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- He aha ke aloha aloha?
- Nā pae o ke aloha aloha
- 1. ʻO ka pae meli
- 2. ʻO ka pae ʻoihana
- 3. Ke aloha makua / Ke aloha aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo
Ke ʻimi mau nei mākou i ke aloha, e ʻimi nei ma nā wahi hewa āpau a me nā wahi kūpono, akā ʻo ke aloha ka mea nui i nā kānaka. Hoʻopiha ʻia ka mōʻaukala me nā moʻolelo o ke aloha aloha, ʻoiai nā mea aloha i nakinaki pū ʻia- me ke kuko a me nā naʻau. Inā he infatuation paha a i ʻole ka ʻike ʻana i ka lilo i mau ʻuhane, ʻo ke aloha ia e hiki ke hana i kahi pilina ma waena o ʻelua mau kānaka, ikaika loa - lilo lākou i hoʻokahi. ʻO kēia ke aloha a mākou e ʻimi nei.
He hana manawaleʻa ke aloha. ʻAʻole hiki ia i kahi koho a kekahi. ʻIke ʻoe i kahi kanaka, a inā hoihoi ʻoe iā lākou - a laila he hōʻailona paha ia e aloha ana ʻoe. ʻO ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā manaʻo no kekahi ka hoʻomaka o kēlā me kēia moʻolelo aloha. No laila, ke hele ʻoe a hoʻokokoke i kēlā kanaka, kamaʻilio ʻoe, hui hou i kekahi mau manawa hou a me ka mea hou aʻe āu e ʻike ai, aia ʻolua i kahi pilina.
ʻAʻole no ka wikiwiki i nā mea, akā ʻo ke aloha ʻaʻole wale no ka makemake ʻana i kekahi. E hele ana kou aloha ipo i kekahi mau ʻāpana hou a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kēlā pae o ke aloha aloha ʻiʻo 'ʻoiaʻiʻo.
He aha ke aloha aloha?
Hiki ke wehewehe ʻia ka wehewehe aloha i ke ʻano o ka infatuation a i ʻole ka hoʻohihi ma waena o nā mea aloha. Ke ʻano o ke aloha e hoʻolalelale ai i kou puʻuwai, palupalu kou mau kuli a ʻike ʻole ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e bapetizo mau ʻia i nā manaʻo o kāu hoa.
ʻO ke aloha aloha ka pae mua o ke aloha i kēlā me kēia pilina a pili wale ʻia e nā hopena hormonal i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o kou lolo i nā kemikona e hoʻohauʻoli ai a pīhoihoi paha ʻoe. ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻokuke i kou pili, makemake nui a me ka mea nui loa, makemake.
Kou aloha aloha mark ka hoʻomaka o kekahi mea hou. Ke ulu nei ʻoe e ulu i nā manaʻo no kāu hoa, huki mau ʻia ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi ma muli o ka hoʻonāukiuki ikaika no ka hui ʻuhane. Hoʻokumu ʻia ke aloha aloha i ka moekolohe no ka wahine ʻē aʻe - kahi manaʻo kūlohelohe i waena o nā kānaka āpau.
Nā pae o ke aloha aloha
ʻOiai ke komo koke a wikiwiki paha e komo ke aloha i kou ola mai kahi ʻole, akā e lōʻihi ana ka manawa e ulu a ulu i nā makahiki. Pono kēia no ka ulu ʻana o kahi pilina olakino no ka mea inā pili ke aloha aloha i ke kuko wale no kekahi, a laila e make ana ia i loko o kekahi mau mahina.
Hele ka pilina ma waena a ma lalo i nā manawa āpau, akā ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻolaʻa, kūpaʻa a hilinaʻi hoʻi i kāu hoa, e paʻa ana kāu aloha iā ʻoe i nā wahi.
1. ʻO ka pae meli
Mālama kēia i ka lā hoihoi a hoihoi loa no ka poʻe ipo. I kēia manawa, e ʻike mau ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kāu hoa no nā makemake moekolohe ma mua. ʻO nā hemahema a me nā hemahema āpau o kāu pakanā me he mea nui ʻole ia, a ʻo ke kuko wale nō ka mea nui. ʻO kou lolo, ma lalo o ka mana o nā hormones e like me dopamine a me serotonin, e mālama iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano ʻoluʻolu mau.
Hoʻonohonoho pono ʻoe i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe a ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e bapetizo ʻia i nā manaʻo o kāu ipo kokoke i nā manawa āpau. Hele pū kēia me ka makemake e lilo i mau manawa naʻau me kāu hoa.
Hoʻopiha ʻia ka pae honeymoon me kahi kalaiwa o ke kuko e hōʻike ai ke aloha e like me ka mea i hōʻike pinepine ʻia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, nā puke, a me nā hana keaka - i loko o kahi moemoeā.
2. ʻO ka pae ʻoihana
Eia nō naʻe, i loko o kekahi mau mahina, ua make koke ka infatuation, a ua hoʻomaka ka pau ʻana o nā hopena a pau o nā hormones. ʻO kēia kahi kahi e hoʻomaka ai ʻoe e aʻo e pili ana i kāu hoa a ʻike i kā lākou maʻamau, nā hana maʻamau, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻoʻiʻo, a pēlā aku.
Kū ʻoe i ka hoʻomeamea ʻana i mua o kekahi me ka make pau loa o ke kuko a me ke kuko. I kēia manawa, loʻohia ʻoe e ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole hemolele kāu hoa e like me kāu e manaʻo ai.
I ka hapanui o nā pilina, e like me ka pau ʻana o ka hiamoe o ka pae honeymoon, ʻike pinepine nā hoa iā lākou iho me ka huhū kekahi i kekahi, a ʻo ka hopena ka hakakā a me nā hakakā.
Pono ia i ka hoʻomanawanui nui e noho i lalo, a hoʻonā i kāu mau pilikia e like me nā mākua makua e hoʻomau i ka ulu o kāu pilina.
E kūpaʻa a mahalo i kāu hoa ma waena, a e kōkua ia iā ʻoe e lanakila i nā pilikia he nui.
3. Ke aloha makua / Ke aloha aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo
Inā ʻoe e nīnau he aha ke aloha aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, a laila e wehewehe ʻia ia ma ke ʻano he mahele mōhai aloha a maluhia ke hoʻololi ʻia kou aloha aloha i kāna ʻano maʻemaʻe loa. ʻOiai ua pau ka huhū wahine a me nā huhū wela, akā ua kūleʻa ʻoe me kāu hoa.
Hoʻomaopopo a mahalo hoʻi ʻolua i nā pono o kekahi i kekahi, a i kēia manawa ua hoʻokumu ʻia ke aloha i ka pilina paʻa ʻole ma waena o ʻolua. ʻO ia ke kūpaʻa e alakaʻi i nā male kūleʻa i kūkulu ʻia ma nā pou o ke kākoʻo naʻau, ka hoʻokō ʻana, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ke kuikahi, ka mahalo, ka launa ʻana, a me ka hilinaʻi.
Kaʻana like ʻoe i nā manawa nani, pili aloha me kāu ipo a pēlā pū kekahi me nā ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka a hāmama i ka hoʻohewa. ʻO kēia ʻano aloha he mea mau loa ia a he koʻikoʻi kahi e ʻike ai ʻoe ua hele a mānoanoa a lahilahi hoʻi me kāu hoa. No laila, ʻae mau ʻoe e noho me kāu ʻuhane me ka ʻole o nā makemake. ʻO ia ka hōʻike mālie a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke aloha.
Ke ʻimi mau nei mākou i ke aloha. Akā ke hiki mai ke aloha iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ka manawa e ʻike ai ʻoe i ke ʻano o kāu moʻolelo.
Kūpono nā moʻolelo aloha āpau e loaʻa kahi hopena hauʻoli. A inā hoʻolaʻa ʻoe a me kāu hoa i ka hana ʻana i nā mea, hana ke aloha iā ʻolua i kahi huakaʻi kupanaha āu i ʻike ʻole ai ma mua.