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- Aia kekahi ala kūpono e hoʻopakele ai i kāu pilina akā ʻike i kou hauʻoli?
- Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka hauʻoli me nā mea hou aku ma mua o hoʻokahi
ʻO ka pīhoihoi, ka pīhoihoi, ka pīhoihoi a me ka makaʻu o ka pili ʻana me ka mea ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi kanaka i ka manawa he kapu loa ia (ma lalo o nā pale) no ka hapanui. ʻOiai ʻo gung-ho ka honua e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā he aha kāu e hana ai i ka wā e wāwahi ai kāu pilina mua?
Aia kekahi ala kūpono e hoʻopakele ai i kāu pilina akā ʻike i kou hauʻoli?
Maliʻa, mai ʻaneʻi ia i hui ai nā hoa e komo i nā pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ʻike i ko lākou maluhia akā e noho me ka hoa kumu e mālama i kāu pilina hauʻoli a me ka moemoeā. Pono e hoʻomaopopo kekahi e like me ka hapa nui o nā mea o ke ola, ʻaʻohe mea mau a mau nā mea i ka manawa. A inā makemake ʻoe e paʻa i kēlā mau manawa hauʻoli, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e ʻike i kou ʻoluʻolu ma kahi ʻē. ʻO wai ka mea ʻike, hāʻawi paha kēia ʻimi iā ʻoe i ke kuanaʻike e waiwai i ka mea e nalowale ana.
Akā kali, ʻaʻole kū ka poʻe ma kēia. Ua like ia me nā pana tequila, nāna e kū ma hoʻokahi. Pau nā poʻe i ka lele ʻana mai nā lima o kahi mea aloha a i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe a iho i lalo ka noʻonoʻo mua. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana, hoʻokahi mau makemake i loko o ke ola āpau-mau moemoeā ʻole i hoʻokō ʻole ʻia, ka mea makemake e haʻalele i kekahi leʻaleʻa e kaulike i nā ʻano o ke ola. Inā ʻoe kekahi o kēia ʻano, e resonate maoli ʻoe me ka manaʻo ma aneʻi. E like me ka nani o ka makuahine maoli ʻole palena ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki ke kaupalena ʻia ka hoihoi. ʻO nā mea a pau o kāu mau palena no ka hoihoi - nani, ʻike, naʻau, waiwai, paʻakikī e loaʻa ʻole ma kahi o kēia mau mea i kahi kanaka a puni ʻoe. A he aha ka hewa i loko o kahi aloha aloha ʻino ʻole, kū hoʻokahi hoʻokahi pō, kahi ʻaina awakea ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole ʻaina awakea. Aia ia i kēlā me kēia e hōʻike i kāna hoa i nā pilina ʻē aʻe e hōʻalo i nā kūlana kūpono ʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Inā laki laki ʻoe, hiki i kāu pakanā ke lawe maikaʻi iā ia a hele me ke kahe e ʻike i kāna ʻāpana o ka hauʻoli ma kahi ʻē aʻe.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka hauʻoli me nā mea hou aku ma mua o hoʻokahi
He pāʻina ke ola inā hiki i kou mau hoa āpau ke hui pū no ka pāʻina liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka hui pūʻulu. ʻO ka hopena, hiki i kēia kūʻokoʻa āpau ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i kēlā kanaka kūikawā i kū i ka huelo i kāu mau makemake a me kou mau makemake. Akā hey, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻopau-e like me Charlie Sheen no laila e hoʻohana mau i kahi pale i kēia mau manawa koʻikoʻi! E hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ʻike hōʻoluʻolu, ʻo ka mōʻaukala hoʻi ka hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilina ma nā manawa i hāʻawi ʻia, ka hapa nui o polyamorous. ʻO Monogamy kahi manaʻo hou. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻeha i kekahi mea maikaʻi ʻole a loaʻa pū kekahi hauʻoli i nā manawa hoʻāʻo, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e komo i nā pilina olakino he nui. E hauʻoli i ke ola!