Anter
- 1.Think ia e like me ka mea o ka 'i ka nui' e hōʻike nei
- 2. He loea lākou ma "Impression Management"
- 3. Hāʻawi ʻia lākou i ka “Sixth Sense” e honi i ka poʻe kūpono
- Nā kumu no ke aha e paʻakikī e ʻike i nā narcissists a me nā sociopaths
- ʻO nā ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā ʻano pilikino narcissistic a me sociopathic
- Hoʻopau
Inā aia kekahi manawa i ka mōʻaukala o ke kanaka kahi i ulu ai nā huaʻōlelo psychological i mau ʻōlelo maʻamau, hoʻolei naʻaupō ʻia a puni, a laila i kēia kenekulia. ʻO ka poʻe loea ma nā wahi āpau, nā kī kīwī a me nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ke kānalua nui i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kēia ulu.
Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, ke kaupaona nei i nā helu lehulehu o ke olakino noʻonoʻo, hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo iā 'Little Finger.' Ma ka hopena hope loa, loaʻa iā mākou kahi ʻano mai Game of Thrones- Ramsay Bolton. Ke nānā nei iā lākou, manaʻo paha mākou ua ʻike mākou i nā manaʻo maoli o kēia mau lepili ʻelua "narcissist" a me "sociopath". ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka illusion i hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maʻalahi i kēia mau mea i ke ola maoli.
ʻO ka hihia no kēia lā e ʻimi i ka ʻike i ka wehewehe ʻana ma waena o kēia mau huapalapala ʻelua - narcissist a i ʻole sociopath. A laila e aʻo e ʻike i nā ʻokoʻa, nā mea like, a me nā hōʻailona e nānā pono ai i nā ʻano o ke ola maoli.
ʻIke loa, aia kekahi mea nui i waena o kēia mau ʻano pilikino. ʻO kahi mea maʻamau e pili ana i nā maʻi ʻo sociopath a me narcissist ʻo ia ka hāʻule ʻelua i ka hui "Cluster B" ma waena o ka DSM-5 i loko o nā maʻi narcissistic, antisocial, histrionic a me borderline pilikino.
E like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, ʻaʻole maoli ke ola TV, a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka ʻike ʻana i nā sociopaths, narcissists a i ʻole nā mea a mākou e manaʻo nei he "off" ke ʻano maʻamau ma mua o ke ola maoli.
E like me ia, ua helu mākou i lalo no ke aha e lilo ai i mea paʻakikī i kekahi manawa i ka ʻike ʻana i nā narcissists a i ʻole nā sociopaths i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, a he aha kāu e hiki ai ke pale aku i nā pohō nui mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana.
1.Think ia e like me ka mea o ka 'i ka nui' e hōʻike nei
Hiki paha i kekahi ke hōʻike i nā hōʻailona o kahi maʻi a ʻaʻole kū i ke ana piha a kapa ʻia he sociopath a narcissist paha. Kūloko kekahi iā ia iho a i ʻole he "ʻono" callous, akā ʻaʻole kūlahi ka mea like i ka hopena nui o ka hoʻomau o nā hiʻohiʻona i ʻike ʻia. ʻO ke kumu o ko lākou ʻaoʻao ʻeleʻele e kū pinepine ana a i ʻole ʻoi aku ka koʻikoʻi i manaʻo ʻia no kahi maʻi pilikino piha a i ʻole, ʻae lākou i ka hōʻino i kā lākou ʻano e hāʻawi i kekahi pane.
Pono ka poʻe Narcissistic a sociopathic paha i ka makaʻala loa a me ka mālama e hana pū me ka mākaukau e ale i kā lākou "ʻaʻole, ʻo ʻoe ke ʻano pilikia" a me ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa ke kuhikuhi ʻoe i kekahi mea e pili ana i kā lākou ʻano.
E hoʻopaʻi paha lākou iā ʻoe ma kekahi ʻano e like me ka hāmau a me ka huhū huna. Hiki ke hoʻolōʻihi ʻia a ikaika paha e like me ke ʻano like me ka hopena hope loa o ka pae.
No laila, pehea mākou e hana ai i ka ʻokoʻa? I ka manawa hea e hōʻike ai ka hae ʻulaʻula? ʻĀ, ʻaʻole pono ke ʻano palupalu o kēia mau ʻano i kahi hopena narcissistic a i ʻole sociopathic akā ʻo ke kanaka i ʻae ʻole i ka hewa, hoʻopaʻi ʻiʻo ia a makemake ʻole e hoʻopili e maopopo leʻa i nā palena o kekahi mau "ʻano" wale nō. He ʻano like ia me kahi sociopath maoli a narcissist paha.
2. He loea lākou ma "Impression Management"
He mea paʻakikī ka mālama ʻana i ka hiʻona i ke kanaka, a ʻo ka mea ʻoi aku ka mākaukau ma ia mea, ʻo ka nui o ka ʻike ʻana i kā lākou ʻano pathological a ʻano pilikino paha. Ua like ia me ʻoe e huikau ai i ka mea lapuwale ma ke ʻano he naʻaupō ke hāmau lākou.
ʻOiai nā poʻe me nā ʻano pilikia e hiki ke hōʻike iā lākou iho me he mea noʻonoʻo, ʻoluʻolu, a mākaukau hoʻi. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i kekahi ke hoʻohuli iā ʻoe me ka ʻole o ka hint i ko lākou ʻaoʻao a lawe ʻoe i ke kuleana no kā lākou mau hewa a kōkua iā lākou e hana i kā lākou koho.
Maikaʻi loa nā Narcissists iā ia no ka mea loea nui lākou i ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe i ke ʻano kūikawā ke nānā ʻia lākou e ʻoe.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka narcissist e nānā pono i ko lākou helehelena, hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mea maikaʻi loa i kekahi manawa - ʻo ia kahi ʻāpana o kā lākou pāʻani leʻaleʻa.
3. Hāʻawi ʻia lākou i ka “Sixth Sense” e honi i ka poʻe kūpono
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu e paʻakikī ai nā narcissists a i ʻole nā sociopaths e ʻike i ke kaiaulu kaiāulu o kēlā me kēia lā no ka mea he makana kēia mau kānaka i ke koho ʻana i ka poʻe e hana. ʻO ka poʻe palupalu, hilinaʻi nui a ʻimi e ʻimi mau i ka maikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Narcissist a i ʻole Sociopath?
Ma muli o ka maʻalea a me ka hiki i nā sociopaths a me nā narcissists ke ʻike i ka poʻe "maikaʻi" i loko o ke kaiāulu, lilo i mea paʻakikī loa kēia mau poʻe maikaʻi ke ʻike aku iā lākou a hiki i ka wā i hana ai lākou i ka pōʻino weliweli a hōʻole ʻole hoʻi i ko lākou ola.
Eia kekahi, no ka mea ua kau inoa ka hapanui o mākou i kahi code moraly maʻamau o ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he hewa a pololei, e ʻimi nei kekahi poʻe (ʻoi aku ka poʻe akamai) i ke kumu "kumu maikaʻi" e hana ai kekahi. Hana lākou i kēia i ka mōhai i ke ala maikaʻi aʻe ma kahi o ka ʻimi ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā lawena e hiki ai i kēia poʻe ke hūnā.
I loko o kahi noiʻi i hana ʻia i nā kenekulia mua, ua ʻike ʻia ka loaʻa ʻana o ka dissonance noʻonoʻo - ʻo ia ka makaʻu o ka pilikia e loaʻa iā mākou inā hoʻomohala mākou i ka hilinaʻi ʻole, ka makaʻu a i ʻole ka hopohopo a me ka makaʻu e pili ana i ka mea hiki iā mākou ke wehe e pili ana i kahi mea aloha. ʻo ia paha ke kumu o ka hapanui o mākou e wehewehe hou i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻaelike nei i ka mea a mākou e makemake ai e manaʻo e pili ana i kahi kanaka, a ʻo ka hapa nui i kahi mea aloha.
Nā kumu no ke aha e paʻakikī e ʻike i nā narcissists a me nā sociopaths
ʻO nā Sociopaths a me narcissist he mau kānaka e like me mākou a like like me mākou āpau. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, nānā kekahi i kā lākou helehelena (narcissists) ma mua o kekahi o nā hana. ʻOi aku paha lākou i ka hana, ʻoi aku ka waiwai a me ka lole maikaʻi ma mua o mākou. ʻAʻohe mea e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou mai iā mākou.
ʻO nā ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā ʻano pilikino narcissistic a me sociopathic
ʻO nā ʻokoʻa kaulana ke:
- Loaʻa ka manaʻo nui o nā Narcissists i ka waiwai a me ka mea nui. E hoʻokahakaha nui paha lākou i kā lākou mau mea i kū ai a i ʻole e manaʻo e ʻike ʻia ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe
- Kūleʻa nā Sociopaths i ka manipulative loa. ʻOluʻolu loa lākou. No laila, makemake paha lākou e ʻike iā ʻoe ma mua, e kamaʻilio me ʻoe a hoʻomaopopo i kāu mau mea nāwaliwali. ʻAʻole like kēia me nā narcissists.
- Hiki i nā Narcissists ke ʻeha i ka ʻeha narcissistic a i ʻole ka huhū - kahi hihia kahi e huhū ai lākou a huhū paha ke ʻole lākou e mahalo a hoʻolohe hoʻi mai ka honua. He hōʻeha nui ia i kā lākou ego. ʻO Sociopaths ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe ʻike i nā manaʻo pōkole a lawe aku e like me ka poʻe maʻamau.
- Hoʻopili nā Narcissists me ka huhū a me nā hoʻoweliweli. ʻOi aku lākou i ka hilahila i ka poʻe. Hoʻopili nā Sociopaths me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka mahalo a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea nāwaliwali.
Hoʻopau
Narcissist a i ʻole Sociopath? ʻO nā mea like, nā ʻokoʻa a me nā hōʻailona, nā mea āpau e nānā ʻia ai, alakaʻi paha iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo paʻakikī e manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka manaʻo akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia mau mea ke ola nei a ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻi kaʻawale iā lākou ma ka nānā ʻana iā lākou.
Eia kekahi, ua hoʻohana ʻia kēia mau huaʻōlelo ʻelua e kekahi poʻe koʻikoʻi akā, ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi i ke ʻano like. He ʻokoʻa ko lākou ʻokoʻa inā hōʻike paha kekahi i kekahi o nā hōʻike o kēia mau maʻi a ʻoi aku ka mea i pili ʻole iā lākou.