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I kēlā me kēia lā nā ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka honua maoli, hiki i nā mea he nui ke uku i kāu pili, ke pau ka mea hou, e like me nā bila, ka hana, ke kula, ka ʻohana, ka manaʻoʻiʻo, nā pilina, nā keiki, a me nā ʻoihana.
ʻO ka pili pili naʻau a ʻolua e kaʻana like ai, i ʻakaʻaka ai ʻolua i ke awakea o ka lā, ua hoʻopau pinepine ʻia, a ʻaʻohe manawa no ka hoʻomaha. Hiki ke hoʻonohonoho wikiwiki ʻia ka huhū.
Ua pau nā hiʻohiʻona leʻaleʻa a me nā huaʻōlelo moekolohe. "Ulu aʻe; ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi a leʻaleʻa i nā manawa āpau. ” Hewa!
Ma mua o kā mākou kamaʻilio ʻana pehea e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kahi kāne a pehea e hoʻopili ai me kahi kāne ma kahi pae manaʻo, eia kekahi mau hopena i hiki ʻole ke hoʻohui i ka naʻau me kāu kāne:
- Loneliness a kaumaha
- Kanalua
- Ulu mamao ʻoe
- Hoʻoipo
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I loko o kahi noiʻi i alakaʻi ʻia e Marriage.com, ʻekolu mau wahine i male no 20 mau makahiki i kēlā me kēia, haʻi i kā lākou mau mea huna e pili ana i ka pili aloha i ke kāne.
Kaʻana ka ʻatikala i kekahi o nā hihia manawa maoli mai kēlā hoʻopaʻa ʻana e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻohui i ka naʻau me kāu kāne.
Kekahi mau hihia manawa maoli
Ua male ʻia ʻo Janelle (mea hoʻonani) iā Ronnie (he mīkini mekanika) no 23 mau makahiki.
"Makemake kaʻu kāne i ke kūpaʻa, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo; ʻO wau pū kekahi. Ma hope o ka hana ʻana i ka lā holoʻokoʻa, ke hana ʻana me nā koi mai nā mea kūʻai aku maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole, a i kekahi manawa he wahine wahine huhū huhū, hiki iā Ronnie ke hilinaʻi iaʻu ʻaʻole ia he pōkā a i ʻole i lalo i ka hopena o kahi lā lōʻihi.
ʻOiai loaʻa iā mākou nā pilikia i kēlā me kēia manawa, ʻike wau e hoʻomanaʻo wau iaʻu iho i kanaka e makemake wau e puni i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e kuʻi ʻia me ka wahine ʻimi naʻaupō, manaʻo nui a i ʻole ka wahine namunamu ke makemake ʻole ʻo ia. "
"ʻAe, kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i nā mea āpau, akā loaʻa iā mākou kahi subliminal loo ʻōlelo ʻole e kōkua iā mākou e mākaukau no nā kamaʻilio paʻakikī.
Hoʻolālā mākou i kēlā mau kamaʻilio. Kiaʻi mākou i ka pilina paʻa o ko mākou pilina. Hāʻawi wau iā ia i kahi ʻano kūpono e hōʻoia i hiki iā ia ke nānā i mua e kaʻana like i kāna mau lā me aʻu.
Hiki iā ia ke nānā i mua i ka hoʻolauleʻa me aʻu a me ka leʻaleʻa manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole wau e wānana ʻia i nā manawa āpau, akā kūlike ke ʻano o kā mākou pilina. Kōkua nui kēlā.
He mea maʻalahi ke hoʻohui i ka naʻau. Ke holo nei ka manawa, maʻalahi ka maʻalahi. ”
Ua male ʻo Shelia (loio) iā Stanly (he polofesa ma ke kula nui) no 25 mau makahiki.
"I pili pili i ka naʻau iā Stanly, hana wau i mea maikaʻi nona iho. ʻOiai ke holo ʻole ʻo ia, paipai wau iā ia.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia e luhi i nā mahalo piha. ʻO wai ʻaʻole? Makemake nui ʻo ia iā ia ke ʻālua wau i kona mau naʻau me, pololei kēlā.
ʻAʻole au i hoʻohalahala iā ia ma kona maka. Hana wau i kēlā huhū me kaʻu mau ipo huna, ʻeā, no lākou ia, ʻeā? Manaʻo wau ʻo ka pili pili naʻau i ke kāne a lāua ke ʻae. "
Ua male ʻo Yvonne (kahu hānai) iā Paul (kahi mea kūʻai aku) no 21 mau makahiki.
ʻIke wau i kaʻu kāne hoihoi, loaʻa mau, mai ka manawa mua aʻu i hālāwai ai me ia. Ke kamaʻilio ʻo ia, ʻaʻole wau e ālai iā ia. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia makemake ʻo ia i kēlā mea e pili ana iaʻu mai ka hoʻomaka.
ʻLelo ʻo ia ke keakea ka wahine i ke kāne, manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai.
ʻĀ, ua aʻo nui au mai iā Paul. ʻIno wau i nā haʻuki, ʻo ka pīpeka hoʻi, a me ka kinipōpō hīnaʻi. Akā no ka mea ʻike wau makemake ʻo ia i nā haʻuki, hele wau i kahi pāʻani me ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. I koʻu nānā ʻana, wehewehe ʻo ia i ka pāʻani, a ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana, ʻike wau i ka mea e hana nei.
I hoʻokahi manawa, ua hauʻoli wau no kahi paʻi, akā ua hoʻomanaʻo koke ʻo Paul iaʻu ʻaʻole ia ʻo kā mākou hui. Akā ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua hauʻoli wau ua ʻike wau i ke ʻano o ka paʻi.
ʻAʻole nō nā haʻuki kaʻu mea. He mea ʻole ia, aloha ʻo Paul e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mākia a makemake iā ia ke ʻike wau i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei.
ʻIke wau i ka mea āu e launa pū ai me ka hoihoi i nā mea āu e makemake nui ai. Hoʻohui ia iā ʻoe me ka naʻau a hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi he nui e hoʻokau iā ʻoe i nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā manawa maikaʻi ʻole. "
ʻO ke ahonui ke kī
I ka hopena, ua ʻae nā mea pane āpau ʻaʻole maʻalahi e hoʻopili i ka naʻau me kāu kāne, akā maʻalahi ka maʻalahi me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ka manawa. Hoʻohui, pono nā keu pono.
E paila ia i ka ʻae a me ka hōʻoia. Pili ka wahine me kā lākou mau kāne ma ke ʻoluʻolu, kūlike i ke ʻano, a me ka paipai ʻana.
Me he mea lā he hoʻomanaʻo nui ko lākou i kā lākou mau wahine e hoʻi i hope i ka manawa a lākou e hele pū ai me kahi mea wale no ke kuʻikahi i ka pilina a i ʻole e ʻoluʻolu wale i kā lākou kāne.
ʻAʻole kekahi o nā wahine i manaʻo he kūpono ʻole ka hana a lākou i hana ai i loko o kā lākou pilina ma muli o ka mea i loaʻa iā lākou, he aloha mau.
Pili i ka naʻau me kahi kāne
I ka hoʻomaka o kēia ʻatikala, ua kaʻana like mākou i nā hopena o ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻohui i ke ʻano me kāu kāne. I kēia manawa hāʻawi mākou i kekahi mau mea āu e noʻonoʻo ai pehea e kūkulu hou ai i ka pilina o ke ʻano me kahi kāne.
- Kamaʻilio wehe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo - E hoʻomaopopo i kāu kāne, me ka ʻoluʻolu, i kou ʻano. E haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole ʻoe i pili kokoke iā ia e like me ʻoe ma mua. E nīnau inā aia kekahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa hou.
- Mai pāʻani i ka pāʻani hewa - Mai haʻi iā ia nāna kona hewa e hemo ai ʻoe. Ke waiho nei i nā hewa āpau iā ia e pale aku ai a hana i kahi kamaʻilio olakino ʻole. Ma kahi o, e hōʻike i kou makemake e pili iā ia e like me ʻoe ma mua.
- Nā lā hoʻolālā Ke hoʻonohonoho nei i kahi lā lā hoʻokahi i hoʻokahi pule a me ka hoʻomana haipule e hana i kahi pilina pili hohonu no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
- Loaʻa ka moekolohe maʻamau - He paʻakikī paha kēia e hana ai, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e pili i ka naʻau, akā ʻo ka moe kolohe ka mea maikaʻi iā ʻolua. ʻO ka moekolohe e hopena i ka orgasm kekahi o nā kaila nui loa o ka oxytocin, a i ʻole "ka lāʻau aloha" e loaʻa iā ʻoe.