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- Pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai i kāu male?
- He lapuwale paha ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kāu male, akā hiki ke kōkua maikaʻi loa
- ʻO ke kūkulu ʻana a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ko ʻolua male ʻana e pono ai i ka ʻolua hana ʻelua
ʻO nā kumu o ka male ʻana he like ia me nā kumu no ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pūnana - palekana a me ke kākoʻo; a e like me ka pūnana, he mea maikaʻi ka male ma ke ʻano o kāu hana ʻana. ʻO kekahi mau pūnana nā lūlū maʻalahi i ka lepo aʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe he hana noʻeau e uhi a pale ai. Pēlā nō, ʻo kekahi mau male ʻana he ʻaelike o ka maʻalahi a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e hana paʻa piha ʻia me ke aloha, ka launa a me ka laulima ʻana.
Pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai i kāu male?
ʻO ka mea nui aku, he aha ke ʻano o ka male āu e makemake ai? A ʻo ka mea nui, he aha kāu e makemake ai e hana i loaʻa ka male āu e makemake ai? Inā hoʻokahi kou male me nā lālā ikaika, nā lau o ka lau a me ka hulu; inā he pilina ikaika kou, aloha a kākoʻo hoʻi, a laila e hoʻomau i kāu hana.
Inā ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, makemake ʻoe e hoʻoikaika i kou pūnana aloha, e hoʻomaka me ka nānā ʻana iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i nā lālā e like me nā hana a me nā hana— dependability a me ke kākoʻo nā hiʻohiʻona nui o kēia papa; ka mālama ʻana i kahi loaʻa mau, ka mālama ʻana i ka hale, ke kaʻa, nā keiki a me nā holoholona. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā lau ma ke ʻano he lā maikaʻi, ka launa aloha a me ka lokomaikaʻi — e ʻōlelo ana e ʻoluʻolu, mahalo, e kala mai, pololei ʻoe, e lawe mai i kāu hoa i ka meaʻai māmā a me ka mea inu, e ʻakaʻaka ana kekahi i kekahi, e ʻai pū ana a e hiamoe pū ana. , mahalo a paipai pū kekahi i kekahi, nā honi liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā paʻa lima. A ʻike ʻia ka hulu ke pale pale kākoʻo i hoʻokaʻawale i kāu male ʻana mai nā pilina ʻē aʻe i kou ola, kou wahi palekana palupalu mai ke koena o ka honua hāʻule ʻoe, pili moekolohe, nā lā, kaʻana like ʻana i nā moʻokāki, kaʻana like o nā moeʻuhane, nā waiwai like, nā wā hoʻomaha like, nā manaʻo like, nā ʻoliʻoli like, nā ʻāpana like, nā lilo like, nā hoʻolauleʻa like a me nā kaʻanalike. ke hoʻolālā nei i ka male a ʻaʻole pinepine ka manawa a i ʻole ka manaʻo i hāʻawi ʻia i ka hoʻolālā ʻana i ka male.
He lapuwale paha ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kāu male, akā hiki ke kōkua maikaʻi loa
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka nui o ka manawa a me ka ikaika i ka hoʻolālā male ʻana. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka manawa e hele ai i ke kūkākūkā ʻana i nā pila, ehia mau manawa e moe kolohe ʻoe, na wai e mālama i nā keiki, nāna e mālama i nā ʻīlio, ehia mau manawa a mākou e hele aku ai i nā lā, pehea ka manawa e hele ai. wā hoʻomaha, ma hea mākou e noho ai a no ka lōʻihi, makemake mākou i nā keiki a me ka nui, pehea e uku ai no ke kula, pehea mākou e lawelawe ai i nā makuahōnōwai, pehea ka manawa e hoʻolilo ai me kā mākou mau hoa ponoʻī, he aha nā no- ʻaʻole iā mākou ke kaua ...? ʻO kēia mau nīnau āpau, a me nā mea hou aʻe, pono e ʻimi a pane ʻia i loko o ka wā male a ke loli nei ʻoe a me kāu mau mea nui.
Ua like kāu male ʻana me ka pūnana i koi ʻia ka mālama ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā e kākoʻo a pale iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine mai nā pilikia o ke ola-ka hana, nā hana, nā hoa aloha, ka ʻohana, nā keiki a me nā pōpō curve like ʻole e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ke kūkulu ʻana a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ko ʻolua male ʻana e pono ai i ka ʻolua hana ʻelua
He mea nui ka Romance e like me ka uku ʻana i nā bila. He mea nui ka pena ʻana i ka hale e like me ka hele ʻana i ka lā. ʻO ka paʻa ʻana i nā lima, ka minoʻaka, ka pīpī ʻana a me ke ʻano ʻo ka haʻalele maʻalahi a me nā hulu e hana i kahi palekana, palupalu, ʻoluʻolu a me kahi hānai e hoʻomaha ai. ʻO kēlā me kēia koho āu e koho ai he lālā, lau, a hulu paha e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu male. ʻO ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe he ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Inā he kolohe ʻoe, huhū, hoʻonāwaliwali, a mālama ʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻohui ana i nā kākalaioa, nā pōhaku, ka manure a i ʻole ke kīʻaha. A ʻoiai hoʻohana kekahi mau holoholona i kēia mau mea e kūkulu i ko lākou pūnana, makemake wau e pili iā ʻoe e makemake i kahi mea ʻoluʻolu a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. ʻAʻole no mākou a pau i nā manawa paʻakikī, hana mākou. ʻO ka manaʻo ma aneʻi e hoʻolilo i ka manawa a me ka ikaika i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka male āu e makemake ai i ka wā i emi iho ʻoe ma mua o ka ikaika, kākoʻo a me ke aloha, aia kahi kūkulu paʻa e hoʻi i hope. No laila, inā ʻoe e ʻeleu e pili ana i ka mālama male ʻana, ʻo nā hakakā a me nā pilikia ke ʻano o ka makani a i ʻole ka pā o ka makani, ma kahi o kahi puahiohio a kai eʻe paha. Hiki i ka male maikaʻi ke ikaika, kākoʻo a aloha hoʻi e like me kou makemake e hana ai. No laila ke hāpai hou nei wau i kēia mau nīnau. He aha ke ʻano o ka male āu e makemake ai? A he aha kāu e makemake ai e hana e loaʻa iā ia?