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- He kuleana ko nā keiki, he mana, he mana, a me nā kūʻokoʻa e like me ka poʻe mākua
- Hele mai ka manamana nui me nā kuleana like
- Pono nā mākua e hoʻoholo i nā palena no kā lākou keiki
- ʻAe i nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka hōʻike pilikino
- E hōʻike i nā keiki iā lākou iho
- Akamai kēlā me kēia keiki i ko lākou honua ponoʻī
"Ke hopohopo nei mākou i ka mea e lilo i keiki i ka lā ʻapōpō, akā poina iā mākou ʻo ia kekahi i kēia lā" - Stacia Tauscher.
Ua wehewehe ʻia ke kūʻokoʻa o ka haʻi ʻana ma ke ʻano he 'kuleana e hōʻike i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo o kekahi ma o ka haʻiʻōlelo ʻana, ke kākau ʻana a me nā ʻano ʻano kamaʻilio ʻē aʻe me ka hana ʻole ʻana i ka hōʻino ʻana i ke ʻano o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me / a i ʻole ke kūlana maikaʻi e ka ʻōlelo wahaheʻe a hoʻopunipuni paha. "
He kuleana ko nā keiki, he mana, he mana, a me nā kūʻokoʻa e like me ka poʻe mākua
He kuleana nui ko lākou e like me:
He kuleana ko lākou e waiho i ko lākou mau manaʻo, kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo, ka manaʻo a hāʻawi i nā manaʻo i hiki ke ʻokoʻa i ko lākou mau mākua.
He kuleana ko lākou e hoʻomaopopo ʻia, e ʻike i nā mea e hana nei a puni ka honua, e kiʻi i ka ʻike i kūpono iā lākou. Hiki iā lākou ke kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo iho ma nā kumuhana a kumuhana paha.
ʻO Stuart Mill, kahi mea akeakamai Pelekane kaulana i ʻōlelo i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka haʻiʻōlelo (i kapa ʻia ʻo ke kūʻokoʻa o ka haʻi ʻana) he mea nui ia no ka mea he kuleana ko ka nohona kanaka e noho ai i nā manaʻo o ka poʻe.
ʻAʻole ia he mea nui wale no ka mea he kuleana ko kēlā me kēia e hōʻike iā ia iho (kahi aʻu e manaʻoʻiʻo nei e pili pū ana me nā keiki). ʻO nā kānāwai ʻokoʻa a me nā kānāwai kūwaho hoʻi e kākoʻo i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka manaʻo.
Wahi a CRIN (Child Rights International Network) Paukū 13, “E noa i ke keiki ke kūʻokoʻa i ka manaʻo; pili kēia kuleana i ke kūʻokoʻa e ʻimi, loaʻa a hāʻawi i ka ʻike a me nā manaʻo o nā ʻano like ʻole, me ka nānā ʻole i nā palena, ma ka waha paha, ma ke kākau ʻana a i ʻole ka paʻi, ma ke ʻano o nā hana noʻeau, a ma o nā media ʻē aʻe a ke keiki i koho ai ".
- Aia paha ka hana i kēia kuleana i kekahi mau kapu, akā ʻo kēia mau mea ka mea i hāʻawi ʻia e ke kānāwai a pono.
- No ka mahalo i nā kuleana a i ʻole ka hanohano o haʻi; a i ʻole
- No ka pale ʻana i ka palekana lāhui a i ʻole ka lehulehu (order public), a i ʻole ke olakino lehulehu a i ʻole nā loina.
Mālama ka ʻaoʻao mua o ka ʻatikala 13 i ke kuleana o nā keiki e ‘ʻimi, loaʻa a hāʻawi i ka ʻike a me nā manaʻo o nā ʻano like ʻole ', i loko o kahi ʻano o nā mana a ma nā palena.
Kahi ka ʻāpana ʻelua i nā palena i hiki ke kau ʻia ma kēia ʻaoʻao ʻākau. Ma o ka hōʻike ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo i hiki i nā keiki ke wehewehe i nā ala e mahalo ʻia a hōʻeha ʻia ai kā lākou mau pono a aʻo e kū i luna no nā pono o haʻi.
Hoʻohui ʻia i kēia, ʻatikala 19 o The Universal Declaration of Human Rights elaborated for keiki ma o ka United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, kauoha i kēlā me kēia keiki e komo i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā lākou. He mea kōkua nō hoʻi e heluhelu a hoʻomaopopo hou e pili ana i ka pilikino pilikino pūnaewele a me ke kūʻokoʻa o ka manaʻo.
Hele mai ka manamana nui me nā kuleana like
He mea nui ke kūʻokoʻa o ka ʻōlelo no nā keiki akā he mea nui ia e aʻo i kā mākou poʻe keiki ke hauʻoli lākou i kēia mau kuleana kuleana lākou e ʻae i ke kuleana o nā kuleana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e kūlike ʻole me lākou.
ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūlike, pono lākou e hoʻolohe a mahalo i nā manaʻo o haʻi ʻē aʻe.
Pili ke kūʻokoʻa o ka ʻōlelo i ka ʻike i ke komo ʻole. No ka laʻana: - Inā hoʻolaha kahi pūʻulu inaina i nā lono ma whatsapp a i ʻole facebook he kuleana mākou e ālai i ka hui a i ʻole ke kanaka a ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻolaha i nā lono.
ʻO ka lua, ma ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka hōʻike, mai huli i ka makua laissez-faire nāna e hāʻawi ka lima manuahi i kāu keiki. ʻ meanlelo wale wau e ʻae iā lākou e hōʻike iā lākou iho, e aʻo i ka mea kūpono a kaulike ʻole no lākou me ka ʻole o ke kū a hoʻopaʻi ʻia paha.
Pono nā mākua e hoʻoholo i nā palena no kā lākou keiki
ʻO ke kūʻokoʻa o ka ʻōlelo e like me ka hilinaʻi. ʻO ka nui o kā lākou hoʻohana ʻana, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ia.
E ola i ka honua o ka hoʻokūkū hoʻonohonoho, e loaʻa i ka hoʻokūkū a loaʻa ka lanakila hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka mea ʻoiʻoi loa - liberty o assertion.
E ʻae i kāu keiki e haʻi manuahi i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai (ʻoiai inā manaʻo ʻoe he hewa lākou) a aʻo iā lākou e hoʻolohe i nā ʻōlelo a haʻi (ʻoiai inā manaʻo lākou he ʻē aʻe a hewa paha). E like me kā George Wakinekona i ʻōlelo ai inā e lawe ʻia ke kūʻokoʻa o ka ʻōlelo a laila hiki i ka leo ʻole a hāmau hoʻi ke alakaʻi ʻia mākou, e like me nā hipa i ka luku ʻia.
ʻAe i nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka hōʻike pilikino
"ʻIke nā keiki i nā mea āpau i nā mea ʻole, ʻaʻohe mea i loaʻa i nā kāne i nā mea āpau" - Giacomo Leopardi.
I ka manawa manuahi ke noi au i kaʻu kaikamahine he ʻelima mau makahiki e huki a pena i kāna puke kākau, nānā ʻo ia iaʻu e like me kaʻu i noi ai iā ia e kaʻana like i kāna ʻai kalima punahele a i ʻole ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka hale holoʻokoʻa.
Ke hoʻoikaika wau iā ia e pau kāna ʻōlelo ʻana, “Māmā, luʻuluʻu”. ʻIke wau e pili ana ka hapa nui o ʻoukou. Manaʻo kekahi mau mākua he loea i loko i hānau ʻia ka hana a ke keiki a i ʻole ʻaʻole paha.
Kūkākūkā, noiʻi (ʻae, hoʻonui mau wau i nā ʻike i alakaʻi ʻia e nā noiʻi like ʻole mai ka wā i hōʻoia ʻia ai) hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ke keiki e kōkua iā lākou e kū maikaʻi me ka ʻeha.
E hōʻike i nā keiki iā lākou iho
Kōkua pū kā lākou hana ʻana iā lākou e ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi, hoʻonui i ko lākou ʻike kaiaulu a kōkua iā lākou e aʻo maikaʻi. Ua wehewehe ʻia ka makakū ma ke ʻano he hiki i kekahi ke hana i nā manaʻo hou a i ʻole nā manaʻo, e hopena ana i nā hopena kumu. ʻIke wau e ʻae mākou āpau me Einstein ʻoi aku ka nui o ka noʻonoʻo ma mua o ka ʻike.
Ho'ākāka ka puke wehewehe puke wehewehe ʻōlelo pūnaewele i ka manaʻo, "ka hiki ke hana i kahi kiʻi i kou noʻonoʻo i kahi mea āu i ʻike ʻole ai a i ʻole i ʻike ai; ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo i nā mea hou ”.
Akamai kēlā me kēia keiki i ko lākou honua ponoʻī
ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke kuleana o nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa he mea kūpono ia i ka ulu holistic o nā keiki.
ʻO kā mākou kuleana ma ke ʻano he makua e hoʻonui i ka maka o kā mākou keiki a ʻoluʻolu i kā lākou hoʻokolokolo a me nā hoʻokolokolo.
- E hoʻolālā i kahi i loko o kou hale kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana lima lima. Ma kahi ākea ʻaʻole wau e manaʻo e kūkulu i kahi pāʻani i loko a i ʻole lumi hoʻolālā no lākou. ʻOiai kahi ʻāpana liʻiliʻi a i ʻole kahi kihi liʻiliʻi OK
- E hāʻawi iā lākou i nā kumuwaiwai / pono e pono ai no ka hana hana. E hoʻonohonoho pono no nā mea maʻalahi e like me ka peni / penikala kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke pāʻani i nā pāʻani pepa like ʻole a i nā kāleka paha, kūkulu i nā hale kiaʻi ʻo Cassel, nā palaka, nā lāʻau kūlike a me nā pā kaua.
- E hāʻawi iā lākou i kekahi mea hoʻonaninani kūpono i nā makahiki, nā puna, nā mea hoʻonani mea pāʻani, kahi kākini, nā pōpō, nā lipine a noi iā lākou e hoʻolālā i kahi skit. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iā lākou inā liʻiliʻi lākou akā mai kōkua nui.
- ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e hana e like me kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai mai hōʻino iā lākou a hōʻino paha iā lākou no ka luku ʻia ʻana a i ʻole nā mea hana ʻē aʻe. E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa kūpono e hōʻike pono ai iā lākou iho.
- ʻO nā hale hōʻikeʻike kūloko, nā hōʻikeʻike, nā hoʻomeheu moʻomeheu a me nā hanana lehulehu manuahi nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻomohala ai i ka arty escalation a me ke akamai.
- Hoʻohou, makemake wau iā ʻoe e hōʻemi i ka manawa pale.