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- Pehea e ʻike ai inā ʻoe e pono i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male
- He aha kāu e manaʻo ai mai ka male male
- He aha ka helu kūleʻa o ka male therapy
ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau no ka haʻalele ʻana o nā kāne i ke kōkua a hiki i ka wā pilikia.
ʻAʻole kēia ka manawa ʻoi loa e ʻimi nei i ke kōkua a i ʻole loaʻa ka therapy male. I kēlā manawa, manaʻo nui ʻia ua hōʻeha nui ʻia kēlā me kēia kāne e kekahi ʻē aʻe a i ʻole kūkulu ʻia i nā huhū nui i kā lākou hoa.
He mea paʻakikī kēlā mau huhū no lākou e hilinaʻi i ke kaʻina hana e hoʻomaka ai i ka waiho ʻana i nā ala hou e ʻike ai i ka pilikia o kā lākou pilina. ʻO ia hoʻi kahi mea i haʻalele ai i kahi pilina ma kahi hoʻāʻo e pale iā lākou iho mai ka ʻeha a me ka ʻeha, a he mea paʻakikī ia iā lākou e lawe i lalo i nā paia a komo hou i ka pilina. A malia paha, eia kekahi mau hōʻailona makaʻala e pono ai ʻoe e kipa i kahi kākāʻōlelo male.
E like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia, pono e ʻimi i ke kōkua a hana i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa male ma mua, ke ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau ʻokoʻa i kahi ala kūpono a ke alakaʻi nei i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole i kekahi i kekahi.
Pehea e ʻike ai inā ʻoe e pono i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male
He mea maʻamau ia e loaʻa nā hakakā a i ʻole nā ʻokoʻa i kā mākou mau pilina.
He ʻelua mau kānaka kaʻawale me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka ʻike ʻana, a me nā makemake ʻokoʻa a me nā ʻano o ka hana ʻana i nā mea. ʻAʻole ia e hōʻino a maikaʻi ʻole paha i kāu hoa.
Akā, aia kekahi mau hoʻopaʻapaʻa male e koi ai i ka ʻōlelo aʻo loea a me ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo. Hiki i ke kau ʻana i kahi hoʻōla male ke kōkua maoli i nā kāne e ulu i nā pilikia liʻiliʻi, a i ʻole ia, hiki iā ia ke hōʻino mau i kā lāua male.
He mau hōʻailona koʻikoʻi i loko o kāu male e haʻi iā ʻoe ua hiki i ka manawa e pono ai ʻoe e hele no ka hoʻāla male.
- ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka manawa e noho ai a kūkā kamaʻilio maikaʻi
- Hoʻopau ʻoe i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma nā mea nui ʻole kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea huna a hūnā hoʻi kāu hoapili iā ʻoe
- Manaʻo ʻoe he pili kā kāu hoa ma waho o ka male
- Makemake ʻoe i kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe iho
- Ua hoʻopaʻa ʻolua i ka pili kālā ʻole, a hele mau ka papa inoa
No laila, i ka manawa hea ʻoe e hele ai i ka therapy therapy? Inā ke hele nei kāu male i kahi kūlana e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma nā helu i luna, a laila pono ʻoe i kahi ʻano male.
He aha kāu e manaʻo ai mai ka male male
Aia he mau nīnau e hoʻopilikia paha iā ʻoe i ka hoʻoholo ʻana inā ʻimi paha i ka lāʻau male. E hoʻopau paha ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana i ka Pūnaewele puni honua no nā nīnau e like me, 'He aha kaʻu e manaʻo ai mai ka male male?' a i ʻole, 'Pono paha ka ʻōlelo aʻo male?'
Hāʻawi nā helu helu i kahi kiʻi maikaʻi e pili ana i ka Marriage therapy. Wahi a ka noiʻi i hana ʻia e ka ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa o Marriage and Family Therapists, ʻaneʻane 97% o nā kāne i nīnau ʻia i ʻae i hāʻawi ʻia iā Marriage Therapy iā lākou nā kōkua āpau a lākou e pono ai.
A, no kou ʻike, ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa male a hoʻopau i ka manawa liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a kēlā me kēia. Akā, hilinaʻi nui ia ia i kou makemake e hui pū me kahi mea hoʻoponopono ma ke ʻano he kāne a pehea kou ʻoluʻolu i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ke kākāʻōlelo.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i nā nīnau pilikino he nui e waiho ʻia iā ʻoe e ka Therapist e koi ana i nā pane pololei. Pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo, kamaʻilio, a lawe i ke kuleana o ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā ʻoihana ma ke ʻano he ʻelua e manaʻo i nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe ma ka hopena o nā kau i hāʻawi ʻia.
He aha ka helu kūleʻa o ka male therapy
ʻAe ka poʻe loea pili pili ʻaʻole pili ia inā aia he hakakā i kāu male e wānana nei i kahi male kūleʻa, akā pehea ʻoe e hoʻi hou ai a mālama i kāu pili.
I ka manawa a ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ hono ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ hono ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ’i waho ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ ʻ’ i waho ’i ke hoʻololi hou’ ana i nā ʻano hana maikaʻi ʻole.
Pili nā mea pili i nā hanana he nui ma aneʻi.
“Inā makemake ʻoe i ka pilina like me ʻoe i kēia manawa, a laila e hoʻomau i kāu hana ʻana. Inā makemake ʻoe i kahi pilina ʻokoʻa, pono ʻoe e hana i kahi mea ʻokoʻa.”
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ia e hoʻololi i kāu mau kumu i hoʻopaʻa ʻia, akā no ka hana ʻana pēlā e hopena i kahi pilina ʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli.
A, no kou ʻike, ka awelika kūleʻa lanakila no Emotionally-focus Therapy kū ma 75% e like me ka American Psychological Association.