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- Aloha a me 3 mau mea i ka hauʻoli
- No nā kānaka koa wale nō ke aloha
- Aloha a aloha ʻia
- ʻAʻole pili ka palapala ʻāina me ka ʻāina
- Pehea e ʻike ai i ka palapala ʻāina ʻaʻole kūlike i ka ʻāina
Makaʻu ka hapanui o mākou i ka ʻelemakule, i kēlā me kēia makahiki aia kekahi makahiki hou.
Hoʻoikaika nui mākou e hana iā mākou iho i ʻōpio. Akā poina iā mākou i ko mākou mau makahiki e loaʻa iā mākou ka uku naʻauao i hānau ʻia i kā mākou ʻike i hōʻiliʻili ʻia.
Ma kahi o 30 mau makahiki o koʻu mau makahiki, ke hele nei i nā hanana he nui o koʻu ola, mālama nui wau e pili ana i koʻu ʻano, no ke aha e hauʻoli a hauʻoli ʻole paha wau.
Ua loli pū kekahi wau i ka ʻike o ka male a me ke aloha - nā pilikia i hiki ke aʻo ʻia e ka ulu pilikino ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole pipiʻi loa kēia mau hoʻāʻo!
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mea aʻu i aʻo ai i hiki ke lilo i ʻike kūpono no kou ola no ka mea ʻaʻole wale ke ola e pili ana i ka honua "kikohoʻe".
Aloha a me 3 mau mea i ka hauʻoli
I loko o ka Baibala, na ke kuko hewa i hoʻolei aku iā Adamu lāua ʻo Ewa e kipaku ʻia mai ka māla o Paredaiso.
ʻO ka hoihoi, nāwaliwali, a me nā ʻiʻini no kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ke kūpaʻa i ke Akua. Ua kākau ʻia nā ʻōlelo i loko o kēia ʻatikala e Gordon Livingstone i loko o ka puke "Kahiko loa, lohi loa".
ʻO ke kūlike a me ka ʻaoʻao a ʻelua mau kānaka, ka mea i lawe mai iā mākou i ka uku alakaʻi no nā kaumaha a pau e like me ka hana nui, nā paʻakikī, nā piʻi a me nā lalo o ke ola a me ko mākou ʻike i ko mākou ola pōkole.
Lohe ka hapanui o mākou i nā mea ʻekolu e hoʻohauʻoli ai, akā ʻaʻole maopopo i kēlā me kēia kanaka a manaʻo maopopo. Ke loli ka hana mai ka mea a mākou e makemake maoli ai e hana i "pono e hana," ʻo ka hana repetitive hoʻoluhi, mea ʻole, ʻaʻohe ala o ka holomua, ʻo ia hoʻi i kēlā me kēia lā e hōʻemi ʻoe i kāu manawa kūpono e loaʻa kahi hana maoli. Hāʻawi kēia hana iā ʻoe i ka manaʻolana i ka makahiki hou, a i ʻole he ala maʻalahi paha ia iā ʻoe e loaʻa ai ka hoʻolimalima a me nā meaʻai, hōʻiliʻili e kūʻai i nā iPhones hou aʻe, nā kaʻa maikaʻi aʻe?
Aia kekahi poʻe i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai e kāhea, akā ʻo kā lākou ʻano e hoʻonāwaliwali ai ʻoe. Inā ʻo kāu wahine ia, ʻaʻole ia kahi pilina e lawe i ka hauʻoli i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
ʻO nā mea ʻekolu o ka hauʻoli ke loaʻa nei kahi mea e hana ai, kahi mea e aloha ai a me kahi mea e kakali ai i mua.
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kēlā.
Inā he hana kūpono kā mākou, e mālama nei i nā pilina - nā mea e hoʻohiki e ʻoluʻolu loa a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi - a laila paʻakikī e hauʻoli ʻole.
Hoʻohana wau i ka huaʻōlelo "hana" i hiki ke komo i kekahi hana, uku ʻia a ʻole ʻole, ʻoiai ke manaʻo nui mākou iaʻu iho. Inā he hana hoihoi kā mākou e hāʻawi ai i ke ʻano i ke ola, ʻo ia ka hana maoli. ʻO kā mākou hāʻawi i ka ʻokoʻa o ke ola e hāʻawi iā mākou i ka ʻoluʻolu a me ke ʻano.
ʻO ke kūlike a me ka ʻaoʻao a ʻelua mau mea ka mea a Mark Twain i kākau ai: E lawe kahi pilina nui i ka Lani, ʻaʻole ia kahi mea ma hope o ka make ʻana, akā aia i ke ola.
No nā kānaka koa wale nō ke aloha
Nui ke koa i ke aloha. Nui nā ala e pono ai ke aloha i ka wiwo ʻole.
He paʻakikī e loaʻa kahi ipo a me hoapili e like me kou makemake. I ke aloha, pono ʻoe e koa.
Loaʻa i ke ola male ka nui o nā manaʻo, hauʻoli-kaumaha-aloha-inaina, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke mālama i kahi home maikaʻi, ʻaʻole kekahi.
Inā ua ʻike ʻoe i nā pilina aloha ʻole, ke neʻe nei me kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe e pono i ka wiwo ʻole.
Pono ke aloha maoli iā mākou e loaʻa ka koa e kū i mua o ka ʻeha a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i hana ai. ʻIke ʻia nā pilikia.
Ke hoʻokahuli ka pīhoihoi me ka palekana a me ka palekana iā mākou, ua nalowale mākou i ko mākou ʻuhane adventurous. ʻO ka ola kahi piliwaiwai e pāʻani ʻole ai mākou me nā kāleka akā pono naʻe mākou e piliwaiwai me ko mākou ikaika āpau.
Pono mākou e ʻae i ka hōʻino, i kekahi manawa nui e lanakila. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e hana, pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke mākaukau mai kinohi e like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia?
ʻAe ka poʻe i ka manaʻo o kahi curve noʻonoʻo me nā hewa ʻeha ma mua o ko mākou mākaukau.
ʻAʻohe mea i manaʻo ʻia e maikaʻi i ka ski ʻana me ka hāʻule ʻole ʻana i nā manawa he nui. Eia naʻe pīhoihoi ka poʻe he nui i ka ʻeha o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kā lākou mea e hiki ai ke ʻike i kahi mea kūpono i ke aloha.
Lawe i ka makaʻu e pono ai e hoʻokō i kāu mau pahuhopu kahi hana koa.
A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e 'manaʻoʻiʻo i ke kumumanaʻo o ke koa i ke aloha a hōʻole i ka lawe ʻana i nā makaʻi e pale aku i kou puʻuwai mai ka ʻeha ʻana, he hana nui loa ia.
Me nā mea i loaʻa iaʻu, ʻike wau he mea paʻakikī loa ke aloha e ʻōlelo. ʻO ke kumu āu e aloha ai i kekahi ʻaʻole maopopo ʻole. ʻO ia paha ke ʻano kūpono ʻole ʻōnaehana a Dan Ariely i ʻōlelo ai i kāna puke kaulana.
Aloha a aloha ʻia
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke koi aku iā ʻoe e inaina i kahi ʻāpana o ke mele, kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni āu e makemake ai. ʻAʻohe ou koho ke ʻike ʻoe he aloha ʻoe i kekahi. ʻO ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ke koho i kou ʻano a me ke ʻano i ke kanaka āu e manaʻo ai.
Aloha mākou i kekahi ke nui a koʻikoʻi paha kā lākou mau makemake a i ʻole nā makemake e like me kā mākou mau pono a i ʻole nā makemake.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i nā ʻoi loa o nā hihia, ʻoi aku ka hopohopo e pili ana i kā lākou makemake a i ʻole hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai kā mākou mau makemake.
ʻO kahi nīnau maʻamau aʻu e hoʻohana pinepine ai e kōkua i ka poʻe e hoʻoholo inā aloha maoli lākou i kekahi.
Me he mea lā ma waho o ka maʻamau no ka mea he mea liʻiliʻi wale nō ka poʻe e koi ʻia e alo i kahi mōhai nui a ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi o mākou ke ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka mea a mākou e hana ai inā ʻoe e koho ma waena o ka makemake no ka pale pilikino a me ke aloha.
Akā e noʻonoʻo wale nei i kēlā kūlana hiki ke wehewehe i ke ʻano o kā mākou hoʻopili ʻana i ke kanaka a mākou e aloha ai.
Ke nīnau nei paha ʻoe i kēia nīnau e pili ana i kāu ipo. Inā ʻāpōpō, ʻaʻole ʻoe nani hou, ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa kālā, ʻaʻohe nani, a laila me ʻoe kēia hoa aloha a i ʻole e hele lākou.
Akā inā ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻolālā e hāʻawi i kēia makana iā lākou, pehea mākou e ʻōlelo ai aloha mākou iā lākou? ʻO ka manawa pinepine, maʻalahi ke aloha a aloha ʻole paha ke ʻike ke hōʻike mākou he mea nui kēlā kanaka iā mākou, keu hoʻi ma o ka nui a me ke ʻano o ka manawa a mākou e makemake ai e noho pū me lākou.
Ke hōʻike aku kāu hoaaloha iā ʻoe "aia ka bluebird ma ka lālā ma waho o ka puka aniani", e nānā ʻoe iā ia a kamaʻilio pū me kāu hoaaloha, a i ʻole e ʻōlelo anei ʻoe a hoʻomau i ka hoʻopili ʻana i kou alo i ke kelepona?
Maopopo maoli ka pane, ma o nā mea o kēlā me kēia lā āu e ʻike nei. He hōʻailona kēlā āu e nānā hewa ʻole ai.
ʻIke wale ʻoe i ka mea āu e makemake ai e ʻike, e hoʻopunipuni ana iā ʻoe iho ma kahi o ka mea maoli e hana nei. ʻAʻole kūlike ka palapala ʻāina i hōʻike ʻia i loko ou.
ʻAʻole pili ka palapala ʻāina me ka ʻāina
He palapala kuhikuhi pololei ʻole ia, ka hiki ke hoʻonohonoho i ka wā e hiki mai ana me nā pilikia.
Ua hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Gordon Livingston i kona wā he lieutenant ʻōpio i ka 82nd Airborne Division a ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻokele i Karolina.
I koʻu noiʻi ʻana i ka palapala ʻāina, ua hoʻokokoke mai ka hope o ka pā kaua, kahi koa o nā luna ʻĀkau ʻole a nīnau iaʻu, "Ua ʻike anei ka lutanela i hea mākou?" Ua pane wau, "Auē, e like me ka palapala ʻāina, he puʻu paha ma aneʻi akā ʻaʻole wau i ʻike, e Sir." Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "Inā kūlike ʻole ka palapala ʻāina i ka ʻāina, ʻo ia ka palapala ʻāina hewa".
I kēlā manawa, maopopo iaʻu ua lohe wau i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli.
E nānā i kēia wikiō:
Pehea e ʻike ai i ka palapala ʻāina ʻaʻole kūlike i ka ʻāina
ʻO nā kuhikuhi kuhi hewa ma kā mākou palapala ʻāina e hōʻike maikaʻi ʻia ma o ka manaʻo kaumaha, huhū, kumakaia, haʻalulu, a me ka disorientation.
Ke hiki mai kēia mau manaʻo i ka papa ua hiki i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo hou i ka hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokele, a pehea e hoʻoponopono ai iā lākou i laila ʻaʻole mākou e hana hou i ke k modelkohu a ka poʻe e hoʻonele manawa e ʻike ai ʻo ka ʻoluʻolu wale no kēia ʻeha ka ʻike.
Ehia mau manawa a mākou i manaʻo ai e kumakaia a pīhoihoi mākou e ʻike i ka "ʻōlelo kūlike ʻole" ma waena o nā ʻōlelo a me nā hana a ka poʻe ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana he pono e hopohopo nui mākou i nā hana ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo i haʻi pololei ʻia.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea i hōʻeha iā ʻoe i kēia ola ka hopena o ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kāu hana ma mua ke wānana kūpono loa o ka hana e hiki mai ana.
I ka manawa e ʻike ʻia, hoʻoponopono i kāu palapala hoʻokele e kūpono.
ʻO kaʻae ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ala mua i ka hoʻokahuli ʻana i ka ʻeha. Koho i ke ʻano kūpono a mai nāwaliwali ke hana i kāu mea i koho ai.
ʻO ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli ka moemoeā o nā mea āpau.
Eia nō naʻe, no kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli, ʻaʻole ia i maʻalahi i kekahi, hiki ke ʻono i kekahi kanaka akā paʻakikī me kekahi.
Akā ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli e noho mau i ka puʻuwai o kēlā me kēia kanaka, e ʻā mau ana i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā mālama wale kekahi, e ʻaʻā ia i nā hale āpau a i nā mea āpau. ʻO ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli nā aho ʻike ʻole ʻia, akā hiki i ka poʻe mahalo iā ia.