Me he mea lā ʻo ka hoʻokumu a mālama ʻana i kahi pilina maikaʻi a paʻa ʻole ka pilikia nui ma kāna iho ponoʻī, ʻo nā hanana i manaʻo ʻole ʻia o nā hanana i waho e hiki ke hoʻoluhi a ʻoi loa o ka paʻa o nā kāne. ʻO kahi laʻana, aia kekahi mau kāne mai Alaska aʻu i ʻike ai ma ka pūnaewele ma o Skype no hoʻokahi makahiki i kēia manawa, ka mea i hoʻopiʻi ʻia e nā hanana kūwaho nui.
Eia kā lākou moʻolelo a me kā lākou hana pū ʻana i ke kōkua ʻana i kekahi o nā kāne i ka lanakila ʻana ma ka ulia pōpilikia.
ʻO Hanna lāua ʻo Jason (ʻaʻole ko lāua mau inoa maoli), he mau kāne i ko lāua mau makahiki he kanahā, he ʻelua mau keiki ʻōpio i hala. Hana ʻo Hanna ma kahi ʻoihana hoʻomohala polokalamu, a ʻo Jason he luna hoʻomalu laina no ka hui uila uila kūloko.
Ua loaʻa nā māhoe a me nā lalo o ka wahine akā no ka hapa nui, ʻōlelo lākou ua hana lākou i kā lākou ʻokoʻa ma nā pilikia e like me ke kālā a me ka hoʻolālā kālā ʻana, nā hana a nā mākua, a me ke kūleʻa ʻana me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia mai nā mākua kāne. Ke hana maikaʻi nei lākou a me ko lākou ʻohana.
Ua loli a pau ke kāhea ʻana o Hanna i ke kelepona mai ke keʻena poʻokela o ka ʻoihana mana e hōʻike ana iā Hanna ua ʻike ʻo Jason i kahi ulia hana, kahi hāʻule ʻana mai kahi scaffold, a ua lawe ʻia ʻo ia i ka haukapila e ka ambulance.
Ua haʻalele koke ʻo Hanna i kāna keʻena a hele i ka lumi pilikia. I ka manawa i loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻike mai nā limahana pilikia, ua haʻi ʻia iā ia ua ʻeha nui ʻo Jason i kona poʻohiwi, akā ʻaʻohe iwi i haki. Makemake lākou e mālama iā ia i ka haukapila no kekahi mau lā, a laila hiki iā ia ke hoʻi i ka home.
Ua hoʻomaha ʻo Hanna a ua ʻike ʻo ia i kahi mahalo iā Jason i kā lāua kamaʻilio ʻana, e ʻōlelo ana ʻelua i ka hopena o ka hāʻule nui ʻana i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ka pilikia, ua haʻalele ka ʻeha poʻohiwi iā Jason me kahi ʻeha mau loa e hoʻomau nei. Ua kauoha aku kāna kauka i kekahi ʻano lāʻau opioid no ka manawa pōkole, a me ka hele ʻana i kahi keʻena lāʻau lapaʻau.
Ua haʻalele ʻo Jason i ka hana no kekahi mau mahina, ʻoiai ua hōʻeha ʻia kona ʻeha mai ka hana ʻana no kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu ma mua o ka hoʻi ʻana o Jason i kāna kauka e namunamu no ka holo pono ʻole ʻana o ka lāʻau ʻeha a ʻeha ʻo ia. Ua pane mai ke kauka ma ka hoʻonui ʻana i nā lāʻau o ka lāʻau ʻeha.
I ka hala ʻana o nā pule, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Hanna ua lilo ʻo Jason i ke kaumaha a me ka naʻau, ahonui me nā keiki, a, i kāna mau huaʻōlelo, "ʻano bea e noho pū."
A laila, ua ʻike ʻo ia e pālua ana ʻo Jason i ka hana ʻana iā ia iho a ua pau nā pila ma mua o ka manawa no kāna kipa hou ʻana. Ua nīnau ʻo ia iā ia e pili ana i kēia a ʻo ka pane a Jason he cranky "ʻeha au, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua inā makemake hou wau."
Ua hina ʻo Jason i ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā lāʻau.
ʻO ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ua hoʻomaka ʻo Jason e kūʻai i nā pila ma ka mākeke ʻeleʻele. Aia ʻo Hanna me ka hopohopo iā ia iho. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia iā Jason i ka weliweli o kēia hana a ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike pono i ka mea āu e kūʻai mai ai inā paha ʻeha a make paha kēia mau lāʻau iā ia.
ʻO ka hope loa, ua ʻimi ʻo Hanna i kahi hui me ke kauka no ua mau wahine lā a ua kūkākūkā pono ʻia lāua me ia. Ua wehewehe ke kauka i kona ʻano i loko o kahi paʻa me kāna poʻe maʻi ʻeha.
ʻO ka hapa nui o lākou e ʻehaʻeha nei i ka ʻeha weliweli, loaʻa pinepine nā opiates i nā ʻoi loa o ka hōʻemi hōʻehaʻeha, akā ua ʻike maopopo ʻo ia he mea hoʻopilikia lākou.
Ua ʻae ʻo ia e launa mau me Jason a kau iā ia ma kahi papahana o ka lāʻau corticosteroids, nā lāʻau anti-inflammatory a me kekahi lāʻau anti-depressant. ʻO ke kumumanaʻo e hoʻolōʻihi iā Jason e hoʻokū i nā opioids a kōkua iā ia e lanakila i ka hōʻino ʻana i nā lāʻau pōʻino.
Ua hana kēia ala i kekahi kekelē, ʻoiai ua hoʻopunipuni ʻo Jason i kekahi mau manawa ma ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi mau pila ma ka mākeke ʻeleʻele. E like me kā Hanna hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻomanawanui a me ka hoʻomaopopo, ua pilikia kā lāua male ʻana a ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻo kokoke. Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo Jason akā e hakakā nei.
Ma nā manawa a pau e hana nei kēia no ka wahine, ua loli ke kānāwai e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pakalōlō a me nā hana leʻaleʻa ma Alaska. Ua hana ʻo Hanna i kahi noiʻi pūnaewele a hoʻoholo e hui pū ka wahine me ke kauka i loea i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka mariuana no ka mālama ʻeha. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo ua lawelawe pono ʻo Jason i kāna kū ʻana i nā opioids a maikaʻi.
Ua ʻike lākou i ke kauka 'mariuana' a ua kuhikuhi ʻo ia i kekahi aila CBD i kapa ʻia. ʻO kēia ka cannabidiol, i hele mai mai ka mea kanu mariuana akā ʻaʻole hana i kahi ʻona a kiʻekiʻe paha. Ua manaʻo ʻo ia e kōkua paha kēia iā Jason me kāna mālama ʻeha ʻana, a i ʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi e hōʻemi ai i ka mumū nona.
Ua holo ʻo Jason i kēia hoʻolālā ma mua o kāna kauka maʻamau a aia ʻo ia ma luna o ka moku.
I kekahi o kā mākou mau pūnaewele pūnaewele, ua hōʻike ʻo Hanna i kahi loli nui i loko o Jason. Ua hauʻoli loa ʻo ia a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i kona loaʻa pono ʻana mai nā opioids a ke hilinaʻi nei i ka aila CBD a hoʻomau i kekahi o nā lāʻau i hoʻohana ʻia e kāna kauka.
Me he mea lā e hoʻi hou ana nā mea maʻamau i ka wā i hiki mai ai kahi kāhea mai iā Hanna e noi ana i kahi kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo wikiwiki e pale aku ai i ka hōʻino ʻana i nā lāʻau.
I ko lākou hele ʻana mai ma ka papakaumaka Skype, ua kaumaha loa ʻo Jason a ua huhū ʻo Hanna. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia ua hoʻi mai ʻo ia mai ka hana i kekahi lā a ua ʻike ʻo ia iā Jason i loko o ka hale kaʻa i ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "kahi ao uahi ala." Ua wehewehe ʻo Jason ʻoiai e lanakila ana ʻo ia i ke kaua kūʻē i nā pila, ke kaumaha nei naʻe ʻo ia.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua hele ʻo ia i kahi hale kūʻai mariuana a kūʻai mai i kekahi ʻano mariuana maʻamau, ʻaʻole lāʻau lapaʻau, ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e puhipaka ʻoiai ʻo Hanna e hana ana. Ua hōʻoluʻolu iā ia e pili ana i kona ʻano.
"Maikaʻi," wahi a Hanna, "akā hoʻihoʻi ia iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe ma laila noʻu a me ka ʻohana ke kiʻekiʻe ʻoe, a ʻaʻole au mahalo. "
Ua noi au iā Jason i ka pinepine o ka puhipaka, a ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia e hana ana kēlā i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua noi au iā ia inā hiki iā ia ke ʻike i ke kiʻekiʻe, ʻoiai e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kona ʻano, lawe iā ia mai ka ʻohana a iā ia iho.
ʻAe ʻo ia.
A laila huhū ʻo Hanna. "E Jason, ua hele wāwae wau me ʻoe ma waena o kou ʻeha, kāu lāʻau hoʻomake lāʻau, a i kēia manawa makemake ʻoe e kiʻekiʻe a nānā i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai? ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu no kēia mea wau. ”
Nīnau akula ʻo Jason: "He aha kāu e ʻōlelo nei, e haʻalele mai ʻoe iaʻu?"
Hanna: “ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu. ʻIke wau i ka ʻike pū ʻoe. ʻAʻole makemake ka puhi paka i kahi mea aʻu e makemake ai e lilo i laʻana no kā mākou keiki e like me ke ala e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia. "
Ua noi wau iā Jason i ka mea hiki iā ia ke ʻōlelo iā Hanna e maopopo lea iā ia kona mau manaʻo.
"Loaʻa iaʻu, Hanna. Pololei 'oe. Hele pū ʻoe me aʻu i nā ala āpau a ʻike wau ʻaʻole maʻalahi. E hele pū me aʻu ma kēia manawa lōʻihi, a e hana wau i nā mea āpau i hiki iaʻu ke lilo i kāne a makua kāne ma mua. Ke hoʻāʻo nei wau e like me Gehena e loli ai. E ʻoluʻolu e noho me aʻu,
ʻAneʻane wau ma laila. ”
ʻ saidlelo ʻo Hanna e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia.
Ua noi wau i ka wahine inā hiki iā lāua ke ʻae i ka manawa pinepine i hoʻonohonoho ʻia no kāna mea loaʻa, kahi e hiki ai iā Jason ke puhipaka inā makemake ʻo ia, akā ma kahi ala palena wale nō.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Jason inā hiki iā ia ke puhipaka i kāna ahiahi ponoʻī i kēlā me kēia pule, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia iā Hanna e mālama ʻo ia i kēlā ʻaelike a e hana i nā manawa āpau e noho nona a me ka ʻohana i ke koena o ka manawa.
Ua noi aku wau i ka wahine inā hiki iā lāua ke hāʻawi i kahi aʻo e pili ana i kēia mea āpau i kā lāua mau keiki ʻoiai e noʻonoʻo lākou no ke aha i hele ai ka makuakāne i ka hale kaʻa i kekahi mau ahiahi, e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka wānana, a me nā pilikia e like me ke kaumaha.
ʻAʻole hauʻoli loa ʻo Hanna e pili ana i kēia hoʻonohonoho kuikahi, akā no ka hana maikaʻi ʻana o Jason i ka waiho ʻana i nā pila, a no kāna hoʻohiki e hoʻi i ka ʻohana, hoʻāʻo ʻo ia.
Ma ka ukali ʻekolu a ʻeono paha, hōʻike nā kāne he nui i nā hoʻomaikaʻi.Ua hoʻi ʻo Jason ma ka hana, ua ʻaneʻane pau kona ʻeha, a ʻo kāna puhi mariuana ua lilo i kekahi manawa aku. Hōʻike ʻo Hanna ua hoʻi hou ʻo Jason "me" me ia a me ka ʻohana a hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka hoʻi ʻana mai iā ia.
Ua hoʻomaikaʻi aku wau i kēia mau kāne wiwo ʻole no ka ʻaʻa ʻana i ka hōʻino ʻana i nā lāʻau pōʻino a i kēia manawa ua oki lāua i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo. E loaʻa iā mākou kahi kikoʻī i loko o ʻeono mau mahina mai kēia manawa.
Ke loli maoli nei nā manawa, ʻeā?