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- 1. Aloha lākou i ka mea ʻokoʻa i ka lula
- 2. ʻAʻohe o lākou manaʻo i kou manaʻo
- 3. Hana lākou e like me ka luna
- 4. Hilinaʻi loa lākou
- 5. ʻoluʻolu lākou
- 6. Paʻa mau lākou iā ʻoe
- 7. Nale maʻalahi lākou i ka hoihoi
- 8. Ka nele o ka hilinaʻi
- 9. Manaʻo lākou he kuleana ko lākou i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa makemake
- 10. Hewa lākou i kāu ʻoluʻolu no ka nāwaliwali
- 11. Lili lākou iā haʻi
- 12. Mālama lākou i ka hoʻopunipuni
- 13. ʻAʻole lākou iʻae he hewa lākou
- 14. Hiki i ka narcissist ke hana i kekahi mea e loaʻa ai ka makemake o ka poʻe
- 15. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi nā kamaʻilio ʻana
ʻO Narcissists ka poʻe i hoihoi nui iā lākou iho. Nui lākou i ke aloha me kā lākou pilikino a makemake lākou e nānā i ka poʻe a puni lākou. Ua kanu ʻia kahi narcissist i kāna hōʻike ponoʻī i ka pane ʻana i nā ʻeha mua a ua hoʻololi ʻia me kahi ʻoihana hoʻopunipuni i hana nui ʻia.
ʻO kekahi mea e pili ana i nā narcissists ke hoʻopiʻi nei lākou; nani lākou, koi, nani a mai paʻa i nā hoʻomaikaʻi maikaʻi. No laila inā kū i luna kekahi o kēia mau hōʻailona e pili ana i kahi mea narcissist, e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻomau me ka akahele loa.
1. Aloha lākou i ka mea ʻokoʻa i ka lula
ʻOluʻolu nā Narcissists i ka poʻe i kāpae ʻia mai ka rula ākea. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi lula a i ʻole kuhikuhi, nānā lākou i kumu e hōʻoki ai i nā lula a me nā ʻōkuhi i hoʻomoe ʻia. Inā pili ʻoe i kekahi me ka mea i ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe, a manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia aia ʻo ia ma luna o ke kānāwai, e holo aku iā lākou.
2. ʻAʻohe o lākou manaʻo i kou manaʻo
ʻAʻole mālama ka Narcissists inā hauʻoli a kaumaha paha ʻoe. Pili lākou i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai. Pili lākou iā lākou iho. Kūleʻa lākou e lawelawe i kā lākou iho hiʻohiona kūlana kiʻekiʻe; paʻakikī iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ke ola o nā manaʻo, a i ʻole ke mālama inā ua hōʻeha ʻia kekahi.
3. Hana lākou e like me ka luna
Hāʻawi lākou i nā ʻōkuhi a nānā i nā mea āu e hana ai. Manaʻo mau lākou ua kāohi lākou iā ʻoe a ʻaʻohe mea i hiki ke hana a ʻōlelo ʻia e hoʻololi i kā lākou mea e manaʻo ai e hana. ʻOiai inā he poʻe lalo lākou, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomalu a hāʻawi iā lākou i nā kauoha.
4. Hilinaʻi loa lākou
ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona nui āu e aloha ai me kahi narcissist ʻo ia ka hilinaʻi nui e pili ana i nā mea. Lawe lākou i nā pilikia he nui a makaʻu ʻole lākou i loaʻa iā lākou nā lā.
5. ʻoluʻolu lākou
He ʻike maopopo ia he nani a nani ʻole ka narcissist. He nani a nani hoʻi lākou e makemake ai ka poʻe e aloha iā lākou i ka wā mua.
6. Paʻa mau lākou iā ʻoe
ʻO ke aloha me kahi narcissist ka maʻa mau o nā kamaʻilio pau ʻole ma kahi āu e hōʻike ai i kahi manaʻo a lele koke lākou iā ia. Manaʻo lākou he ʻoi aku lākou kiʻekiʻe a hōʻike lākou i kahi ala e hoʻopau ai i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau makemake.
7. Nale maʻalahi lākou i ka hoihoi
Hōʻike nā Narcissists i ka makemake a me ka hiki iā lākou ke hele i kahi mea nui loa e kiʻi iā ʻoe i kā lākou. Ke ʻike lākou he aloha ʻoe me lākou, makemake lākou e luhi a lilo i ka hoihoi i ka pilina.
8. Ka nele o ka hilinaʻi
ʻO kekahi ala ʻē aʻe e ʻike ai i ka narcissist e ana iā ia a i ʻole kāna mau hana i kūʻē i kāna mau huaʻōlelo. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i nā narcissists, hoʻohoka lākou i kāu hana i hoʻolālā ʻia. ʻAʻole mālama lākou i kā lākou ʻōlelo.
9. Manaʻo lākou he kuleana ko lākou i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa makemake
Manaʻo pinepine nā Narcissists i ka mālama makemake ʻia mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Makemake mau lākou e lele i ka papa ʻoihana ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou ka mea e uku nei. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i ka mālama like ʻia; makemake mau lākou ma luna o kekahi.
10. Hewa lākou i kāu ʻoluʻolu no ka nāwaliwali
Ke noi aku ʻoe i ka narcissist, ʻo ke ʻano keu a keu, ke ʻano ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Ke hoʻomau nei lākou i ka kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka kaena ʻana no ka mākaukau a me ka makemake e ʻoki iā ʻoe mai ko lākou ola me ka mihi ʻole.
11. Lili lākou iā haʻi
Hoʻokumu pū kekahi nā Narcissist i mau hoa lili nui no ka mea, manaʻo lākou ʻo ia wale nō kahi hoʻolōʻihi a me kahi kumu o ka lako narcissistic, kahi a lākou e pono ai e pili kokoke a ma lalo o kā lākou kāohi.
12. Mālama lākou i ka hoʻopunipuni
ʻOiai hana lākou e like me ka luna ma luna ou, manaʻo lākou ʻaʻohe ou wahi ʻē aʻe e holo ai i laila, hāʻawi ia iā lākou i ka manuahi e hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole paha lākou e mihi ma hope o ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana iā ʻoe.
13. ʻAʻole lākou iʻae he hewa lākou
Aia kekahi ala pololei a hewa ʻole e hana i nā mea. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, manaʻo nā narcissist he pololei kā lākou hana ʻana ʻoiai hewa ʻole kāu ala e hana ai i nā mea. E hānai ākea ka narcissist iā ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi e ʻaʻa e hana i kekahi mea kūpono ʻole i kāna makemake.
14. Hiki i ka narcissist ke hana i kekahi mea e loaʻa ai ka makemake o ka poʻe
ʻO kahi narcissist ka mea e hoʻohou mau i kā lākou instagram a me ka manawa manawa facebook. Hoʻohanohano lākou iā lākou iho a e aloha inā hoʻomana kekahi iā lākou pū kekahi. ʻImi lākou e loaʻa nā makemake a me nā manaʻo instagram.
15. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi nā kamaʻilio ʻana
E hoihoi mau ʻole kahi narcissist i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai. ʻIke lākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me ka manaʻo e pono e lanakila ma luna ou.