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- 1. Prioritize manawa pū
- 2. ʻAʻohe o nā mea paio he “lanakila” a i ʻole he “eo”
- 3. Aia ma ka ʻaoʻao like e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki
- 4. E ʻike i nā kumu he nui e ʻakaʻaka ai
- 5. E aʻo e hoʻolohe i kāu hoa
- 6. Mahalo i kāu hoa
Hiki i nā mākua ʻōlelo mākau ke hāʻawi i kā lākou keiki
'Lelo Aʻo Paʻa Makahiki Manaʻo ʻole
ʻLelo aʻoaʻo pili pili mai nā mākua
ʻOiai e loli ana nā manawa a hoʻomohala nā hanauna i kā lākou mau kaulike ponoʻī, noho mau kekahi mau mea. E laʻana i nā mea pono e pono ai no ka male hauʻoli. ʻAʻole a ʻaʻole paha e loli koke kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻo o ka male male ʻole.
ʻOiai e male ana ka poʻe i kekahi i kekahi, aia kekahi mau mea hiki iā lākou ke hana e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou kūlana o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi male kūleʻa.
Manaʻo paha nā kamepiula akamai he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kahiko kēia, akā pono lākou e ʻike i kekahi o kēia mau mea ke hoʻomākaukau lākou e haʻalele i ka pūnana a hana i kā lākou mau hauʻoli hauʻoli ponoʻī.
Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pili manawa ʻole mai nā mākua e kōkua i ka hanauna hou i ka lawelawe ʻana i kā lāua male male e like me kahi pro.
1. Prioritize manawa pū
He aha nā ʻōlelo aʻoi aʻe o ka male manawa ʻole no nā keiki ma mua o ka hoʻonohonoho mua ʻana i ka manawa? E hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa i kēlā me kēia pule e noho hoʻokahi me kāu pakanā. ʻAʻole pono ia he mea makemake- he lā ʻaina, e hele wāwae ana a i ʻole ke kiʻi ʻana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.
ʻO nā mea āu e hoʻolālā ai, e hōʻoia e hoʻopukapuka manawa i kāu male inā makemake ʻoe e ulu.
2. ʻAʻohe o nā mea paio he “lanakila” a i ʻole he “eo”
I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻalo i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa.
Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo he pakanā ʻoe no laila e lanakila a lanakila pū paha ʻoe. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e aʻo pehea e hōʻalo ai i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa i ka hana pū ʻana e ʻike i kahi hopena.
ʻO kēia kahi ʻōlelo aʻoi aʻe maikaʻi loa o ka male hiki ʻole ke loaʻa iā ʻoe mai kou mau mākua mai.
3. Aia ma ka ʻaoʻao like e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki
ʻO nā kamaliʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi nā ʻōpio, makemake e hoʻokuke i nā palena a ʻike inā hiki iā lākou ke manipulate i hiki iā lākou ke hele i ko lākou ala.
ʻO ka maʻa e puka mau i luna ma ka ʻaoʻao like me kāu wahine a e ʻimi i nā ala e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ke kamaʻilio me kāu poʻe keiki. Hoʻoholo pū i nā lula a nā keiki e ukali ai a me nā hopena no ka pili ʻole i kēlā mau lula.
4. E ʻike i nā kumu he nui e ʻakaʻaka ai
ʻO kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka manawa male ʻole e ʻike i nā kumu he nui e ʻakaʻaka ai me kāu hoa.
ʻO kaʻakaʻaka ka meaʻala o ke ola a ʻo kahi mea ʻuʻuku hoʻi e hele lōʻihi.
Inā ʻoe e hana nei i kahi kūlana kaumaha a i ʻole ke hele nei i kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe me kekahi, e ʻike i kahi mea e ʻakaʻaka ai. Hiki i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā manawa o ka hauʻoli me kāu hoa ke lawe i ka māmā a me ka hauʻoli i kāu male ʻana, e hōʻemi ana i ka haunaele a kōkua iā ʻoe e pili hou.
5. E aʻo e hoʻolohe i kāu hoa
ʻOiai makemake ka hapanui o mākou e hoʻolohe a hoʻomaopopo ʻia, ʻaʻole mākou he poʻe hoʻolohe pono. ʻAe mākou i ko mākou naʻau e ʻauwana a kali wale mākou i kā mākou manawa e ʻōlelo ai, i kekahi manawa ʻokiʻoki ʻole ʻana me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole i kā mākou kamaʻilio waena.
E aʻo e hoʻolohe a noho piha i ka wā e kamaʻilio ana kāu hoa. ʻO kēia ke waiho nei i kāu kelepona, ke nānā pono nei i kou noʻonoʻo, ke noi ʻana i nā nīnau a me ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou ʻōlelo kino. ʻO ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kāu pakanā e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i ko lākou naʻau a manaʻo iā lākou he waiwai.
A ʻae! ʻO kēia kekahi o nā huaʻōlelo palena ʻole o ka naʻauao i hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawi i kā lākou keiki.
6. Mahalo i kāu hoa
Mai lawe i kāu hoa a me kā lākou hana no ka mea.
E ʻike i nā ala liʻiliʻi e hōʻike iā lākou i kou mahalo iā lākou. Eia kekahi, e hōʻike waha i kou mahalo ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka mahalo a me ka hōʻike ʻana iā lākou i ka nui o ka manaʻo iā ʻoe a me kou mahalo no wai lākou a no nā mea a lākou e hana ai.
Hōʻoia kēia i ko lākou waiwai a aloha ʻia, e hoʻonāukiuki nei iā lākou e hoʻomau i ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana i ka pilina.
Ua ulu kā mākou mau keiki i kahi au kahi e hana ʻia ai ka hapanui o nā pilina kanaka ma o nā pale. Eia nō naʻe, no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka male nui, pono lākou e aʻo pehea e hoʻokau ai i ka makemake o haʻi ma mua o kā lākou pono a lawe pū i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male manawa ʻole i lawelawe ʻia i nā kāne he nui i nā hanauna.