Anter
- Irrationality
- Nā pono ponoʻī
- Nā manaʻolana kūpono ʻole
- ʻO ka ʻoihana wale nō ka nānā o ka nānā a me ka ikaika
- Hoʻokūkū ʻoe i kāna nānā
- ʻO Bipolar e like me ke ʻano
Hoʻomaka ka male ʻana mai kahi pilina, ma hope o ka loiloi ʻana i nā ʻano kino o kahi hoa hele mua, he mea nui ka ʻoihana. ʻAʻole hiki i kēlā wahine i kēia wahine ke kūpale me kahi mea kālepa. ʻO kēia kahi mea e noʻonoʻo mau nei e pili ana i kahi manaʻo ʻoihana pupule a ke manaʻo nei ʻoe e ʻaʻa iā ia i kāna kula manaʻo. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haki ʻana i kahi pilina ma mua o ka male. Hāʻawi nā hoa aloha i kā lākou mea maikaʻi loa i ka wā o ka pilina ma mua o ka male, ka nele o nā manawa aloha momona i kēia wā, e manaʻo i nā hanana maikaʻi ʻole i ka male. E nānā i kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona o kahi mea kālepa hoʻopōʻino i ka pilina-
Irrationality
ʻAʻole kūleʻa ka kūleʻa i ka ʻoihana i kahi kūleʻa. 60 pākēneka o nā mea kālepa kūleʻa i loaʻa nā male maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO ke kumu wale nō o kēia ke nānā nei i ke keʻena male ma ke ʻano he ʻoihana ʻoihana. ʻAʻole e noʻonoʻo i ka male, ʻelua mau kānaka maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻāʻo nei e hana i kahi ʻano maluhia ma o ka mōhai a me ka hoʻopili ʻana, ʻaʻole like me kahi hoʻonohonoho ʻoihana kahi e hana wale ai me nā poʻe kūpono no ka hana.
Nā pono ponoʻī
ʻAʻole hiki i kahi mea kālepa ke hoʻohiki i kāna ʻoihana. Inā pono ʻoe e hoʻolālā no kahi lā, pono ia ma kona makemake. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i kou manaʻo i kāna hoʻolālā. ʻO ʻoe ka mea e kūpono i kāna hoʻolālā a ʻaʻole hoʻi ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana kūpilikiʻi; ke kali nei kāu hana e hana i ka manawa no kāu wahine. ʻO ka pilina kahi alahele ʻelua; hana mākou āpau i nā mea kuikahi no ka pono o ka pilina. Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e holo wale nei i ka hōʻike, a laila hiki i ka manawa kiʻekiʻe e noʻonoʻo hou i kāu hoʻoholo.
Nā manaʻolana kūpono ʻole
ʻO ka mālama ʻana i kahi pilina kahi ʻoihana ponoʻī; kahi hoʻokomo kālā ma ka ʻaoʻao e koi ana i nā mōhai. Hana pū kahi mea kālepa me ʻoe e like me kahi hoa hana. Ke paʻa ʻo ia, ke manaʻo ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma kona ʻaoʻao ma o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā hāʻina ma ka papahana i kūleʻa ʻole. ʻO ʻoe anei ka mea lawe hihiʻo? Pehea ʻoe e hoʻomaka ai e komo i kēia ʻoihana inā ʻaʻohe ou kuhi o kāna pahuhopu a me nā pahuhopu. He mea maʻamau ka noho ma hope a nānā i ka wā e wehe ai nā hanana, ʻo ia ka wā e launa ai ʻoe me nā ʻōlelo hōʻino no ka palaualelo a me ka hana ʻole. He ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia ʻoe ma laila no ke aloha ʻaʻole ka pilina ʻoihana.ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻokūpaʻa nā mea kālepa akamai i nā ʻoihana ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kahi pilina e pale ai i nā mea hōʻeha.
ʻO ka ʻoihana wale nō ka nānā o ka nānā a me ka ikaika
Hoʻokomo kahi mea kālepa i ke kālā, ka manawa, a me ka ikaika i ka ʻoihana. He ʻoihana paʻakikī ia e koi ana i ka hele ʻana i mile hou aʻe e kauoha i kahi mahele mākeke kiʻekiʻe. ʻO ka manawa hiki ʻole i kāu hoa ke hoʻouna iā ʻoe i kahi leka uila i ka holo ʻana o ka lā no ka mea ua hana ʻo ia ma ka hana a laila ʻaʻohe ou manaʻo i kona ola. Pono ʻo ia e mālama iā ʻoe e like me ke ala e hiki ʻole ai iā ia ke kāpae ʻole i ke kāhea ʻana i kāna mea kōkua pilikino e pili ana i nā ʻoihana e kali nei ke kū i ka keʻena.
Hoʻokūkū ʻoe i kāna nānā
ʻAe ʻae ʻolua e pili i ka pilina. ʻO kahi mea kālepa me nā manaʻo paʻa e ʻike pehea e kaulike ai ma waena o ke kūkulu ʻana i kāna ʻoihana a hauʻoli pū me ʻoe i nā manawa aloha. ʻO ʻoe ka mea e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia i kou lā hānau a i kahi hanana paha? E pīhoihoi ʻo ia iā ʻoe me nā makana a e hele i waho o kāna ala e hoʻokau i nā mea āpau me ʻoe.
He launa maikaʻi me kahi mea kālepa; pono ʻoe i kahi pae kiʻekiʻe o ke ahonui, ke ahonui, a me ka ʻike. ʻO ka paʻa o ka naʻau o kahi mea kālepa e hoʻoholo i ka kūleʻa o ka pilina.
Ke hiki i kahi manawa ua kāpae ʻo ia i kāu lā e hele ai i kahi "pilikia" ma ka hana a laila pono ʻo ia i kahi manawa hou e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia iho ma mua o ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe. ʻO kēia ka poʻe e loaʻa i kā lākou kelepona i waenakonu o kahi hana aloha. Holo i kuʻu hoa hoa holo!
ʻO Bipolar e like me ke ʻano
Pili kou naʻau a pili i ka naʻau. ʻO nā piʻi a me nā lalo o ka ʻoihana e haki i kahi mea kālepa i kahi manawa o ka hāʻawi ʻana. E nānā pehea kāna mālama ʻana iā ʻoe i kēia mau hanana āpau. Loaʻa i kou alo kahi hopena hoʻomaha-hoʻonāukiuki a i ʻole worsens i ke kūlana? Mālama ʻo ia iā ʻoe me ke aloha, mālama, a me ke aloha i kahi kiko āu e ʻike ʻole ai inā aia kahi pilikia i ka ʻoihana? I ka hihia, hoʻopaʻa ʻia ka hauʻoli o kāu pili i ka kūleʻa o ka ʻoihana ʻoi aku ʻoe ma mua o ʻoe wale nō. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu me ka wānana huhū. ʻO ka pilina maikaʻi me kahi mea kālepa pono e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi me ka nānā ʻole i nā pilikia o kāna ʻoihana. Pono kou manaʻo a me kou alo e hāpai i kona ʻuhane.