Aia ke aloha i ka lewa, aia mau i ka lewa. Ke ʻimi nei nā miliona o ka poʻe i kēia lā, ke manaʻo nei, e makemake nei no kēlā hoa hana hoʻokalakupua e kāhili iā lākou mai ko lākou mau wāwae a holo aku i ka napoʻo ʻana o ka lā. Akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia, ʻeā? Eia kahi ʻike i ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana iā ʻoe iho no ke aloha, e ka ʻike ʻana he hoa maikaʻi loa ia, a ʻo wai paha he hoa weliweli me ka nānā ʻole i ka kemika āu e ʻike ai i kēlā lā mua, ʻelua a ʻekolu paha.
Eia kahi mea hoihoi i ke aloha, a me ke kī nui a ka poʻe e pono ai e hāhai i ka wā e hoʻāʻo ai e hoʻoholo inā he kanaka lōʻihi paha kā lākou i hui ai.
"ʻO ke kūlike i ke aloha ke kī". A i ʻole ia? Ua haʻi ʻia mai mākou iā ia i mau makahiki. E ʻike i ka mea kūlike, nā mea like like, nā like like, nā makemake like ʻole. Akā kali kali. Aia kekahi ʻaoʻao o ka hoʻohālikelike.
He aha e pili ana i ka poʻe e ʻōlelo nei he ʻumeʻume ka poʻe kūʻē? He aha e pili ana i nā puke e ʻōlelo nei e nānā i kekahi e lawe i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa i kou honua, i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kekahi i kekahi. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻo kou ikaika ka nāwaliwali o kāu hoa a ʻo ko lākou ikaika kou nāwaliwali.
He huikau paha ia, ʻeā? No laila ʻo wai ka pono? ʻO ke aliʻi hoʻokaulike? He aha inā hewa hewa ʻole kēia mau hoʻomoana? 20 mau makahiki i hala, i kaʻu ʻōlelo aʻo a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ke ola, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi holomua nui. ʻOiai e hana ana me kahi wahine e ʻimi nei i ke aloha lōʻihi, ua noi wau iā ia e kākau e pili ana i kāna mau pilina i hala a me nā kumu i kūleʻa ʻole ai lākou.
Ua noi au iā ia e hana i kahi papa inoa, o nā kāne like ʻole āna i kau ai, a e kākau aʻe ma hope o kēlā me kēia inoa o lākou i hoʻokahi, ʻelua, ʻekolu, ʻehā ʻehā mau kumu i holo ʻole ai ka pilina. A ʻo ka mea āna i komo mai ai me ke gula! Ua hoʻohana wau i kēia hoʻolālā i kēia manawa no 20 mau makahiki me kēlā me kēia mea kūʻai aku aʻu e hana pū nei me ka mea e ʻimi nei i ke aloha hohonu.
A he aha kaʻu i ʻike ai ma o kēia hoʻoikaika ʻana? Aia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona i loko o kā mākou pili pili i ka wā i holo ʻole, akā naʻe e ʻumeʻume mākou i ka poʻe me nā ʻano like ʻole e maikaʻi ʻole.
A ua kōkua mai kēlā iaʻu e hana paha i kekahi o nā pono hana nui loa i loko o ke aloha aʻu i hana ai i ka 3% rula o David Essel o ka pili aloha ʻana. Hiki i nā mea pepehi kanaka ke maʻalahi ke ʻike wale ma ka nānā ʻana i kāu pili aloha i hala ʻole.
No laila inā ʻoe e hana i kēia hoʻoikaika i kēia manawa, ʻike ʻoe i kahi kumu. Ua kau pinepine paha ʻoe i kahi kāne a wahine paha i hiki ʻole ke aloha i ka naʻau? A i ʻole nā kāne a i ʻole nā wahine inu inu nui? A i ʻole ʻo nā mea ʻona i ka moekolohe, ka meaʻai, ka puhihaka a i ʻole ka hana?
Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i nā keikikāne maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole nā kaikamahine maikaʻi ʻole i ke aloha, hāʻawi ia i gehena o ka pīhoihoi nui akā ʻaʻohe palekana ʻē aʻe? ʻIke ʻoe, hāʻawi ʻia ka hoʻokaulike. Inā ʻaʻohe ou ʻano hoʻokaulike ma kahi pae kiʻekiʻe loa me kekahi, e pau ka pilina. Luku loa ʻia.
Akā ʻaʻole kēlā ke kī. ʻO ke kī maoli e ʻike i ka mea o kāu poʻe pepehi kanaka hana, he aha ka mea e hana ʻole ʻole ai iā ʻoe, a laila me ka nānā ʻole i ke ʻano kupaianaha o ka kemikō inā pili ʻoe i kahi mea hou a ʻo kāu mea hana pepehi kanaka āu e loaʻa ai. hele wāwae. O ia wale nō. E loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ikaika e hele wāwae.
Hiki i kāu mea pepehi kanaka hana i mea e like me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kāu ipo a i ʻole ka pakanā hou he keiki, a ʻaʻole maoli ʻoe makemake e pili i nā keiki. ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo i ka nui o kāu kemika, e hōʻea mai nā huhū i ka honua a make ka pilina.
Pehea ka puhaka? Aia kekahi wahine aʻu i hana pū ai me kahi kāne i waiwai nui, lele iā ia ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa, he mau leʻaleʻa kā lākou akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e haʻalele i ka puhipaka. Ua hoʻowahāwahā iā ia. No laila ua hoʻopunipuni ʻia ʻo ia e ke kālā, huakaʻi, a he uʻi loa ʻo ia. Akā ʻo kekahi o kāna mea hana make i ka puhipaka. Ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e pahu iā ia i ka ʻaoʻao, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻi i kahi mea pepehi kanaka i ka ʻaoʻao. E hoʻāla hou ana ia i kona poʻo ʻino a sabotage i kahi manawa kūpono no ke aloha mau loa.
Māhele wau i nā kikoʻī i kā mākou puke hou - Focus! Pepehi i kāu mau pahuhopu. ʻO ke alakaʻi i hōʻike ʻia i ka kūleʻa nui, kahi ʻano ikaika a me ke aloha hohonu. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nānā i ka 3% rula o ka pili aloha, ke hana hou nei ʻoe i ka wā i hala. He hala i holo ʻole, a ʻaʻole e holo.
Ua ʻōlelo kekahi o kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku manaʻo lākou ua paʻakikī loa wau i ka wā a lākou i haʻi mai ai iaʻu e pili ana lākou i kēia "kanaka nui", ka mea i loaʻa he ʻelua a ʻekolu paha mau mea pepehi kanaka a makemake lākou e ʻike inā e holo paha ia.
A haʻi mau wau iā lākou, aia iā ʻoe inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike inā e holo pono ia, akā inā aia kekahi mea pepehi kanaka i ka manawa e hiki ai, ʻaʻohe o nā manawa o ka pilina e neʻe nei i mua. A koho aha? I ʻelua mau mahina ma hope ua hoʻi lākou i ke keʻena, e nānā ana iaʻu me nā maka i piha i ka ukiuki. ʻO ka hope, haʻi wau i kēlā me kēia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole lawa ka kemika. ʻAʻole lawa ka launa pū. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i kahi kanaka i loaʻa ʻole kekahi o kāu mea hana kuikahi i ke aloha, i mea e hana ai ke aloha. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noho me kahi mea nāna ka pepehi kanaka hana, no 30, 40 a 50 mau makahiki paha. Akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hauʻoli. A ʻaʻole anei kēlā ke kiko o ke aloha? E ʻike ai i kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli pū no ke koena o kou ola?
Hana i ka hana. I kēia manawa. Mahalo mau loa ʻoe, hauʻoli mau loa ke ʻike ʻoe i kēlā kanaka i loaʻa ʻole o kāu mea pepehi kanaka aelike. Pono ke ahonui, e hana ana i ka hoʻolālā aʻu i helu ai ma aneʻi i kēia ʻatikala a i ʻole e heluhelu piha ʻana i ka manaʻo o ke aloha hohonu i kā mākou puke hou, i mea e aloha ai i hoʻokahi a me nā mea āpau.