ʻoe i nā pilikia āu e pono ai i mea e ulu ai a i mea e poli ai i kāu mau kihi. E hāʻawi kāu male iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e lilo i mana mana loa o ʻoe iho. Ke ʻike nei i kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā manawa paʻakikī no ke ʻano o lākou — nā manawa kūpono e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale a ʻālohilohi.
E noʻonoʻo i loko o kā mākou hanauna, manaʻo mākou i nā mea he nui ma waho o ka male, ʻoi aku paha ma mua o nā hanauna i hala. I kēia mau lā, ʻo ka male ʻana ʻaʻole ia no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa, a i ʻole no ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki, a i ʻole no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka palekana kālā, e like me ia ma mua. ʻO ka male, i kēia manawa, e pili ana i ka ulu ʻana i ko mākou ʻuhane, e hoʻopili nei me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i kahi pae o ka pilina a me ka palekana i loaʻa ʻole. ʻO ia e pili ana i ka ʻike piha ʻana, a me ka ʻike piha ʻana i kekahi, a me ka ʻae a hoʻomana ʻia i loko o kā mākou paʻakikī āpau. Makemake mākou e lilo ka pilina i ke aloha hohonu, ke aloha, ke kuko, ka pīhoihoi, ka palekana, a me ka ʻokahi i ke ʻano o ka noho kaʻawale ʻana, nani, mahalo ʻia, a mahalo ʻia hoʻi iā mākou iho. Akā e hoʻokō i kēia ʻano pilina he hana nui! He makaʻu, palupalu, a ʻo kekahi manawa ʻo ka hana ʻeha ... a, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau, ʻo ia nō ka hana uku a hoʻokō loa i hiki iā mākou ke hana.
Manaʻo wau, ʻo kekahi paha o nā kumu i pau ai ka nui o ka male ʻana ma muli o ka maopopo ʻole o ka poʻe i kēia mea huna ma mua o ka male ʻana. Komo lākou i loko o ka male me nā mea nani a pau e pili ana i ka mea e hiki ai i ka male ke lawe mai, akā ʻaʻole ʻike iki i ke ala e hoʻokau ai ka male iā mākou e ulu a i ka paʻakikī i kekahi manawa. Ke ulu nei mākou me kahi manaʻo aloha i ke aloha a me ka mare ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli mau loa, a inā ʻaʻole ia, haʻalele ka poʻe. A i ʻole e hele mākou i ka male e manaʻo nei e mae ana ka hunaahi a haʻalele i ka manaʻo he maʻamau kēia, a ʻaʻohe mea hiki iā mākou ke hana e pili ana. A laila, ke hele a mehameha loa kēlā me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻana, haʻalele ka poʻe i ka pilina. A i kēia lā kaiāulu, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka male ma mua o ka wā ma mua.
Mai hoʻonā no ka 'maʻamau
Hoʻomaopopo pinepine wau i nā kāne ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa ka male ʻana o ka “maʻamau”, a ʻaʻole mau ka lōʻihi. E hoʻonohonoho pono iā ʻoe iho no ka kūleʻa, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ka ʻoi aku o ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka maʻamau. Mai makaʻu i ka hana nui ke piʻi aʻe na ʻolua, akā mai noho pū kekahi no ia mea. E ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male a i ʻole ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka male, e hele i kahi mea hoʻoponopono wahine, e hele i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne, kahi papa hana, a i ʻole kahi hoʻomaha. Hana i kāu hana ponoʻī o ka ulu a me ka hoʻōla. (Ei, he ukana kā mākou āpau e lawe ai i kā mākou pilina!)
Ma luna o nā mea āpau, mai haʻalele. ʻOiai ke hāʻule o kāu male, e piʻi hou ia, keu hoʻi inā ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kaʻu mea huna-ʻo kēia mau pilikia nā makana, nā kumuwaiwai, a me nā manawa kūpono e ulu. No laila ke koho ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi ma kāu lā male, hilinaʻi ua koho pono ʻoe. A laila, koho hou i kekahi i kekahi, i kēlā me kēia lā, i ke ʻano o kou aloha ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, a koho i kekahi i kekahi ʻoiai ke paʻakikī nei kēia male iā ʻoe e ulu. E hoʻomanaʻo, he mea nui ka male ʻana o ka male ʻana - kahi hana nui, nani, kupanaha, a ulu aʻe nei ka poʻe.