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ʻAʻohe mea hewa o ke aloha aloha a male hou ʻana ke ʻelemakule nei ʻoe.
ʻO ka male hou ʻana ma hope o 50, ʻo ia ka neʻe ʻana, haʻalele i ka wā i hala (ma hea kahi e pono ai) a mākaukau loa ʻoe e ola i ke ola āu e makemake ai - ke ola kūpono iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka hana ʻana i kahi hana hoʻopoina, ʻoluʻolu me ka ʻole o ka pilikia no kāu male lua ʻelua.
E heluhelu e ʻike i kekahi mau manaʻo male ʻelua no nā kāne ma mua o 50.
Huina pili a me ka pāʻina nui
ʻO kahi koho lua male punahele nui loa kahi hana pilikino e ukali ʻia e kahi hoʻokipa kaulike nui ʻia. He manaʻo maikaʻi loa kēia no ka lua o ka male ʻana no nā kāne makua e makemake ana e lilo ia i hana pilikino, e ʻōlelo malū i kā lākou hoʻohiki ʻana a makemake nō e hoʻolauleʻa i ka lua o ka male me ka hui o nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa.
Lawe i kou manawa a ʻike i kahi wahi kūloko kūpono e kūpono i nā mea kipa āpau a hoʻolimalima i kahi lawelawe lawelawe meaʻai me nā menus kikoʻī e wow ai i kāu poʻe malihini. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia male ʻāpana ʻelua kahi ala maikaʻi loa e hana i kāu male ʻelua i nā mea āpau a ka mea ʻole ʻole. ʻO nā male ma hope o 50 hiki ke maikaʻi loa.
Hoʻohui i kēia ala hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻaʻa i nā lole mare ʻelua, i nā ʻaʻa keʻokeʻo maʻamau no ka hoʻolauna pili a me kekahi no ka pāʻina ma hope - a ʻo wai ka mea e hōʻole ʻole i kēlā. ʻOiai inā e male ana ʻoe ma 50 ka mea e ʻaahu ai ka mea nui. I kēia mau lā he nui loa nā koho no ka lua o ka lole mare no nā wahine mare ma luna o 50. ʻAʻole ʻo ka male ʻana ma hope o 50 i mea e hopohopo ai.
Heluhelu Pili: ʻO nā hoʻohiki male nani no ka manawa ʻelua a puni
ʻO ka male huakaʻi huakaʻi ʻole
Nui a hewahewa nā manaʻo male ʻelua no nā kāne mua, akā ʻo kēia ka mea kupaianaha loa. ʻO nā male ma hope o 50 e pili ana i ka uhaʻi ʻana a me ka hana ʻana i ka mea āu e makemake ai e hana.
Inā ua moeʻuhane ʻoe i ka huakaʻi i kahi huakaʻi mamao a hoʻonohonoho i ka male aloha nui loa akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi manawa e hana ai i ka manawa mua, ʻeā, pono ʻoe e hele no ia!
Pono nā manaʻo no ka lua o ka male e hoʻokō i kāu mau makemake i hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke hana i ka manawa mua āu i male ai. E kono i kāu mau hoaaloha pili loa a me nā lālā o ka ʻohana i kahi āu i koho ai a hoʻonohonoho i kahi ʻaha liʻiliʻi a me ka hoʻokipa. Ma kēlā ala hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i ka wahi i kūpono iā ʻoe, kāu wahine, a i ʻole manaʻo maikaʻi wale ʻoe. ʻAʻole pilikia ke kaumaha ma hope o ka 50.
ʻO ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēlā male ʻana o ka male ma ke ʻano he huakaʻi meli no ʻolua, lovebirds, a me kahi wā hoʻomaha no nā poʻe i hele mai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho no nā wahi āpau o ka honua no ka mea - no ke aha mai ?! ʻO nā male ma hope o 50 no nā kāne makua. Ua ʻelemakule ʻoe i kēia manawa e ʻike pololei i kāu makemake, a pehea kou makemake! I mea e hoʻonani maoli ai i kahi hoʻolālā e hana i ka ʻāpana hoʻonohonoho ma kahi o ʻoe i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha loa a leʻaleʻa i ka manawa me kāu ʻuhane.
ʻO ka mea nui e pili ana i nā manaʻo male ʻelua ʻo ia ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokūpī i kekahi. Hana ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokipa i nā makemake o ka poʻe āu e ʻike nui ʻole ai. ʻO ka male ma hope o 50 e pili ana i ka hoʻokau ʻana i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka helu ʻana i nā mea nui loa.
Heluhelu Pili: Nā mea aloha ʻokoʻa no ka malihini ma Destination Wedding
A pakele pilialoha momona
ʻO kēia manaʻo no ka male male ʻelua no nā kāne e makemake ana e hana i kahi ʻāpana lahilahi akā ʻaʻole makemake lākou e hoʻoliʻiliʻi ke aloha. ʻO nā male ma hope o 50 hiki ke mellow, akā ʻono nō naʻe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke elope me kāu mea i aloha mau ai a pale i ka pīhoihoi e pili ana i ka hoʻolālā ʻana, hoʻonohonoho ʻana, ka hana ʻana i nā papa inoa malihini a pēlā aku. Hiki ke pīhoihoi pū nā manaʻo male no nā kāne ma kahi o 50.
Inā he nui kāu male mua, ka ʻāpana nui me nā malihini he nui, makemake paha ʻoe i kahi mea ʻokoʻa loa no kāu lua. Mai Mai hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe i nā makahiki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ua ʻelemakule ʻoe no ka eloping - inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea nani e like me ka pakele a me ka hoʻolauleʻa pili pili ʻana no ʻolua wale nō, pono ʻiʻo e hana. Koho i kahi e hele aku ai, a manaʻo i ka adrenaline o elopement!
Ke loaʻa nei ka male lua discrete ka mea o ka wā i hala! Mai noʻonoʻo nui e pili ana i ka mea kūpono - inā makemake ʻoe i kahi male nui me ʻoe i loko o ka lole keʻokeʻo nui keʻokeʻo, e hana wale ia. Aia iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine! E hoʻokuʻu a koho mai kahi o ka lua o nā manaʻo male i loaʻa ma ka pūnaewele.
ʻO ka ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o ka male ma hope o 50 ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻoe kuleana e hana i nā koho e pili ana i nā makemake a me nā makemake o kou mau mākua a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana maoli i kāu makemake.