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- 1. He kāne kolohe ke kāne hilinaʻi
- 2. ʻAno a noʻonoʻo
- 3. E hoʻomākeʻaka
- 4. Mai pāʻani i nā pāʻani
- 5. E lilo i kāu mea leʻaleʻa ponoʻī
- 6. Nā mākau hoʻolohe
- 7. E pīhoihoi a e hoʻokipa hoʻi
Ua luhi paha ʻoe i ka launa ʻana me nā līlia hale wela, nā wahine i hiki ʻole ke ikaika a kūʻokoʻa hoʻi? Ke moeʻuhane nei ʻoe i ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i wahine wahine hilinaʻi iā ia iho, kahi āu e manaʻo ai e like me ka like ma mua o ka "naita keʻokeʻo"?
Inā like kēia me ʻoe, eia kekahi ʻano e nānā ai nā wahine ikaika i ke kāne.E heluhelu a e aʻo iā ʻoe iho no laila ʻo ka wahine āu e aloha ai ka ʻano āu e makemake ai: ʻo headstrong, maliʻa paha, akā hoihoi paha.
1. He kāne kolohe ke kāne hilinaʻi
Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne he pono lākou e lilo i kumu hoʻohālikelike e hoʻonāukiuki i kahi wahine ikaika. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā ʻoe e nīnau i kēia mau wahine i ka mea a lākou e ʻoluʻolu ai i ke kāne, ʻo kekahi o nā mea mua a lākou e haʻi aku ai iā lākou, makemake lākou i kahi kāne e hoʻolālā i kahi ʻano hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo paha, he awelika wale nō ke nānā ʻana o ke kāne, akā inā hele ʻo ia i loko o ka lumi e like me ia kahi nona, ʻike ʻia ʻo ia.
Hoʻokipa kūlohelohe nā wahine ikaika i nā kāne e hāʻawi i ka aura o ka ʻike ʻana i ko lākou waiwai ponoʻī, no laila inā e hana ana kou ʻano ponoʻī, makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka hilinaʻi i kāu waiwai ponoʻī a hōʻike i kēlā ʻaoʻao i ka honua holoʻokoʻa.
ʻAʻohe wahine e makemake e hāpai mau i ka manaʻo pilikino o kāna kāne. E like me kā kekahi wahine i haʻi mai ai iā mākou, "ʻAʻole paha kaʻu kāne ke kāne maikaʻi loa i loko o ka lumi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā manaʻo ʻo ia ʻo ia nō, pēlā nō wau."
2. ʻAno a noʻonoʻo
Hoʻohana ʻia nā wahine ikaika i ka hana ʻana i nā mea iā lākou iho a me ka mālama ʻana i kā lākou pono iho. Akā ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole pono lākou i kahi mea ʻē aʻe koʻikoʻi, a ʻo ka mea hoʻi e hōʻike iā lākou e hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi ʻia e loaʻa ko lākou kua.
Pēlā mai hoʻowahāwahā i nā ʻōnaehana noʻonoʻo a me nā huaʻōlelo lokomaikaʻi i ka woo ʻana i kahi wahine ikaika.
ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia e "pono" i kēia mau mea, akā e helu nui lākou nona. ʻO Roses, nā kokoleka, kahi kāleka lapuwale, kahi ma hope me ka manaʻo aloha, a i ʻole he kīʻaha kope maikaʻi loa i hana ʻia nona a kau ʻia ma luna o kāna pākaukau ʻoiai ʻo ia e hana nui nei ... nā hana noʻonoʻo āpau e hoʻokokoke iā ia i ʻo ʻoe a hoʻomanaʻo iā ia inā ʻoiai he kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia, ʻoluʻolu ke loaʻa kahi hoa e wahaheʻe ana i kāna yang.
3. E hoʻomākeʻaka
Hele nā wahine ikaika i mau kāne hoʻomākeʻaka. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomākeʻaka me ke akamai ʻole, a makemake lākou i ka ʻike pū kekahi.
No laila ʻo kēlā mau mea hoʻohenehene ʻaoʻao āpau e hoʻohauʻoli nei i kāu mau hoaaloha i ka aka o ka ʻakaʻaka, e hoʻohana maʻamau iā lākou me kāu ipo makemake ikaika.
ʻAi ʻo ia iā ia e like me ke kō.
E like me ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe Palani, “Hoʻakaaka i ke kaikamahine a aia ʻo ia i ka hapalua o kou wahi moe.”
4. Mai pāʻani i nā pāʻani
E hoʻomanawanui paha nā wahine ʻē aʻe i ka pāʻani ʻana no ka mea manaʻo lākou he ʻāpana wale ia o ka pili. ʻAʻole kū ka wahine ikaika. No laila inā hoʻolohi ʻoe i ka pane ʻana i kāna ʻōlelo no ka mea manaʻo ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka lima kiʻekiʻe i loko o ka pilina, a i ʻole hōʻea mau ʻoe i kāu mau lā me ia, a i ʻole he evasive ʻoe ke nīnau ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kekahi mau nīnau, e hoʻopoina i ka pili aloha ʻana i ka wahine ikaika.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻomanawanui i nā pāʻani e pāʻani ana.
ʻO ka mea nui ʻaʻole pāʻani ʻo ia i nā pāʻani. Heʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka mea āu e ʻike ai ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe.
5. E lilo i kāu mea leʻaleʻa ponoʻī
Hele nā wahine ikaika i ka like. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i ke kuleana o kou makuahine a i ʻole ʻoliʻoli.
Makemake ʻo ia i kāna kāne e like me ka hoʻokele a me ka pīhoihoi e like me ia, me ka ʻole o kahi mea e kū ana ma ka ʻaoʻao e hauʻoli iā lākou.
ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi pepeiao hoʻolohe inā pono ʻoe i kahi papa kani e hana i kahi pilikia a pilikia paha. Akā inā pono ʻoe i kekahi e hōʻoia mau iā ʻoe e hana ana ʻoe i kahi hana maikaʻi, mai hoʻāʻo a ʻumeʻume i kahi wahine ikaika. ʻAʻole holo pono ia.
Eia hou, ʻo ka hilinaʻi ka mea āna e ʻimi nei i kāna kāne.
6. Nā mākau hoʻolohe
ʻAʻole ʻae kēia mau wahine i kahi hoa hana ʻoi loa ka hana, hoʻowalewale e kani iā lākou ke kaʻana like lākou i kekahi mea. Inā ʻike ʻo ia i nā leka o kāu kelepona ʻoi aku ka mea nui e heluhelu ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i kou nānā piha ke kamaʻilio ʻo ia, ʻaʻole ʻoe e launa aloha iā ia no ka lōʻihi.
ʻO kekahi o nā mea momona loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no ka wahine ikaika e lohe maoli ʻia kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai a mālama iā ia. No laila i ka manawa hou e hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e kaʻana like i kekahi mea me ʻoe — inā paha e pili ana i kona lā a i ʻole kona ola - wehe i kou mau pepeiao, nānā iā ia i ka maka, a hāʻawi iā ia i kou nānā āpau.
E hoʻomaopopo iā ia ua lohe ʻoe iā ia ma ke kunou ʻana i kou poʻo, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana "e hele", a laila hoʻi mai me nā nīnau ʻelua e pili ana i kāna mea i haʻi wale aku ai iā ʻoe.
Aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe no ia mea; ʻaʻole hāʻawi nā kāne he nui i ka makana o ka hoʻolohe maoli i kā lākou hoa.
7. E pīhoihoi a e hoʻokipa hoʻi
ʻAʻole hele nā wahine ikaika i ke kāne akahai, milquetoast. Makemake lākou i kahi kāne me nā makemake nui, kahi kāne e makemake e lele i waho o kāna wahi hōʻoluʻolu e hoʻomau i ka pilina a hele i waho o ke ola i hiki iā ia.
Ua like ʻo ia iā ia iho a pono i kahi hoʻokūkū no kāna mau kuko a me kona ʻuhane adventurous.
No laila e kaʻana me ia i kāu mau leʻaleʻa kūwaho akā hoihoi, a noi i nā mea paʻakikī a pīhoihoi hoʻi e hana pū. ʻAʻole kēia kāu wahine awelika, ʻike e nānā iā Netflix ma ka hopena pule. Makemake ʻo ia e hele i ka lawaiʻa ihe, holo i kahi marathon, a hoʻāʻo e kau i ka lele ʻana. Mālama nā wahine ikaika i adrenaline-junkies, no laila e ʻike pono ʻoe inā ʻo kēia ke ʻano o ka wahine nāna e hoʻohuli iā ʻoe.