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- No ke aha he hanana haipule ka male?
- Noʻu wale koʻu ola, ʻaʻole na ke akua ia, a no haʻi mea ʻē aʻe paha
- He aha ka hui ʻana o ka male ma ka hopena pule
- Hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēlā me ke kōkua ʻole o ke kahuna
ʻAʻole paha pēlā ka hihia no nā mea āpau, akā nui ka hapa o mākou i male i loko o kahi hanana haipule. Me he mea lā he kuʻuna a he mea nui ʻole paha ia i ka hapa nui, akā ua manaʻo ʻia iā ʻoe no ke aha e hana ʻia ai ka male ma ka hale o ke Akua, a no ke aha e hiki ai i kāna ʻelele ma ka honua ke lilo i luna hoʻomalu.
He ʻaelike kū kānāwai ka male ʻana.
ʻO kēia ke kumu kūpono e hana ia me kahi lunamakaʻāinana (i ka wā ma mua he luna kānāwai). Akā no ke aha, a puni ka honua, e manaʻo ʻia nei ka male ʻana he hanana haipule? No ke aha he mea nui ka Diety ke hoʻohiki ka poʻe ʻelua i ko lāua aloha mau loa e hana i kahi ʻohana hoʻokahi?
E hele mākou i kēlā.
Ua hele mua ʻoe i kahi hālāwai male ma ka hopena pule? He hanana Katolika ia, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hui pū kekahi. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi i ke Akua.
No ke aha he hanana haipule ka male?
Ke hoʻohiki nei e hāʻawi i kou ola i kekahi a hiki i kou hanu hope loa mai kahi mea like ʻole me ke aloha he ʻuhane hohonu. He ʻōlelo hoʻohiki ʻaʻole hiki i ke kanaka make ke helu a mākaʻi hoʻi me ka lāʻau ana.
Ua hōʻea nā moʻomeheu ʻokoʻa i ka hopena like e hoʻohiki e hāʻawi i kāu waiwai nui, ʻo ia kou wā e hiki mai ana, kou kino, a me kou ʻuhane kahi ʻano hoʻohiki āu e hana ai me kou Akua. A ʻaʻole ʻo ka poʻe Kakolika wale nō ka hui haipule e manaʻoʻiʻo nei he laʻa a he ʻuhane ka male.
ʻOiaʻiʻo he kānāwai ko ke kaiāulu o kēia ao no ka mālama ʻana i nā male, akā inā ʻoe e heluhelu i kēlā mau kānāwai, ʻike ʻoe i ka hapa nui o kēlā mau kānāwai pili i nā waiwai o ka honua a me ka male ʻole. Aia kekahi mau hoʻokoe, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻo ka hapa nui e wehewehe i kekahi mau mea i loko o ka male e pili pū kekahi i ke kānāwai karaima.
ʻO kahi laʻana, ke kuʻi ʻana i kekahi me ka iniha o ko lākou ola he hewa hoʻopaʻi. Wahi a nā kānāwai male e pili pū kekahi i ka mea āu i male male ʻia ai.
No laila, ma hope o kēlā mau mea āpau, no ke aha e manaʻo ʻia ai ka male male ʻana he hanana haipule.
ʻO kēia no ka mea ʻaʻole kou ola a me kou ʻuhane ka mea mua. Ke hōʻaiʻē wale nei ʻoe ia mea mai ke Akua mai, a hāʻawi i kahi mea ʻaʻole nāu e koi ai i ka ʻae a kāna mea maoli. Manaʻo maʻamau.
Noʻu wale koʻu ola, ʻaʻole na ke akua ia, a no haʻi mea ʻē aʻe paha
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he aha kāu i hana ai e hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i ke ola ola? (Kudos iā Marty McFly lāua ʻo John Conner) Hāʻawi ʻoe i kekahi ala i mea e hōʻoia ai i ka chromosome X a me ka chromosome Y i hoʻopau ʻia e like me kāu hanauna?
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēlā, ua hāʻawi ʻia ʻoe i kahi koho e noho ma ka honua me ka lāhui a me ke kāne (ʻaʻole ka moe kolohe - ʻokoʻa ia) iā ʻoe i kēia manawa? Ua loaʻa anei ke kālā iā ʻoe iho e hānai iā ʻoe iho no nā makahiki mua ʻelima o kou ola? Ua aʻo a ua Charles Darwin paha ʻoe i kāu pēpē iā ʻoe iho i nā molemole e pono ai i kēlā me kēia ʻelima mau minuke e mālama i kou mau pūnaewele?
Pēlā nō, hiki i kāu kanaka makua o kēia manawa ke hana i nā mea āu e makemake ai, i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai, me ka ʻole o nā hopena? Ua hala anei ʻoe i ola i kahi ola e koi ʻole ai i nā pono o kou kino kino?
Inā ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo i nā mea āpau a me nā mea āpau āu no ʻoe a ʻo ʻoe wale nō, a ʻo ʻoe wale nō ke kuleana iā ia, a laila he haʻaheo ʻoe, narcissistic, SOB ʻaʻole pono ma ʻaneʻi, no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e pono male ma ka mua.
He aha ka hui ʻana o ka male ma ka hopena pule
E hoʻomaka kākou me ka mea ʻole -
- ʻAʻole ia he hoʻi hope
- ʻAʻole ia he seminar
- ʻAʻole ia no nā kāne
- ʻAʻole ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo
A laila, he aha ia?
He hopena pule kēia i hāʻawi ʻia nā leo haipule e alakaʻi ʻia e Kekahi Kahuna Kakolika i nā kāne i kahi wahi mālie e noʻonoʻo ai i ko lākou ola pū a hōʻoia i kā lākou hoʻohiki i kekahi i ke alo o ke Akua.
Manaʻoʻiʻo mākou e hoʻomau ka pilina o kekahi me kekahi a hiki i ka hopena o ko lākou ola. I kekahi manawa, pono lākou e hele i kahi pilikino e kamaʻilio wale.
ʻAʻole hiki ia i nā manawa āpau no nā mea āpau, i kekahi manawa pono lākou i kahi pāomi liʻiliʻi.
Hoʻonohonoho ka Marriage Encounter Weekend i ke kahua no kahi kamaʻilio ʻuhane hohonu ma waena o nā kāne.
ʻO nā koi mau o ke ola i kā mākou manawa a me ka ikaika e lawe i ka hapa nui o ko mākou ola. Hoʻopau nā kāne i ka mōhai pū ʻana i ko lākou manawa.
ʻO ka hālāwai e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e kamaʻilio, kamaʻilio maoli. E hoʻi i ka wā ʻōpio a piha i nā moeʻuhane e noho wale ana i ka mauʻu mauʻu me kahi uluna ʻūhā a kamaʻilio maʻalahi.
Hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēlā me ke kōkua ʻole o ke kahuna
Maikaʻi no ʻoe, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo anei? ʻO kou manaʻo ia, akā maliʻa paha manaʻo ka ʻaoʻao o kāu wahine. Akā inā ʻoe ma ka pae ma ke ʻano he kāne a laila hauʻoli. E like me ka ʻōlelo aʻo male a me ka moekolohe S&M, ʻaʻole no nā mea āpau.
Akā aia kekahi mau kāne e makemake ana iā ia, pono iā ia, a koi i kahi wahi kūpono a hoʻolimalima hoʻi e noho kaʻawale me ka ʻole o nā mea hoʻonāukiuki o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā. Hana pū kekahi hōkele, akā pono maoli kekahi poʻe i kahi me ka ʻole o nā mea hoʻowalewale a me nā hoʻowalewale.
Hāpai ka male Encounter Weekend ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa. He hanana i kākoʻo ʻia e ka Katolika, akā hāmama ia no nā mea āpau. Ma muli o ka manaʻo o nā Kakolika i ka laʻa o ka male, hana ia i ka mea e hiki ai ke mālama pū i nā kāne.
Aia kāu male ma waena ou a me ke Akua.
Hoʻonohonoho kahi hālāwai male i ke kahua, ʻaʻole ia e komo iki ma kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe i nā seminar, ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, a me nā mea like. Ke hana nei ia ma lalo o ka manaʻo o ke ʻae ʻana i nā mākua ʻelemakule e hiki i ka male ʻana ke kuleana no ka mālama ʻana pēlā.
E aloha paha kekahi i kekahi, akā e noho pū nei no kahi lōʻihi e hana i nā māwae liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia pilina. ʻAʻohe mea hemolele, a ma muli o ka haku ʻia ʻana o ka male ma ke ʻano he ʻelua mau kānaka hewa ʻole, paʻa nā hemahema.
Piʻi nui nā māwae liʻiliʻi i ka manawa a me ka ʻole o ka mālama pono ʻana, lilo nā māwae nui i poino i hiki ʻole ke hoʻoponopono hou ʻia.
ʻO ka launa pū ʻana kekahi i kekahi e kōkua i ka hoʻokumu hou ʻana i kēlā mau paʻa a paʻa.
Pēlā ka Marriage Encounter Weekend. Hoʻohui wale ia i ke Akua i ka hui, ma hope o nā mea āpau, hoʻohiki ʻoe i kona inoa i nā hoʻohiki e hoʻopaʻa pū i kāu male.