Anter
- 1. Lili
- 2. Kaukaʻi no ka hōʻoia
- 3. Ka ʻiʻini o ka makemake e hoʻomalu
- 4. Ka hilinaʻi ʻana i kāu kāne no ka waiwai ponoʻī
- 5. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i ke ola me ka ʻole o lākou
- 6. Hele mau ʻoe me kāu wahine
- 7. ʻIke ʻole ʻoe i ka palekana ʻole
- 8. Ke nalo nei i nā hoʻolālā me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e noho pū me lākou
- 9. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā helehelena
- 10. Makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu wahine
He nani nō ka manaʻo o ke aloha, ʻeā?
ʻO ke kūlana maikaʻi a me nā hopena maikaʻi o ke ola aloha olakino e hōʻike ʻia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, nā kau, a me nā puke, a me nā mea āpau.
Eia nō naʻe, ua komo hohonu kekahi o mākou i kēia mea manaʻo mākou ʻaʻole lawa mākou me ka ʻole o kā mākou mea nui ʻē aʻe. Ma muli o ka hopena o ka hapa nui o mākou e hana i nā pilina ma waena o nā makemake, a hāʻawi i ka nānā iki i nā hae ʻulaʻula a me nā mea e pono ai e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kekahi no ke koena o kou ola.
I ka manawa koke, no ka mea pili i ka naʻau a hilinaʻi paha i kā lākou hoa he mea maʻamau. Lawe ʻole kēlā poʻe i ka pilina ma ke ʻano he kumu o ka hoʻokele a me ka waiwai ponoʻī.
Minamina, hōʻike nā noiʻi a me nā hōʻike i kēia olakino ʻole no ka pilina ma muli o ka hopena o ka pau ʻana o ka pilina, a hewa ka poʻe no ka 'lawe lohi loa ʻana.' No laila, he mea nui ia no kēlā me kēia o kākou e ʻike inā he aloha maoli a i ʻole hilinaʻi hilinaʻi wale paha mākou i kā mākou wahine.
Eia nā hōʻailona 10 e kōkua iā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kēia
1. Lili
Inā hoʻowahāwahā ʻole ʻoe iā ia ke lilo ka manawa o kāu wahine me kā lākou mau hoaaloha, ʻohana, nā hoapili a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua ou, hilinaʻi paha ʻoe iā lākou.
Hōʻike kēlā mau manaʻo a me nā ʻano e makemake ʻole ʻoe i kahi mea kuleana ke hiki mai i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa.
Ke hana nei paha ʻoe i nā mea e hōʻoki i kāu hoapili mai ka hui ʻana aku me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, no laila, ke hana nei i nā pilikia a hōʻeha i kāu hoʻopaʻa.
Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ka lili liʻiliʻi i kekahi manawa he ʻano maʻamau ia, a hōʻike iā ʻoe a i ʻole kāu pakanā e loaʻa maoli, aloha a mālama kekahi i kekahi.
2. Kaukaʻi no ka hōʻoia
ʻO ka waiwai ʻana i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa me nā manaʻo e pili ana iā ʻoe kahi mea maikaʻi loa e hana.
Eia nō naʻe, inā he mea nui ko lākou manaʻo a ʻae paha ma mua o kāu iā ʻoe no nā mea āpau, a laila he mea ia e hopohopo ai. He mea nui ia no mākou e ʻike ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi ʻole ʻia o kā mākou mau hoa ma mua o mākou iho.
3. Ka ʻiʻini o ka makemake e hoʻomalu
He hōʻailona mana loa kēia e hōʻike ana i kou nele i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka naʻau.
Inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kēlā poʻe e makemake e kāohi i kā lākou wahine, a huhū ʻoe inā ʻaʻole holo nā mea i kou ala, eia kahi nūhou maikaʻi ʻole nāu.
4. Ka hilinaʻi ʻana i kāu kāne no ka waiwai ponoʻī
ʻO ka makemake ʻana i nā hoʻomaikaʻi maʻalahi mai kāu hoa aku he mea maʻamau ia e noi ai. Eia nō naʻe, pili ka manaʻo o ka poʻe i kā lākou wahine i ka makemake e ʻauʻau ʻia me nā mahalo i nā manawa āpau.
Manaʻo maoli kēlā poʻe inā ʻaʻole lākou e loaʻa i kēia ke hoʻomaka lākou e kānalua iā lākou iho. Hōʻike kēia ʻano a me nā ʻano pehea lākou e pono ai i kēia hōʻoia ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou i ke aloha akā pili lākou i ka naʻau.
5. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i ke ola me ka ʻole o lākou
Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe ou kumu i ke ola ma hope o ka hala ʻana o kāu hoa, a manaʻo nui ʻaʻole ʻoe e hiki ke hoʻomanawanui i ko lākou nalowale ʻana.
6. Hele mau ʻoe me kāu wahine
Me he mea lā he 'mau pahuhopu' kēia, akā he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kēlā me kēia mea e pono i kahi pilikino i kekahi manawa.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele wale i kāu pakanā, he hōʻailona paha kēia iā ʻoe e kaukaʻi nui iā lākou.
7. ʻIke ʻole ʻoe i ka palekana ʻole
ʻAno maikaʻi ʻole i kekahi manawa maikaʻi loa.
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, he poʻe kānaka kākou āpau a makaʻu hoʻi; e lilo ana kekahi o lākou i kahi mea aloha, ʻo ia hoʻi, kāu hoapili. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe e hopohopo ʻole a hopohopo hoʻi i nā manawa āpau i kahi mea i lilo ai ʻoe i mea nui loa e hōʻike i ka hilinaʻi o ka naʻau.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka makemake o ka laka ʻana iā lākou i kēia pilina me ʻoe a makaʻu i kēlā me kēia kanaka ʻē aʻe a puni lākou e lawe iā lākou mai ou aku.
8. Ke nalo nei i nā hoʻolālā me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e noho pū me lākou
ʻO ke kuʻi ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no kāu mea i aloha ai i kekahi manawa e hōʻike paha ʻo kāu hoapili kāu mea nui mua. Eia nō naʻe, ke hōʻike nei i kēia ʻano 'kēlā me kēia manawa' he hōʻailona hōʻailona.
9. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā helehelena
Ua hopohopo nui ʻoe e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻia o kāu mau hoa ma mua o ke ʻano kumu.
Makemake ʻoe i kāu hoa e like me ke ʻano maikaʻi o ka lehulehu, a makemake i kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha e ʻike iā ia he maikaʻi.
Eia kekahi, i kekahi manawa aia kekahi mau mea e pili ana iā ia āu makemake ʻole ai, akā maikaʻi ia nāu inā ʻae nā poʻe a puni ʻoe iā ia no ka mea ke nānā nui nei ʻoe e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana o kāu wahine ma mua o ka mea nāna. He hōʻailona hōʻailona ikaika loa kēia.
10. Makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu wahine
Ke makemake nei i kahi hoʻololi iki i kāu hoa hana he mea maʻamau paha ia. Eia nō naʻe, makemake e hoʻololi iā lākou a pau, a ʻaʻole hauʻoli me ka mea a lākou e hōʻike maoli ai i kou hilinaʻi i ke ʻano no ke aha ʻoe e noho pū ai me lākou?