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- ʻAʻole kou mau mākua ke kākoʻo nui i kou naʻau
- E lilo ʻoe i mea hilinaʻi hou
- Lilo ka mea nui i nā palena o ke kino
- Ua loli kāu mau mea nui
- Ua lilo nā pilikia kālā i wahi no-go
ʻO ka mare ʻana he loli nui a pīhoihoi ke ola. Ke hoʻomaka pū nei ʻoe i kahi ola hou a ke lawe nei i kāu mau hana mua i kāu wā e hiki mai ana ma ke ʻano he kāne male. ʻO kahi mea e loli i ke komo ʻana i kēia ʻano hou o kou ola kou pilina me kou mau mākua.
ʻIke i ka male ʻana o kā lāua keiki he ʻawaʻawa nui ia no nā mākua he nui. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo ʻoe ko lākou ao holoʻokoʻa no ka manawa lōʻihi, a ʻo lākou nāu. Ke hoʻololi nei ʻoe i nā kūleʻa e like me ia. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha i hiki i nā pilina o nā mākua ke lilo koke i kumu o ke koʻikoʻi i loko o ka male.
ʻAʻole naʻe ia pēlā. Ke hoʻokele nei i kāu pilina hou me kou mau mākua me ka positivity a me ka mahalo hiki.
Eia kekahi o nā ala nui e loli ai kāu pilina me kou mau mākua ma hope o ka male ʻana a me nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e mālama i ka pilina o ke olakino.
ʻAʻole kou mau mākua ke kākoʻo nui i kou naʻau
No nā makahiki he nui, kou mau mākua kekahi o kāu kākoʻo nui i ka naʻau. Mai ka honi ʻana i nā kuli ʻili i ke kamaliʻi a ma laila ma waena o nā drama kula, i ke kākoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe i kou hele ʻana i ke koleke a i ʻole kahi hana, ma laila mau kou mau mākua.
Ma hope o kou male ʻana, lilo kāu wahine i hoʻokahi o kāu mau kumu nui o ke kākoʻo, a hiki i ka loli ke lilo i mea paʻakikī naʻu a me kou mau mākua.
No ka pono o kāu male ʻana, e maʻa i ka huli ʻana i kāu hoa ma mua, a paipai iā lākou e hana like. ʻAʻole pono kou mau mākua e kipaku ʻia i waho, ʻoiai - e hana i ka manawa maʻamau e hui pū no kahi kope a i ʻole kahi pāʻina a hopu iā lākou i nā mea e hana nei i kou ola.
E lilo ʻoe i mea hilinaʻi hou
Hōʻike ka male i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka pūnana a lilo i ka hilinaʻi iho. ʻOiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole kēia ka kenekulia 17 a ʻo ka manawa kūpono ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele maoli i kou home makua no ka manawa mua, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻolohe nā wahine ʻoiai e loaʻa ana nā kālā i nā kāne.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe i kūʻokoʻa i ke kālā a noho i kahi home ʻole no nā makahiki, ʻo ka male ka mea e hōʻike i kahi hoʻololi psychological. Hiki i kou mau mākua ke aloha a kākoʻo iā ʻoe, akā hiki i ka manawa e haʻalele ai i ka hilinaʻi iā lākou.
Hoʻohanohano i kēia hoʻololi ʻana me ka ʻae ʻana i ka hōʻaiʻē ʻole o kou mau mākua iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole hoʻi ʻoe ʻaiʻē iā lākou, i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hui pū kekahi me kekahi e like.
Lilo ka mea nui i nā palena o ke kino
Hoʻohana ʻia kou mau mākua i ka loaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iā lākou iho mai kēlā me kēia manawa a ʻo ka mea hiki ke kamaʻāina ke hānau i kekahi mau hemahema. Ma hope o ka male ʻana, ʻo ʻoe a me kāu manawa o kāu wahine ponoʻī, ʻo kekahi a me kāu mau keiki ma mua o nā mea āpau, a ʻo kou mau mākua ma hope.
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻololi paʻakikī no nā mākua. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu kau ʻana i loko o ka hoʻolaha ʻole, e hele mai ana no kahi ʻauinalā akā ke hoʻomaha nei i ka hoʻokipa ʻia ʻana, a i ʻole ke kuhi nei e hoʻokau iā lākou no kahi hoʻomaha o hoʻokahi pule, pono e loli kekahi mau mea.
ʻO ke kau ʻana i nā palena maopopo e pili ana i kou manawa a me kahi e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e hoʻokele i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia a mālama i kahi pilina olakino me kou mau mākua. E hele i mua e pili ana i ka manawa a pehea kou ʻike pinepine iā lākou, a pili i kēlā.
Ua loli kāu mau mea nui
Ua maʻa kou mau mākua iā ʻoe ko lākou mea nui - a ua maʻa lākou i kekahi o kāu.ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ʻo kāu wahine kāu mea nui i kēia manawa hiki i ka paʻakikī no nā mākua aloha loa.
Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka huhū, keakea, a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ma waena o kou mau mākua a me kāu wahine.
Hiki ke holo lōʻihi ke kamaʻilio maʻaneʻi. Noho i lalo a loaʻa ka puʻuwai maikaʻi i ka puʻuwai me kou mau mākua. E haʻi iā lākou e pono ʻoe e hoʻokau i mua i kāu wahine, akā aloha nui ʻoe iā lākou a makemake iā lākou i kou ola.
He nui nā pilikia e hoʻolapalapa i ka palekana ʻole ma ka ʻaoʻao o kou mau mākua ke hoʻomaʻa lākou i kāu hōʻeuʻeu hou, no laila e hana i ka mea e hiki ke hana pū me ia palekana. E kūpaʻa akā aloha i kou hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā palena, a hāʻawi i ka nui o ka hōʻoia ʻana ʻaʻole lākou e lilo iā ʻoe.
Ua lilo nā pilikia kālā i wahi no-go
Hoʻohana ʻia nā manawa kūpono i kou mau mākua e pili i kāu hoʻoholo kālā i kekahi kekelē. Ua hōʻaiʻē paha lākou iā ʻoe ma mua, a i ʻole ua hāʻawi paha lākou i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i nā hana a i ʻole ke kālā, a i hāʻawi paha iā ʻoe i kahi hoʻolimalima a i ʻole kaʻana like i ka ʻoihana ʻohana.
Ma hope o kou male ʻana, hiki i kēia komo ʻana ke hoʻonāukiuki koke i ka haunaele. ʻO ke kālā kahi mea na ʻolua a me kāu wahine e kāwili pū ai me ka ʻole o kahi mea i waho.
ʻO kēia ke ʻoki ʻana i nā punawai ʻapron ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Pono ʻoe e kau i nā palena maikaʻi me kou mau mākua e pili ana i nā pilikia pili kālā. ʻAʻole inā ʻaʻohe paha - pili pilikia nā pilikia kālā. Ma ka hōʻailona like, pono ʻoe e huli i kāu wahine me nā pilikia kālā, ʻaʻole i kou mau mākua. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole e ʻae i nā hōʻaiʻē a i ʻole nā makemake ke ʻole ʻoe e pono maoli, ʻoiai ʻo nā ʻōnaehana i manaʻo nui ʻia e lilo koke i mau kumu hakakā.
ʻAʻole hiki ke pale i ka pilina loli me kou mau mākua ke male ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole ia he mea maikaʻi ʻole. Me nā palena maikaʻi a me ke ʻano aloha hiki iā ʻoe ke kūkulu i kahi pilina ikaika me kou mau mākua e olakino ana nāu, nā lākou, a me kāu wahine hou.