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- He aha ka narcissism?
- 1. ʻO ka hoarder kamaʻilio
- 2. Hoʻokiʻiliʻi kūkākūkā
- 3. Makemake e uhaʻi i nā lula!
- 4. Hōʻeha i nā palena
- 5. Hōʻike kiʻi wahaheʻe
- 6. Hoʻokuleana
- 7. Hiki ke nani loa
- 8. E kaena e pili ana iā lākou iho
- 9. Nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
- 10. Manipula
Maʻalahi e kapa aku i kekahi ma ke ʻano he "narcissist", kahi mea e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa ma luna o lākou iho a i ʻole manaʻo kānalua paha iā lākou iho, akā ʻo nā pilikino narcissistic pathologically he kākaʻikahi loa - kahi 1% o ka heluna kanaka.
He aha ka narcissism?
ʻO Narcissism kahi manawa ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o ka manaʻo: He ʻokoʻa ia mai ke koena o ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho, e hoʻopuni ana i kahi pono no ka mahalo, kahi ʻano o ke ʻano, a me ka hemahema o ke aloha, me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe i hiki ke hōʻoia i ka hōʻino ʻana i nā pilina.
Ma waho aʻe o ka noʻonoʻo he ʻoi aku lākou i ka ʻoi aku a ʻoi aku ka pono ma mua o ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi poʻe narcissistic he ʻoi aku ko lākou ponoʻī.
ʻO ka poʻe me ka Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) he manaʻo hoʻouluulu i ko lākou mea nui a me kahi makemake no ka mahalo. ʻO ka poʻe me ka NPD, manaʻoʻiʻo he ʻoi aku lākou ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole nānā iki i nā manaʻo o haʻi. ʻO ka paʻa ʻana me nā lālā ʻohana narcissist hiki ke lilo i mea nui loa.
Akā ma hope o kēia mask o ka hilinaʻi nui loa kahi moe maʻalahi i hōʻino ʻia iā ʻoe iho, nāwaliwali i ka hōʻino iki.
Hiki ke hōʻeha kēlā mau pilina a eia nā hōʻailona 10 maopopo e pili ana i kekahi pilina me kahi narcissist a i ʻole he ʻohana narcissist.
1. ʻO ka hoarder kamaʻilio
Makemake nā Narcissists e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou iho a hāʻawi ʻole iā ʻoe i kahi manawa e komo ai i kahi kamaʻilio ʻelua ʻaoʻao. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa pinepine ʻoe e kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo a i lohe ʻia paha kou mau manaʻo.
ʻOiai inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolohe, inā ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia me ka narcissist, e hoʻopau ʻia paha kāu mau manaʻo / manaʻo, nānā ʻole ʻia paha. Manaʻo mau lākou ua ʻike ʻoi aku ko lākou maikaʻi!
2. Hoʻokiʻiliʻi kūkākūkā
ʻOiai he nui ka poʻe i ka kamaʻilio nāwaliwali o ke keʻakeʻa ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, keʻoki nei ka mea narcissist a hoʻololi koke i ka nānā i kā lākou iho. Hōʻike iki lākou i ka hoihoi maoli iā ʻoe.
3. Makemake e uhaʻi i nā lula!
Haʻaheo ka narcissist i ka heʻe ʻana me ka hōʻeha ʻana i nā lula a me nā loina o ka nohona, e like me ka ʻoki ʻana i ka laina, ʻaihue ʻana i nā mea, haki ʻana i nā hoʻokohu he nui, a i ʻole ke hoʻolohe ʻole i nā kānāwai kalepa.
4. Hōʻeha i nā palena
Hōʻike hewa ʻole ia i ka nānā ʻole i nā manaʻo o kekahi poʻe, manaʻo, nā waiwai, a me nā wahi o ke kino. ʻOi aku i kā lākou palena a hoʻohana i nā mea ʻē aʻe me ka ʻole o ka noʻonoʻo a ʻike ʻole paha. Hōʻalo pinepine i nā hoʻohiki a me nā kuleana i nā manawa pinepine. Hōʻike i ka liʻiliʻi o ka hewa a hoʻopaʻi i ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia no ka pono ʻole o kekahi.
5. Hōʻike kiʻi wahaheʻe
Makemake nā narcissist he nui e hana i nā mea e hoʻokūpī i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ka nānā ʻana i waho maikaʻi maikaʻi. Hiki i kēia ʻano maʻamau ke hōʻike iā ia iho, pili aloha, pili kino, pili kaiāulu, haipule, kālā, mea waiwai, ʻoihana a i ʻole kālaiʻike.
I kēia mau kūlana, hoʻohana maʻalahi lākou i ka poʻe, nā mea, ke kūlana, a me / a i ʻole nā mea e kū pono ai e pani iā lākou iho, e uhi ana no ka ʻike, lawa ʻole "maoli" ponoʻī.
6. Hoʻokuleana
Manaʻo pinepine lākou e loaʻa iā lākou kahi lapaʻau makemake ʻia mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Manaʻo lākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e lawelawe koke i ko lākou mau pono, me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka hoʻihoʻi. Wahi a lākou, puni ka honua iā lākou.
7. Hiki ke nani loa
He ʻano charismatic loa ko Narcissists a he mākau ikaika e hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo. Ke hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻopili i kekahi ma (no kā lākou pono ponoʻī), hana lākou iā ʻoe i ke ʻano ʻokoʻa a makemake ʻia.
Eia naʻe, ke loaʻa lākou i kā lākou makemake a lilo ka hoihoi iā ʻoe, e hāʻule paha lākou iā ʻoe me ka manaʻo ʻole.
Hiki i nā Narcissists ke komo pū a me ka launa pū, ke hoʻokō ʻoe i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, a hāʻawi iā lākou i kou nānā āpau.
8. E kaena e pili ana iā lākou iho
Manaʻo nā Narcissists iā lākou iho me he hero a heroine paha, he keiki aliʻi a aliʻi wahine paha, a i ʻole kekahi ʻano ʻano kūikawā paha.
Loaʻa ka manaʻo nui o kekahi poʻe narcissists iā ia iho, a manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi poʻe ke ola a ola ʻole me ka ʻole o kāna mau mea hanohano.
9. Nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
Nui nā poʻe narcissist e hauʻoli i ka hoʻolaha ʻana a me ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e ʻimi i ka nānā, mana ikaika, a hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe. Huhū wale lākou i nā slights maoli a ʻike ʻole paha. E kīloi paha lākou inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūlike me lākou, a i ʻole hoʻokō ʻole i kā lākou mea e manaʻo ai.
Pilikia loa lākou i ka loiloi, a pane pinepine me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa wela a me ke ʻano anuanu. Wikiwiki pinepine nā Narcissists e hoʻokolokolo a hoʻohewa iā ʻoe. Hoʻoweliweli i kekahi mau narcissists. Hoʻopiʻi lākou iā ʻoe no ka mea ʻaneʻane i nā mea āpau a hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe e hoʻonui i kā lākou ego palupalu, e hoʻomaikaʻi ai iā lākou iho.
10. Manipula
Hiki i ka narcissist ke hoʻohana i kā lākou hoa aloha e hālāwai me nā pono hana pilikino pono ʻole, e hoʻokō i nā moeʻuhane i ʻike ʻole ʻia, a hūnā paha i nā hemahema a me nā kīnā ʻole. Makemake lākou i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e kūlike me ko lākou mau pono iho.
ʻO kekahi ʻano hana a nā poʻe narcissists ma o ka lawehala ʻana, ma ke hōʻike ʻana iā lākou iho ma ke ʻano he mea hōʻeha a mālama iā ʻoe no ia mea. Lawe lākou i kou mau naʻau, a hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe e hana i nā mōhai kūpono ʻole.