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- Ke huli huli puni ʻole ʻia
- Nā ala 8 e pale ai i kāu kālā i ka hemo male
- 1. E ʻike i kāu kālā āpau a me kāu waiwai
- 2. E hoʻokaʻawale i kāu waihona pēke ponoʻī mai nā waihona hui pū āu
- 3. E noi no ke kōkua koke
- 4. Paʻi i nā palapala e pono ai
- 5. Pani i kāu mau helu hōʻaiʻē hui āpau a inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hōʻaiʻē hana
- 6. E hōʻoia e hana i kāu haʻawina home
- 7. Hoʻomaopopo anei ʻoe i kou poʻe pōmaikaʻi?
- 8. E kiʻi i ka hui maikaʻi loa
- Nā manaʻo hope loa
ʻAʻohe o ka male male i ka hoʻolālā a kekahi ma hope o ko lāua male ʻana. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke nakinaki mākou i nā kaula, hoʻolālā mākou no ko mākou wā e hiki mai ana i mua. He manaʻo mākou e hoʻopukapuka i nā waiwai, mālama kālā, hele huakaʻi, a loaʻa nā keiki.
ʻO kā mākou iho ia me ka hauʻoli-ma hope akā i ka wā e ola ana ke ola, ʻaʻole hele i kahi manawa e like me ka hoʻolālā a hoʻohuli i kahi male hauʻoli i kahi manawa chaotic.
E lilo nā hoʻolālā āu i hui pū ai i mau papa no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka wā e hiki mai ana o kekahi.
Maʻalahi loa ka male male ʻana i kēia manawa a ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona maikaʻi. Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke pale aku i kaʻu kālā i ka hemo male? Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomaka e hoʻopaʻa i kaʻu kālā? E pane ʻia kēia i ka wā e hele ai mākou i nā hoʻolālā 8 e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana no ka pale ʻana i kāu hoʻopukapuka i ka hemo ʻana.
Ke huli huli puni ʻole ʻia
ʻAʻole he mea kahaha i ka male ʻana.
Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona e hele ana ʻoe i kēia ala a ʻike ʻoe i ka manawa e hoʻokuʻu ai. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomākaukau ai no kēia. I kēia manawa, inā manaʻo ʻoe e pau koke ana kāu male ʻana a laila hiki i kou manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i mua loa ke ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole e holo pono kāu male male.
He kaumaha kaumaha loa ka male ʻana akā hiki nō i nā kumu he nui ke kumu he ʻawaʻawa a paʻakikī hoʻi ka hemo ʻana.
Hiki i nā kumu o ka moekolohe ʻole, nā hihia kalaima, ka hoʻomāinoino kino, a me nā kumu ʻē aʻe he nui i loaʻa ʻole i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua ke kūkākūkā kūkā maluhia.
I kēia mau hihia, mākaukau e hana i kekahi mau hana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iho a me kāu kālā e kūʻē i nā hana kolohe. E heluhelu ma o kēia mau kumumanaʻo ma mua o kou hele ʻana i ke kaʻina hana o ka hemo. Hana maikaʻi ʻia kēia ma mua o ka hoʻomaka o ke kaʻina hana hemo.
E hoʻomanaʻo, he mea nui e pale iā ʻoe iho a me kāu poʻe keiki mai ka hōʻeha kālā a hana i kēia; pono ʻoe e paulele a mākaukau.
Nā ala 8 e pale ai i kāu kālā i ka hemo male
Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke pale aku i kaʻu kālā i ka hemo male wahine? Hiki nō paha?
ʻAe nō ka pane! ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hoʻomākaukau no ka hemo ʻana a ʻo kekahi o nā ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ke kaʻina holoʻokoʻa ke pale nei i kāu kālā inā ʻaʻole e holo pono ka male male.
1. E ʻike i kāu kālā āpau a me kāu waiwai
He mea kūpono wale nō e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea āu a me nā mea ʻole.
Ma mua o kekahi mea ʻē, e mua i kēia hana ma mua. ʻO kekahi mea e hoʻomaopopo ai ka papa inoa o nā waiwai i kou inoa a me nā mea a kāu hoa.
I nā hanana a pau āu e hopohopo nei e pili ana i ka luku ʻana o kāu hoa, ʻaihue a hōʻino ʻana paha i kāu waiwai ponoʻī inā kū hewa kekahi mea - e hana i ka hana. Hūnā a hāʻawi paha iā ia i kekahi kanaka āu e ʻike ai e hūnā iā ia.
2. E hoʻokaʻawale i kāu waihona pēke ponoʻī mai nā waihona hui pū āu
He maʻalea kēia, makemake ʻoe e ʻike kāu wahine e pili ana iā ia akā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kāu wahine e lilo i ʻāpana o ia mea.
ʻO ke kumu o kēia no ka mea inā hūnā ʻia a laila hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana kūʻē iā ʻoe - e like paha me kahi hana hoʻopono ʻole. Mālama i ke kālā i loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kālā ke hoʻomaka ke kaʻina hana hemo. Loaʻa ka lawa o ke kālā e hele ai i nā uku a ʻo kāu waihona kālā no 3 mau mahina a ʻoi.
3. E noi no ke kōkua koke
I kekahi hanana i loaʻa i kāu wahine i kahi maʻi pilikino a i ʻole ke kū nei i ka nui o nā pilikia hoʻokele huhū i hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻopaʻi a i ʻole kahi hoʻolālā e hoʻohana i kāu kālā i mālama ʻia, nā waiwai a me nā mālama kālā - a laila he ʻano kēia e noi no ke kōkua koke. .
Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kāu loio ʻohana i hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi manaʻo i nā mea āu e hiki ai ke hana no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hana i hana ʻia mai kāu wahine mai me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi kaohi kaohi.
4. Paʻi i nā palapala e pono ai
E hele i ke kula kahiko a paʻi i nā palapala e pono ai āu e makemake ai i kāu kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana. E kiʻi pū i nā kope paʻakikī o nā waihona panakō, nā waiwai, nā waihona hui, a me nā kāleka hōʻaiʻē.
E loaʻa i kāu pahu PO ponoʻī i kēlā me kēia hihia āu e makemake ai e hoʻouna ʻia iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole makemake i kāu wahine e kiʻi iā ia ma mua o kāu hana.
E holo paha nā kope palupalu akā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e lawe i nā manawa kūpono?
5. Pani i kāu mau helu hōʻaiʻē hui āpau a inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hōʻaiʻē hana
Uku aku iā lākou a hoʻopau iā lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho e hoʻoili i ke kuleana kū kānāwai i kāu wahine. ʻAʻole makemake mākou e loaʻa nā hōʻaiʻē e kali nei ke hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka hemo. ʻO ka hapanui paha, e kaʻana ʻia nā aie āpau e ʻolua a ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kēlā, ʻeā?
6. E hōʻoia e hana i kāu haʻawina home
E kamaʻāina me kāu mau kānāwai mokuʻāina. Ua ʻike anei ʻoe he ʻokoʻa loa nā kānāwai no ka hemo male ma nā mokuʻāina āpau? No laila ʻaʻole e hana ka mea āu e ʻike ai me ka mokuʻāina kahi āu e noho ai.
E hoʻomaʻamaʻa a ʻike i kāu kuleana. ʻO kēia ala, ʻaʻole ʻoe e pūʻiwa me ka mea a ka ʻaha e hoʻoholo ai.
7. Hoʻomaopopo anei ʻoe i kou poʻe pōmaikaʻi?
Ke hoʻomaka nei ʻoe i ka pilina, ua inoa ʻoe i kāu wahine ma ke ʻano he pōmaikaʻi inā loaʻa kekahi mea? A i ʻole he ʻōlelo paha kāu wahine i kāu mau waiwai āpau? E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia mau mea āpau a hoʻololi i nā mea e pono ai ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka noho male male ʻana.
8. E kiʻi i ka hui maikaʻi loa
ʻIke i ka mea e hoʻolimalima a ʻike maopopo lākou i kā lākou hana.
ʻAʻole wale kēia e lanakila i nā kūkākūkā i kāu male male ʻana; ʻo ia wale nō e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kāu wā e hiki mai ana a me kāu kālā a me kāu waiwai i loaʻa i ka paʻakikī. E kōkua iā lākou i nā ʻenehana a me ka hana a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa i kāu kālā me ka hana ʻole ʻana e like me ka hana ʻana i kēia i kahi hūnā. Inā he mau kānaka kūpono kāu me ʻoe - e maʻalahi ka lanakila ʻana i kāu kūkā kūkā ʻana.
Nā manaʻo hope loa
Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke pale aku i kaʻu kālā i ka hemo male wahine?
Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomaka e hoʻomākaukau no kaʻu haʻalele male ʻoiai e hoʻopaʻa ana i ka mea i loaʻa iaʻu. He paʻakikī paha ia akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana i nā hoʻolālā 8 a pau. Hana i ka mea wale nō e pono ai a hoʻolohe i kāu hui.
E kōkua ana kekahi o kēia mau hoʻolālā a ʻaʻole pili paha kekahi i kāu kūlana. ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia, inā he hoʻolālā kāu, a laila e holo pono nā mea āpau no ka mea ʻoi loa.