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- 1. Ua male ʻōpio loa mākou a wikiwiki loa hoʻi
- 2. Ka kamaʻilio weliweli
- 3. ʻO ka cheater serial
- 4. Nā ala ʻokoʻa
- 5. ʻAʻohe ola moekolohe
ʻAʻole mākou makemake e noʻonoʻo ia i ka hoʻomaka mua ʻana i loko o kā mākou ola male, akā aia nā helu ma laila: 46% o ka male ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa e hoʻopau i ka male male. ʻAʻole pau nā male ʻana no nā kumu like, no laila ua manaʻo mākou e kamaʻilio mākou me kekahi poʻe i haʻalele ʻia e ʻike i ka mea i hōʻino i kā lākou pili. Kū hoʻokahi ka moʻolelo o kēlā me kēia, akā hiki i nā mea āpau ke kōkua iā mākou e ʻike i kekahi o nā ʻūpiki e hōʻalo ai i hiki ai iā mākou ke leʻaleʻa i nā male lōʻihi lōʻihi.
1. Ua male ʻōpio loa mākou a wikiwiki loa hoʻi
ʻO Susana, ka mea i hemo ma 50, haʻi iā mākou i ka mea i loaʻa i kāna male ʻana. "Ua hālāwai wau me Adam ma kahi hana koa; koʻu kaikaina i ka Air Force a kono iaʻu i kēia pāʻina ma ke kahua. He ʻōpio loa mākou - i ka makahiki hope o ko mākou ʻōpio, a hikiwawe ka ʻumeʻume. Manaʻo wau ua hoihoi pū wau i ka mea aʻu i ʻike ai e pili ana i ke ola pūʻali koa-ma ka male ʻana iā Adamu, e loaʻa iaʻu kēia ola o ka huakaʻi a me ke kaiāulu. No laila ke kokoke ʻo ia e hoʻouna ʻia i ʻeono pule ma hope o ko māua hui ʻana, male wau iā ia. He kuhihewa nō.
He ʻōpio loa mākou a ʻaʻole maopopo iki kekahi i kekahi.
A ʻoiai he paʻakikī kēlā mau hoʻoili i kā mākou male a me ko mākou ola ʻohana, akā hoʻopaʻa mākou ia mea no nā keiki. Akā, ua piha ko mākou ʻohana i ka hakakā a me ka huhū, a i ka nui ʻana o nā keiki a hala aku, ua haʻalele mākou.
Inā pono wau e hana hou i nā mea āpau, ʻAʻole wau e male i ka wā ʻōpio, a kali wau a pili me ke kanaka no hoʻokahi makahiki e ʻike i ka ʻano o lākou.”
2. Ka kamaʻilio weliweli
Eia kā Wanda i ʻōlelo ai e pili ana i kāna male. "ʻAʻole mākou i kamaʻilio. ʻO kēia ka mea i hoʻopau loa i kā mākou male. E kaena wau i koʻu mau hoaaloha e pili ana i ka hakakā ʻole ʻana o Ray me aʻu, akā ʻo ke kumu a mākou i kaua ʻole ai, no ka mea ʻaʻole mākou i kamaʻilio iki.
Ua pani aloha ʻia ʻo Ray, pale loa i kekahi kumuhana e manaʻo iā ia i kekahi mea.
A he pono nui kaʻu e wehe i kaʻu hoa pili e pili ana i nā mea — nā mea hauʻoli a kaumaha paha. No nā makahiki he nui wau i hoʻāʻo ai e hoʻopili me aʻu ... e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā pilikia e waiho ana i nā pilikia i kā mākou male. E pani wale ʻo ia a haʻalele i ka hale i kekahi manawa.
ʻO ka hope, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke lawe hou. Ua kūpono wau i kahi hoa i hiki ke wehe me aʻu e pili ana i nā mea āpau, ka poʻe i loaʻa ka naʻau. No laila ua faila wau no ka hemo a ke ʻike nei wau i kēia manawa i kahi kāne maikaʻi i hiki ke pili i ka naʻau. He ʻokoʻa ia. ”
3. ʻO ka cheater serial
Ua ʻike ʻo Brenda he ola pili kāne kāna kāne ma mua o ka pili ʻana. Akā naʻe, ʻo ka mea āna i ʻike ʻole ai, he pono nō ia e hoʻomau i ka ʻike ʻana i nā hoa like ʻoiai ma hope o ka nakinaki ʻana i nā kaula.
"Ua aloha nui wau i kaʻu kāne uʻi, leʻaleʻa, ʻaha holoholona-ʻāpana," haʻi mai ʻo ia iā mākou. "ʻO Pilipo ke ola o ka pāʻina, a ua haʻi mai koʻu mau hoaaloha iaʻu pehea koʻu laki i ka nani a me ka pilikanaka o kaʻu kāne.
ʻAʻole wau i kānalua he mea ʻeleu ʻo ia ma nā polokalamu aloha a me nā pūnaewele a loaʻa iaʻu kahi leka Facebook mai kekahi wahine e haʻi ana iaʻu ua pili kaʻu kāne me ia i nā makahiki ʻelua i hala.
He aha kēia ala ala! ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo akā manaʻo wau ʻo ia ka makaʻu o kēia mau pūnaewele hookup a puni pūnaewele-hiki i kāu kāne ke loaʻa i kahi ola pālua a hūnā maʻalahi iā ia. No laila ua alo wau iā ia a ʻike wau he ʻāpana kēia o kāna ʻano a ʻaʻole paha e loli. Ua waiho wau no ka haʻalele male ma hope koke iho o kēlā. He ipo kāne maikaʻi loa kaʻu i kēia manawa, ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi ʻole a maikaʻi ʻole e like me Pilipo, akā ʻo wai ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻike ʻole he aha ia o ka polokalamu aloha. “
4. Nā ala ʻokoʻa
ʻ tellslelo mai ʻo Melinda iā mākou ua ulu wale lāua a me kāna kāne. “Minamina loa ia no ka mea i koʻu manaʻo no ke ola ka male ʻana. Akā i ko mākou ʻelemakule ʻana, hele wale kā mākou mau makemake a me ko mākou ʻano i nā ʻaoʻao ʻokoʻa. Manaʻo wau ua hiki iā mākou ke hana ʻoi aku ka mahalo i ka pono o kēlā me kēia, akā makemake nui wau i kaʻu kāne ʻelemakule, ke kāne ʻo ia koʻu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, me aʻu e pili wale nei i ka wā a mākou e hana ʻole ana.
Ma kahi o 15 mau makahiki i ka male ʻana, ua loli kēia. Ua hoʻolilo ʻo ia i kona mau hopena pule ma ka hana ʻana i kāna mea ponoʻī — a i ʻole ka ʻimi ʻana i kāna hale hana a i ʻole ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana no kekahi marathon ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole hoihoi kēia mau mea iaʻu no ka mea liʻiliʻi a hoʻomōhala wau i kaʻu pūnaewele ponoʻī o nā hoaaloha, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia kekahi ʻāpana.
ʻO kā mākou male male he hoʻoholo ʻelua. ʻAʻole kūpono ke noho pū inā ʻaʻole mākou e kaʻana like i kekahi mea.
Lana koʻu manaʻo e loaʻa iaʻu kekahi e makemake e kaʻana like i koʻu mau makemake i ke ola, akā i kēia manawa, ke hana wale nei wau i kaʻu mea ponoʻī, a ke hana nei kaʻu ex i kāna. "
5. ʻAʻohe ola moekolohe
ʻ tellslelo ʻo Carol iā mākou ʻo ka loaʻa ʻole o ke ola pili kino, ʻo ia ka mauʻu i haki i ke kua o ke kāmelo a alakaʻi ʻia i ka wāwahi wahine.
"Ua hoʻomaka mākou i kā mākou male me ke ola moekolohe maikaʻi. ʻAe, ʻaʻole ia ka glue i hoʻopaʻa paʻa iā māua, a ʻaʻohe o kaʻu pae i ka pae o ka makemake aʻu i hana ai, akā e moe kolohe mākou i hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule.
Akā i ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, ua emi kēia i hoʻokahi manawa i ka mahina. Hele koke mākou i kahi o ʻeono mahina, hoʻokahi makahiki, me ka ʻole o ka moekolohe.
Ke pā wau i 40, a ʻoluʻolu wau i koʻu ʻili, ua ahi kaʻu libido. A ʻaʻole hoihoi kaʻu ex. Ua ʻōlelo wau iaʻu iho e pono wau e hoʻopunipuni iā ia a haʻalele iā ia. ʻAʻole wau i makemake e pili i ka hihia — ʻaʻole ona kuleana i kēlā - no laila ua noi wau iā ia no ka hemo male. I kēia manawa aia ʻo ia me kekahi mea ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi (ʻaʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i ka moekolohe, e like me ia) a ʻo wau pū kekahi. No laila maikaʻi nā hopena a pau! ”