Anter
Ua wehewehe ʻia ka Romance ma ke ʻano he "pīhoihoi a me ka mea pohihihi e pili ana i ke aloha." ʻO ia ke kaʻa, e hōʻike ana i ke aloha i kāu hoa, a hōʻike ʻia i kāu mālama mau a me ka mahalo no kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. ʻAe ʻo Romance iā ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i nā pono o kāu hoa, hānai i kahi male olakino, a pale aku i hoʻokahi a i ʻole nā hoa ʻelua mai ka mahalo ʻole a hoʻowahāwahā ʻia paha. No laila, he mea nui ia, e ʻike ai i kāu hōʻike kū hoʻokahi o ke aloha. Hiki ke hōʻike ʻia kēia i nā ala maʻalahi a i ʻole nā ala nui. E mākaʻikaʻi iki i nā mea hiki ʻole ke hōʻike i kou ʻaoʻao aloha. E hoʻokau iā ʻoe, eia kekahi mau kuhi kōkua i ka alualu ʻana i ke aloha.
E kōkua
ʻO kekahi o nā ala mua e hōʻike ai i ke aloha ma o ke kōkua ʻana i kāu hoa. ʻO ke kumu paha kēia o ka lawe ʻana i mau minuke keu i ke kakahiaka e kuke i ka ʻaina kakahiaka maikaʻi na kāu hoapili, a i ʻole ke hoʻomākaukau ʻana i kahi pāʻina punahele a meaʻai ʻono paha. Nā hana maʻalahi e like me ka hoʻopiha ʻana i kāu kaʻa o kāu hoa me ka ʻaila a i ʻole ka hao ʻana i nā lole o kāu hoa e hōʻike ana i nā hana o ka lawelawe, a ʻike ʻia e ʻike ʻia. Hōʻike i ke kōkua i kou makemake e kau i nā pono o kāu hoa ma mua o kāu, a kamaʻilio pū i kāu hoa he waiwai ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
E aloha kino
ʻO Touch kekahi o nā ala maʻamau e kūkulu a hoʻokumu i ka hilinaʻi. ʻO kahi wāwae wīwī ma hope o ka lā lōʻihi o ka hana e kamaʻilio aku ai i kāu wahine i kou manaʻo e pili ana i kona ola maikaʻi, mai ke poʻo a ka wāwae. E paʻa i nā lima ke hele wāwae ʻoe, a i ʻole hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻūlū mehana. Hōʻike ka hoʻopā i ka mehana, a hōʻike i ka pilina ma kahi ʻano maʻalahi loa.
E chivalrous
ʻAʻole make ʻo Chivalry! ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hōʻike nā hana o ka chivalry i ka mahalo i kāu hoa. ʻOiai e komo a puka ana paha mai ke kaʻa, e lawe i kahi manawa e wehe i ka puka. Ke pau kāu hoa i ka ʻai ʻana i ka pāʻina, mōhai e lawe i ka pā hakahaka i ka pahu wai a i ʻole ke ʻōpala paha. Hōʻike ka chivalrous i ka hanohano o kāu hoa, kahi e hopena ai i ka manaʻo o kāu pakanā e like me he mea nui ia i kou ola.
E makaʻala
Ua ʻōlelo ʻia, "Aia ke Akua i nā kikoʻī." ʻO ka hōʻaiʻē ʻana mai kēia ʻōlelo, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana a me ka māka ʻana i nā makemake a me nā makemake o kāu hoa e kamaʻilio ana i nā mea a kāu hoa. E hauʻoli paha kāu pakanā i kāna kīʻaha kakahiaka me ʻelua puna o ke kō a me kahi pahu o ke kinamona. Hoʻomaopopo paha ʻoe i kāna pua punahele ʻo ia ka tulips pink. E makemake paha kāu pakanā iā Bach iā Beethoven. Ke kūʻai ʻana i nā makana no kāu hoa, kūʻai i nā mea āu i ʻike ai he waiwai a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi iā ʻoe iho. Hōʻike i kahi pilina no ke ʻano haumana o kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.
E maʻalahi a kūpaʻa hoʻi
ʻO kekahi o nā manaʻo kuhihewa maʻamau e pili ana i ke aloha ke kumu kūʻai o ke kālā he nui, a i ʻole koi ʻia i nā nui o ka hoʻolālā. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i ke aloha ke pololei a me ke kumu kūʻai ʻole. Kūpono kahi mea nui. ʻO kēia paha ka waiho ʻana i kahi leka aloha i loko o kahi ʻeke awakea no kāu hoa i kēlā me kēia kakahiaka Pōʻakahi, a i ʻole ke hoʻouna ʻana i kahi huaʻōlelo nani, hoʻopiha me ka hoʻohana ʻana o emojis, i waenakonu o kahi lā hana kaumaha. Ke hōʻike nei i kou aloha ma o nā pēpē liʻiliʻi, maʻalahi hiki ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana, he ʻumikūmālua mau pua rose lōʻihi, me kahi kumukūʻai $ 100.00.
E ʻike maka wale
Ke hoʻohui nei i ka spontaneity i kāu pilina e hoʻomau i ka hoihoi o kāu hoa e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO kahi laʻana, ke kūʻai ʻana i nā likiki i kahi hui mele punahele a hōʻike paha, kahi huakaʻi hele hikiwawe, a i ʻole kahi 'staycation,' a i ʻole kahi pīkino huikau ma kahi pāka, he ala maikaʻi loa lākou āpau. I koʻu ola, huakaʻi pinepine au ma kahi maʻa mau. Ke hoʻi wau i ka home, aloha kaʻu hoa e hoʻopūʻiwa mai iaʻu me nā ʻōnaehana pōpō e like me ka pena ʻana i kā mākou lumi lumi i kahi kala aʻu e hoʻomana ai, a i ʻole ke kūʻai ʻana i kaʻu mau mea meaʻai māmā punahele. ʻO nā mea āu e koho ai, e hilinaʻi i kāu mau hoʻoikaika ʻana e lawe i ka pīhoihoi a me ka hauʻoli i loko o kāu male.
E noʻonoʻo
I ka hana nui o ke ola, e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i nā mea maikaʻi āu e aloha ai e pili ana i kāu hoa. ʻO kahi laʻana, e kaʻana like i ʻekolu mau mea āu e mahalo ai e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi, a i ʻole kaʻana like i kekahi mea āu e aloha ai e pili ana i ka mea ʻē aʻe. Ke komo nei ʻoe i kēia ʻano hoʻoikaika kino, e nānā a nānā i nā manaʻo maikaʻi mai kāu hoa. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻike ʻia kēia mau manawa noʻonoʻo a hoʻopiha koke i ka pahu aloha o kāu hoa. E hoʻokuʻu paha ia i nā endorphins (nā homone hauʻoli o kou lolo) i kēlā me kēia o ʻoukou!
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hiʻohiʻona aloha ke maʻalahi a maʻalahi hoʻi. ʻO kaʻu ala punahele e hōʻike ai i ke aloha i kaʻu hoa ma o ka kuke ʻana, no ka mea ʻike wau makemake ʻo ia e ʻai i kaʻu meaʻai i hoʻomoʻa ʻia i ka home. Lawe pinepine wau i ka manawa e noiʻi a ʻimi i nā manaʻo hoʻomoʻa, e ʻae ai iaʻu e hana i nā meaʻai maikaʻi mai ka ʻōpala. ʻO kēia kaʻu ala makemake e haʻi i kaʻu hoa "Aloha wau iā ʻoe" a he mea nui ia iaʻu. E kau i kāu huakaʻi ponoʻī a ʻike i kahi kaila kū hoʻokahi a me ke ala e hōʻike ai i ke aloha i kāu hoa. He kūpaʻa ka male ʻana e pono ai ka hoʻāʻo, a me ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa keu e hāʻawi ai i ke aloha e kōkua ia e hōʻoia i ka male lōʻihi a hauʻoli hoʻi.