ʻO ka pepa hoʻopunipuni me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he 5 Humorous Marriage for Bliss Bliss

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• 1. Mai huhū i kekahi i huhū mua
• 2. E hiamoe me ka huhū a palaualelo paha i ka hana i ka lā aʻe
• 3. Ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻololi i kāu hoa? Kūleʻa ʻoe no ka holomua
• 4. Mai noho i ka wā ma mua - e hōʻiliʻili kāu hoa i kekahi mau kilo
• 5. Dʻai nā pō e mālama iā ʻoe i ka uku ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male

Loaʻa nā piʻi a me nā lalo o ka male, no ka mamao o ke ala nui o ka male ʻana a kekahi a i ʻole e hoʻomaka ana paha ma kēia ala. ʻImi pinepine mākou i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a me nā ʻike ola mai ko mākou mau mākua a i ʻole nā ​​kūpuna i loaʻa kahi hauʻoli hauʻoli mau loa a ma ke ʻano he poʻe loea pili pili. Akā maʻamau, mālama nui ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male.

ʻAe, ke kūkulu ʻana a me ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana i kāu pilina me kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe e pono ke noʻonoʻo pono ʻia, akā aia kekahi ʻaoʻao māmā a hoʻomākeʻaka hoʻi i ka male. He mea nui ka Humor e holo pono ai ka pilina.

Ma lalo ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka male hoʻomākeʻaka no nā kāne a me nā wahine

1. Mai huhū i kekahi i huhū mua

E ʻōlelo pololei i kāu wahine; ʻaʻohe mea hilahila i kēlā. ʻ saylelo ʻoe e kala mua. He mea ʻole ia. ʻAʻole paha lākou e ʻimi i kahi kala kala hewa a me ka lana wale o ka manaʻo i loko ou e hoʻomaka wale ʻoe e kamaʻilio hou me lākou. ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi mea āu e noho pū ai he ʻano paʻakikī.

E hōʻaleʻale wale a hoʻowalewale i kahi kamaʻilio ʻana ma mua o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu ʻīlio a pēpē paha a hoʻāʻo e hoʻouna i nā leka i kāu wahine ma o kēlā me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ko lākou alo i ka lumi.

ʻO ka mea mua, hana maoli ʻoe i kēlā? No ka mea ke hoʻohui wale nei i ka wahie i ka lapalapa. ʻO ka lua, makemake maoli ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kāu pipi a i ʻole kāu makahiki 1 e hāʻawi wale iā ʻoe i kahi huewai i ka pane a makemake paha ʻoe i kekahi e hiki ke pane iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo i kūkulu pono ʻia? Manaʻo wau ... ʻo ka hope he koho ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī.

2. E hiamoe me ka huhū a palaualelo paha i ka hana i ka lā aʻe

I kekahi manawa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana e hiamoe me ka huhū ma mua o ka noho ʻana i ka pō holoʻokoʻa a me ka hakakā ʻana. No ke aha e hoʻokahe ai i kēlā ikehu āpau a noho ma mua o 5 am me ka ʻole o kahi hopena. Ke maopopo iā ʻoe huhū maoli ʻolua a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hāʻawi pio inā ʻike lāua i kā lāua kuhi hewa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka waiho ʻana i ke kumuhana. E hoʻololi wale i kāu PJ a luʻu i loko o kahi moe, huki i nā uhi a kuʻi. He aha ke kiko o ka noho ʻana?

A inā he hana pono kāu i ke kakahiaka, ʻo ka noho ʻana a me ka hakakā ʻana e alakaʻi aku ai iā ʻoe e palaualelo a palaualelo hoʻi i ka hana (ʻoi aku ma mua o ka maʻamau) a laila e alakaʻi i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO kēia, ʻaʻole wale kou pō i hōʻino ʻia akā ʻo kou lā kekahi. A ʻē aʻe hiki i ke kakahiaka aʻe, e hāʻawi kekahi o ʻoukou. Inā ʻaʻole, e hāʻawi kēia hoʻomaha iā ʻoe me ka ikaika e lanakila ai i ka hakakā i ka lā aʻe!

3. Ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻololi i kāu hoa? Kūleʻa ʻoe no ka holomua

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Bettina Arndt, “Lana ka manaʻo i nā wahine e loli ke kāne ma hope o ka male, akā ʻaʻole lākou; lana ka manaʻo o nā kāne ʻaʻole e loli nā wahine, akā hoʻololi lākou.”

E noʻonoʻo i ka male ma ke ʻano he "As Is", ʻo kēia ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe a ʻo kēia ka mea ʻoi loa e hiki ke loaʻa. Mai hoʻāʻo e hoʻololi i kekahi i kekahi ma muli wale nō o ka loaʻa ʻole o ka ʻnoʻo iā ia. ʻIke ʻoe i kāu mea e kau inoa nei no kāu ʻōlelo ʻana "Maʻu," a no ke aha e hoʻāʻo ai e hoʻololi i kēia manawa? Ua aloha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi me nā hewa āpau ma mua o ka male ʻana; e ʻike ʻoe i kahi ala e aloha ai kekahi i kekahi me kēlā mau kīnā ma hope o ka male ʻana.

4. Mai noho i ka wā ma mua - e hōʻiliʻili kāu hoa i kekahi mau kilo

Hoʻololi nā mea āpau me ka manawa, pēlā nō ka poʻe. Loaʻa mākou i ka paona, lilo i ko mākou lauoho, loaʻa i ka huehue a me nā wrinkle, a me nā loli ʻē aʻe i ke ala. Akā ʻaʻole kēia he manaʻo ua loli ke kanaka o loko; Aia nō lākou ma laila. E nā kāne, e hōʻalo i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ia i ka ʻano o kona ʻano ke nānā aku i nā lole kūpono ʻole iā ia. I nā hoʻāʻo e hōʻoliʻoli iā ia, e hoʻonāukiuki wale ana ʻoe iā ia.

E haʻi iā ia i kona nani i kēia manawa. Makemake nā wahine āpau i kou nānā me nā mahalo. A e nā wahine, mai manaʻo i kāu kāne e lawe mai iā ʻoe i nā pua a me nā daimana i nā manawa āpau. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua hana ʻo ia i kēlā ma mua ma ka pilina, akā i kēia manawa he wā e hiki mai ana e kūkulu. E mālama i kēlā kālā na kāu poʻe keiki! A ʻokoʻa, e kia i nā mea liʻiliʻi. Ua lawe paha ʻo ia i ka ʻōpala, a i ʻole hana paha i nā pā a i ʻole holoi i ke kapeta. ʻO nā mea liʻiliʻi ia i loko o ka male.

5. Dʻai nā pō e mālama iā ʻoe i ka uku ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male

Hōʻike ka noiʻi i nā kāne e pili mau ana kekahi i kekahi, e noho pū. ʻOluʻolu mau nā huakaʻi Romantic. ʻAʻole hiki i nā poʻe āpau ke uku i nā huakaʻi i nā mokupuni ʻē, akā hiki i nā mea āpau ke hiki i kahi ʻaina awakea maikaʻi a aloha i kahi hale ʻaina kokoke i kēlā me kēia manawa. E waiho i nā keiki ma ka home me ka mea hānai pēpē a hele wale i ka hale ʻaina nani hou i wehe wale i uka a i ʻole hele paha i ka hale ʻaina kahi i loaʻa ai kāu lā mua loa. E hoʻihoʻi mai ia i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo leʻaleʻa.

Ma ke ʻano he hua hoʻohui, e ʻōlelo ana “E hele kākou i waho!” hiki iā ʻoe ke pale i kahi paio a kōkua iā ʻoe e uhi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua poina iā ʻoe (e hana hou) i ka ʻaina ahiahi e like me kāu i hoʻohiki ai. I ka pōkole, nā kāne, hiki ke pāʻani a ʻakaʻaka pū a hiki ke noho maʻalahi iā lākou iho me kekahi me kekahi, ma hope o ka noho pū ʻana.