Pehea e lilo ai i mea aloha i kāu wahine

Anter

• 1. Ka pili noʻonoʻo / manaʻo
• 2. E noi i nā ʻōkuhi
• 3. Komo i loko o ka nitty-gritty
• 4. E nīnau iā ia e pili ana i kāna mau makemake a makemake ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma hope o ka moekolohe
• Lawe hope loa

Mai ka hoʻomaka o ka manawa, nui ka ikaika i nā kāne e aloha maikaʻi i ka moena, maikaʻi loa, akā ʻo ka pilikia wale nō me kēia ʻaʻohe mea e aʻo i nā kāne pehea e hoʻokō ai i kēia pahuhopu.

I ka makahiki 1996, he mea kūʻai aku kaʻu i loaʻa i nā pilikia i loko o ka lumi moe me kāna wahine.

Me he mea lā he aha kāna hana, hewa ia.

Ua hilahila ʻo ia, hilahila a ʻoiai hiki ʻole ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia kumuhana.

I kekahi lā ua noi wau iā ia, "ʻO wai ka mea nāna i aʻo iā ʻoe pehea e lilo ai i mea aloha nui i ka moe? ʻO wai ka mea nāna i aʻo iā ʻoe i nā mea e pono ai nā wahine e aloha ai, mahalo a hoʻohuli ʻia i ka moekolohe?

Ua nānā ʻo ia iaʻu me he pupule lā wau.

"ʻAʻohe mea i aʻo mai iaʻu i kekahi mea, lohe wau i nā kāne e kamaʻilio ana i ka lumi locker e pili ana i kā lākou pakele moekolohe, ua heluhelu wau i kekahi mau ʻatikala ma ka makasina ʻo Playboy ... akā ʻaʻohe mea i aʻo iaʻu i ke ʻano o ka moekolohe. Pono wau e ʻike? ”

A ʻo ia ka pilikia. He like ia me ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi i pāʻani ʻole i ka kinipōpō hīnaʻi, e hele i waho a pāʻani i ke kahua ʻekolu a ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i kahi e kau ai i ka mīkina lima, a i ʻole ka mea e hana ai me nā pōpō i kuʻi iā lākou.

Inā ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā lākou ma ka mea a ke kolu o ka baseman e hana ai, pehea lā lākou e lilo ai i mea maikaʻi loa ma ia mea?

A he mea like ia me ka moekolohe. Nui nā wahine i nā pono like ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe, a he aha ka mea e hoʻohuli ai i kahi wahine e hoʻohuli i kahi wahine ʻē aʻe.

A ma hea kēia e alakaʻi ai i ke kāne? E hakakā ana i ka pouli, e hoʻāʻo nei e noʻonoʻo pehea e lilo ai i macho, i ka kaohi, ʻike ... Me ka ʻike ʻole e pono ai lākou.

Ma lalo iho, nā kī nui ʻehā e pono ai nā kāne e ukali i mea e lilo ai i poʻe aloha i ke ola.

1. Ka pili noʻonoʻo / manaʻo

OK, loaʻa iaʻu kahi pono kūpono ʻole, ma ke ʻano he kākāʻōlelo a kumu aʻo ola no aneane 30 mau makahiki, ua hana pū wau me nā kaukani mau wahine a ua aʻo maoli i ka mea a ka hapa nui o nā wahine e makemake a pono ai, ʻaʻole lākou e kaʻana like me kā lākou kāne no ka mea hāʻawi wale lākou 'aʻole maopopo pehea e kamaʻilio ai.

I kēia manawa aia kekahi mau wahine e heluhelu nei paha i kēia ʻatikala e kūlike ʻole me aʻu. Aia kekahi mau wahine kamaʻilio maikaʻi loa i ka haʻi ʻana aku i kā lākou kāne i ka mea e hoʻohuli iā lākou, ʻo ka mea e hoʻohuli iā lākou i nā hua ʻeleʻele a me ke keʻokeʻo.

Akā ua kapa ʻia kēia mau wahine he unicorn. He laha nui loa o nā wahine i hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi kāne e lilo i ipo maikaʻi loa nona me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana, passive-agresive, a i ʻole ke kāpae pono ʻana i lalo i kahi moe inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻoluʻolu i ke ala a lākou e makemake ai.

No laila he aha, e manaʻo ʻia ai nā kāne, he poʻe heluhelu manaʻo?

Hānau ʻia paha nā kāne me kahi hiki kūlohelohe i mau ipo nui?

ʻAʻole loa ka pane i kēia mau mea ʻelua!

No laila e hoʻomaka kākou.

ʻO ka pili pili i ka naʻau ke hoʻohui me kahi wahine ma waho o ka hoʻopā ʻana i kona kino.

Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke akaaka i ka wahine, inā hiki iā ʻoe i kēia manawa a nānā i kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai, e hoʻomanaʻo i kāna mea i ʻōlelo ai, a hānai iā ia iā ia i nā manawa maʻamau, ua hoʻomaka ʻoe i ke ala e lilo i ipo aloha.

No ka hapanui o nā wahine, ʻo ka pilina o ka naʻau ka hoʻomaka o kahi pilina moekolohe nui. Hiki i ka wahine ke haʻi koke inā e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa ke kāne iā ia, e kunou ana i kona poʻo, ʻoiai ʻo ia e hoʻolohe ana, akā ʻelua mau lā ma hope ke hana ʻo ia i ka ʻōlelo like e pili ana i ke ala āna e makemake ai e honi ʻia, a i ʻole e hoʻopā, a pehea kāna aloha a inaina ʻole paha i ka leʻaleʻa. nā pāka, a pehea kona aloha a inaina ʻole i nā hale hōʻikeʻike ... inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e nānā pono, ʻaʻohe pili o ka naʻau āpau.

E nā kāne, e noʻonoʻo me ke poʻo ma luna o kou poʻohiwi a ʻaʻole ka mea ʻē aʻe. Ke hana ʻoe i kēlā, a nānā maoli i ka mea a kāu wahine e haʻi aku nei iā ʻoe, aia ʻoe i ka hapalua o ka home e lilo i mea aloha nui.

2. E noi i nā ʻōkuhi

Ke ulu nei ka pilina, e nīnau pono iā ʻoe i nā nīnau pololei pehea kāna e makemake ai e honi, pehea kāna makemake e hoʻopā ai, nā mea āna e makemake ai i ka wā o ka moekolohe, nā mea āna e makemake ai i ka wā o ke komo ʻana, a pehea kāna makemake e hoʻopau ai i kāna aloha. mau kau.

Ma ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau pololei, hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho iā ʻoe iho ma ka lihi o ka pali e nāwaliwali ana, akā ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e ʻike ai i ka makemake o kāu wahine.

Aloha kekahi mau wahine i kahi kāne alpha, e mālama i ke kāne, ka mea e kipaku kolohe a erotic.

Nā wahine ʻē aʻe? Ke inaina i kēia ma mua o nā mea āpau o ka honua, inaina lākou i ke kāne i kolohe, paʻi, a honi me ka ikaika o ka makani pāhili.

Pono ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻohaʻahaʻa, a maʻalahi hoʻi, a nīnau i nā nīnau i mea e ʻike ai i ka mea nāna e hoʻohuli a me ka mea e huli iā ia.

Ua haʻi wau i ka nui o kaʻu mau kāne kāne, ma hope o ka noi ʻana i kāu ipo wahine a wahine paha i kēia mau nīnau, ma kahi pilikino e kākau i nā memo. Kuhi paha kēia i ka makahiki lua, akā akamai loa ia e hana.

Inā ʻo ia e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i kāna mea e aloha ai e makemake iā ia e makemake ʻia, pono, aloha ʻo ia i ka cuddling ...

He mea ʻokoʻa paha ia i nā poʻe like ʻole.

Inā haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe makemake ʻo ia i kahi kāne e assertive i ka moena, e maopopo lea i ke ʻano o kēlā.

No kekahi mau wahine ʻo ia ke makemake iā ʻoe e nakinaki iā ia ... No nā poʻe ʻē aʻe makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe e lālau iā ia e ka lima, e hele iā ia i loko o ka lumi neʻe i kahi moe me ia.

ʻIke ʻoe i kaʻu manaʻo?

ʻO Assertiveness, hele mai ka hakakā i loko o ʻelua mau ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa i hoʻopili ʻia i nā poʻe ʻokoʻa ... Mai manaʻo i kahi mea hōʻino.

3. Komo i loko o ka nitty-gritty

Pehea ʻo ia e makemake ai i ka moekolohe waha i hana ʻia ma luna ona? I kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi kī mua, a hoʻāʻo i kāu mea e pono ai, a ʻike inā he mea kāna e ʻike ai nona ... A i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio hāmama wale.

Manaʻo paha ʻoe ua maikaʻi ʻoe me kou alelo ... A i ʻole ʻae ʻoluʻolu loa paha ia i ka moekolohe waha.

ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e iho i lalo iā ia, e kuhi ana aloha ʻo ia iā ia, inā paha ma muli o kahi ʻike i hala e inaina ʻo ia ma mua o nā mea āpau.

Kūpono paha kēia a pau?

ʻO ka mea like me ke komo. Pono iā 15 a 20 mau minuke o ka foreplay, ma mua o kona makemake ʻana i kahi ʻano o ke komo ʻana i nā mea āpau?

Pono ia i ka lubrication? A i ʻole e hoʻohua kona kino i kāna mea?

E hoʻomau wau i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kēia mau manawa a mau manawa, i nā kāne he nui, e kiʻi iā lākou iho i nā kūlana weliweli i kā lākou pili moekolohe, no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou makemake e nīnau i nā nīnau.

Ke hele nei lākou i kā lākou mau ʻike i hala aku nei a maikaʻi paha i kou wā e aloha ana iā Diane, akā ʻaʻole ia e hana me Patricia.

4. E nīnau iā ia e pili ana i kāna mau makemake a makemake ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma hope o ka moekolohe

He aha kāna e aloha ai e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma hope o ka moekolohe? Makemake paha ʻo ia e pelu? Ke inaina ʻo ia iā ia? Pono ʻo ia e hiamoe i loko o kahi lumi moe ʻē aʻe ma hope o ʻelua mau hola o ke aloha aloha nui, no ka mea pono ʻo ia i kāna downtime?

He mau nīnau kēia e nīnau ai, e mākaʻikaʻi pū, a i ka manawa hou, lawe nā kāne i nā memo!

ʻOiai inā i kakahiaka nui i kahi pilina, nui ka nui o nā ʻike e hoʻolei ʻia iā ʻoe inā ʻoe e nīnau nei i nā nīnau kūpono, mai manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo kou lolo i nā mea āpau.

Ke haʻi aku nei wau i nā mea āpau, mai hilinaʻi i kou lolo, e hoʻopaʻa i nā memo ma waho o kona alo e ʻike pono ai ʻoe e hoʻolohe pono nei i kāna mea e haʻi nei.

Lawe hope loa

ʻO nā kū ma luna ʻehā wale nō ka hoʻomaka, makemake mākou i ka pili naʻau, makemake mākou i ka pili kino, makemake mākou i ka pili o ka pāʻani ... makemake mākou āpau.

Akā e ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e hana hou i kēia: hiki iā ʻoe me ʻekolu, ʻehā, 10 mau wahine ʻokoʻa i kou ola a hiki iā lākou āpau ke makemake i nā mea like ʻole e pili ana i ka ʻike ma luna.

Inā manaʻo ʻoe he stud ʻoe, no ka mea ua aloha kāu ipo hope i kou ʻano kolohe, e hoʻowahāwahā loa paha ka ipo hou iā ia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike.

E kiʻi maopopo. E kamaʻilio. Kaha memo. ʻAe, ua aneane lilo ia i hoʻokolohua hoʻokolohua i mea e ʻike ai i ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kāu ipo.

Akā hilinaʻi iaʻu, e waiwai ia.