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- Nā Dynamika Hou
- He hiʻohiʻona o mākou iho
- Hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke ola ma mua o ka wā ma mua
- Ke loaʻa nei ke kaulike
- E hōʻano hou i ka manawa maikaʻi
- E kamaʻilio
- ʻO ka makana o ka ʻohana
Hoʻokumu ʻia kahi pilina kūikawā ma waena o ʻoe a me kāu hoa ke ʻike mua ʻoe, 'Ua hana mākou i kēia, eia kēia hana mana liʻiliʻi ma aneʻi no mākou a he ʻāpana ia o kāua.'ʻO ka nānā ʻana i kāu keiki no ka manawa mua he luhi, i kēlā manawa ʻike ʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka makaʻu. Akā ua emi koke kēia hui ʻoliʻoli o ka naʻau a hoʻololi kahi set hou iā lākou i kou komo ʻana i ka ʻāina i palapala ʻole ʻia o ... Mākua.
I loko o nā lā i manaʻo ʻia he hemolele loa ʻo ʻolua wale nō ', aia kekahi mau dynamics i kū mai: Ua ʻae ʻolua, ua ʻae a ʻelua a ua loaʻa kahi kuikahi a i ʻole hāʻawi aku kekahi i kekahi. Ua maʻa ʻoe i kēia hoʻonohonoho a ua loaʻa kahi ala e hana ai a hauʻoli.
Nā Dynamika Hou
I kēia manawa, ʻike koke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma lalo o nā kūlana hou me kahi koho hou e koho ʻia. Ua hala lōʻihi nā ʻano hana i kū ai a huikau nā mea āpau a manaʻo ʻoe me he mea lā aia ʻoe i kahi honua haʻalulu. Aia ke kolu o ke kanaka i pili a ʻoiai ʻaʻohe o lākou manaʻo i kēia manawa, manaʻo paha lākou e pili ana i kēlā me kēia hoʻoholo āu e hoʻoholo ai. Pili wale ia lākou. ʻAʻole maʻalahi nā koho.
Hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo ua lawe kēia kanaka liʻiliʻi i kekahi mea mai iā mākou: ko mākou kūʻokoʻa. Manaʻo mākou i kā mākou kūʻokoʻa o ke koho, kūʻokoʻa o ka manawa, a me ke kūʻokoʻa o ka noʻonoʻo, ua pau i ka lawe ʻia. Auē hoʻi kā mākou lapuwale! ʻAʻole ʻike mākou i ka mea kūpono i mua o mākou.
He hiʻohiʻona o mākou iho
Ke hoʻopiʻi nei mākou i nā mea hewa. ʻAʻole pilikia nā kamaliʻi a ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻokumu i ka pilikia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo paʻakikī ka noho mau o ka pilikia; paʻa wale kā mākou poʻe keiki i ke aniani a noʻonoʻo i ka mea i loko o mākou āpau. Hōʻike mai nā kamaliʻi iā mākou i ko mākou kīnā, a mākou i hōʻole mua ai e ʻike, a ʻaʻole paha i ʻike he ola. Lawe lākou i nā mea maikaʻi loa i loko o mākou, kahi makana a me kahi hoʻomaikaʻi a nā poʻe he nui e lawe wale ai, mālama ʻole, a kiola loa paha i ko lākou naʻaupō.
Hiki i nā mākua ke hele a makua ʻole hoʻi. Akā e ʻōlelo paha ʻoe ʻaʻohe pilikia nui i mua o kāu poʻe keiki. "Maikaʻi wale kā māua wahine." Ah, maʻalahi ka noho ʻana i kahi honua kahi e ʻaʻa ʻole ʻia ai mākou! Makemake mākou e noho i kahi honua kahi e waiho mau ai nā pilikia e moe ana i loko o ko mākou puʻuwai.
Hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke ola ma mua o ka wā ma mua
Hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke ola me nā keiki ma mua o ka wā ma mua. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kamahaʻo ia ʻaʻohe mea i lawe ʻia mai iā ʻoe, ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea a kekahi poʻe me ka ʻike ʻole o nā keiki. Ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike i loko ou iho a inā kū aʻe ʻolua i ka pahuhopu o ka ulu ʻana a me ka loli ʻana me ke ola, e lawe ʻoe iā ʻoe i kahi pae kupaianaha o ka pilina a me ka hohonu āu e ʻike ʻole ai.
Hoʻololi i kou kuanaʻike, hele me ke kahe, a ʻae ua loli nā mea. E aʻo e aloha i ke ola e like me ia a hoʻomaka e ʻapo i kēia hanana hou. Mai paʻa paʻa i ka manaʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke ola ma mua. ʻAʻole, ʻo ka ʻoi loa o ke ola e hiki mai inā ke ola pono ʻoe.
Ke loaʻa nei ke kaulike
ʻO ke kaulike ke kī, ke kaulike o kuleana makua a me nā pono, a me ke kaulike i kāu pilina me kāu hoa a me ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole ʻoe he kāne hou a ʻaʻole hiki i kou ola ke pili e pili ana iā ʻolua a ʻaʻole hoʻi e pili wale i kāu keiki. Ke ʻimi nei i kahi kaulike kūpono hiki ke maʻalahi akā he mea nui e hoʻoponopono a aʻo e ʻoluʻolu i kāu kuleana ʻelua a he ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi iā ʻoe iho.
E hōʻano hou i ka manawa maikaʻi
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa maikaʻi e lilo i mea paʻakikī akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēlā ʻaʻa hoʻonui i ka leʻaleʻa i kou pilina. ʻO kēlā mau manawa liʻiliʻi i manaʻo nui ʻia i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole ia ka lōʻihi, nā lā palaualelo ma ke kahakai e nānā wale ana i kēlā me kēia mea i kēia manawa. I kēia manawa, ke hele nei kekahi i kekahi ma ke alaloa a leʻaleʻa i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua palaki ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi. He wink ia ma loko o kahi lumi piha e hōʻike ai i kēlā me kēia o ʻoukou e noʻonoʻo nei kekahi i kekahi.
E kamaʻilio
Kamaʻilio, kamaʻilio, hoʻopono a mai hoʻokolokolo kekahi i kekahi. Kaʻana i kāu mau hopohopo a mai hōʻeha, akā e kala aku. ʻOkoʻa ka poʻe āpau i ke ola ʻokoʻa a ke kōkua nei kekahi i kekahi ma o nā mea ma mua o ka ʻae ʻana i ka ʻawahia aʻo ka huhū ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o 'make it or break it'. ʻO kēlā me kēia pahu āu e keʻa ai a me kēlā me kēia lanakila, lawe mai i ka mahalo a me ka pilina paʻa.
ʻO ka makana o ka ʻohana
Mai hāʻule i loko o ka pahele o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana e hōʻino nā keiki i kou pilina. Hākoʻo, ʻae, akā nui nā mea i kahi pilikia i nā pilina. ʻAʻole kēlā ka manaʻo. ʻO ke kuhi inā koho paha ʻoe e alo i nā pilikia a ʻae iā lākou e kōkua iā ʻoe e ulu a hoʻololi me kāu hoa, a i ʻole hakakā i ke ola a pau wale nō. He makana kūikawā kāu i kēia manawa. He ʻohana ʻekolu ʻoukou. Hiki i ka ʻohana ke wehewehe hou iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ia ke hana iā ʻoe i kahi mana ʻoi aku o ʻoe iho. Aia iā ʻoe a pau.
ʻO Chris Wilson
Kākau ʻia na Chris Wilson Aka ka makuakāne Beta. Hoʻokahi wale nō kāne e hoʻokele nei i ka honua o ka male, ka makua a me nā mea āpau ma waena. Blogging & cataloging kēia mau huakaʻi, a pinepine hewa ma ke ala. Hiki iā ʻoe ke uku hou aʻe ma BetaDadBlog.com, kahi kūpono kūpono no nā mākua, kāne a wahine paha. E nānā iā ia inā ʻaʻole kāu.