Anter
- E ʻae i kāna pane hiki
- E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu e ʻōlelo ai
- E hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa hoʻolōʻihi ʻole e kamaʻilio
- E hoʻomau i ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana
- Mai kuhi lima
- ʻAe i kekahi manawa e kamaʻilio hou aʻe
ʻO kēia ka manawa. ʻAʻole ʻoe i manaʻo e hele mai i kēia manawa i kāu male, akā ua pau ʻoe.
Ua hoʻokau ʻoe i kou puʻuwai a me kou ʻuhane i ka hana ʻana i kāu pilina me kāu kāne, akā paʻa wale nā mea. Minamina, ua hala kāu male.
Ua haʻi aku ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, "Makemake au i kahi hemo". ʻO kēlā hoʻoholo, ʻike hope loa ʻoe.
I kēia manawa hiki mai ka ʻāpana paʻakikī: pehea e haʻi ai i kāu kāne makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo?
Inā ua male ʻoe i hoʻokahi makahiki a i ʻole 25 mau makahiki, e haʻi ana i kāu kāne makemake ʻoe i ka hemo ʻana ʻo ia kekahi o nā paʻakikī o kou ola. Nui nā ala e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kēia, a pehea ʻoe e hana ai i kahi hopena koʻikoʻi i ka hana ʻana o ka male male.
E hele a weliweli paha ka male male, a i ʻole e noho makaʻāinana paha. ʻOiai he nui nā mea e pāʻani ai i kēia, pehea ʻoe e haʻi ai i kāu wahine makemake i kahi hemo kekahi o lākou. No laila e noʻonoʻo i kou hele ʻana i kēia kaʻina.
Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka noi ʻana i kahi male male no kāu kāne:
E ʻae i kāna pane hiki
Aia nā ala like ʻole e ʻōlelo ai makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo. E hoʻāʻo e ana i kāna pane pili paha e hoʻoholo i ke ala e kamaʻilio ai i kāu wahine e pili ana.
Manaʻo ʻoe he kuhi kā kāu kāne pehea kou hauʻoli? Eia kekahi, e hoʻomanaʻo he ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka hauʻoli ʻole a me ka hemo ʻana. Ua hala paha kekahi mea, a ua ʻōlelo paha ʻoe i kekahi mea i ka wā i hala e hōʻike ai inā makemake ʻoe i waho?
Inā ʻaʻohe ona clueless, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o kēia; iā ia, manaʻo paha ia ua puka mai ia mai ka māla hema, a e hakakā ākea paha ʻo ia i ka haʻi ʻana i ka manaʻo.
Eia nō naʻe, inā manaʻo ʻoe he kuhi kāna, a laila e maʻalahi iki paha ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Inā ʻo ia e huki nei, a laila e noʻonoʻo paha ʻo ia aia ka male ma luna o nā pōhaku, a ʻo kēia kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana e like paha me ka holomua maoli nona.
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu e ʻōlelo ai
Me kona ʻano hiki i kou manaʻo, ua hiki i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i kāu mea e ʻōlelo aku ai iā ia. Ma kahi o ka hopohopo pehea e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe makemake i kahi hemo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kou ʻano hauʻoli ʻole no kekahi manawa i kēia manawa, a ua kaʻawale ʻoe.
A laila e haʻi iā ia ua manaʻo ʻoe no kekahi manawa ʻaʻole e holo ka male a makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo.E hōʻoia e ʻōlelo i ka ʻōlelo, no laila maopopo iā ia.
Kali iā ia e pane. E nīnau paha kāna nīnau.
Noho laulaha. Inā noi ʻo ia i nā kikoʻī, e hoʻāʻo nō e mālama i ka laulā. Inā pono ʻoe, a laila e haʻi wale i kekahi mau pilikia koʻikoʻi, akā kamaʻilio maʻamau e pili ana pehea kou lā i kēlā me kēia lā ola hauʻoli ʻole a ʻaʻole makemake.
Inā pono ʻoe, ma mua o kou hui ʻana, kākau i kou mau manaʻo i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho iā lākou a mākaukau. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i kāu ipo e makemake i ka hemo ʻana, ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻalahi noʻu a me kāu hoa.
Akā, pono ʻoe e ʻike pehea e haʻi ai iā ia makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo me ka ʻole e hāʻawi i kahi no nā paio hou a i ʻole nā paio ma waena o ʻolua.
E hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa hoʻolōʻihi ʻole e kamaʻilio
E haʻi i kāu kāne pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i kekahi mea a hoʻonohonoho i ka manawa a me ka lā. E hele i kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lilo i wahi pilikino a noho pū kekahi me ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana.
E kāpae i kāu kelepona paʻalima, e kiʻi i kahi kahu hānai - ʻo nā mea āpau āu e pono ai e hana ʻole a hoʻokaʻawale ʻole ʻia ʻolua ke kamaʻilio. Maliʻa paha ma kou home, a i ʻole pāka, a i kahi ʻē paha i hūnā ʻia e kamaʻilio me kāu kāne e pili ana i ka hemo male.
E hoʻomau i ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana
He aha nā ala kūpono e noi aku ai i kāu wahine no ka hemo me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hopena koʻikoʻi mai kāu hoa iā lākou.
Ke kamaʻilio ʻoe, pili pono nā mea i mea ʻole, wela, a i ʻole ʻelua paha. ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e haʻi aku ai i kāu wahine makemake ʻoe i ka hemo male ʻo ia ke noho kīwila ʻoiai ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea e hana pēlā.
Inā hana kolohe ʻole kāu kāne, mai hāʻule i ka pahele like a hana me nā manaʻo ʻino. Ke pane ʻole ʻoe, ʻōlelo paha ʻo ia i nā mea e hoʻāʻo ai e hōʻeleu iā ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole hou e hāʻule.
E hoʻomanaʻo i kāu hana ma aneʻi - ke hōʻike wale nei ʻoe iā ia i kāu makemake. ʻO kāu pahuhopu nui ka hemo, he paʻakikī ia. Mai hana i nā mea ʻino e ka ʻae ʻana i nā naʻau e hoʻokahuli iā ʻoe.
Mai kuhi lima
ʻO kekahi o nā mea koʻikoʻi e hoʻomanaʻo i ka wā e ʻimi nei i nā ala e haʻi aku ai i kāu kāne makemake ʻoe i ka hemo male ʻole, e kuhikuhi mau i nā manamana lima i kāu hoa.
Ma kēia kamaʻilio ʻana, a i loko o nā pule ma hope, e nīnau paha kāu kāne iā ʻoe no nā pilikia kikoʻī a i ʻole nā hanana i hewa ai kekahi o ʻolua.
Hiki paha iā ia ke kuhikuhi i ka hewa iā ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i nā manamana lima. Mai pāʻani i kēlā pāʻani. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i nā pōʻai e pili ana i ka hewa.
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pili ka hewa iā ʻolua ma ka liʻiliʻi. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole mea nui ka hala. ʻO ka mea nui ka wā o kēia wā a me ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻAe i kekahi manawa e kamaʻilio hou aʻe
Pehea hou ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai i kāu kāne ke makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo?
ʻĀ, ʻaʻole maʻalahi kēia mea a ʻaʻole ia e lilo i kahi kūkā kamaʻilio hoʻokahi manawa. E piʻi aʻe nā manaʻo hou aʻe, a inā ʻae ʻolua e neʻe i mua me ka haʻalele male, a laila e kamaʻilio hou ʻoe e pili ana i nā mea.
ʻO kēia kūkākūkā mua e haʻi maʻalahi iā ia makemake i kahi hemo. ʻAʻohe mea hou aʻe, ʻaʻohe mea liʻiliʻi! Inā lawe ʻo ia i nā kikoʻī, e haʻi iā ia makemake wale ʻoe i kahi manawa a hoʻonohonoho i kahi lā e hiki mai ana e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kālā, nā keiki, a me nā mea āpau āpau.
Pono kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kau i kou mau kānalua i ka pehea e haʻi ai i kāu kāne makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo e hoʻomaha. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana me ka hemo. Akā i kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha me ka ʻike ua ʻōlelo ʻoe i kou maluhia a hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe hope.