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- Ke hoʻolauleʻa nei i ka lā Valentine me ka ʻohana hana ʻole
- ʻAʻohe mea nāna e hana i ka V -Day i kahi lā maikaʻi ʻole
- Disengage e hoʻololi i ka hopena o ka poʻe a puni ʻoe
- Hoʻokaʻawale wale iā ʻoe iho mai ka pupule
ʻAʻole wale ka lā aloha no nā ipo ipo, he manawa kūpono nō hoʻi ia no nā ʻohana e hoʻolauleʻa ai i ke aloha i waena o kekahi.
Akā pehea inā pili ʻoe, a i ʻole hana i kahi ʻohana hana ʻole?
He aha kāu e hana ai, e hōʻemi ai i ka hana pupule i kahi lā nui e like me kēia ʻoiai e mālama nei i ka hana ʻole o ka ʻohana?
No nā makahiki 30 i hala iho nei, kōkua ka mea kākau mea kūʻai aku maikaʻi, mea aʻoaʻo a me ka haku Life Coach ʻo David Essel i nā ʻohana e aʻo pehea e hoʻōla ai, hana me ka hana ʻole o ka ʻohana, ʻo ia hoʻi ma kahi o Valentine's Day.
Ma lalo, hāʻawi ʻo David i kona mau manaʻo pehea e hoʻolauleʻa ai i nā lā nui me kahi ʻohana hana ʻole.
Ke hoʻolauleʻa nei i ka lā Valentine me ka ʻohana hana ʻole
"I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua kau inoa kahi wahine 25 makahiki e hana me aʻu ma o Skype, ma mua o ka lā aloha no ka mea ʻaʻole ona makemake e ʻike i kahi mea i hana ʻia i nā makahiki i hala.
I kona hoʻomaka ʻana i kāna moʻolelo no ka hana pono ʻole o ka ʻohana, ua leha kona mau maka i kāna ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻO David, mai koʻu wā liʻiliʻi he makemake wale koʻu mau mākua i ka lā o Valentine, a ʻo nā mea āpau aʻu e ʻike nei he paio, hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ma waena o lākou a me ke koena o ko mākou ʻohana.
ʻO ka nui o kā mākou hana pū ʻana ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e ʻike he kuleana kāna i ka hana ʻole o ka ʻohana.
Ma muli o kona makemake he lā nui loa ka lā Valentine, ua hoʻomau ʻo ia e hōʻehaʻeha i kona mau mākua, ma ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana iā lākou pehea i ka wā ma mua i piha ai ka Lā Valentine me nā haunaele a me nā hana keaka.
Aia ʻoe i ke kūlana e like me kēia? He mea ʻole inā he 15 mau makahiki a 90 paha kāu, inā ʻoe mai kahi ʻohana hana ʻole hiki ke paʻakikī loa i kekahi mau lā nui e manaʻo e pili ana a me ka maluhia.
Eia kekahi, e nānā i kēia wikiō ma nā ʻano maʻamau o ka ʻohana hana hewa.
Eia kekahi mau mea e noʻonoʻo ai, i ka wā o ka lā Valentine inā ʻoe e hele mai kahi ʻohana hana pupule.
Pehea e lawelawe ai i ka lā aloha a me ka hana ʻohana
ʻAʻohe mea nāna e hana i ka V -Day i kahi lā maikaʻi ʻole
E hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻohaunaele a me ka hana keaka e hele mai ana mai kou ʻohana i hāʻawi ʻia mai i nā hanauna. ʻAʻole hiki i ka hana ʻohana ke hana i ka pō a ma waho o kahi koho ʻike.
Kākaʻikahi loa nā lālā ʻohana e ala pono i ka lā Valentine a ʻōlelo, e hoʻolilo i kēia i lā nui.
Akā, inā hānai ʻia mākou i kahi kaiāulu kahi e mālama ʻole ʻia ai kekahi mau lā nui, a i ʻole inā hele mai lākou me nā ukana mai ka wā kahiko o ka haunaele a me ka hana keaka, aia kahi hiʻohiʻona i kau ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo subconscious e like me ka hopena o ke kuli. ʻaʻole he manaʻo hoʻoholo e ala a hana i ka lā o Valentine i lā weliweli, akā ʻo kahi mea wale nō e noho nei i ka subconscious a mākou i hana hou ai mai ko mākou wā kamaliʻi e ulu ana.
Disengage e hoʻololi i ka hopena o ka poʻe a puni ʻoe
I loko o kā mākou puke kūʻai kiʻekiʻe, "Aloha a me nā pilina huna ... Pono kēlā me kēia e ʻike!", Hele mākou i kahi kikoʻī e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea hana i kapa ʻia he disengagement, ke makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i ka hopena o ka poʻe a puni ʻoe he maʻamau. piha i ka haunaele.
Hoʻoholo wale ʻo Disengagement i kēlā e hāʻawi pio ana ʻoe i kēia manawa, mai hāʻawi i kou manaʻo, ʻaʻole hāʻawi i kāu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, akā e lawe i ka hanu nui a ʻae i ka lā e wehe e like me ka hiki.
I koʻu kaʻana like ʻana i kēia kuhi hope loa me kaʻu mea kūʻai aku, ua ala koke ʻo ia!
"E David, hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i kēlā me kēia makahiki ke hoʻomaka wau e namunamu ma mua o ka lā Valentine, e noi ana i koʻu ʻohana e hana i kēia lā i ʻokoʻa mai ka lā Valentine i ka wā ma mua, ke hoʻohui nei paha wau i ka haunaele a me ka hana keaka.
E hoʻokuʻu wale wau i nā mea āpau, a ʻike i nā mea e hana inā hiki iaʻu ke hana ʻokoʻa i kēia makahiki malia paha he hopena hopena ʻokoʻa kaʻu. "
A ua pīhoihoi ka mea i hana ʻia.
Ma kahi o ke kamaʻilio mau ʻana no ʻehiku mau lā ma mua o ka lā Valentine e pili ana i kahi makahiki ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia, ua mālama wale ʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo iā ia iho, akā ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kau a puni nā kiʻi o nā puʻuwai i ka hale, a ʻo kāna wehewehe ponoʻī hoʻi no ka mea a Valentine. ʻO ia ka lā iā ia.
A ua holo.
Ma o kāna kāpae ʻana, a me ka lawe ʻole ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ʻole i hana ʻia i ka wā i hala, ʻo ka Lā Valentine ka mea i ʻoi aku ka mālie nona iho a me nā mea āpau o kona ʻohana.
Ua ʻōlelo aku kekahi kaikuaʻana iā ia ʻo ia ka lā aloha mua loa i nā makahiki kahi i hana ʻole ai ʻo ia i nā haunaele a me nā hana keaka ma o ka namunamu e pili ana i nā wā i hala i kēlā me kēia lā a hiki i ka lā nui.
A i kēia makahiki?
Ua haʻi koke mai ʻo ia iaʻu e hoʻomau ʻo ia e hana i ka mea like i hana ai i ka makahiki i hala.
Wehe, hemo, hemo mai ka lawe ʻana mai i ka hana a ka ʻohana a me ka weliweli i nā mea ʻoi loa.
Inā kūpilikiʻi ʻoe me kāu ipo, a ʻohana paha, a mau hoa aloha paha i ka lā nui o kēia makahiki, e noʻonoʻo e haʻalele.
Hoʻokaʻawale wale iā ʻoe iho mai ka pupule
Ke neʻe aku ʻoe i kahi mamao loa mai nā hana pupule āpau o kahi ʻohana hana pono ʻole ke ʻike inā ʻaʻole e hoʻomaha iki ke ola ma kēia “lā no ke aloha” a laila i ka wā i hala.
Ua kākoʻo nui ʻia ka hana a David Essel e nā poʻe e like me ka hala ʻo Wayne Dyer, a ʻōlelo ka mea kaulana ʻo Jenny Mccarthy "ʻO David Essel ke alakaʻi hou o ka neʻe noʻonoʻo maikaʻi."
ʻO kāna hana ma ke ʻano he kākāʻōlelo a me Life Coach ua hōʻoia ʻia e Marriage.com. Ua hōʻoia ʻia ʻo ia ʻo kekahi o nā kākā'ōlelo pili pilina kiʻekiʻe a me nā loea o ka honua.
ʻO kāna puke hou e kūʻai aku nei ma luna loa, i hoʻopuka ʻia i ka manawa no ka lā Valentine, i kapa ʻia ʻo "Ke aloha a me nā mea huna pili ... E pono i nā mea āpau ke ʻike!"
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