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- 1. E hiamoe pū i kēlā me kēia ahiahi
- 2. E hoʻi pū i ka hana pū ʻana i nā mea
- 3. E hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu kāne
- 4. Mai makaʻu i nā kamaʻilio paʻakikī
Pehea e kūkulu ai i ka pilina me kāu kāne? Ma mua o kou hele mua ʻana, hoʻi i hope a noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o ka "intimacy" i loko o kāu male? ʻO ka manaʻo mua i hiki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻo "sex", ʻeā? A he ʻano koʻikoʻi kēlā a me kahi mea e hāʻawi i ka hohonu a me ka leʻaleʻa i kāu pili male. Akā e hele iki iki me ka manaʻo o ka pilina, e nānā ana i kahi ʻano ʻelua: ka pilina pili i ka naʻau.
Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi nui o kēia i loko o kāu male ʻana-ka manaʻo hilinaʻi, aloha, palekana a me ka pili loa e ulu ana ke pili nā mea ʻelua e ka matrimony. Akā e like me kāu e hana ai e hoʻonui i kāu pili moekolohe a me ka leʻaleʻa e hiki mai ana me ia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻonui i kāu pae o ka pilina ʻona me kāu kāne. A ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e pili ana i kēia? ʻAʻole ia he "hana" maoli, akā e uku ʻia ia i nā pōmaikaʻi nui e hāʻawi i kahi hohonu a me ka ikaika i kāu pilina. E nānā i nā ala ʻehā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūkulu i ka pilina me kāu kāne.
1. E hiamoe pū i kēlā me kēia ahiahi
He mau hana maʻalahi kā ʻolua, a like ka ʻeleu o ko ʻolua mau ahiahi e like me ko ʻolua mau lā i hala ma ke keʻena. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻaina awakea ma ka pākaukau, ke kōkua ʻana i nā keiki me kā lākou haʻawina home, kā lākou ʻauʻau a me kā lākou hana pono moe ʻana hiki ke waiho iā ʻoe me ka ʻiʻini e hoʻomaʻalili wale i mua o kāu pc a i ʻole ke kīwī ke hana ʻia kēlā mau kuleana pili i ka wahine ʻole. ʻOi aku ka nui, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ʻōlelo ana i ka "goodnight" i kāu kāne i kona wā e hiamoe ai, a laila e hoʻi i kāu heluhelu pūnaewele a i ʻole ke nānā ʻana i kāu moʻo, ke hui wale nei i kāu kāne ke hiki ʻole i kou mau maka ke nānā hou i ka pale. ʻAʻole kōkua kēia i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka pilina me kāu kāne.
E hoʻāʻo e hiamoe i ka manawa like me kāu kāne. Hoʻohiki e hana i kēia no hoʻokahi mahina a ʻike i nā pua i kāu pili. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hiamoe me ia me ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe (ʻoiai inā kū kēlā, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi!) Akā e launa pū kekahi me kekahi i ka hopena o ke ahiahi. Hiki ke hana i ka hoʻokalakupua ke hoʻolaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi manawa moe maʻamau: e kahe ana kāu kamaʻilio ke hoʻomaha ʻolua i ka uluna, e hoʻonui ʻia kou hauʻoli ke kiʻi ʻoe i kēlā ʻili i ka ʻili, a wehe ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka nui o ka moekolohe no ka mea ʻelua ʻolua. ma laila, makana a pili pū. ʻAʻole ʻoe e loaʻa i kēia inā e moe i lalo kekahi o ʻoe no ke ahiahi a ʻo kekahi e noho ana ma ko lākou noho e hopu ana i ka leka uila a i ʻole ke kaʻa ʻana i kā lākou hānai Facebook.
2. E hoʻi pū i ka hana pū ʻana i nā mea
Hoʻomaopopo i kou wā e aloha mua ana a hoʻonohonoho ʻoe i kou mau ahiahi a me nā hopena pule e noho pū ai me kāu kāne? I kou aloha ʻana, ua ʻimi ʻoe i nā hana e ʻae ai iā ʻoe e hoʻolilo manawa me kekahi: ke hele wāwae, ka hulahula ʻana, ka hana ʻana, ka lawe ʻana i ka papa kuke. A laila ua hiki ka male, a no ka mea e noho ana ʻoe ma lalo o ka hale like, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui e hoʻolālā i nā hana i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā a i kēlā me kēia pule e hana pū ai ʻolua.
E kūkulu i ka pilina me kāu kāne, e hoʻi i kēlā manaʻo "pili aloha" a pili iā ʻoe iho i kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ʻelua ke hana pū i kēlā me kēia lā a i ʻole nā hopena pule. E hana manawaleʻa i kēlā ʻelua e hoʻonohonoho i ka pāʻina āpana kaiāulu o kēlā me kēia makahiki. E hāʻawi e lilo i makua chaperones ma ka hulahula kula a kāu poʻe keiki.
Hiki i nā lā o kēlā me kēia lā ke hālāwai i kēlā me kēia ahiahi ma ka hale hoʻoikaika kino e hana pū, a i ʻauʻau kai pū kekahi. ʻO nā manaʻo no ka manawa like o ka pule me ke kākau inoa ʻana i ka papa hulahula Salsa, a i ʻole ka papa ʻōlelo haole, a i ʻole ka papa paʻi Palani. E nānā i kāu pae o ka pilina e ulu a aʻo ʻolua i kahi mākau hou a kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea āu e hoʻokō pū nei.
3. E hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu kāne
Poina pinepine mākou e hōʻike i ko mākou mahalo i kā mākou hoa wahine ke hui pū mākou no nā makahiki. Hana ʻo ia i nā hana a puni ka hale, a i ʻole pehea e hāʻawi ai i ka hanai a nā keiki. Lilo i mau hana maʻamau a poina iā mākou e hoʻomaopopo iā ia. E hana i mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kāu kāne ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā. Ma ka hana ʻana i kēia, ʻaʻole wale ʻo ia e hōʻoia a hoʻopiha ʻia me ka leʻaleʻa a me ka haʻaheo, akā e hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ke kāne nui āu i male ai. A e hoʻonui ana ia i kou pae pili i kou hoʻi hope ʻana a ʻōlelo "ʻAe, ʻo kaʻu kāne kēia ka hapalua i ʻoi aku koʻu maikaʻi."
4. Mai makaʻu i nā kamaʻilio paʻakikī
Me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo i ka kamaʻilio paʻakikī ʻana me kāu kāne e hoʻohui i kou mau manaʻo pili iā ia, akā he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia. Ke kamaʻilio ʻole nei i kekahi mea, ka mālama ʻana iā ia i ka ʻōmole i loko ou, e kūkulu wale nō ia i ka huhū — a ʻo ka inaina ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka pili aloha.
No laila e wehe iā ʻoe iho i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā mea paʻakikī — inā paha e pili ana i ka ʻohana, ka moekolohe, nā manaʻo e pono ai ka manaʻo — he aha ia, e ʻimi i kahi manawa maikaʻi e noho i lalo a hoʻomaka i ke kamaʻilio. E ʻike ʻoe i kou wā e hana ai i kāu mea paʻakikī, e ʻike ʻolua i kahi pae o ka pili loa no ka mea ua hana ʻoluʻolu ʻoe iā ʻolua a hāmama i ko ʻolua mau manaʻo maoli.
He huaʻōlelo hana ke aloha
ʻAʻole pili ka pilina ma kā mākou male i kekahi wā hoʻomaha nui a mākou e lawe ai a i ʻole makemake. Kūkulu ka pilina ma nā koho a mākou e hana ai i kēlā me kēia lā. No laila e hoʻāʻo i kekahi o kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ʻike i ke ʻano o ka intimacy hiki iā ʻoe ke hana me kāu kāne.