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- 1. E kiʻi i kōkua! ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana wale i kēia
- 2. Noho mālie
- 3. Hana i ka ʻaelike me kāu wahine e pili pū ʻoe
- 4. E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa no ka noiʻi ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a aʻo i ka mea e manaʻo ai
ʻO ke kuhi ʻana pehea e hana ai me kahi kaikamahine a keiki kāne paha a mea hōʻāpau kahi paʻakikī, e haʻi iki.
Ma waho o ka makaʻu o ka nalo ʻana i kahi keiki, ʻaʻole nalo ia iā mākou ma ke ʻano he makua me kahi kaikamahine hoʻōla lāʻau, ke ʻike nei paha ʻoe i kāu moe ʻino maikaʻi loa.
He mea hōʻehaʻeha ke nānā aku i kāu keiki e luku iā lākou iho a me ko lākou ola. Eia kekahi, he mea weliweli ke ʻike ʻoe, ʻoiai ke kaikamahine a kāu keiki paha i ka lāʻau, ʻike wale ʻoe i nā aniani o ke kanaka a lākou i noho mua ai.
Kaukaʻi ʻia i ka mamao o ka hele ʻana o kāu kaikamahine, e ʻike nō hoʻi ʻoe i kahi ʻano kōkua ʻole a ʻike maka paha i kāu keiki e uhaʻi i nā kānāwai, e lilo i kanaka makemake ʻole ʻia no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a puni a wahaheʻe iā ʻoe a ʻaihue iā ʻoe a i ka poʻe kokoke. ʻo ia.
Iloko o keia manawa oe e haha ole kōkua, a mai o ka kāohi. E nīnau paha ʻoe i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ʻokoʻa. ʻO ka hōʻino iā ʻoe iho, ka hoʻopiʻi i kāu wahine a i kāu kaikamahine paha e ʻike ʻia e like me ke kaumaha, ka makaʻu, ka hopohopo a me ka haʻohaʻo i ka hana a kāu kaikamahine a inā e pili ana ko lākou palekana i nā kāleka.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kāu nānā āpau i kāu kaikamahine, ma ke kumukūʻai o ka nānā e kau ʻia ma luna o kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe a wahine paha. A e like me inā ʻaʻole lawa kēia mau mea āpau, hiki ke hoʻāʻo ʻia kāu mau pilina me nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a me kāu wahine, a hiki iā ʻoe (a i ʻole) e hiki ai i kāu kaikamahine mea hōʻāʻau lāʻau mai ke aloha.
Nui kēlā.
Me kēia i ka noʻonoʻo, eia kā mākou mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui no ka pehea e hana aku ai me kahi kaikamahine wahine ʻona.
1. E kiʻi i kōkua! ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana wale i kēia
ʻO ka mea mua āu e pono ai e hana ʻo ka hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia wale nō.
E hoʻokaʻawale ka hana ʻana me ke kaikamahine addict i ka lāʻau lapaʻau iā ʻoe, ma ke ʻano maoli a e wāwahi hoʻi i kahi puka ma waena o kou ʻohana inā ʻae ʻoe. He mea kūpono e ʻimi i nā kōkua kūwaho a i ʻole nā loea lāʻau, nā hana manawaleʻa, nā mea hoʻoponopono, nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana.
ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole hele kāu kaikamahine addict drug, ʻo ʻoe, ʻo kāu wahine a me kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe i hoʻopilikia ʻia e kēia kūlana. Me he mea lā indulgent, a ʻaʻole maikaʻi paha ʻoiai ʻaʻohe o ʻoukou i hana i nā pilikia, akā ʻo kēia kekahi o nā ala kūʻē loa āu i hoʻokikina ʻia ai, a e pono ana ke kōkua.
I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe - pono ʻoe e kiʻi i ke kōkua no ʻoe iho, ʻokoʻa kou ʻohana a me kāu kaikamahine ʻo ka mea ʻona a me kēlā me kēia ʻāpana o ke kōkua.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo -
E hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo i nā kumumanaʻo e ukali ai kāu kaikamahine ʻona. E like lākou me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe i loaʻa nā keiki i kaukō i nā lāʻau.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo mai ka poʻe e hele mamao aku ana i ke ala a māʻona i kāu pono e hana i kahi mea e kōkua ai i ka poʻe ma hope ou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa pinepine i kahi ala e hoʻopili ai me ia mau ʻohana ma ka pūnaewele a i ʻole ma o nā hana manawaleʻa.
2. Noho mālie
Inā ua ʻike ʻoe ua pili kāu kaikamahine i nā lāʻau, he mea nui ia e noho mālie ʻoe. E hōʻeha wale ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a me kou pilina me kāu kaikamahine ʻāpiki lāʻau inā lilo ʻoe.
Akā, inā ke kaʻana like kāu kaikamahine me ʻoe ua pili ʻo ia, ua hiki i ka manawa e hoʻolohe ai, e nīnau i nā nīnau he nui āu e pono ai a hiki iā ia ke pane.
E hōʻoia iā ia e aloha ʻoe iā ia a mai hoʻokau i nā nīnau a wanaʻao paha. Ma kahi o, hana me kou mau manaʻo a puni kēia pōkā pahū mai kāu kaikamahine ʻōpala ma ka liʻiliʻi no kēia manawa.
A inā ua ʻike ʻoe i ka pili o kāu kaikamahine a pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā me ia, e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e hoʻoponopono ai i kou mau manaʻo e pili ana iā ia.
Ma mua o ka kamaʻilio ʻana me ia i ka pilikia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāhai i kekahi mau kaʻina hou aʻe ma mua o ka hāpai ʻana i ka pilikia me kāu kaikamahine.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo -
Mai pale i kāu kaikamahine mai ka hoʻoponopono ʻana me ka ʻole o ke kōkua a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka poʻe loea no ka mea he ʻoʻoleʻa paha ka haʻalele ʻana a hiki ke hōʻeha loa iā lākou.
Hiki iā lākou ke overdose inā ua lawe lākou i kahi manawa mai nā lāʻau lapaʻau e hoʻi hou iā ia.
3. Hana i ka ʻaelike me kāu wahine e pili pū ʻoe
E hoʻāʻo ʻia ana ʻoe me kāu kāne, a e ʻaʻa aku nō kekahi i kekahi. E kū kahi kaikamahine addict i mea ʻole e loaʻa ai ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, a ma ke ʻano he makua, e hoʻokuʻi ʻia ʻoe i ka hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae ʻoe e hana.
Hiki i kēia mau hanana ke hoʻokau i kāu male.
No laila mai ka offset, pono e hana i ka ʻaelike me kāu wahine e pili ana pehea ʻoe e hana pū ai i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Nā kumuhana e kūkā a noʻonoʻo ai paha -
- E kōkua ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi
- ʻAʻole ʻoe e hōʻino kekahi i kekahi
- E kū like ʻoe i kāu kū me kāu kaikamahine
- Ka noiʻi a me ka ʻike e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike
- E hele ʻoe i kāu kaikamahine e hāpai i ka pilikia a kākoʻo iā ia
- Nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kākoʻo i ke koena o kou ʻohana i kēia manawa
- Nā pane āu e ʻimi ai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike iā lākou
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo -
E hana i kahi hoʻolālā e hui pū e kūkākūkā i nā mea i kēlā me kēia pule, a i ʻole i kēlā me kēia lā i hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i ke kākoʻo pū kekahi.
4. E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa no ka noiʻi ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a aʻo i ka mea e manaʻo ai
Ua ʻōlelo ʻē mākou i ka manaʻo o ke aʻo ʻana pehea e hana ai me kahi kaikamahine ʻāpiki lāʻau lapaʻau a me ka noho ʻana me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke kaikamahine wahine ʻona lāʻau e loaʻa ka hopena ma nā wahi āpau o kou ola a me kou psyche.
No laila, he mea nui e hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa e noiʻi ai a aʻo e pili ana i ke kūlana i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i nā koho maikaʻi loa no kāu kaikamahine ʻōpio a na ʻolua a me kou ʻohana.
E kōkua ana ka noiʻi iā ʻoe e kaohi a hoʻomaopopo i ka mea e hana nei.
E aʻo pehea e hana ai me kekahi neʻe loa a paʻakikī hoʻi i ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina me kāu wahine, nā keiki ʻē aʻe, ʻohana, mau hoaaloha, a ʻoiai hoʻi kāu kaikamahine mea hōʻāʻau lāʻau.
Nā kumuhana hiki iā ʻoe ke noiʻi e hoʻomaka ʻoe -
- ʻO nā moʻolelo o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kā lākou keiki addict drug
- ʻImi i loko o nā lāʻau i koi ai kāu kaikamahine e hoʻohana nei lākou
- E ʻike hou aʻe e pili ana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
- E aʻo pehea e kākoʻo ai kekahi i kekahi ma o kēia ma ke ʻano he ʻohana mai ka poʻe loea lāʻau a i ʻole ka poʻe i hele ma laila
- E aʻo i ka mea i kōkua i ka mea addict, he aha nā hoʻolālā i hoʻokō ʻia, he aha nā hewa o nā mākua a i ʻole nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a puni ka lāʻau lapaʻau i hana ʻia
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo -
Nui a hewahewa nā pūnaewele ʻike e uhi i nā ʻaoʻao āpau o ka hōʻino lāʻau a inā hiki iā ʻoe ke inu i ka ʻike i hiki, e mākaukau hou ʻoe e noho olakino a noʻonoʻo pono iā ʻoe iho.
E mālama pū i kou ʻohana a me ka male ʻana, e mālama i ka pilina me kāu kaikamahine mea hōʻaʻi lāʻau me ka ʻole o ka ʻae iā ia. E hoʻomaopopo pono ʻoe i nā pilikia a kāu kaikamahine e hele nei inā haʻalele ʻo ia, a aʻo hou e pili ana i nā kaiapuni i ʻike ʻia e nā mea hōʻalo lāʻau.
ʻO kēia kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua maikaʻi i kāu kaikamahine.