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- He aha ke ʻano o ka pili aloha naʻau?
- E hele a kahe ka pae o ka pili aloha i kou pilina
- 1. Hana ikaika i ka hana pū ʻana i nā manawa kūpono
- 2. E nīnau i kekahi i nā nīnau maoli
- 3. E ʻike pono i ka palekana o ka wehe
- 4. E hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia i ka wā e ala aʻe ana, mai kali no kahi puhi
- 5. E lokomaikaʻi i nā ala i manaʻo ʻole ʻia
- 6. Ke kuhi nei hemo? Lawe i 20 mau minuke a nānā hou i kāu lā mua
- 7. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka mālama pono ʻana iā ʻoe iho
ʻO kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona nui o kou pilina male ka ʻano o ka pili aloha.
ʻO ka pili aloha ka mea e ʻae ai iā ʻoe e pili a palekana me kāu wahine. Hiki i kahi pae haʻahaʻa o ka pilina pilikino ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia o ka wahine a me ka haʻalele hope loa, no laila makemake ʻoe e hōʻoia ʻaʻole ʻoe e mālama i ka pilina o ka naʻau akā hana ikaika i ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka pae i ka manawa o kou ola like. Pehea ʻoe e hana ai i kēia? Heluhelu mai!
He aha ke ʻano o ka pili aloha naʻau?
Loaʻa i nā kāne wā lōʻihi nā ʻano intimacies e hana ana e mālama i kā lākou paʻa: ʻike, kino, ʻuhane a me ka naʻau.
ʻO kēia mea hope loa, naʻau, ke kī i ka mālama ʻana i ka male a me ka hauʻoli o kāu male. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka pilina o ke kino me ka pili ʻole o ka naʻau, akā inā ʻo kēia ka hihia, e luʻuluʻu a puha paha kou ola wahine. Hoʻololi ka pilina aloha i nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o kāu pili; he pōhaku ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka pilina pilikino ka manaʻo maʻalahi o ka pili loa, ke kaʻana like ʻana, ka ʻae ʻana iā ʻoukou iho e nāwaliwali kekahi me kekahi, a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi me ka manaʻo o ka palekana a me ka palekana.
E hele a kahe ka pae o ka pili aloha i kou pilina
ʻAʻohe o nā kāne e manaʻo i ka pilina hohonu o ka pilina aloha 100% o ka manawa, a he maʻamau maʻamau kēlā.
Aia kekahi mau kumu i waho e hiki ke hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo i kāu hoa i kēlā me kēia manawa: ke kaumaha ma ka hana, nā pilikia me ka ʻohana, nā wā lōʻihi o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, nā maʻi, a me nā mea hoʻowalewale ʻē aʻe i hiki i kou ʻae like o ka pili.
Makemake ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi kahua paʻa paʻa o ka pilina pili i ka naʻau, akā naʻe, i ʻole e lilo kēia ʻano manawa o ka mamao i mokuʻāina paʻa. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, e kūkulu i kahi mālama maikaʻi o ka pili aloha naʻau i ka wā e pilikia ai kāu male, he kumu maikaʻi kāu e ʻike ai i nā lā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
Nā hana i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hana i ka pilina pili uila i kāu male ʻana
1. Hana ikaika i ka hana pū ʻana i nā manawa kūpono
ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo no ka lā aloha o nā kāne, a ʻoiai kahi manaʻo maikaʻi, hiki ke alakaʻi pinepine iā ʻolua e kūkākūkā ana i ka pilikia hou me nā mākua, a i ʻole ka hoʻohana hewa ʻana o ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka kamepiula ʻohana.
Ke kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i nā manawa kūpono, ke ʻano o ka nānā ʻana i kekahi i kekahi ke ʻike nei i ka pilina me ka honua waho. Hiki i kēia ke hana ʻolua i ka hana manawaleʻa i hoʻokahi pō o ka pule, a i ʻole ʻolua pū kekahi e hāpai i kahi haʻuki paʻakikī.
ʻO ke kuhi ke hoʻopili aku ʻaʻole wale me kekahi, akā me kāu honua kaʻana.
2. E nīnau i kekahi i nā nīnau maoli
"Pehea kou lā?" he hoʻomaka maikaʻi loa ia, akā e hele i mua.
Ke pane kāu wahine i kēlā nīnau, hoʻolohe maoli i ka pane a kūkulu ma luna. E pīhoihoi e pili ana i ko lākou honua ke ʻaʻole lākou me ʻoe. E māhuahua kou pili ʻuhane ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike ʻoi aku o kāu wahine ke pili ʻole iā ʻoe.
3. E ʻike pono i ka palekana o ka wehe
Kūkulu ka launa aloha i ka pono mau a me ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi.
Hana i kahi kuʻikahi me kāu hoa ʻaʻohe kapu a loaʻa nā pilikia āpau e hōʻike a nānā ʻia me nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia i kēia mau manawa o ka hana ʻana i nā pilikia ma ka male e ulu ai ka pili a e pili pono pū ana kāu pili.
No laila e hāʻawi i kahi papa hana palekana kahi e hiki ai ke kaʻana like i kāu kamaʻilio me kekahi me ka makaʻu ʻole o ka hoʻonāukiuki i ka huhū a ʻeha paha.
4. E hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia i ka wā e ala aʻe ana, mai kali no kahi puhi
Cʻouples nāna e huhū i ka huhū a huhū paha e hōʻino i kā lākou kahua paʻa pilina aloha.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio koke i kahi kamaʻilio paʻakikī, ma muli o ke alo o nā keiki a i ʻole hele aku kāu wahine i kahi huakaʻi ʻoihana, hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho ma waho e makemake ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka pilikia.
"Ke hoʻi ʻoe, e hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa e nānā ai e pili ana i ...." ua lawa ia e kau ai ma ke kukuna. Mai kāomi wale iā ia i lalo, me ka manaʻo e hala. He luku hoʻowahāwahā kēlā. Ymakemake ʻoe e wehe a hoʻokahe i kāu mau kahawai kamaʻilio e mālama a hoʻonui i kou mau ʻano pilina me kekahi.
5. E lokomaikaʻi i nā ala i manaʻo ʻole ʻia
Makemake ʻoe e pāpālua i kou ʻano o ka pili aloha naʻau i kēia manawa?
Hūʻiwa i kāu wahine me ka manawaleʻa i manaʻo ʻole ʻia. Lawe i kahi hana a lākou e hana maʻamau ai (e kiʻi i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe maloʻo, a i ʻole lawe i ke kaʻa no kahi loli ʻaila.) Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he kanaka pua, e ʻohi i kahi ʻāpala nani i kou hoʻi ʻana i ka home,
ʻO kēia mau hana manawaleʻa kūwaho e kōkua ai i ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka naʻau e like me ka mea i manaʻo nui ʻole ʻia a mahalo ʻia hoʻi.
6. Ke kuhi nei hemo? Lawe i 20 mau minuke a nānā hou i kāu lā mua
E hoʻopiha ʻia ʻoe i nā ʻano mehana a me nā ʻano fuzzy, ka mea e noho aliʻi i kāu mau mālama o ka pili aloha i loko o kahi manawa paʻakikī i kāu pili. Lawe i kāu album male, kahi puke puke mai kēlā manawa, nā mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e lawe i kou aloha aloha.
7. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka mālama pono ʻana iā ʻoe iho
Maliʻa paha he counterintuitive ia, akā ʻo ke kuʻi ʻana i kou ʻano o ka pilina pilikino e hoʻomaka maoli me ʻoe, e ʻoki nei i kāu mālama ponoʻī.
'Remarklelo mau e pili ana i kou manaʻo e pili ana i kou ao waho ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi lauoho nui a me nā lole i ka lā?
Hoʻolālā ʻoe i kahi kiʻi hauʻoli, hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho a hāʻawi ka honua iā ʻoe. Hiki i kēia ke pili i kāu kāne.
Ke hiki ʻoe i kāu ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa, e ʻai pono ana, e hiamoe ana, e hoʻokomo ana i kahi neʻe kino i loko o kou lā, hoʻolālā ʻoe i kahi vibe hauʻoli i kāu hoa. A hoʻi kēlā mau pōʻai iā ʻoe. Nā pae pilina aloha i luna!