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- 1. ʻO kaʻu kālā, kāu ʻano kālā
- 2. ʻaiʻē
- 3. Nā kūʻai nui
- 4. Nā hoʻopukapuka kālā
- 5. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana
- 6. Ke mālama nei
- 7. Hoʻolālā kālā i kēlā me kēia mahina
ʻO ke kālā kahi pilikia kahiko ʻo ia pili male no ka manawa lōʻihi.
Wahi a ka noiʻi, ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei ʻo ke kālā ka wānana kiʻekiʻe o ka hemo male, keu i ka wā e kū ai kēlā mau paio i ka wā mua o ka male. Kū pinepine nā kāne i nā pilikia kālā i ka male.
ʻOiai ʻo kekahi o kēia mau male ʻaʻole pau i ka male male, aia ka hakakā mau e pili ana i nā pilikia kālā. Hiki i kēia kūpaʻa mau ke pepehi i kēlā me kēia hauʻoli a hoʻohuli i ka male i kahi ʻike ʻawaʻawa.
Kūkākūkā ʻia kekahi o nā pilikia kālā nui i ka male a me nā ala e pale ai i ke kālā mai ka hōʻino ʻana i kāu male a me nā ʻanuʻu pehea e hoʻokele ai iā lākou.
Nā pilikia kālā i ka male
E hoʻomaopopo he aha nā pilikia kālā make nui i ka male male a pehea e hoʻokele akamai ai i kēlā me kēia o lākou, me ka ʻole e hōʻino i kāu male.
1. ʻO kaʻu kālā, kāu ʻano kālā
Ke noho male ʻole ʻoe, ʻo kēlā me kēia kālā āu i hoʻolilo ai no ka mea āu i makemake ai.
I ka male ʻana, pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono, hoʻokahi ʻoe i kēia manawa a ʻo ia ka mea āu e hana ai i kēia manawa he kālā ʻohana, me ka nānā ʻole i ka mea e ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kekahi.
Koi ka male no kekahi hoʻoponopono koʻikoʻi, akā he mea nui e hana ʻoe i kēia.
Wehe kekahi mau kāne i ka waihona hui a hana kekahi me nā moʻokāki ʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui; ʻo ka mea nui ka transparency, trustworthiness, a me accountability.
ʻO kēia ka manaʻo o kahi waihona huna i waho o ka nīnau.
2. ʻaiʻē
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā kumu nui loa e hakakā ai nā kāne.
Aia kekahi wahine he nui ka hōʻaiʻē a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ʻike kā lākou hoa i kēlā mau ʻaiʻē.
Ke male ʻoe, lilo ke kālā i mea hui pū, ʻo ia hoʻi ua lilo nā aie pilikino i utang āpau. I kēia hihia, pono ʻolua e noho i lalo mai ka hoʻomaka o kāu male a hoʻohui i kāu mau ʻaiʻē.
E kākau ia i lalo - ʻo wai ʻoe e ʻaiʻē ai i ke kālā a pehea ka nui? E hele hou a kākau i nā uku paneʻe o kēlā me kēia hōʻaiʻē.
O kahi laʻana -
I ka manawa a māua i male ai, loaʻa iaʻu nā hōʻaiʻē haumāna mai koʻu mau lā pā kula.
Noho mākou i lalo a hoʻolālā i ka nui o kā mākou uku ʻana i kēlā me kēia mahina a i kēia manawa, pau mākou i ka uku.
I kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē.
Ma kahi e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa a uku i ka mea me nā helu kiʻekiʻe. ʻO ka hōʻaiʻē wale nō ka mea e hoʻolōʻihi ai ka molaki a pono e uku ʻia kēia i nā ʻāpana nunui inā hiki.
I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole nā kāleka hōʻaiʻē.
ʻO ka manaʻo ma aneʻi kālele pū i ka ʻaiʻē a me ka huhū. Inā hōʻaiʻē kāu wahine me ka ʻole o kou ʻae, he pilikia kēlā a pono ʻoe e hana pū me ia.
3. Nā kūʻai nui
Pono e kūkākūkā mua nā mea e uku nui ai. Kūpono kēia mau mea mai nā kaʻa i ka uila.
Ma ke ʻano he kāne, pono ʻoe kau i kahi pāpale ma mua o kahi e pono ai e kūkākūkā i kēlā kūʻai. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e mālama i nā mea hou aʻe ma ka hōʻalo ʻana i nā hanana kahi i hele aku ai kāu wahine a kūʻai aku i ka pahu hau me ka haʻi ʻole aku iā ʻoe.
ʻO ke kiko i hāpai ʻia ma aneʻi ʻo ia 'he pilina ka male ʻana. ' ʻO ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana i nā kūʻai aku e ʻae iā ʻoe e ʻike inā pono ʻoe ia, ehia na kumukūʻai a hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolima pū me mau wahi hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa uku hoʻēmi.
O kahi laʻana -
Ma hope o 3 mau makahiki o ka male, ua kūʻai hope mākou i kahi kīwī i ka mahina i hala. Hoʻomaopopo wau ua kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana ia no kekahi manawa a nānā ʻelua a puni no nāʻaelike maikaʻi.
E like me ka ʻaelike, ua hoʻokaʻawale mākou i ke kālā no ka manawa e kūʻai ai mākou i ke kīwī.
4. Nā hoʻopukapuka kālā
ʻO ke koho ʻana o ka hoʻopukapuka a me ka nui e hoʻopukapuka e pono e kūkākūkā pū.
Inā ʻaʻohe o ʻoukou i ka ʻaoʻao kālā a hoʻomaopopo ʻole i nā koho hoʻopukapuka, malia paha pono e hana pū me kahi ʻoihana hana kēlā. ʻOiai inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻoihana e hana, pono ʻolua e makaʻala i kāu ʻano hana.
Kekahi nā hoʻoholo e pili ana inā e hoʻohui a hōʻemi paha i kāu hoʻopukapuka pono e kūkākūkā pū.
O kahi laʻana -
inā makemake ʻoe e kūʻai ʻāina, he naʻauao inā hele ʻolua e nānā i ka ʻāina a pili i ke kaʻina kūʻai holoʻokoʻa.
Pale kēia i ka hakakā ʻana mai ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana i kahi mea a kāu hoa i manaʻo ai he koho maikaʻi ʻole.
5. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana
He mea lahilahi kēia e pili ana i ke kūkā kamaʻilio kūpono i nā manawa āpau e pono ai.
O kahi laʻana -
Noho wau me kaʻu kāne i kēlā me kēia hopena o ka mahina a, ke hana mākou i kā mākou waihona kālā, kūkākūkā mākou i nā mea āpau no ka mahina e hiki mai ana e like me ke kākoʻo i nā hoaaloha a i ʻole ʻohana nui.
Pale kēia i kekahi kanaka mai ka manaʻo e mālama ʻole ʻia ko lākou ʻohana. Hele mākou i kahi ʻanuʻu hou aʻe, ke hoʻouna mākou i ke kālā i koʻu ʻohana, hoʻouna kaʻu kāne iā ia a hana like wau me kona ʻohana.
ʻO kēlā ʻano hōʻike e hōʻike iā lākou aia mākou ma ka ʻaoʻao like a ʻaʻohe mea e like me "koʻu ʻohana". Hoʻokomo pū ia i kāu wahine me ka ʻohana maikaʻi.
Eia nō naʻe, ke pono mākou e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole i nā noi kālā (no ka mea pono ʻoe i kekahi manawa) e ʻōlelo kēlā me kēia i ko lākou ʻohana.
Pale hou kēia i kēlā me kēia wahine mai ka nānā maikaʻi ʻole ʻana me nā mākua.
6. Ke mālama nei
Pono ʻoe e waiho i kahi waihona pilikia a mālama pū no ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Pono ʻoe e mālama no nā papahana ʻohana (e hōʻalo i ka hōʻaiʻē) e like me nā uku kula no ʻoe a me / a i ʻole nā keiki. I kekahi manawa pono ʻolua e makaʻala i ka nui o ke kālā āu i mālama ai. ʻO wai ka mea mālama i ke kālā?
I kēia ao, aia nā mea hoʻolilo a me nā mālama kālā.
ʻOi aku ka maʻa o ka mea mālama a maikaʻi i ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā kālā. No kekahi mau ʻohana ʻo ia ke kāne a ʻo kekahi, ʻo ka wahine ia. I kā mākou, ʻo wau ka mea mālama no laila lawelawe wau i kā mākou kālā - ma hope o kā mākou moʻohelu kālā ʻana i kēlā me kēia mahina.
Ke male ʻoe, he kime ʻoe i kēia manawa a i kahi kime, i kēlā me kēia mea i komo ka ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali. ʻO ka manaʻo e hoʻokaʻawale i nā dute e like me ka ikaika o kēlā me kēia kanaka.
7. Hoʻolālā kālā i kēlā me kēia mahina
E ʻike ʻoe ma loko o kēia pou ua ʻōlelo wau ma ka ʻaoʻao like i nā mea āpau.
ʻAe ka budgeting iā ʻoe e kūkākūkā i nā loaʻa kālā o kēlā me kēia mahina, nā hoʻopukapuka kālā a me nā lilo.
ʻO ka uku kālā no nā mea maʻamau e like me ka ʻaina ahiahi - ʻai ʻana i waho i nā pō lā. Inā loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ka ʻāpana, he manawa nui kēia e hoʻokaʻawale ai.
Ma hope o ka moʻohelu kālā ʻana, e hoʻomaopopo pono i ka mea nāna e hoʻokaʻawale i nā pila e hōʻoia i ka uku ʻole ʻia o ka pila. E mālama i kahi puke a hoʻohana i kahi pepa excel i hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i hope a ʻike i kāu hoʻohana ʻana i kāu kālā. E hōʻike ʻia iā ʻoe i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole a me nā wahi e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
Hiki i nā kānaka ʻelua ke hana like pū; ma mua o ka hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia no ke kālā. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i kahi ala e huki ai i kāu mau kumuwaiwai āpau a kāwele iā lākou i nā wahi āu i kūkākūkā ai a ʻae ai, e kahaha ʻoe no nā mea āu e loaʻa ai i loko o kekahi mau makahiki.