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- He aha ka hana
- 1. Hana pū ʻoe i nā hoʻolālā huakaʻi
- 2. Ua piha ʻoe me kekahi i kekahi
- 3. Hoʻoikaika mau ʻoe e hoʻohauʻoli kekahi i kekahi
- 4. Hōʻike aku ʻoe i kāu hoa iā haʻi
- 5. Hoʻolauna ʻoe i kāu pakanā i kou ʻohana
- 6. Ua alo pū ʻoe i nā hakakā
- 7. Ua hoʻolālā pū ʻoe i kou wā e hiki mai ana
- He aha ka mea e holo ʻole
- 1. Ke hoʻomau hou nei kāu pakanā mai kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole
- 2. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo ʻōpū maikaʻi ʻole
- 3. Ke kānalua nei ʻoe e pili ana i kāu mau hoʻolālā e hiki mai ana
- 4. ʻAʻole hoʻomaopopo kāu hoapili i ka pilina ma ka lehulehu
- 5. Hōʻalo ʻoe i ka pilikino o kāu hoa
- 6. Hakaka nui ʻoe.
- 7. ʻAʻole ʻoe i hui me kona ʻohana
- 8. ʻAʻole ʻoe a me kāu hoa ma ka ʻaoʻao like
- ʻO kahi keʻehi - ʻO nā pahuhopu pili lōʻihi
Wahi a kekahi, ʻo ka ʻono a me nā mea nani o nā pilina a pau, ʻo ia ka "pae honeymoon." ʻOiai makemake kekahi e hoʻomaka hoʻomākaukau ma hope o ka pae pilina 6-mahina a kia i kā lākou mau pahu hopu pili wā lōʻihi, makemake kekahi i ka male. Nānā ʻole pehea ʻoe e lepili ai i kou pilina, e hiki mai ana kahi manawa kahi e ʻike ai nā mea āpau, kahi ʻaʻole ke aloha wale ka paʻa e paʻa pū ana iā ʻoe. ʻO kēia kahi e hoʻomaka ai ka pilina maoli.
Ke noʻonoʻo nei paha ʻoe no ke aha e ʻike pinepine ʻia ai ka pae pilina 6 mau mahina ma ke ʻano he manawa make a haki paha o kāu pilina? I loko o nā mahina 6 mua o kou pili, loaʻa ʻoe i kēlā mau butterflies i kou ʻōpū ke manaʻo nei, loaʻa iā ʻoe kēlā hauʻoli, a me ka hauʻoli o ke poʻo ma ke kuʻekuʻe wāwae i ke aloha. E like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, ʻo kēia ke nānā aku nei nā mea āpau i ka ʻike wale ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea nui mai kēia pilina hou.
Ke kānalua nei paha ʻoe inā e hala ʻoe i ka pae o ka mahina 6 mahina? Inā ʻoe, eia kekahi mau mea āu e makemake ai e nānā.
He aha ka hana
I ka pilina, hana mākou i ka mea hiki e hana i nā mea i waho a hele mākou i ka loli ʻana no ke kanaka a mākou e aloha ai. I kā mākou mau hana āpau, makemake mākou e kaʻana like i kēia mau mea he hōʻailona ʻoe ma ke ala kūpono i nā pili lōʻihi.
1. Hana pū ʻoe i nā hoʻolālā huakaʻi
Maʻalahi ka lā a leʻaleʻa akā i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka manaʻo o ka huakaʻi pū ʻana he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia. Makemake mākou e ʻike i ka paʻa o ka hilinaʻi o nā kāne a hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau manawa i ka wā o ka pilina ma waena o 6 mau mahina.
2. Ua piha ʻoe me kekahi i kekahi
ʻIke paha ʻoe i ka piha ke hui ʻoe me kāu hoa? Ua ʻike ʻoe e like me kēia ma mua? Inā ʻo kēia ka manawa mua a laila loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea maoli e hana nei a nani wale kēlā. ʻOiai mai hilinaʻi nui, pono nō ʻoe e hana i ka maikaʻi e mālama i kēia pilina nani.
3. Hoʻoikaika mau ʻoe e hoʻohauʻoli kekahi i kekahi
Ehia mau mahina ma mua o kou hoʻomaka ʻana i kou pilina? Ua mālama ʻoe a i ʻole kāu pakanā i kou hopohopo a me ka ʻono a kekahi? ʻIke nō naʻe i ka hana like mai kāu hoa? ʻO kēia kahi kumu paʻa e kūpaʻa ai no ka pili lōʻihi. ʻO ia ka mākaukau no kahi mea ʻoi aku ka koʻikoʻi.
4. Hōʻike aku ʻoe i kāu hoa iā haʻi
Ke makemake kāu pakanā e hele pū me lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa ke loaʻa kahi manawa me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole luna hoʻokipa, a laila ʻo ʻoe kahi hoa laki. ʻO kēia ka haʻaheo o kāu hoa iā ʻoe a hilinaʻi lawa e ʻae iā ʻoe e hui me kāna mau hoapili a me nā hoaaloha.
5. Hoʻolauna ʻoe i kāu pakanā i kou ʻohana
I kāu mau mahina 6 o kou pili, ua kono aku kāu hoa iā ʻoe e hui me kona ʻohana? Hana ʻoe i ka mea like? Inā pēlā, hiki iā ʻolua ke noʻonoʻo i ʻāpana o nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana o kekahi? Mākaukau ʻolua no kāu mau pahu hopu pili wā lōʻihi.
6. Ua alo pū ʻoe i nā hakakā
ʻAʻohe pilina maoli me ka ʻole o nā hoʻāʻo. Inā haʻaheo ʻoe e ʻōlelo ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu mahele kaulike o nā pilikia a ua lanakila pū ʻoe ma luna o lākou, a laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia.
7. Ua hoʻolālā pū ʻoe i kou wā e hiki mai ana
Inā ua hoʻomaka ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka neʻe pū ʻana a i ʻole ka male ʻana a laila ua hiki i ka manawa e piʻi i luna. E paulele akā hāmama i ka loli, mākaukau akā ʻaʻole wikiwiki.
Inā hiki ʻoe i kahi pilina kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama ʻo wai ʻoe a me kou ʻano, a laila ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻopuka ʻana o kāu hoa i ka mea ʻoi loa i loko ou. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea maoli e hele nei ...
He aha ka mea e holo ʻole
ʻIke mākou āpau ʻaʻohe pilina pili pono, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole holo kekahi mau pilina ma ka pae mua o 6 mau mahina a ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke paʻi i ka pae o ka mahina ʻekolu. Hana ʻia kēia inā ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke kuʻikahi a i ʻole ka narcissist. Ma waho o kēia, eia kekahi mau kumu ʻē aʻe e holo ʻole ai kekahi mau pilina.
1. Ke hoʻomau hou nei kāu pakanā mai kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole
Inā haki mau kāu hoa i loko no ka pili ʻole o ka pilina ma mua - a laila ʻaʻole mākaukau ʻo ia. ʻAʻole mākou e ʻimi nei i nā rebounds ma aneʻi, ke ʻimi nei mākou i nā pili lōʻihi ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu hoa ma mua o kāna ex, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole kēlā.
2. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo ʻōpū maikaʻi ʻole
Hilinaʻi i kou guts. Inā manaʻo ʻoe e ʻalo nei kāu hoa i nā hoʻolālā a nīnau e pili ana i kāu wā e hiki mai ana, a laila he hōʻailona ia no kona mākaukau ʻole no ia.
3. Ke kānalua nei ʻoe e pili ana i kāu mau hoʻolālā e hiki mai ana
ʻOiai ua hoʻomaka kāu mau hoaaloha e neʻe pū me kā lākou mau hoa, ʻo kāu, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, hoʻolōʻihi i ka manaʻo o ka noho pū ʻana. Hae ʻulaʻula ma aneʻi.
4. ʻAʻole hoʻomaopopo kāu hoapili i ka pilina ma ka lehulehu
He aha inā ʻo kāu hoa kāu mea āpau āu e ʻimi nei akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō ke ʻano e lepili i kou pilina a i ʻole kāhea iā ʻoe he hoa? ʻĀ, ʻo kēia paha ka hōʻailona āu e noi nei ma mua o kou haʻalele ʻana i kēia pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
5. Hōʻalo ʻoe i ka pilikino o kāu hoa
I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole mau ka hoa ʻē aʻe i loaʻa ka pilikia no ke kumu e holo ʻole ai kekahi mau pili, he hewa kā mākou āpau e like me ka lili nui a i ʻole ke kaohi nei ʻoe i kāna neʻe ʻana a nānā i kāna kelepona. ʻAʻole holo pono kēia - hoʻohiki ʻia.
6. Hakaka nui ʻoe.
He hōʻailona kēia e pili ʻole paha ʻoe i kekahi.
7. ʻAʻole ʻoe i hui me kona ʻohana
ʻAneʻane ʻoe i kahi pilina o ka hapalua makahiki akā ʻaʻole ʻike kona ʻohana aia a i ʻole ka hope.
8. ʻAʻole ʻoe a me kāu hoa ma ka ʻaoʻao like
Inā ʻoe kekahi e makemake nui e male a i ʻole he keiki a ʻehaʻeha kou hoa e pili ana iā ia - a laila ʻaʻole olakino ia. ʻO ka male a me nā mākua no nā pahuhopu pili lōʻihi a ʻaʻole pono ia no ka mea ua kaomi ʻia ʻoe e ʻae.
ʻO kahi keʻehi - ʻO nā pahuhopu pili lōʻihi
ʻO ka pilina kahi ʻāpana o ke ola a makemake mākou āpau e holomua i nā pahuhopu pili lōʻihi a me ka male a me ka ʻohana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole e kūleʻa nā pilina āpau, ʻike paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻole e pā i ka pae pilina 6 mau mahina akā ʻaʻole kēia ke kumu e haʻalele ai i ke aloha a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo nei i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana. Mai pili wale i ka pilina; e hana ikaika e mālama i kou pilina. Wahi a kekahi e hōʻoia nā mahina mua i kou aloha kekahi i kekahi, ʻōlelo kekahi kekahi ʻoi loa ka ʻoliʻoli o ka pilina - i ka hopena o ka lā, inā ʻoe e ʻae e hoʻopilikia, hoʻomaopopo a aloha, a laila ke hana maikaʻi nei ʻoe i ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu hoa no ke ola.