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- ʻO wai ka ʻelemakule a ʻōpio paha a hiki i kēia lā?
- He aha ka pilina makua?
- Nā kumu e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi hoa ʻelemakule
- 11. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka moekolohe (E hauʻoli i ka wahine)
- 10. ʻIke hou aʻe (E aʻo mai kāu hoa)
- 9. Palekana kālā (mai koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ke kālā)
- 8. Kūlana Emotional (oʻo makua)
- 7. He pāʻani maikaʻi (E kaomi pū ʻoe)
- 6. Ke aloha ma nā wēlau ʻelua (Nanea i ke aloha)
- 5. ʻIke i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai (Hilinaʻi i kāu hoa)
- 4. E hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe (Hana iā ʻoe)
- 3. Ma laila ʻoe (e kōkua mau ai ke kōkua)
- 2. Maʻalahi e kamaʻilio pū (Nanea i ke kamaʻilio)
- 1. Serious akā leʻaleʻa (E hauʻoli i ke oʻo o kāu hoa)
He laulā ākea ka launa pū ʻana e uhi ai. I kekahi, e ʻimi wale ana ka launa pū ʻana (i ka hoʻomaka ma ka liʻiliʻi), ke aʻo ʻana i kahi mea hou, leʻaleʻa. I kekahi poʻe, he mea koʻikoʻi loa ka launa pū ʻana. Makemake nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ke aloha.A laila, aia kekahi poʻe ma waena. Hoʻohui lākou.
ʻOiai he "mea" paʻakikī loa ka launa pū ʻana, aia kekahi mau lula honua a me kekahi mau rula laula e pili ana i kēlā me kēia. Manaʻo wau ʻo ka pili aloha ka mea e aʻo ai e pili ana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ke aʻo e pili ana iā ʻoe iho, ka ʻimi ʻana, ka hoʻohui ʻana. A manaʻo wau ʻo ia ke kumu o ia. ʻIke ʻoe, ʻo ka moekolohe ʻana me kahi wahine ʻoi aku ka nui o ka makemake o ka hapanui o nā kāne (inā ʻaʻole lākou āpau). ʻAʻole wale no ka mea ʻike lākou i kekahi mea ʻelemakule a maikaʻi loa, akā no ka mea ʻoi aku ka nui o ia mea. E hōʻike kēia ʻatikala iā ʻoe i ka mea e lawe ai i ka pilina ma mua i kou ola.
ʻO wau iho, manaʻo wau he pono e ʻimi nā kānaka i ka mea hiki iā lākou. I kēia manawa, like paha kēia me he mea lā ke hāʻawi aku nei wau i ka hoʻopunipuni i nā kukui ʻōmaʻomaʻo. ʻAʻole nui kēlā! Inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi e kaomi pū me ʻoe maikaʻi loa, kekahi mea maikaʻi a me kekahi mea kou ʻano, no ke aha ʻoe e luku ai i kēlā ma ka hoʻopunipuni? Eia nō naʻe, manaʻoʻiʻo wau e hāʻawi ana ʻoe i nā manawa i nā ʻano kanaka like ʻole. E ʻike pehea e noʻonoʻo ai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hoʻonui i kou wahi hōʻoluʻolu. Ma kēlā ala wale nō e ʻike ai ʻoe ʻike ʻoe i ka mea āu e makemake ai a ʻike ʻoe i ka mea āu e ʻimi nei. He mea nui loa kēia ma muli o ka male. Pono ʻoe e koho pono i kāu hoa ola.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hāʻawi nā pilina iā ʻoe i kahi ala e ʻimi ai i kāu moekolohe a me ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana iā ia; ma hope o ka lilo ʻana i maikaʻi ma ka wahine. Hoʻokuʻu wale ka poʻe he nui iā lākou iho e hoʻāʻo i nā mea like ʻole, e like me nā kūlana moekolohe tantric, no kahi laʻana (heluhelu hou aʻe e pili ana i kēia noi). Hiki i kēlā ke hana maikaʻi iā ʻoe wale nō, inā ʻoe e hana nei me kahi hoa hilinaʻi, ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ma mua o ko mākou hoʻomaka ʻana, aia kekahi mau mea pono wau e kamaʻilio mua ai.
ʻO wai ka ʻelemakule a ʻōpio paha a hiki i kēia lā?
ʻAʻohe kānāwai maoli no kēia. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi mea i kākau ʻia e pili ana i nā kapu a me nā palena. Eia nō naʻe, aia ka pilina ʻōpio maʻamau a ʻo ka mea hewa loa.
I kēia mau lā, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka pilina "hana" me kekahi mea ʻelua mau makahiki o ko lākou! Ke hana nei lākou pēlā no ke kālā a kaulana paha. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana a ʻike ʻoe i ka mea kahiko a ʻōpio paha i kēia lā. Makemake ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu akā ʻaʻole ia he ʻano ʻē.
He aha ka pilina makua?
ʻO ka pilina makua ke pili loa o ʻelua mau hoa i kā lāua pilina a i ka wā e mālama piha ai kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka pilina makua ka hana o ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina maoli a oʻo.
Nā kumu e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi hoa ʻelemakule
I kēia manawa, ua hiki mākou i ka ʻāpana hoihoi. Ma kēia ʻāpana o ka ʻatikala, ʻike ʻoe i nā kumu he 11 no ke aha ʻoe e aloha ai me kekahi ma mua ou. ʻAʻole paha e hōʻoia kēia ʻatikala iā ʻoe, akā aia nā mea i laila, a inā he mea ʻimi maoli ʻoe, nou kēia.
11. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka moekolohe (E hauʻoli i ka wahine)
Ma mua o ko mākou hoʻomaka ʻana, makemake wau e wehewehe i hoʻokahi mea. ʻO nā kumu āu e ʻike ai ma aneʻi ʻaʻole laula. Me kēlā ʻōlelo, mai hōʻino i kēia ʻatikala inā hoʻohoka ʻia ʻoe e kāu hoa ʻelemakule.
A i kēia manawa, ʻo ka helu mua aʻu e kamaʻilio ai ma aneʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka wahine.
Hāʻawi ka moekolohe me kāu hoa makua iā ʻoe ma mua o ka pīhoihoi maʻalahi. He palekana ia e kuhi ai inā he pakanā ka mea ʻoi inā ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻekolu mau makahiki o ka hoa ma mua ou a ʻoi paha, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pilina ma mua ou. Me ka ʻōlelo ʻia, palekana ia e kuhi ua loaʻa paha iā ia ka nui o ka moekolohe ma mua ou.
ʻOiai he mea lapuwale ke kamaʻilio ʻia e like me kēia, ʻo ka moekolohe e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe. Maikaʻi ʻoe i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa. ʻO ka nui o kāu hana ʻana, ʻoi aku kou maikaʻi.
Eia naʻe, e akahele ʻoe. Mai lele koke i ka moe kolohe ʻole. Malia paha he mea hilinaʻi a ʻike paha kāu hoa, akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hilinaʻi piha iā ia, mai hana koke.
10. ʻIke hou aʻe (E aʻo mai kāu hoa)
Kākoʻo wale kēia kiko i ka mea ma mua. Me ka makahiki, makemake ʻoe ʻaʻole paha, hiki mai ka ʻike. ʻO ka nui o kāu ʻike a ʻike ʻana, ʻo ka nui o kāu ʻike a aʻo.
No laila, hiki i nā hoa hana kahiko ke lilo i kumu aʻo maikaʻi loa. Ke haʻi wau i kēia ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo wale i ka moekolohe. I nā kūlana o kēlā me kēia lā, hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo nui mai kahi hoa pili.
Hiki i kēlā me kēia lā ke manaʻo he mea hou. E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e like ia no kēlā me kēia ʻelemākule kāne a wahine paha.
9. Palekana kālā (mai koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ke kālā)
ʻAʻole pono ke kālā i mea nui i ka pilina. ʻAʻole ma ka manawa e ʻimi ana a leʻaleʻa ana, aʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma ka hoʻomaka o kēia ʻatikala. Eia nō naʻe, ke "loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi leʻaleʻa" a ke makemake ʻoe e makemake hou aʻe mai kahi pilina, kahi mea i hiki ke hoʻomākaukau iā ʻoe no ka male male a inā paha ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā "mea male", he mea nui ka palekana kālā.
ʻO nā hoa hana ʻelemakule (ʻo ka hapanui o lākou, ʻoiaʻiʻo) paʻa kālā. Aia lākou ma kā lākou wahi i makemake ai a ke hana nei paha iā ia, akā ʻo nā mea āpau, ʻano noho a loaʻa ka loaʻa kālā maʻamau. ʻAʻole ia he kumu e waiwai lākou āpau. ʻAʻole waiwai, paʻa wale nō, akā inā hānau ʻia ʻoe ma lalo o ka hōkū laki loaʻa paha ʻolua.
8. Kūlana Emotional (oʻo makua)
He kuleana ko ka ʻike i kēia manawa. Me nā makahiki, ʻane hiki ʻole ke hōʻeha i nā puʻuwai puʻuwai. Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i nā ʻeha o ka puʻuwai e hoʻoikaika ikaika ai iā mākou. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole nā ʻeha naʻau wale nō nā mea i paʻa ai ke kūpaʻa o ke ʻano o nā ʻelemākule a me nā wahine. ʻO ia ke ola ponoʻī.
Me ka makahiki ke kuleana, ka ʻike, ka ʻike. No laila, mai manaʻo i nā hopena keiki a kāu hoapili.
7. He pāʻani maikaʻi (E kaomi pū ʻoe)
Maikaʻi maoli ke nānā aku ke hoʻohui ʻoe i ka ʻike a me ke aloha. ʻO ia ka mea e loaʻa inā loaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho he hoa pili.
E hoʻokolokolo ka hapa nui o nā kānaka inā maopopo leʻa ka makahiki, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e mālama. E nānā maikaʻi ʻoe. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e aloha ʻoe i kekahi me ke kanahā inā ʻōpio ʻoe.
6. Ke aloha ma nā wēlau ʻelua (Nanea i ke aloha)
ʻOi aku ka nānā ʻana o nā wahine a me nā kāne makua i kahi huakaʻi aloha ma mua o nā kāne a me nā wahine ʻōpio. Ke ʻōpio ʻoe, ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike nui, a ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike iki i kekahi mea.
Loaʻa i nā kāne a me nā wahine ʻelemakule. Ua ʻike a ʻike lākou i ka hapa nui o nā pīhoihoi no laila makemake lākou i kahi mea paʻa a hilinaʻi hoʻi, kahi mea e like me ka pilina makua piha i ke aloha.
Inā makemake ʻoe e aloha aloha ʻia, ʻo ka hoa pili mua paha ka mea āu e pono ai.
5. ʻIke i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai (Hilinaʻi i kāu hoa)
He kiko nui nō hoʻi kēia. ʻIke wau ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e lilo i mea pāʻani a kekahi, ʻeā? ʻĀ, me kāu hoa ʻelemakule ʻaʻole paha ʻoe. Ua maopopo iā ia kāna makemake. Me ia e ʻōlelo ʻia ana, ʻaʻole e hoʻonele kāu hoa ʻelemakule i kou manawa me ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iā ʻoe ma mua.
4. E hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe (Hana iā ʻoe)
E haʻi mau kahi hoa ʻike, makua iā ʻoe i kou mau kīnā a hoʻāʻo e hoʻokō i kāu pahuhopu, ʻo kēlā me kēia.
3. Ma laila ʻoe (e kōkua mau ai ke kōkua)
He mea nui ka hilinaʻi ke pili i nā hoa pili. Me ka ʻōlelo ʻia, hiki iā ʻoe ke maopopo aia ʻo ia ma laila ke makemake nui ʻoe iā lākou.
2. Maʻalahi e kamaʻilio pū (Nanea i ke kamaʻilio)
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ʻoe i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā kumuhana e kamaʻilio ai me kahi hoa ʻelemakule. Inā makemake ʻolua i ka mea like, a laila, he mānoanoa!
1. Serious akā leʻaleʻa (E hauʻoli i ke oʻo o kāu hoa)
He koʻikoʻi paha nā hoa hana kahiko ma kekahi mau manawa, akā e hoʻomanaʻo ua hele lākou i loko o nā mea he nui, a ʻo ia mau makahiki e koi ai i kēlā ʻano ʻano. Mai noʻonoʻo i kahi manawa ua luhi lākou. E hauʻoli nui ʻoe.