ʻO ka manawa pinepine mākou e male ai i kekahi me nā ʻano like e like me ko mākou mau mākua. ʻOiai ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ʻo kēia ka mea hope loa āu e makemake ai e hana, hele mai ia me ke kumu maikaʻi a hiki i kēia kumu ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ulu, i loko o kāu male a me kāu mau pilina āpau.
Aʻo mākou i ka wā ʻōpio i nā lauana like ʻole mai ko mākou mau mākua, a laila hana iā lākou me kekahi i kekahi i kā mākou pili. Inā olakino a ʻaʻole ʻole, ʻo ia ka mea i maʻamau a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. Hele mai paha ʻoe mai kahi ʻohana leo nui, a i ʻole huki ʻia paha kou ʻohana a mamao loa. Maliʻa paha koi aku kou mau mākua ma mua o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi a ʻaʻole paha lākou e mālama nui i kāu hana. Maʻalahi loa e huhū i kā mākou wahine no ka hana hou ʻana i kēia mau ʻano, akā e hoʻomanaʻo ua koho ʻoe i kāu wahine a lilo i kāu hana e hoʻololi i kāu hana. Ke aʻo ʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu hopena, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hoʻonāukiuki a me ka nalo ʻana i kēlā mau ʻano hana mai kāu wahine aku.
E koho paha mākou āpau i kahi wahine me nā hiʻohiʻona e like me ko mākou mau mākua no ka mea he wānana a ʻoluʻolu kēia
Inā ʻaʻole hiki i kou makuakāne ke ʻōlelo nona iho, male paha ʻoe i kekahi e ʻumeʻume nei e ʻōlelo nona iho. ʻO ke kiko me ka ʻike ʻole, koho pinepine mākou i nā hoa me nā ʻano like me ko mākou mau mākua, ʻoiai inā mākou e inaina i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona.
Akā, aia kekahi nūhou maikaʻi. ʻO ke kumu o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu mau hopena iā ʻoe no ka wā kamaliʻi ʻaʻohe ou koho a ʻaʻohe mana ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka hahai ʻana i ke kumu hoʻohālike o kou mau mākua. Ma ke ʻano he kamaliʻi, koi ʻia mākou e hana e like me ka manaʻo a ko mākou mau mākua, a i ʻole hāʻule wale mākou i ka laina no ka mea ʻo ia wale nō kā mākou ʻike. Ke ulu ʻoe, male ʻoe i kekahi me kekahi ʻano like me kou mau mākua a pane aku iā lākou e like me kāu kamaliʻi. I ka manawa e ʻike ai ʻoe he kanaka makua ʻoe i kēia manawa a hiki ke hoʻololi i kāu hopena, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e pane i kahi ala hou. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ia no ka mea he 30 mau makahiki paha kāu o ka pane ʻana i kahi ala. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka pane ʻana i kahi ala hou akā pono ka hana.
ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hele aku kou makuahine a makua kāne paha mai kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ʻike paha ʻoe i loaʻa i kāu kāne kēia ʻano like, me ka haʻi hou ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka hōʻalo. Inā hoʻololi ʻoe i ke kumu a hoʻomaopopo i kāu wahine i ke koʻikoʻi o ka noho ʻana i loko o ka lumi, a i ʻole ʻike iā ʻoe e uē a uē paha i kona wā e hele aku ai, he manawa kūpono kēia e nānā ai i kāu hopena. Pono paha kou makuahine a makuakāne paha e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ua kūpono lākou i kahi paio a ʻike ʻoe ua male ʻoe i kahi kanaka e hana like. He aha ka mea e hana inā kū ʻoe i ka hoʻokūkū a hana hou i kahi ala hou? Malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā wale, a noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a i ʻole ka haʻi ʻana i ka mea āu i ʻike maoli ai. E hauʻoli paha ʻoe i kāu male ʻana a i kāu mau pili pili like? Ua aʻo mākou āpau i ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana i nā hanana like ʻole a ke hiki wale mākou ke lohi a nānā i kā mākou hopena hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaka e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi ala hou e hiki ai ke hoʻololi i ka papa o nā pilina hakakā. No laila, ʻae, hiki paha iā mākou ke haʻalulu i ka manaʻo o ka male ʻana i kekahi e like me ko mākou mau mākua, akā ke ʻike mākou i kahi ala hou o ka pane ʻana e ʻike mākou ʻo ka hapa nui o nā paio he hui pū kekahi o ka lawena a me ka hopena aʻo.
ʻO kahi manaʻo hope loa e hoʻomanaʻo. Inā hana hou kāu kāne i nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻohoka e like me kou mau mākua, e hana kēia i kahi hopena koke i loko ou mai kou wā e noho nei me ka huhū o kēia ʻano no kou wā e ola ana. ʻOiai ʻoe e hana nei i nā ala hou e pane aku ai i kāu wahine, e hoʻomanaʻo e kau ana paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka nānā ʻana i kēlā mau ʻano hana hoʻoweliweli. Malia paha he nui nā makana aloha a aloha hoʻi kāu wahine e kūpono i kou nānā.
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i hoʻokahi hopena i kāu wahine, he aha ia?