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- He mau manaʻo ko nā kāne a lilo i ka naʻau
- He ʻano ʻokoʻa ko nā kāne e hōʻike ai aloha lākou iā ʻoe
- Loaʻa nā kāne i nā pono ma mua o ka moekolohe
- ʻAʻole nā kāne āpau i ka hoʻokō-phobic
- Hoʻolohe nā kāne i kā lākou aloha wahine
- Hāʻule nā kāne i ke kino ke hiki mai i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi pili kino
- ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke loaʻa nā hōʻailona
Manaʻo kekahi mau kāne e pili ana i ka moekolohe i nā manawa āpau a mākaukau mau e komo. Manaʻo ka nui o ka poʻe he mea ʻole ka kāne akā ʻo nā mīkini moekolohe me ka moekolohe mau i ko lākou mau noʻonoʻo. Eia nō naʻe, ka mea a mākou e ʻike ai a he aha nā kāne ʻelua mau mea ʻokoʻa.
ʻAʻole noʻonoʻo nā kāne e pili ana i ka moekolohe i nā manawa āpau. ʻ differentlylelo ʻokoʻa nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka moekolohe. Hiki i nā kāne ke makemake i ka moekolohe, akā he ʻaoʻao palupalu a aloha hoʻi i ko lākou ʻano. Hōʻike mau ʻia lākou he paʻakikī a ikaika hoʻi, akā ʻike ʻia nā wahine e like me ke ʻano o ka naʻau. Ma ka papa inoa ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau ʻano e hoʻokaʻawale i ka ʻike ʻana o nā kāne a me ka pehea o lākou ke pili i ka wahine.
He mau manaʻo ko nā kāne a lilo i ka naʻau
ʻAʻole uē nā kāne. Ikaika lākou i ka naʻau a ʻaʻole hele i loko o ka ʻehaʻeha a i ʻole ka ʻehaʻeha i kūʻē i kā lākou mau hoa. ʻĀ, ʻaʻoleʻoiaʻiʻo maoli kēia. Mai ka hoʻomaka, ke hōʻike nei ke kaiāulu i nā kāne ma ke ʻano he poʻo kuleana o ka ʻohana. Hōʻike kēia ua hōʻike lākou i ko lākou naʻau ikaika.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka manawa kēia e haki ai mākou i kēia stereotype a nānā i nā kāne ke hoʻomaka ke kanaka. He mau manaʻo ko nā kāne a hana lākou i nā haʻalulu o ka naʻau. He mea nui i nā wahine e ʻike hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo iā lākou.
He ʻano ʻokoʻa ko nā kāne e hōʻike ai aloha lākou iā ʻoe
ʻIke ʻia nā wahine e hōʻike ākea i ke aloha. Makemake lākou e hōʻike i ke aloha i ka lehulehu a hana maikaʻi loa. ʻO nā kāne, ʻē aʻe, kapa pinepine ʻia me he naʻau ʻole a unromantic no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e hana pēlā. ʻAʻole pololei kēia.
Loaʻa i nā kāne kā lākou ala ponoʻī e hōʻike ai i ke aloha. Makemake lākou e hana ia mea e nā hana a ʻaʻole nā huaʻōlelo.
E hōʻoluʻolu lākou i kā lākou lede wahine, i kēlā me kēia ʻano. E hōʻoia lākou e hauʻoli ana. Hana lākou i kēlā mau mea liʻiliʻi i mea e hauʻoli ai ko lākou aloha.
Loaʻa nā kāne i nā pono ma mua o ka moekolohe
ʻAʻole nānā nā kāne i ka moekolohe i nā manawa āpau. Loaʻa i kekahi mau kāne kahi libido kiʻekiʻe i hiki ke loaʻa iā lākou e ʻimi mau nei i ka moekolohe, akā nānā lākou i nā mea ma ʻō aku o kēlā.
Nānā lākou i ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he hana hoihoi. No laila, ʻaʻole makemake lākou e komo a hana, nānā pū lākou i ka moekolohe me ka pīhoihoi e like me ka hana a nā wahine.
ʻAʻole nā kāne āpau i ka hoʻokō-phobic
Ua ʻike mākou āpau ʻo George Clooney ka mea i hoʻokau phobic no kekahi manawa lōʻihi a hiki i kona loaʻa ʻana o ke kaikamahine maikaʻi. ʻOiai ʻaʻole pili nui nā kāne me nā wahine maʻalahi hiki mai lākou no ka mākaukau ʻole e hana. ʻĀ, ʻaʻole lākou.
Kūpono lākou e pili ana i ka pilina e like me ka hiki i nā wahine. Pono lākou i kekahi e hoʻolilo i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa. Aloha pū lākou i nā keiki a makemake iā lākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike ākea i kēia, akā hohonu lākou e nānā i mua i kēlā mau mea.
Hoʻolohe nā kāne i kā lākou aloha wahine
'ʻAʻole hoʻolohe wale nā kāne', kahi huaʻōlelo maʻamau i hoʻohana pinepine ʻia. ʻĀ, ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo. Nānā nā kāne i nā kikoʻī a me nā huaʻōlelo. Noho lākou i ka manawa e hoʻolohe ai i nā hoʻopiʻi a me nā pilikia a nā wahine e kū nei.
ʻO ka manaʻo maʻamau ke hoʻolohe nei nā kāne i kāu mau ʻōlelo makemake lākou i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole i nā manawa āpau hiki ke hoʻohui pū ʻia nā kāne a me ka wahine, ʻeā?
Hāʻule nā kāne i ke kino ke hiki mai i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi pili kino
Hana ʻia nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka ʻokoʻa a ʻokoʻa nā makemake. ʻOiai e hāʻule ka wahine no ka ʻike o ke kāne, hiki i ke kāne ke hāʻule i ka nani o ka wahine. Aia kekahi mau mea a mākou āpau e ʻae ai a e kuʻikahi ai. ʻO kēia kekahi o lākou.
ʻAʻole kūpono ia e hōʻole loa i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo. Kiʻekiʻena kāne i ka testosterone a nānā i kahi wahine maikaʻi e moe kolohe. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ke kino inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻume ʻia i nā wahine.
ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke loaʻa nā hōʻailona
Hoʻopiʻi ka hapa nui o nā wahine i ka hopu ʻole o kā lākou mau kāne i kēlā mau manaʻo kōkua a lākou e haʻalele ai i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAe, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hana. ʻAʻole lākou e nānā pono e like me ka wahine. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kiʻi i nā kuhi a me nā kuhi.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi nā kāne i kēia. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻa inoa i kahi loli iki i ke ʻano a me nā helehelena. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kou mau manaʻo me lākou a haʻi pololei iā lākou i kou manaʻo.
'Lelo pinepine ka poʻe e pili ana i nā kāne a me ka moekolohe akā ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Pono ia no kēlā me kēia wahine e ʻike a mahalo i ka ʻokoʻa o ke kāne a pane i kekahi mau mea ʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo no ke aloha ʻole a moe kolohe mau i ko lākou manaʻo.